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ok so this is kinda two categories so i picked the one that started the problem i slipped on some steps by my schools office and hurt my right foot and it really hurts. ive gone back to school but i thought that maybe i might get some extra attention from the guy i like weird thing is its like im getting less i mean hes being respectful not racing me to english bc my foot is hurt but its like he doesnt care what happened. i want him to care atleast a little he didnt even ask what happened or offer to help i may just be crazy but i think im making a big deal out of nothing am i? i thought he liked me and now im not so sure (link)
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Sometimes when guys liek a girl they try really hard not to say the wrong thing...so he might have wanted to ask what happened, but thought maybe you didn't want to talk about it. He probably thought to himself...better that i keep my mouth shut..just in case. You should playfully say to him, Well I can see you care..you dindnt even asked what happened to me??...Then he'll probably be liek Oh well i did't know if you wanted to explain. Well good luck and I hope he likes you!! ♥ caitie
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Ok my cousin went out with this guy for about a year and i just found out that he hits her and all kinds of stuff but she never did anything about it...now their broke up and she's talking to another guy from the same school but her ex still hits on her and cusses her out at school while her new bf's not around...I want to speak up but she told me NO...should i or not?This is getting way out of hand and im the only one who knows!!Please help me out!! (link)
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Ok yes you should def. speak up..this can't go on! I think what you shoudl do is tell the school guidance counselor about it...tel her you promised you wouldn't tell so could you please say that an anonymous student saw him beating on her. That way he won't beat on you and you're cousin won't get mad at you! And even if your cousin finds out..she's gonna thatnk you in the long run! ♥ caitie
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ok i am a white girl and I like this black boy. Well he is the type of guy that is touchy feely, and I was fine with it at first, but now it is so much, every time he sees me he want to put his hands down my skirt, or up my skirt. And now I have people at school talking about me. Saying thats the girl, and heads turn. I like him a lot, and I don't know what to do, cause I don't want to hurt him. So Please help me!!!!!! (link)
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Hey, well first you shouldn't care about the racial difference..I like black guys too! Ok well you shoulf tell the people talking bout you to **** off...you fill in the blanks lol! Then you shoudl tell the guy that you like him but you don't want him touchin you all the time...be liek geese we're not even going out...it'll give him a little hint lol! Screw what people are saying..they don't know you so w/e! Good luck! ♥ caitie
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Today at school, during lunch, i got bored.
we guys were sitting on the bench outside and they dared me to walk up to a guy and slap him for no reason at all. Being bored, i did it and kinda slapped him harder than I intended. I am not usually a violent or mean person but that was pretty mean. It turns out he is one of those sensitive guys. ( not sensitve as in gay, more like as in easy to fell upset and has plenty of emotions.)Most guys just laugh when you do crap like that, but he almost started crying. I felt bad, and went to appologize to him but he didn't quite accept my appologies. He was saying "forget it" but he still looked all emotional.
I feel really guilty about it now and i want to know how i can apologize to him. (link)
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Ok well just let him cool off and look for him in school tomorrow and approach him when your friends aren't around. Tell him you realized how mean that was and you didn't mean anything by it, and that you didnt mean to slap him that hard at all. Tell him you're not a violent person and that you want to make evrything sraight between you guys. Good luck! ♥ caitie
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hey ok well i am 15 and i am in love with ym best friends little sister. i have known her my entire life and i have never thought of her as more then just like a litte sister i guess but her bro is like rele protective of her how do i ask her out without making him pissed and risk hurting my relationship with either of them or theirs with eachother she has been acting wierd around us when i am over there adn she doesnt hang out with us as much and she has a bunch of guys that r just friends that r over there all teh time too adn i feel weird like i suddenly become all protective like her bro! please help (link)
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Ok well...honest opinion..it's not to smart to hook up with your friends family, but you say you love her soo....I think you should tell your friend's little sister that you think she's cute & that you think you liek her....now i dont know if she likes you so don't tell ehr you love her or go into huge details, just say a couple things..and maybe you should write a note to her..sdo it's not akward....like it would be if you told her in person. Based on what she says back...liek if she lieks you too then tell your friend that you don't want any problems with him...so you thought it was only right to tell him that you and his sister liek eachother. Now if he freaks out...ask yourself this question "Is going out with his little sister worth ruining our friendship?" If the answer is yes then go get your girl but if not just move on.... Good luck..if you want let me know how it goes..just drop one in the inbox! ♥ caitie
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i dont have my period yet and im 13years old. all of my friends have it too. is there like something wrong with me? (link)
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No..some girls don't egt their period till 14 or 15...I know someone who didn't get it till they were 17!! So don't worry..plus side most girls who start later get bigger boobs!! woo-hoo lol!!!
