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I really want to start some sort of project that i can help orphans. Does anyone know of any organizations in or around Westchester NY???

I am up to doing any sort of project, weather it be like a buddy kind of program (hanging out with orphaned children) or improving orphanages...anyyything.

I'm 16/f (if that helps)
THankss soo much!!!

I'm not sure about any organazations but you should look online for a local orphanage and
then get their phone number and call them. The best way to find out what you can do is ask the people who are in charge who could probably refer you to an organazation or invite you in to help cheer the kids up. If you can't find an organazation you should just get a group of friends, come up with an idea for a fundraiser like a bake sale, car wash, garage sale, or anything and donate the money to the orphanage near you.

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okay so i really like this guy and everyone thinks that he likes me. And i am not really sure but it does seem like it sometimes. Like if i act like i like him or call him he is okay but he kind of acts like whatever. And then the next day i will hardly say anything to him and he will be all over me like hugging me and throwing food at me and stuff. And i knoe the saying 'all guys want what they cant have' but i really dont get it. What can i do to make this guy like me always???he tells people he doesnt want a gf so does that mean he is one of those "player"types?? please help!
Thanx

yeah i totally get this guy. it seems like he likes flirting better than he likes commitment which is normal. He gets turned off when you seem like you actually like him and want to be
his girlfriend. He's probably definitly not
one of those "player types" he just doesnt want
a girlfriend. if he said that he didnt know maybe
it means he isnt totally saying no which is good but he probably isnt sure he wants to say if he
likes you yet. but he definitly seems attracted
to you.

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during science today, this girl accidentally hit me and i yelled, "ow shit!" and my teacher was like, " : O watch the language!" and i was like kk yeah yeah sorry sorry and like usually it doesn't slip. but then, i was doing a fortune teller to this girl and i accidentally opened it when i was supposed to count the numbers again, so i said "oh shitt" and my teacher was like making facial expressions for me to stop! and i don't know what happened! it usually doesn't slip, but now i guess it is. how do i stop cursing for GOOD?! my friend suggested replacing words like "shit" with "shoot" and fuck with "frick" but it's not working! i really need to stop and use better language. xOo

what your friend said about replacing the words really works if you also get your friends to pinch or slap you and tell you to say like weird catchy words instead like "oh shin" or "oh slap"

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I have big chubby cheeks.... is there any exercise i can do to make them slimmer? Help me please i am very self concious

Thanks

The best thing to do about having fat in weird places is eating right. I used to get fat on my face when i ate alot of pringles ( yeah ha ha) so try and replace snacks that you eat with fruit or cheese and crackers. It really works =) hope you get the results you want!

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Well, I have a bf, but I also have huge crush on my closest guy friend, lets call him Alex. You see, I hadn't seen my bf in days or talked to him. But I decided to go over to Alex's house to do homework and study because we had a test and homework due the next day. Well after we got done we looked at our yearbook and he pointed out his gf and it was really fun, but then we watched a horror movie, and I hate horror movies. Well during the movie, I started cuddling up with Alex. He put his arm around me and we kindve started to make-out. He said he loved me and that he also loves his gf. Well im afraid my bf is going to figure out what happened and get pissed off and kick Alex's ass. Well anyways, what should I do.
P.S. srry if this is a bit long

Well, in my opinion the perfect guy would be someone you feel atracted to (obviously alex
you feel attracted to also) and you could be
like best buds with and talk about anything
with. It sounds like this alex guy is a good
catch but you also have your boyfriend and
so does he ( well girlfriend ) First thing you
have to do is def. figure out who you like better. I would see which one you feel more comfortable with. Then if its alex you have
to come up to him straight and say that you
want to be with him so if he does too then
you should get together. if it's still your
boyfriend then you should probably tell him
what you did unless you want to feel guilty
about it for a long time and + he will probably
find out if alex tells him or anyone else. this
sounds like a sticky situation and i hope everything goes well =)

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