for two years i worked in a restaurant that didn't serve alcohol, so i had no worries. i just started working at a restaurant that does serve alcohol, so now i get the joy of IDing people. they told me to ID EVERYONE, even old folks, because you dont want to risk undercover cops coming in and things like that and get in trouble. i've only been there for two days, so i've just been following, and the servers ID sometimes, but not always, particularly older people. i plan to ID especially the younger ones, but if someone is clearly like 40 or 60 years old, is it really necessary to ID them? in this little orientation video they made me watch, it said to ID if they look under 30 [in other words if their age is questionable], so let's say an undercover cop comes in who's like 50, and ordered a drink and i didn't ID him, would i really get in trouble? i mean, are you seriously supposed to ID EVERY ONE?
You should try looking up the law in your state... I live in NSW Australia and the law says that if you look under 25 you need to be checked. Dont bother checking older people. Its more of a waste of time. You'd be more productive if you just check under 25s.
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Hey!
does any one know of a site that has all those little pictures of different characteristics that people are tagging all their friends in on facebook
thaanks
If you see any that your friends have posted, open it, save it to the computer, then upload it as your own and tag...
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so i gave my boyfriend a blowjob for the first time last weekend. i gagged a little bit. but then when i did it again last night, i gagged a lot more and couldn't breathe at some point. i'm not grossed out or anything, i'm just gagging because of my reflex. are there any ways to stop doing this? should he just not go as deep in my mouth/throat or what? please help! thanks
jen
I have a sensitive gag reflex and my boyfriend had a large penis. Basically, poor him. Theres nothing wrong with it, but there are ways to try and prevent it. You need to learn how to relax your throat. When you're giving him a blowjob, dont think you're going to gag, just relax and breathe and hopefully you wont gag as bad. Either that or just dont deep throat him.
Another thing i have learnt is that if you put the penis in your mouth as far as you can without gagging and then put your hand where your moouth is, you wont go too far and wont gag.
Not sure if i made sense...
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okay so my boyfriend of 5 months bought me a $250.00 necklace for christmas, but about 2 weeks later I broke it off. He told me to keep the necklace and said that it was mine. Except now hes asking for it back. I would give back because I really dont want it but I kinda lost it. :S So,I just ignore his myspace messages and his texts. I dont know what to do. I have no clue where the necklace is! Ive looked everywhere, and I dont want to tell him or talk to him or anything. I completely HATE him! I dont want anything to do with him! What do I do??
Just say "look, you gave it to me, you told me to keep it, so im keeping it". Then search for it everywhere and sell it and go shopping for stuff you want!!
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well so im 14, turning 15 really soon. i do not look my age at all. i look atleast 17. anyways theres this guy. i met him and he said he was 19, and i really started liking him and stuff, but later on i did find out that he really is 27, he has his reasons to lie about his age but i dont want to get into it. and i just found out his real age the other day, it shocked me to death the first day, second day pretty weird, but today im totally over it and still really like him. and we had a talk last night about us being together and me soon moving in with him when im able to move out. he still doesnt know that i know hes 27, he cant know i know, long story. but is it wrong to be in love with a 27 year old when your only 14 years old? =/
Ok i just had to call my niece to see if it was her because it sounds freakishly the same as her situation. Get away from him as fast as you can!
He is a liar and a manipulator!
I wouldnt say its wrong to love him, because love doesnt know age or race or sex. But you need to stay away.
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My last period was on January 16th, my fertile days was on January30 to february 3th,i have intercourse on january 29th after on or two hours i start having some cramps on my lower abdominal through now(4.5 weeks), i supposed to have my period but no period,you think i might be pregnant?
Id say a YES to your question. Semen can live inside the vagina for up to 7 days. If by some miracle you arent pregnant and dont want to be... USE PROTECTION next time.
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alrightt well it did hurt but i didnt mind it. but then after he left, i was in the shower, and i realized when i went pee it stung [like it did last time ....], and i noticed that [im not sure which part this is] the part where the pee comes out of wasn't straight ahead, it was a little crooked ... to my right. and i was concerned. is this gonna go back to normal on its own? i really really cant bring this up to my parents. :/
The friction causes swelling and it can look a bit weird for a day or two but it will go back to normal. Perhaps ask your boyfriend to be a little bit more gentle??? Guys dont understand how sensitive it is down there.
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okay everyone always tzlks about how sex hurts the first time but what about the second time? Is it painful or pleasurable? just somethingIm curious about... 13/F
I lost my virginity oh, about 6 years ago. Personally i thought it wasnt a big deal. I was 16. But for me it hurt for the first 3 or 4 times. When the time comes for you take it easy. And make sure you have a nice caring guy and KNOW that you're ready.
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If my boyfriend put his penis in me a couple times(without protection) but we didn't have sex, am i able to get pregnant?
i start my period around the first and right now it is the 24th.. i don't understand 100% how ovulation and all that works so i dont know if i have a higher risk right now..
If his penis went inside you, you DID have sex.
If you didnt use protection, you CAN get pregnant. Any time of the month.
Ovulation usually occurs 14 days after the first day of your last period (so you bleed on the 1st day of the month, you ovulate on the 13th 14th 15th or 16th).
Your boyfriend doesnt have to cum inside you for you to get pregnant. Pre-cum can happen without him knowing and contains sperm and those sperm can reach an egg and thats how babies are made.
Next time (if you arent already pregnant) use a condom! And go see your doctor to get on the pill!
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So I'm 15. and I really want a boyfriend who's like, a senior in high school at least or older. I want an older boyfriend because older guys are much more mature and most of my friends are older than me anyway. And plus I want to be able to have a real relationship, not just one that will fall apart within a few months, like most high school relationships do. I want real love. And I know that most high school senior or college age guys like to have sex with their girlfriends. And I think if I'm in love I'm ready for that. But I need help trying to find a guy and I need a way I can get out of the house with him without telling my parents.
