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My mom and dad are making me get a 93 peice of crap ford explorer for my first car, any idea's on how to increase its sexyness, help would be much aprechiated

I would just be soooo happy that i'm gettin a car you maybe you could like paint it your favorite color or sumthin like that hangthings in the front of the window or you could get a sticker put on there that says your name !! my cousin has that on her car and its soo cute
well i'm kinda runnin out of ideas hope i gave you some ideas kaitlyn jO*

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my dad is sooo annoying.. and he is soo strict.. and won't let me do anything hardly.. I always have to go to my mom... what can I do to try and get him to calm down.. cause he is mad all the time.. and what can I do to let me do stuff more?

I would stick to your mom for a lil bit long then maybe after you get tired of having to ask her for things then have her to talk with him or you could just ask your dad for the things that he will most likely let you do !!
kaitlyn jO*

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ok so i've gone out with this guy before and i've liked him for about a year now. we've gone out before but the first time i dumped him because i found out some really bad things he did. the last 2 times he dumped me because he "just wanted to be friends" but told me he wanted to go out in the future. the thing is..i've tried to get over him soooo much and it's not working and it's like no matter how many bad things he says or does to me i still like him. Now i have a new boyfriend who treats me with respect and stuff but i still can't get the other guy off my mind even then my new bf is more reliable. i dont know if i should tell the other guy that i still have feelings for him or what..what should i do?
I'll rate 5s for good answers! thank u!

Well you should tell both of them about your feeling and JUST try to get over the last boyfriend i would stay with the one that you can trust and respects you .. and if the other one wants to go out in the future then he must have feelings for you now, but the bad things that he's done might change and he actually might be more trustworthy and reliable thats why he wants to go out with you in the future .. if you want to talk to me personally then you can i.m. me on x dinGy x baBe x or dReAmS x0o
kaitlyn jO*

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I'm going on vacation in a few days and I need some good music to put on my mp3 player. I listen to pop and rock music. Does anyone know some good songs? Thanks

Alternative (rock) -

Papa Roach - Scars
Fall Out Boy - Sugar Were Goin Down
Good Charlotte - We Believe
My Chemical Romance - Helena
Weezer - Beverly Hills

Pop -

Mariah Carey - We Belong Together
Kelly Clarkson - Behind These Hazel
Jessica Simpson - These Boots Are Made For Walkin
Brittney Spears - Someday
Gwen Stefani - Cool

These are all great songs i personally love them my self (lol) =) kaitlyn jO* (=






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ok so theres this guy and he kinda sexual harasses me or w/e this is called. he grabbed my breasts and my butt like so many times nd he snaps my bra straps and all that kind of stuff! i don't kno who 2 tell and what 2 do? pleasee help me

You need to either tell some1 at school or your parents !! Sexual harassment is a serious matter so make sure you tell someone soon before he does something else even worse !! welps tahts all that i can tell you !! kaitlyn jO*

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a few days ago, my friend slept over at my house. she's worried about me because she thinks im starving myself!! i dont eat breakfast ; ususally have a pop tart or a bagel for lunch ; and mostly crackers for dinner. i dont think im starving myself.. but she does and my other friends are seeing it too. what do u think? im scared.. i dont want to be starved. please help .. ill rate high for good answers!!

Okay .. well you arent starving your self if you dont eat that much becoz your not hungry, but what you are eating sounds like you arent giving your body the nutrition that it needs even if your skinny or heavy , in shape or out of shape but you should try telling them that you are eating what fills you up or let them kno that you are okay and arent starving yourself .. i'm sry but thats all that i kno to tell you. i wish i could help more !! kaitlyn jO* =)

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okwell my sister got caught sneaking out and ever sincemy parents wont let me do anythng even though i would never do that. so is there anyway that i can get them to relax, and see that im not like her?

please help!!!

Well you shouldnt have to pay for your sisters mistake and just sit your parents down and talk to them and let them kno that your not the type of person she is but i dont really know what else to tell you but hopefully that help
katilyn jO*

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OK..I ALWAYS go to bed late. If I try to go to bed early, i still don't go to bed until about
3-4AM. I've tried not to stay on the computer and tried to clear my mind and everything and i still cant sleep. After that i have a tendancy to wake up a tiny bit late (10-11 AM)..And i mean a couple times i may get to bed if I'm lucky around 1AM..i dont know what to do and my mom just thinks that i stay up on purpose so she doesnt wanna help me..what do you thinks wrong?? is there anything to prevent this from happening anymore?? thanks!!!

Well i have a tendency to toss and turn at night until like 3 in the morning when i finally go to sleep and wake up at 2:00 in the day time but i tried takin dimetap or sumthing like that and it helped i went to bed about 2 - 3 hours erlier well i hope that can help you some
kaitlyn jO*

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ok well 've never been tanning before like in a booth but i'd like to try it but i dont know what to wear can sombody please tell me?

