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ok i have a really close guy friend that i like a lot. and he likes me to and he is always telling how he wants me to be his girlfriend and that he wants to be with me except we wont hook up until we find a way so that we could see each other more often.(he lives 20 minutes away) but anways most of the time when i call him he says i am going to call you back and he NEVER calls back.. what should i think of this? should talk to him and be4 he says anythin be like "if you dont want to talk to me all you have to do is say so" can so one please tell me what to do. i dont want to hurt i just want to know he never calls back.
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You should just flat out ask him if he doesnt like talking to you becoz if hes always tellin you that he wants to be your boyfriend and all of that then somethings messed up there .. maybe he has a girlfriend and thats why he nevers calls baq becoz hes a playa (maybe) but you should just ask why he lies to you about callin him baq hope that i helped a lil bit
kaitlyn jO*
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In the Matters of the Heart, such a question can not be answered easily. This however may be able to help you find you answer.
1st consider how long has this gone on. –If it has gone on for a long time for like Weeks to months, then you should probably give the talk {if it would be close to Year (s) I can’t help you} if not it most likely nothing.
2nd consider how his schedule. –He may be very busy
and....
3rd consider when are you calling. –you may be calling at awkward times (10am till5 pm). That could have an effect.
I hope this helped you. There are more questions that must be asked, but you must find them out 4 yourself. Please let me know how it goes and if I helped any way.
~Teen Guru~
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Well dat happens alot and you shouldnt take anything by it, but if it bothers youda most just ask him. There's ever anything wrong in asking why. if he likes you dat much he would understand that your hurting.
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well if it were me i would think hes blowing me off and when he says "i'll call you back"
just respond with " i highly doubt that" or something..
how bout you dont even pick up when he calls? like have your mom say your out and to call back later..
thats just my opinion because people who always blow me off like that get me mad...
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Well, next time you talk to him, just, when he says that be like, why dont i call you back since you usually never call me back when you say you will, unless you have a reason for not calling me. Say it as nicely as possible so he doesnt think of it in a bad way. I wouldnt worry, sometimes well, most of the time guys can be very forgetful lol. Good Luck Hun!
~Brina~
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Hey, if you just want to know why, just ask him "how come you never call back when you say you will?" Just be upfront. Use a nice tone of voice so he doesn't think you're mad. If you're curious as to whether or not he really wants to talk to you, ask him "do you really want to talk to me? If you don't, it's fine." Or whatever you want.
Just tell him to be honest, and in return you have to be honest with your questions. Don't beat around the bush and try to hint at him what you want to know: Guys are dense (no offense, guys, but a lot of you are), and more often than not we have to be a little more blunt than we'd like to be.
Just ask. No harm can come from a little curiosity. Communication is a BIG thing, especially in boy/girl relationships where there's a little bit of romance involved. Talk to him and let him know what you're thinking, and ask him what you're wondering.
I hope this helps!
-Siren =)
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