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Hello There!Erm where do I start?Well, my name is Vikki-Kimberly =)Im a good person. I dont bite =)I give people thousands of chances.I like to eat healthy... and... I have advice on practicly anything.I am in acting/signing/dancing groups.Yeah... Im just... easy to talk to. =)

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that gum makes your breath smell worse when making out with a guy?!

itt depends on whenyou have the gum. like if youve only had it in for like a minute. the mint taste orwhatever flavour you have will take over the scent in your mouth. however if you have been chewing it a while or whenthe gum starts to loose flavour then yes it create bad breath

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Me and my boyfriend have been dating for quite a while now, and we are really uite fond of each other :) He is just so amazing.

The only thing is, we are leaving for college soon, and will be hundreds of miles apart. I want to plan one last, special date night for him and I.

I just want some ideas of fun places to go, somethings to do on our last day together. I was thinking maybe going some places we have gone before to prom or something, to revisit. Also, I should let you know, we are not sexually intimate, so please don't include things of that nature in your plan ideas :D

Thanks!

ok ive got this idea from gilmore girls. why dont you have a few days.
ingilmore girls rorry and lorelli had some fundays before her going to yale while gathering school supplies. adapt this to your situation
maybe spend like two or three days together. watching films (gilmore girls where "going to watch the godfather" before their plans got ruined") lol. maybe go to your favorite restaurant. have alone time ;)
you know stuff you like to do wwuth each toher

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what are the solution of obesity


the only real solution is through excersize and dieting. that is slowly and gradually put into your lifestlye. meaning... cycle to work once a wweek for a coupole of weeks with the combinations of healthier meals. and then taking it up a notch so mayeb cycle to work more than once and take the staris. and carry on progressing until you are doing somehting like going to the gym for a proper workout.
also remember, the only way to really loose weight is to excert yourself (meaning you should feel tired) dont give up!

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So i really want my hair color to be like Rachele Brooke Smith's color. here are some pictures of her-

http://www.zombiehighmovie.com/Bios/rachele.jpg

http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_ZlXHZrVPO-0/Stcz2Y8o0MI/AAAAAAAAAIc/HEEGXRWFoeU/s400/Rachele+Brooke+Smith.jpg

http://thumbs.filmstarts.de/wallpaper/GirlsUnited5_scene_01.jpg

Her color is a brown but with red too.. i've tried to dye my hair like that but it always ends up being more brown than red. I've tried using Loreal's Dark Soft Mahognay Brown. and Revlons Dark Aubrun Brown. But they seem to make my hair more brown than red. How do i get that tint of red??

Anybody have any brands or types of dye they would recommend?? Thank you!

XXL is a good brand use the red that for darker hair. it made mine a browny red =)

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I fell in love with one my of my best friends and he fell for me, or at least that's what he told me, but he's in book camp and i hardly ever talk to him anymore. the night he left me and him hung out and we had sex, and it was the last time he or i had sex since he'd left...but when i talked to him today he said i was the only girl he wanted to be with intimately, i am worried he is lying, because he used to be some what of a player...i was wondering,...should i believe him? or just...let him go...??

bing in the marines is a tough business. he could be away for ages at a time. i wouldnt worry about it. while hes gona in sure the only one hed be thinking of is you. you have to remember all the rules marines have too.. like on intamacy whilst away.

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do you wear a bra to bed or no? (for females)

personally, i would feel uncomfortable but i just saw another question about this and i would like to keep my bras in better condition because the straps always get twisted.

it depends how im feeling really. i have a nightly preference.

some people say it ruins your bra but i have never noticed this. however you might want to use a not to supportful bra to bed if you are worried about gettin it ruined. i mean your in bed you dont need that supprt.

also a quick add on..w earing your bra to bed or not wearing it to bed will not stunt your growth. its a myth.

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If your going on a first date with a girl what do you like her wearing?

ok im not a guy. but i can give you some advice
any date i have been on i have always taken into consideration.. where im going. what part of town im in. wholl be around. and how im getting home etc.

wear something that is comfy and that is "you". i mean a first date can be stressful enough. if the guy doesnt like you for you he not worth the bother hon.

i dont know how old you are.. but ive been told that on the underwear department that a classy and respectfull girl should wear likewise underwear (if you have intentions of "doing stuff after) something that covers ya bum. so in other words. not thong g string.unless your comfotable enough to ask the guy himself and see what he prefers. i always tal to my dates before i go on them and get an understanding and clear image of what they like image wise and stuff although tbh it doesnt really matter that much

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Im 18, going to college in a month. My brother is already away at college, my parents have been married for 25 years. i know my dad is cheating. I have told my brother, but i havent told my mom because there is a very strong sense in me that my dad will kill himself or hurt himself if someone were to find out.. which happened to my best friends dad. It doesnt matter what other people say, in my head im 150% that it'd happen. because i know hes cheating and have to watch him lie to me and my mom every day, i have no trust from him. Our relationship was great before, we were with together every day. now, were never together unless its a family function, and we dont even talk. i know hes lying to me, and everytime he does i wanna snap on him and just scream out all my anger and hurt but i cant. It kills my heart deeply that im going away to college with no relationship with my dad.. i look foward to events like getting married, and him walking me down the isle and all that... and i dont see it, because were not even close at all. My mom doesnt know or sense anything cause she works nights, and me and my dad are never home during the day. ive gone to counseling.. and still there never found a solution so i stopped going.


