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My name is Marissa, you may call me anything you like though, as long as it's not offensive, obviously.I haven't been on in quite some time and I'm going to try harder to come on more.
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Just remember that everyone has something special about each of them, and if other people can't see that, it's their loss not yours.
"Your attitude determines your altitude."
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I mastrobate and I really want to stop. Any tips?
keep your mind on other things, like play sports or something!
My best friend is very selfish and always takes advantage of me and i dont like it, and i have like no other friends anymore because i was always trying to please her (shes kinda high maintenence) and shes hard to talk to about this stuff because shell get all mad and defensive and wind up manipulating me to make me think that im the bad person, but really everyone tells me how shes bad and now she wants me to do drugs and get tattoos and other stuff that i dont think i wanna do... but i have no other friends..so what do i do.
dump her ass. if she's trying to change you and manipulate you, SHE ISN'T YOUR FRIEND. she took you away from everyone, she always gets mad. you don't need that girl, get other friends and leave her
well i told my boyfriend that i have had sex before but i havent. if we do have sex, is there any way he could tell that i am still a virgin?
oh and what does it mean when somebody "pops your cherry". lol
when someone pops your cherry it means they broke your hymen.
and if it hasn't been popped then it will probably bleed, but it isn't just sex that pops it, it can be stretched from sports and stuff like that.
so if it bleed that might be the only thing that can give it away
hi well im 14, and my mum and sister are always argueing. a lot! hitting screaming etc. now its got to a point where im having trouble sleeping incase they fight and something happens. yesterday night, i was just about to nod off, and i hear screaming noises in my head-noises like when they fight. when i heard them, i sat up, switched the fan off(it was a hot night) and sat still listening. it lasted about 10seconds, and it was just in my head. am i going crazy? whats wrong with me? thanks.
you are just very stressed and paranoid about it now, your not crazy your minds just playing tricks on you
Well my boyfriend tried to finger me, but it hurt it was kind of a discomfortable hurt. I asked him to stop and he did, then we tried it another time and it hurt but not as bad. Is it normal for it to hurt? One of my friends asked me if I bled but I told my friend that I told him to stop before he went in to far because it hurt. Are u suppose to bleed? thanks!!
the only time you'll bleed is if you tear your hymen. and if it's like your first couple of times fingering yes it will hurt so it's normal because 'it's' isn't used to it
how do you get nail varnish to stay on longer?? bcoz i just put it on, but by this time tomorrow most of it would have come of!!
it's getting really annoying now!!
xxx
well pick the color and do one layer. once it's dry go over it again with the same color. then if you want a little extra pazazz or a nice shine and extra protection go over it with a clear varnish
I want to get my first hook^ soo bad! I know your just supposed to let it happen natureally but like what are some ways to show guys you want to? How do you act and stuff!! Omg I have a party in a couple days so plese help fast!
alright just pick one guy that you like know really well and wouldn't mind doing stuff with and start flirting with him and like grab his hand and play with his fingers or play with his hair, and once you guys are alone, go in for the kill girl =)
i have really oily skin and i use proactiv twice a day. i also use the jergens tanning for your face once a day after i clense my skin with proactiv. what could i do to make my skin less oily and does the jergens tanning cause oily skin? if it does, does anyone know of a face tanner that doesn't make your skin oily? thanks alot!
well i'm guessing that the tanning causes oily skin, try not using it for a little and see if it helps, but no i don't know of one that doesn't make your skin oily, sorry!
