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his necklace :(
okay so my boyfriend of 5 months bought me a $250.00 necklace for christmas, but about 2 weeks later I broke it off. He told me to keep the necklace and said that it was mine. Except now hes asking for it back. I would give back because I really dont want it but I kinda lost it. :S So,I just ignore his myspace messages and his texts. I dont know what to do. I have no clue where the necklace is! Ive looked everywhere, and I dont want to tell him or talk to him or anything. I completely HATE him! I dont want anything to do with him! What do I do??
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Wow, you seem like a bitch. He gives you an expensive necklace and then you just break up with him 2 weeks later? And you think he's a jerk?
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Just say "look, you gave it to me, you told me to keep it, so im keeping it". Then search for it everywhere and sell it and go shopping for stuff you want!!
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You're both stupid.
Answer his messages, tell him you can't find it and don't plan on looking, and that you don't want to hear from him again.
You shouldn't have accepted a 250 dollar gift 5 months in if things were bad enough that you broke it off two weeks later. Thats just me.
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ugh What a jerk. Definitely NOT a gentleman. He gave it to you as a gift. Not your fault he didn't take into consideration you two weren't going to last forever. The only time I believe you should ever HAVE to give jewelry back is if it's an engagement ring and you two broke it off. Other than that, you don't have to give it back. Buttttt if you don't care about that, then just message him back and be like I've been looking all over for it, but I can't find it. When it shows up, I'll let you know.
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It was a gift, so you are under no obligation to give it back. And he's a jerk, so you don't have to feel about it either.
My grandpa has this joke that if you give a ring to a girl for her birthday or Christmas, and it doesn't work out, you can't ask for it back. So don't propose to a girl on a holiday if you want the ring back if it doesn't work out.
I know he didn't propose to you, but a necklace is jewelry and so is a ring, so I think it counts (:
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Respond, quickly and firmly that you understood the necklace was a gift and that you didn't need to give it back.
You HAVE to respond, just once, and only one, and tell him that you don't plan on giving it back and that you really don't want to speak to him anymore, and hope he can respect your wishes.
If you already hate him and want nothing to do with him, you don't need to worry about offending him. He can say whatever nasty thing he wants about you, but every court in this country would be on your side: It was a gift. It was yours to do with as you wish, even to loose.
Reply once, firmly state that you will not be giving the necklace back and that you don't want to speak to him anymore. It's cold and unfriendly, but you are entitled to be cold and unfriendly. You aren't entitled to pretend he doesn't exist.
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