Don't worry, you should egt it soon! ♥ caitie
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hii. i think i am fat i weigh 141 and i dont like the way i look so im thinking about becoming anerixic for just a few weeks to shed some pounds. But i heard it can be dangerous (link)
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No...because when you stop eating..you actually gain weight, because your body starts making more fat cells..because after you stop eating for a LONG time your body starts to eat your own fat...that's why your body makes more fat cells, so you don't run out of food. So, if you do it for a few weeks your just going to gain weight...and if you do it for a long time..you'll start feeling weak and you'll have extreme stomache pains. If you want to lose weight limit what you eat and eat healthy food, and do crunshes for a hour hour. Please don't go anorexic!! Good luck! ♥ caitie
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I was sitting in my room listening to my favorite band The Smashing Pumpkins when it occured to me that i am completly over obsessed about this band. So here's my question, is it ok to live your life constantly thinking about them? (link)
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yes it's ok, because like me you're probably one of those people that relates their life to music..and connects with music. I'm guessing it relaxes you too....music is a really good thing..and there is nothing wrong being obsessed wiht your favorite band...ok well there's a limit to how obsessed but I'm sure you're not one of those fans that would kill themselves w/out the samshing pumpkins lol! hope this helped! ♥ caitie
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my mom says that she gives me lots of priveleges, which i highly disagree with. just today i had a friend over -a girl- -im a guy- and we went to my room and my mom yelled at me and told me that im too old to have girls in my room even if we're just friends -btw im 15-. do you agree with this? if you do then why?! if you dont then how do i tell my mom that i am mature enough to control myself around my friends...sheesh (link)
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Ok well my parents have the same rule....like i cna't have a guy in my room when it's just me and him..but if it's like a bunch of my gf's nd a couple guys we can go in my room as long as the door is left open. I think the rule is reasonable, but ya ofcourse i wish I could have a guy in my room alone....but you're mom just doesn't want you having sex while she's just in the other room..and she doesnt want you impregnating some girl. That's really what it comes down to...sex. There's really nothing you can do about it. Try telling your mom....that you are def. JUST friends with this girl and is it ok if we chill in my room with the door open, so you know we aren't doing anything. Good luck! ♥ caitie
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Some of my friends are smoking (cigarettes). I'm really worried but I don't think they'll listen to me if I ask them to stop. Should I stop hanging out with them or what? I'm afraid of being pressured by them. (link)
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I had to deal with the same thing..you don't have to stop hanging out with them just tell them straight out..you don't want to smoke....my friends never pressured me, they would just say do you want a smoke...and when I said no..that was that. If they're good friends they won't push you. Now, about telling them to stop....you should really push that issue because even thought they mite say "Oh, don't worry smoking's all I'll do, I'll never do drugs." trust me...smoking leads to weed which leads to blah-blah-blah! That's what happened to my friends..and now they to xanex, coke, acid.....and o ya we're not friends anymore. I think you should tell your friends abotu my situation and maybe they'll listen. I really hope everything works out...and both you and your friends stay healthy! ♥ caitie
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I was looking through a few questions on religion (Not a darn clue why, I just was) and I was reading a question about a girl who wanted to become Buddist.
An answer she recieved made me a little upset. This person that answered kept saying how she was choosing the wrong religion and that being Buddist is wrong.
I've noticed things like this before, strong Christians (yes, it is mostly Christians) criticizing other religions. They will rant on and on about how it's the wrong religion.
What is so wrong with believing in Buddah? Why do you have to criticize people who do not believe in God? We have the right to choose our religion and the right to choose no religion at all.
Why do you believe that your religion is the only "right" religion? This has been bothering me for a while.
I really don't want any Christians on this site to feel that I am directing this ONLY at you. But what I've seen on this site about 90% of the people criticizing people for their religion are strong Christians. So, I'm just basing my question on the majority.
I'm sorry if this question has offended anyone. (link)
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People do that because they aren't open minded and only know their religion, which to them is the right one. It's prejadist (or however you spell that) just like racism but with religion. Those people should be more open minded and less opinionated..but what can you do?? It annoys me too..to see people offend someone they're suppose to be helping. I hope that answers your question! ♥ caitie
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ok my parents were not home so i took there car out to practice my driving.then i took the car to go out to the mall and go shopping.when i came back from shopping there was a huge scratch on the hood of it!please help!!! (link)
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Ok well, get a wet rag and try wiping at it....then find nail polish that's simialr to the car color and cover it up as best you can....it's not like your parents are gonna inspect their car so they shouldn't notice...but for future reference...DON'T STEAL YOUR PARENTS CAR!! lol!! Good luck! ♥ caitie
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hey, do guys think it is gross when girls get wet when they finger her or if she is already wet when he fingers her? and have u ever gotten wet when a guy fingered you if os what did he do? (link)
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NO guys love it because it shows that they "pleasured" you or turned you on. They see it as a sign that they're good at what they do. And if you're already wey beforew he does anything, I don't think it makes a difference...it just makes it more lubed down there lol! Well hope that helped! ♥ caitie
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Does anyone know some sites where you can create and take quizzes aside from MemeGen (too many flashing pop-ups. Freaks me out.), Zenhex (the Zenhex is screwed up on my computer), QuizYourFriends and Quizilla? (link)
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You can go to coolquiz.com......you can make quizes and take some good ones too. ♥ caitie
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Ok well see I am a 13/f and my dad like hits me all the time with like eather a wooden stick or his hands or whatever he has in reach and it usually leaves bruises.....and like he always tells me when he does it that I could never call the police and get him in trouble because he will just say that it's his way of "punishing me". And like I always ask him why doesnt he just ground me or something else and he always says that he thinks this will work better.....but I really don't think it does. What should I doo?? Is this considered abuse or not??