I really need help. My trust for everyone in my life is gone, and i dont wanna lose something so important, my family or my relationship with my dad. Its the worst feeling in the world..

if it makes you feel better im in a simalar situation. minus the cheating.
i would tell him that you know.. and make it clear that you will not be part of his lie. meaning that he should stop or things could get ugly. and use that as an empty threat. he may not know what that "ugly situation" must be. but because he caused it he will think the worst. and it should encourage him to stop. maybe it could strengthen your bond between each other again. i know its a negtive impact but maybe it could be an exersize to build some trust.for you towards your dad. and your dad to build towards you. and he stops cheating. so more trust for the whole family really

on a finalnote. i strongly recommend talking to your brother. ask him for help. i dont know your family. you know them the best then any of use adivce nators. ask your brother for some adivce to. maybe send him the link to your question
goodluck

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I'm bulimic and tonight I just relapsed after 2 months of sobriety. I feel really down and I'm really just looking for motivating and inspiring words to get me back on track and to stop feeling like such shit. Anything will help.

Thanks in advance.

no one can expect anyone to stop something straight awa if its a habit they have had. so ofcourse your gonna get a bit of a relapse. most smoker have the same thing.

you need to ask yourself what made you feel you needed to and tackle that.

dont be scared. we all have downers. but look for the positivity in your statement. youvve lasted to months. thats a milestone. keep it up. no one ever got anywhere without trying. you can do it

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Ok uhh so when is it normal that when i use a tampon on my period it like doesnt last a whole week? it seems like it goes by alot faster..idk how to explain it ahha but is that weird or is just me idk! ahah thanks

blood will come out with its own rythm when using pads. so sometime can take ages.
however when using tampons your forcing it to soak up/ saturate and come out at the pace you want.. therefore it goes by faster as its not... dribbling out

sorry about the gory detail haha!

and yes its totally normal!

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for the past week i have been on a strict diet

ill have 80 calorie bread with eggwhites
for breakfast wih a coffeee (always use half and half)
lunch ill have a small froyo or skip it
dinner will be a protein or ccereall

as you can see i eat very little and im very strict.

today i had a froyo, then 2 bowls of fiber 1 (this equals 400 calories believe it or not) then for dinner i had a chicken salad.

however my weight keeps fluctuating. ill loose a pound then gain 2. i dont get it. i am hardley eating!!!!

please spare me the lecture about body going into starvation mode so you gain weight.....

why am i not loosing?

ok if you want to loose weight using this (notso great method) you need to GRADUALLY stop eating lots of calories.
AND workout.

the key to gettin slimmer is GRADUALLY introdrucing excersize and diet into your system.

not going BAM in one go cus your body will only protect itself from what its used to

gradually is the key word to this answer.

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Okay... I have a question. I am fifteen now, but I was fourteen at the time, and my bf was sixteen. When we were dating I was what you would call "whipped". I basically let my bf do whatever he wanted, except when he asked for a hand job. I kept telling him no, no, no. But one night we were hanging out and making out on the couch. We were getting pretty into it and all of the sudden he just pulled down his shorts, grabbed my hand, put it on his you know what, and started moving my hand with his hand. It happened so quick, it took me a second to realize what was going on and when I did I pulled my hand away and started crying. I never even talked to him about it after that... but now that were broken up it keeps coming back to me and I don't know why. It wasn't that bad was it?? I don't know what to do... why is this bothering me so muchh???

this is rape. ive had this happen to me.. altho a bit more advanced.
and i know EXACTLY what your feeling.. its wrong!
i didnt tell the police about getting raped as out situation is complicated. altho i think you should. especailly as you were only young!

it bothering you because you found it creepy. sso you never wanted to do it... which is why this boy forced you. so its freaking you out.
it might take time to get over it. but you will i promise.

and if you ever get in this kind of relationship again. get out of it. getting "whipped" is not a relationship.... its more like pet/owner. which isnt healthy.... you should be someones guinea pig.

i wish you good luck in getting over this.. and you will :)

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16/f
i'm wanting to tan, but i also want to be safe about it and not cause tons of damage to my skin. i've read online that you shouldnt over do it. i used to lay out for about an hour, 30 minutes on each side. is that too much? or should i only tan for about 30 minutes? i never burn. only tan. and of course i tan gradually, and i can tan pretty easily. i use a bronzer, with an spf of 4 on my body, and i use a sunscreen with spf 70 on my face, then every other time i use the bronzer. am i doing okay so far such as damage?