Those guys will make you think they love you and make you love them then have sex with you then leave you.
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when cooking instant noodles, why does it matter if you wait until the water is boiling to add both the flavoring and noodles in?
My theory is that they turn out better if you wait till the water is boiling... plus they will be more 'instantanious' if added to already boiling water... I like to save the flavouring and add it at the end after most of the water is drained. Makes the noodles more flavoursome.
Did that make sense??
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so the phrase "thats cool" is overrated.
so instead i now say "thats chill"
but now, a bunch of people in my school are saying it.
i need a new phrase!
like, "thats ________" (beast,bomb,etc.)
please and thank youuu.
thats the shit right there!!
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I went to the Dr. recently and she told me I am 1.5 cm dilated and that she was able to feel the baby's head. I read online about losing the mucous plug, and some sites say that you can be dilated and still have not lost your mucous plug.
So I'm just curious as to how I would know if I have already lost it or if its possible that I haven't lost it yet.
I was kind of thinking that if she was able to feel the baby's head then i probably lost it. but what do I know..this is my first child so bear with the stupid questions.. hehe.
Thanks in advance!
I didnt lose mine, and if i did then i didnt notice. I had to be induced, because my daughter was late and wasnt showing any signs of coming. So maybe i didnt lose it at all.
There are absolutely no stupid questions when it comes to pregnancy and birth. Im 7 weeks pregnant with my second and still have stupid questions!!!
Good luck!!
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when you have sex for the first time, does the girl bleed? and if so, does it get everywhere and make a big awkward mess?
She can bleed, but not every girl does. Just have a towel or something covering whatever you're on if you dont want to make a mess. It will onl be awkward if you make it that way. Dont make a fuss about it.
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Are you happy?
Yes, i am. Sometimes i have moments where i feel horrible, because im pregnant and sick... but the things i have in my life right now... a loving boyfriend, a healthy daughter, a place to live and call home... they make me feel happy.
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I have home videos that were taken when I was 3, and of course, there on VHS. I do have a VHS/DVD player, so I would like to somehow record the VHS tape to DVD and then somehow upload it on my computer. I have blank DVDs and my computer is capable of taking DVDs. So I basically need help on how to convert from vhs to dvd and then on the computer. It's for a project, so any info would be appreciated!
Is your VVHS/DVD player a recordable DVD player? If it isnt then you wont be able to do it. You need a recordable DVD player to burn dvds or cds. You can get one and plug in your VHS player and burn it that way.
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can a 5 inche penis satisfy a lady? plz answer this question only by talking about size without any other aspect like foreplay etc...
regards.
Absolutely! Your penis is fine. Its usually not about your tool its about how you use it anyway!!
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hey i really need help. i made a big mistake and i cant fix it now.im sorry that this is so long but please i dont know what else to try.
I was with this girl for a little over a year. we were friends for a long time before we started dating.but i made a stupid mistake..i always fought with her and called her some mean things. things she never deserved to be called. and i made our relationship horrible. but i never meant the things with her..i had something else bad going on in my life and it kinda got to me and i fliped at her every chance i got. i didnt mean it. i called her pretty much eveyrthing you can think of and i left her at a dance not long ago and she gave me alot of chances and this time shes sick of it and wants us to be done..i only left her that day because the problem i had stuck me like 2 mintues before i left to go with her and i got mad at everything she was doing there..i just really dont want to lose her over something as stupid as this..she really wants to be with me but shes afraid that im going to be like that again and she cant trust me and she just cant let herself be with me again..she cant talk to/hang out with me because she still has strong feelings for me and shes afraid she'll wanna be back with me and we hung out the other day and she kissed me twice..she said it was for closure and then she did it again and then pretty much made out with me..(idt u make out with someone for closure) but please i just need some advice on how to get her to trust me again and give me another chance (like girls put urself in her shoes and what would u want right now) please im begging at this point..this is the girl i want to be with for the rest of my life and its killig me..i messed up alot and she gave me many chances and now that the problem is out of my life she wont give me another one. how do i get her to trust me..how do i get her to hang out with me and let me show her i changed..i messed up and i really need help please. only answer if you think you can really help.
thanks so much
I think you F****D up big time!! If i was her i'd be really hurt too! No girl wants to be spoken to like crap! Shes hurting right now because she loves you and you've done nothing but treat her like garbage. If you are ready and willing to change tell her you want a trial relationship with her for now so you can have a chance to prove yourself. If she agrees then you have alot of work to do. BUT if you screw it up just one more time that would more then likely be it!
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Someone told me that Energy drinks speed up your matablisim sorry couldn't spell that. But is that true? Like if you don't eat anything, but drink enegry drinks will you get thinner? I know its unhealthy and I'm not gonna do it. Just curious. Thanks.
No i dont think it would work... The best way to speed up your metabolism is to eat smaller amounts of food every 2 hours. And exercise. Too many energy drinks in one day will cause heart problems. There was a man in Australia (where i live) who drank 8 Red Bulls in a day and had a heart attack. No prior heart or health conditions.
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ok. so i'm a skinny girl, but i do have meat on me.
but Anyways guys are always talking bout if girls vaginas are fat and stuff?
is that bad if it is?
and how can you getrid of some of the extra fat in that area?
plz help
Dont worry about it... If a guy goes down there or near there he isnt going to be concerned about a tiny bit if fat... if you get my drift... The only fat they'll be thinking about is the one in their pants... If a guy ever says anything to you about it its unlikely he's ever seen a vagina before in his life!!!
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