Ya so i had a best friend we even called eachother sisters and were always together, we met in the 4th grade, and then were not friends n e more in the middle of the 10th grade. Ever since i moved a couple miles away from my old house i started haning out wit another one of my friends that i met this year, because she lived right across the street from me. Later i found out that my friend who lived near me was my cousin and we became mad close friends. When i went to school i could tell that my bestfriend acted stange she never said hi to me in school i had to say hi to her and if i didnt say hi to her she would get mad. Even if my cousin said hi to her she would say hi in a very snobby way. Then i realized that shes gettin jeaouls because im becoming good friends wit Tally my neighbor. So when i came home and called my friend Jamielia to invite her to go to this place called wings with us shes all like no i dont want to go. Im like ok, then a week later she wrote me a note saying how ever since i moved i blew her off which is total bull shit. She was saying how everything is Tally Tally Tally and jamielia said when im on the phone with her all i talk bout is Tally, and jamielia was saying that she didnt want to her that shit. Jamielia was saying how we were like sisters now we are just friends and that i blew her off for Tally. So i wrote her a note back cussin her out and sayin that shes a jealous bitch, and that shes not my only friend and that you need to get over it. At the end of my note i wrote her i told jamielia to give me a call after school so we can work things out and i also said if you dont call me i will know that you dont want to be friends anymore. Ya i didnt get the phone call so then i knew that she didnt want to be friends with me. She never realized that during our friendship she treated me like shit. One time she came over my house an sneakly left with her boyfriend i was heated, and another time she only used me to come over so that she could go into the city to go to a party so her mom would think she spent the night at my house. i dont even know why i stayed friends with her She even rubbed her looks in my face like sayin o the kid you likes says im pretty thats some shit right there im like u aint all that shit but damn can someone help me because i have class with her and some of my friends are hers and i just feel it that one day shes gonna keep givin me dirty looks and im gonna end up beating the shit out of her
so what should i do??
don't let the bitchhhh bother you cuz she's jelous of everything. seriously just act like she's not there, if she gives you a dirty look, LAUGH. then she's gonna feel like a complete idiot. fightin isn't really smart, but if you do don't do it in school cuz you can get suspended and all that stuff
what is douching?
well it's the french word for shower
but it also means a stream of water, often containing medicinal or cleansing agents, that is applied to a body part or cavity for hygienic or therapeutic purposes.
so like when a woman says she douches she is like cleaning out her vagina by putting water or chemicals in it, but it's not good for you, don't do it =)
and if someone says your a douche-no one really means it in either of those terms, it means like your a idiot, i tend to say that one a lot =)
does the EnV come with free unlimited texting??? because thats what everyone tells me. but it sounds too good to be true
nope it cost 10 dollars a month for unlimited texting, which i have, and it's really worth it because then you never have to worry about going over, just remember it's only unlimited to verizon phones.
i have the VCAST Verizon VX9800. I really want the EnV (which is the upgrade to the phone I have now)
if i switch phones, will it cost me any money? like can i play the difference between the 2 phones?
if you switch in mid contract it cost full price for the phone.
Ever since my fiancee and I have been having sex without a condom, I've noticed a change in the way I smell down there. I use daily feminine wash and I've douched. What else can I do?
well ok, i'm no doctor or anything, obviously, but i've read several things on douching being bad for you, it messes up the bacteria amount in your vagina. see your vagina cleans itself out by itself, which results in discharge, douching may be the possible result for the smell. keep using the wash and don't douche and see if it helps, if it doesn't go to the gyno or doctor and get checked out
this isn't REALLY involving friends but i didnt know what other catergory to do... so anyway. i'm having a sweet 16 in april. and im having somewhere around 150 people there. im not really sure where its goin to be yet. but obviously my parents are going to be there as well as my 2 older brothers [17 and 20]. obviously im going to be 16 and im in 10th grade and recently i was at a sweet 16 and everyone on the dance floor is like grinding and whatever. i dont mind this, but i am worried im goin to feel sooo awkward with my family there watching me. like im going to feel so self concious and not want to do anything at my own sweet 16. what should i do? please helppp.. thanks!
been there, well not sweet 16, haha 14. but anyways. i stayed out of there view and danced ya know like there was a group of kids and i'd be behind them. and my parents never figured it out =). so good lucky and happy really early birthday
14/f
Everyone tells me this kid likes me, but when it comes to seeing if people like me or not, I can never ever tell!
Here are some signs --
*He calls me twice a day.
*He talks about how he misses what we had.