ORR you could be totally safe and fake it... mouse/gel and spray are the best options. lotion isnt a great option and use a gradual tanning one... not a wash off one.

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My boyfriend and I have been having sex for the past week. I let him cum inside me every time because of something he told me before. I mentioned this to my friend and she told me that he lied.

If you pee right after you have sex can you still get pregnant? My boyfriend told me that a girl who pees directly after intercourse can NOT get pregnant no matter what because everything is released into the toilet then and is like washed away. It sounded very convincing when he said it but when I was telling my friend it kind of sounded like he was just using me and that I'm stupid. What's the truth?

ok so down there us girls have three holes. the first one being the hole we pee from. (this hole is way to small to fit anythingin... no even a finger)

the second hole being where the dude would have had sex in. it the hole that was "made" for intercourse whenre girl bleed from etc etc etc.

the third is were we release waste from food so ya know but yeah

peeing after seex is good for UTIs (for the first hole)... but the intercourse would have happend in the second so if he cum inyou you are probally pregnant. take the test to make sure. and then i would sugest talkin to your doctor.

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what does flat to volume means? i just bought this shampoo and in the front it said "flat to volume" its pantene i love using pantene but i wanted to try a different kind. can some one explain to me what this means. thanks :)

it basically means you hair has more "life" to it.
for example greasy hair.. just brushed.. it usually very dead.. and flat. (some people have this kind of hair - minus the grease) it just naturally flat. so they might buy this shampoo to give it a bit more life

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i think someone lied to my friend! she told her that if she washes her hair in cold water it will shine better than any product could make it. does anyone know if this is really true?

if you KNOW for a FACT that it works can you tell us why does cold water make your hair shiny?

thanks a lot!

i usually give my hair a rise with some cold at the end. because i think it makes less tangly when ive washed it... it could be down to the previous comments about the cuticles =)

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I have been married for 5 years and have never been satisfied in the bedroom because of this 1 thing. My husband is great but this is really weird. I have this fantasy of him having sex with me while I am sleeping. It would be OK with me if I woke up during it as long as it started while I was asleep. I know this is not normal but it's what I really want. How do I approach him about this without sounding crazy or creepy?

bew honest with him. altho if you shy maybe apprach the subject with a question.
"imjust curious.. not that is a problem. but havbe you ever touched me while asleep, that sounds so kinky" or soemthing to that affect. then it gets the ball rolling :)

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15/f

hi. so this my be a weird question. but hey, this is what this site is for right?
well i hate hair (besides on my head).
well i was wondering if girls (but mainly guys) thinks its weird to shave my arms
i have before, but my step sister thought it was kind of weird.
well i would like opinions of this.
please and thank you.

i rarely shave my arms. i only do it if i feel self conscious about it.. and when i do i use removal cream so it grows back.. not stubbly... be careful though whatever you decide to do. i would go with not shave.. atho if you really dont like it
the first time use cream or removal spray so you can decide what look yyou like best without stubble

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I have been talking to this girl online for awhile now. She is really nice and kind even though she lives a few states away from me. I really enjoy chatting with her almost every evening. She has been a good friend to me.

Well, I am starting to have these feelings for her. I know she is real and is who she says she is so please don't go on about how she could be a serial killer posing as a teenage girl. She has been completely honest with me and there is so much about her that I really like and want.

Is it wrong to have feelings for her? She has only been an online friend to me even though I've had these feelings starting for a little while now. Should I tell her that I like her? Should I try to turn my online friendship into a relationship? Even if I don't pursue a relationship with her should I still tell her that I'm developing these...feelings?

Thank you.

i say do it :) im in the best relationship ever through and online meeeting =)

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my parents are divorced and my mom got remarried. my step dad has 2 step sons and every since i first met the youngest one, i liked him alot. then when my mom and step dad got married i didnt stop liking him but i knew that nothing could happen between us so i tried to forget about it. but we are really close we have a good bond and all then he told me he liked me and i didnt know what to do!! it is so confusing! i told him it would be awkward but i still dont wanna push him away to where he wont talk to me. please help!!

as you are not actually related i think its ok.. at least in UK law i think. ive known a girl and a guy(who were going out) for there (seperated/single) parent to get married. and it be okay with the law.
but still your parent might not like it. its a tough situation. talk to your step bro about it too.
i personally think you should jsut be friends.

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