I havent either but i kno alot of ppl that go all you should wear is a bathing suit or something to cover you up if you dont want to get a tan all over. Hope that it helped you katilyn jO*

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okay so whenever i wake up in the morning i always feel so nausious that i cant eat anything but it usually goes away by about 10...excpet sometimes it gets worse and i either throw up or are about to throw up...and its not because im hungry because i usually have like big midnight snacks and stuff so whats wrong wtih me

Well i had stomach feelings like that although i didnt eat late at night becoz it would give me acid reflex but maybe if it is that bad then you should try to talk to your mom in to taking you to the doctor or something .. thats all that i kno to do hope that it gives you some help
kaitlyn jO*

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what age/grade will your friends start to act more mature, and start being more than just someone to laugh with. you know, when will it be easier to find that one true friend, cause i'm pretty young, and i dont think anyone is that mature enough that they are the kind of friend that will give you a shoulder to lean on when your sad, or you can call anytime just 2 talk, you know that kind of stuff. does anyone know what age>

It will probably start when you get into middle school .. most ppl start to mature at the age of about 12 or 13 beocz thats the age that most of my friends did althought a few didnt (lol) but i'm sure that you have a couple of friends that could qive you a shoulder to lean on or you can talk to anytime hope that i gave you some help !!!! kaitlyn jO*

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Does anyone know any good websites with heartbreak or love quotes?? Beside firehoquotes.com....

You should try quotemania.2ya.com it has really cute quotes on there!!! kaitlyn jo*

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ok i have a really close guy friend that i like a lot. and he likes me to and he is always telling how he wants me to be his girlfriend and that he wants to be with me except we wont hook up until we find a way so that we could see each other more often.(he lives 20 minutes away) but anways most of the time when i call him he says i am going to call you back and he NEVER calls back.. what should i think of this? should talk to him and be4 he says anythin be like "if you dont want to talk to me all you have to do is say so" can so one please tell me what to do. i dont want to hurt i just want to know he never calls back.

You should just flat out ask him if he doesnt like talking to you becoz if hes always tellin you that he wants to be your boyfriend and all of that then somethings messed up there .. maybe he has a girlfriend and thats why he nevers calls baq becoz hes a playa (maybe) but you should just ask why he lies to you about callin him baq hope that i helped a lil bit
kaitlyn jO*

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how do you know if that one friend is that one true "best friend" that will stick with you for life, thru all the bad and good times. i cant really explain what i mean by that one best friend but i think you might be able to get what i mean. thanks

well you can kinda just tell that they are a true friend when their there for you through the thick and the thin times ... i kno how you feel when it comes to true best friends and cant tell if they are actually true to you well i hope that i helped with what i told you
kaitlyn jO*

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ok i ended up dumping him because he treated me so badly but something inside of me wants him back and i know its not right! how do i keep my mind off of him and move on? thanx for ur help*

hey !!
well i would just find someone new and would move on so that he woulndt stay on my mind .. well thats all that i can tell ya hun ..
kaitlyn jO*

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i just got braces~& i heard that you could have chewing gum but you couldnt have bubble gum

also what are some good foods you can eat with braces?

Hey ...
I have braces to you can have sugar free gum but bubble gum can stick to your braces alot !! you can eat about all the food that you have eatin b4 when u didnt have braces.Just not like hard hard candy coz it can make a brace come loose and it can make the cement come off.
kaitlyn jO*

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latley i have been in a very bad mood. people have just been annoying me and doing things that make me mad latley - what can i do about this? i am not depressed at all - i have fun and i guess it's just when i'm alone i think about a bunch of underlying stuff. what is a way i can not think about all of this?

Hey BabeZ,
Well i have those moods.. What i try to do is just get with my friends and go out and have fun. Theres nothing better than being with you best friends.. but just think about positive things and forget about the negative !! Dont go out with the that have been anoyying you though.you could also just do stuff with the family or go out and play sports
..Hope that i helped..
kaitlyn jO*

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Do u think if your boyfriend is skater, u should turn skater?

I dont think that you should turn skater just becoz your boyfriend is..if he doesnt like you the way you are then he doesnt really love you..just dont be someting that your not but if you like the way skater clothes look then it just shows that you have enough sence to be your self.! hope i helped... write me baq if you want more help.
kaitlyn jO*

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Is it right for a girl to ask a guy out? please answer..i rate!!

Yes! It is okay for a grl to ask a guy out....but guys usually do that...i dont really see anythging wrong with a grl asking a guy out though!welcumZ

kaitlyn
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