*He always says we should hang out
*Hes called me pretty 3 times, in the past like.. maybe week tops?
*He asked if I'd ever makeout with him... lol?
*He always tries to help me with things.
*He drops like everything, just to talk to me on the phone type thing..
& alot of other stuff.. I just can't seem to think of it right now. =/ but, trust me theres alot more.. thats just super recent. & some of the other things, I don't know how to put it.
Anyways, what do you think? Does he just want to be my friend? or more...
By the way.. I won't rate you low, if you think he doesn't like me or something.. I want you to be completely honest.
OH..& sorry if we're not allowed to say we rate at all? I thought it was just as long as we don't say we rate high...
kthanks in advance.
he deffinately likes you girl!
I like this kid.... lets call him *bob*...... bob had a gf but she broke up with him cuz he cheated on her...... lets call his ex gf marie.... and the girl he cheated with alex.....i don't know why but i still like him....all my friends say i shouldn't like him because what he did to marie but i still like him and he's really nice to me and alot of people say he likes me, and he's gunna ask me out..... should i go out with him?
it's a risky move but if you really like bob then yeah you should, you don't wanna miss out on somethin that could turn out great! but you might wanna be extra careful because of what he did to marie, good luck x3
160lbs, 5'4.
i asked a question earlier about 'loosing 20lbs'. i lost 8lbs since then. w00t.
anyways, what i came here to ask was, is it possible for me to get a fourpack by the end of spring? and what excersises can i do for it?
probably! you could do a lot of crunches. like maybe 100 a night or 200-ok i know what your sayin, YOUR CRAZY, but just like break it up ya known maybe like if you do 100 do 50 and go get a drink or somethin and do another 50. its not so bad! i did it and i have a four pack =)
So lets see I don’t really hate her but I hate how she treats people
But before I get to that you should know that I don’t have many friends, and that I would say it is because of schools I’ve been to in the past where I was treated like absolute shit and my best friend was my super slicer (razor blade), but im not like that anymore but out of all of that came me not trusting people thus why I have no friends..anyway I hate my best friend because shes sooooooo judgemental of everyone and everything and I used to be just like that last year and I think that’s why we got along so well because im not like that anymore and I don’t want to be friends with her anymore because of how she is, but she makes me laugh and I know that when you get to know her shes a good person, but I know that I cant stand her judging, but if I stop being friends with her ill have no friends and then well yah I don’t want to go back there. SO WHAT WOULD YOU DO because im lost…and please if your going to just judge me dont say anything please.
i've been there girl! its like between a rock and a hard place. i had a best friend like that. i stopped being friends with her. because i couldn't take her judging all these people who were like nice and stuff and its like wtf ya know? then when i did i had a lot more friends because i didn't have her critizing everyone that i would say hi too and stuff, you gotta follow your heart and what you think will benefit you more, that's the best advice i can give ya
how do you wear them?
..also how do you wear them in cute/cool different ways?
like i mean how do you wear them wtih yoru jeans/
alright so with jeans. most just tuck the jeans inside the boot, skinny legged jeans work best but regular jeans work fine too. i've also seen people wear them with sweat pants and just like have the sweatpants like scrunched up at the top of the uggs and it looked cute
here's an example of jeans
http://static.flickr.com/77/153318426_bf6b099391_o.jpg
i couldn't find an example of sweatpants but it's all about what you like, hope i helped
hey...i got something on the edge of my lip and it looks like a cold sore but im not sure. It could be a pimple but there no puss in it and it's just red. its also small. Could it be a cold sore? Does that mean i have herpes? (BTW ive gotten just a few of them before) does that mean i haev STD"s?
please help!!!
alright calm down, it'll be alright. now you didn't say if you've ever had oral sex or anything so this is the best i can do for you
here's some information on cold sores:
http://www.cnn.com/HEALTH/library/DS/00358.html
and some for herpes:
http://www.herpes-coldsores.com/std/herpes.htm
you should ask your parents or doctor if you are very concerned. hope i helped