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I'm Ina ♥


-I haven't used this in the longest time! But I'll try to be on more often (:

I'm sixteen years old & am good at giving advice. I've been through a lot, so don't be afraid to ask! I love helping people & I'm usually a nice person, but I can be a b!tch too. Don't ask me stupid things, because I won't waste my time dealing with you. But besides that, just leave one in my inboxx.
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advice

I'm planning on having sex for the first time very soon.I am very hairy "down there" so should I shave ? I have shaved it before but it was really irratated and pinchy and itchy. What should I do ? Also I don't wanna be hairy like that.HELP !!!

Shave the way the hair is growing, so you don`t get ingrown hairs. If you don`t want to shave, then you can always wax it.

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ok tell me if this is sluty:short shorts a grey cami with a black zip up sweatshirt and hoop earrings please help (and advice on changes are welcome)

It doesn`t sound slutty. Just make sure the clothing is too short,tight, revealing, or see-through :]

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Does anybody know where EITHER (or both?) of these?

http://www.fredflare.com/customer/product.php?productid=2070&cat=255

http://www.fredflare.com/customer/product.php?productid=1625&cat=255

They are sold out on fredflare.com =[

Target, Icing & Claire's have stuff like that. But it won't be the same exact thing.

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hey. i have liked this guy for a while..last year i liked him and everyone thought he liked me but i wrote him a note asking him if he did and he never wrote back & my friend would bother him about me ( which i didn't really like.) we're both shy & even though he is popular he is pretty quiet and is kinda known for not showing alot of emotion. this year, we still look at eachother and make eye contact alot and one of my best friends thinks he might still like me. me & the guy never really talked so i don't know what to do. how can i tell if he likes me? last year i thought he did but then some stuff happend and i kinda gave up..but i still like him and i need some advice on what i should. thankss ♥

Just start talking to him more. That's the easiest way to figure out if a guy likes you. Start saying hi to him at times, & see what happens from there. Sometimes in class, you can start a nice conversation too :] Then you guys will talk more & you'll for sure know if he likes you or not.

Hope I helped :]

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Today I was searching on my boyfriend's video playlist, and I discovered about 4, maybe 5 pornographic videos...I confronted him about it, and he broke down, saying he had forgotten about them, and that they had been there before we started dating...I think believe him...but I'm still not sure what to think...any thoughts?

Thank you...

He probably is telling the truth. A lot of guys go through that & maybe he just forgot all about the videos once he met you :]

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what are some cute websites to go to to find cute purses?

(prices between 10-50 please. thank you)

I love purses from Forever 21, Hollister, & Abercrombie. Their sites are Forever21.com, Hollisterco.com, & Abercrombie.com.
Hope I helped :]

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i know this is disgusting, but is there a good way to get rid of dandruff?

My friend told me that Head & Shoulders is amazing when it comes to dandruff :]

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okay i was wondering.
is there a website that allows you to enlarge photos without downloading something.
PLEASEEE if you know one TELL MEE
thank you soo much

You can do it on paint. You just click "image" & then "stretch/skew" & you put a number higher than 100 to make it bigger. To make it smaller, you put a number lower than 100. If you need more help, you can always leave one in my inbox :]

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I always feel so ugly. Whenever I see the pretty girls at my school I just feel all bad and wish I would be as pretty as them. I'm always so self concious about the way I look now. I don't know why i'm like this. I used to be so confident and didn't care how I look. Will I ALWAYS be like this?


:(

No, you probably won`t feel like that always. It`s probably just puberty because a lot of teenage girls feel like that for a while. Just try to make yourself look a bit prettier if you want :] Or just wait for the feeling to go away.
Hope I helped :]

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im in 8th grade, in a really small school. there is only 8 guys in my whole 8th grade. there all shallow, and will only go out with "hot" girls. sometimes they say, "if you cant supply, we will deny." Is that true about all guys?

No it`s not true about all guys. They`re probably just immature since it`s 8th grade. You can always try meeting guys from other schools if you want :]

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what does "LMAO" and "BTW" mean?

LMAO- Laughing My Ass Off
BTW- By The Way

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does anyone know of a place were i can get cute sundresses from? offline would be great! thank you :)

You should try American Eagle & H&M :]

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i'm a size L or XL in abercrombie kids, so what size would i be in abercrombie & fitch? (in shirts) thanks!

Probably a x-small or a small :]

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how can I get smooth lips and get rid of the lines?chapstick does not work.

Some good ones are usually Carmex, Blistex, Softlips, or this one called Burt`s Bees.

Hope I helped

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Where can I find a pair of shorts like these:

http://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/thumb/9/92/CSD_2006_Cologne_sexy_9.jpg/180px-CSD_2006_Cologne_sexy_9.jpg



I can't find them anywhere!!!

Hollister deff. has some :]

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my tennis skort is white and see-thru.
what do i wear under it?
its adidas, and has the tight shorts underneath it.

my bikini panties show thru. (and they are white)
so what do i wear that wont show thru?

Just wear a white thong :]

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okay, so i have these friends [ not using names ]. well they treat me diffrently then they treat their other friends. Like, i always feel so outside their group. They say i'm their best friends but i don't think they mean it.A few of my friends even got mad at me for getting to close to one of my friends. i think this is so stupid. i really enjoy being around that person & everything but she acts like i can never hang out with her unless her "best friend" is there with us cause she will get pissed. but we do hang out sometimes but there has to be like other people with us. thats not a real friend is it.I also feel like they all talk about me but they say they would never do that. I don't know what to do really. It makes me so mad cause its hard to know who my real friends are. please help. thanks. & your really pretty ♥

Well if you don`t think that you`re one of them, then just talk to them about it. & if you don`t believe them, then don`t try hanging out with them. If they say they don`t talk about you & you`re one of their best friends, then you either believe them or not. There`s really no other choices =/ If I was you, I`d just talk to them & see what happens. & thanks :] You`re probably gorgeous yourself :]

Hope I helped :]

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Tomorrow i'm going to a party. THis is the outfit i'm wearing:

A gray and black skirt that is kind of plaid but not REALLY plaid. It has a foldover waist. Then i'm wearing a black tank top with a red cardigan over that with a strawberry- shaped red necklace with crystals encrusted in the necklace. I have long hair but i'm probably getting it cut shoulder length tomorrow.

SO i'm asking, what kind of hairstyle should I do that is for thin, straight, brown hair that would go good with my outfit? Also, I have kind of wispy sidebangs, and sometimes they look messy so i'll probably pin them back, or ask the hair lady to make them thicker. If i DO get sidebangs, would wearing my hair straight and down with a headband look cute? And if it does seem cute should I wear a black headband or red one? If that isn't cute what other kind of style should I wear?

BTW: the hair dresser isn't doing the style, she's just cutting it.
So please give me basically easy things to do.

I think you should leave it down & wear a headband :] you can try to find a plaid headband [red & black]. I found a plaid red, black, & white headband at Forever 21. If you don`t want to look for one, or dont have one, then you should wear a black one. If your hair is dark brown, wear a red headband, so it stands out more :]

Hope I helped :]

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Okay...this is a really weird quesion....but how can i become a prep? (and i dont want to dye my hair...highlights are fine though) like i need tips on personality and looks. thanks:D

Well, you have to be really girly.

& deff. shop at Hollister, Abercrombie, & American Eagle. Stores like that. Also, like designer purses & clothes? For hair, straighten or scrunch it.

Hope I helped :]

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whats a hand job???

It`s like when a guy jacks off, except you do it for him rather than him using his hand.

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