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Yes that is definitly abuse..and you shouldnt let it continue...you might love your dad or hate your dad either way he needs help. You should talk to your school guidance counselor or call a teen abuse hotline. There is a chance your dad will go to jail but he also might be able to get help for his problem...and be a part of your like again later on. If you need someone to talk to im mme at angleyezxo21xo! Good luck! ♥ caitie
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hey ya'll.... ok im a 13 year old girl and i live with my dad and my twin brother... i have to share a room with my brother and as you might know i have no privacy whatsoever... okay like 1 day ago i started my period for the first time...but i odnt know how to tell my dad because i need to go buy some more supplies... and i dont want to tell my brother but im sure hell find out and i kno it will be akward.... so heres my question.. how do i tell my dad(hes a manly man) and i want to tell my brother so it wont be as akward if he finds out on his own.......how do i tell them?!?!!??!?!?o ya and how do i tell my brother to keep his mouth shut cause at the moment i dont want anyone to know!?!?!?!? thanks! (link)
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Ok you shouldn't be embarrased to tell your dad, because he's an adult and he understands women and their periods..well as much as a guy can understand lol! Just say to him...dad can you please pick me up soem tampons/pads (w/e you use)! If oyu just say somehting like that instead of some big dramatic thing like, dad i got my period for the first time and i need "stuff". If you sound mature and relaxed about it your dad won't make a big deal! As for your brother...be like hey i got my period...but can you keep it on the DL for now! He'll probably act immature btu what can you do...he's a boy. But, he's your brother and if you ask him to keep it quiet..he will! Good luck! ♥ caitie
P.S. Congrats on your period!!!
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about 3 months ago me and my " best friend " qot into a HUGE fiqht .. she did me soo wrong .. after a while we decided to squish the beef and just be friends .. the thing is i dont just want to be friends .. i want to be best friends again but we barely talk and when we do its like hi .. wuhts up ? .. and bye .. ii really miss her but i dont know what she thinks. i want to be strong about it and forget about her cause of what she did but i cant .. its hard when everytime i see her online or talk to her i have flashbacks of when we were best friends and all the jokes and insiders we had together .. now she got other friends and its like i dont exist until she wants something or needs advice for something. i just dont know what to do .. forget about her and worry about my real friends or what ?!?!?!? i need heLp ASAP (link)
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I've had some pretty bad stuff happen between me and this one girl....and she's not a good person so i ended our friendship (she used to be a sweetheart, but ppl change)! But I always have flashbacks like you do...and honestly if she wasn't sucha bad perosn I would be friends with her again. Friends fight all the time, but you're friends and you can make it through anything. I think you should go to her house and tell her how you feel. Most likely she feels the same!! But think...is she a good person...because that's what I had to think about with my friend...if she's a plain cold hearted bitch...then just get over her! I hope this wasn't confusing..if it was then you can im me at angleyezxo21xo if you want. Good luck! ♥ caitie
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ok so my friend told me it was really kool when you pass out so she shower me how she did it on her bro first then she did it to me i didnt no if it was bad for you or anything and i just wanter to try it once i didnt think it could hurt so when i told a couple of my friedns about it they where like its so bad you could have died and all this stuff so is it really that bad for you? please help i need some answers. (link)
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It sounds like your talking about "California Dreams" and yes it is bad, and kids have die from it. It cuts off the oxygen to your brain and it kills your brain cells! But you could seriously hurt yourself...other than dying kids have gone into comas!! So I don't recommend it lol! ♥ caitie
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Hi i was wondering if it is possible to skip one period? THANKS! (link)
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Yes it's very possible...and it happens soemtimes. Don't worry about..unless you've had sex recently...if so then you could be pregnant! Hoep that helped! ♥ caitie
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i am 15 and boobs are very small what are the best things to us to stuff a bra like not buying one thats stuffed just what can i use thanks i rate high (link)
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Well I'm just letting you know you really shouldn't bother b/c down the road if ppl find out...you will be put through so much embarassment it's not worth it! You should be proud of what you have, plus if you show up to school with way bigger boobs all of a sudden ppl aren't going to fall for it. Please don't rate me low if that's not what you wanted to hear b/c I'm really just trying to help you for the future...but I'll still answer your question. You could use tissues or like foam padding...you could also geta padded bra...that would help alot! Well I hope that I helped! ♥ caitie
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