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im a female and i live in pa
i have brown hair with blonde streaks and green eyes .. i think
my birthday is Feb. 23

i play basketball.

i luv giving advice. its something i enjoy and im helping people also. even tho im still young i have been through alot; especailly with my family and friends. i will answer your questions to the best of my ability.

if you need anything just drop one in my inbox..or you can im me...i am on alot.
i will answer any questions asap that are in my inbox. i never reject any questions.


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Hi well see my locker mate is the hottest guy in school and well I was standing at our locker and he came up and asked me out when he already had a gurlfriend!!! I couldnt say no then his gurlfriend came up and asked why was he french kissing me and he said that they were threw and she slapped him!! he called me 10 minutes ago asking if he could stay the night with my older bro and heis over here right now what do I do?!!! we sit together and stuff but then we make out like there's no tomorrow!!! my friend came in on us and she isnt talking to me why??? Plz I really need ur help His name is Jason and he's from france! what did I do to make my friend mad at me?

shes prolly mad either because u didnt tell her about it or she really liked him. good luck.

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I'm in my early twenties. I was raped as a teenager and never told my parents. Should I ever tell them? If they knew, they might be able to understand me better (I've got some psychological issues) but I don't want to upset them - if they knew, they'd be so so sad and would probably feel like it's their fault somehow. Is it worth it to tell them, or is this something that's best to keep from them?

i would say to tell them, i think that they have a right to know...but good luck

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Ok. my friend and I have a rather odd relationship. We're good friends, and we talk all the time online, but we feel like we can't talk when we see each other because his other friends are there, and 3 out of the 4 of them that are there really don't like me for reasons I don't know. They don't like it that he even callls me a friend and I know, that sounds really stupid. I personally am not terribly worried about peer pressure, I'm pretty cool under it, but he's not. He lets things get to him. We're both kind of sick of hiding that we're friends, but telling the other guys to get over it won't help. The other guys think that's it terrible that he's friends with my best friend, (they don't like her much either) and both he and I know that they'd REALLY hate it if they knew that he was friends with me.
Any ideas of how to be able to admit we're friends, and not have anyone get hurt at all?

it shouldnt matter if u guys are friends. try to hang out with him more. but it woudlnt be fair to him if he had to pick. good luck

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OK...me and my best friend have been friends for about 4 years. we always talked about moving in together after high school and being friends forever. Well we are both seniors in high school and now that this time has come were both looking to get an apartment together. Well she met this kid who is 20 and he wants to move in with us too. I said that it was fine bc he is a really nice kid. Well she has another bf who doesn't know about this kid who is moving in with us. I really like her other boyfriend (as a friend) and i really like the kid who is moving in with us too. The problem is is that she is leading her other boyfriend into thinking that she is going to be with him forever. Ive tried to talk to her about it but she doesn't wanna listen. The only reason she is with this guy who is moving in with us is that he gives her everything she wants. He lets her drive and she doesn't have her permit or license and when im in the car with them i dont wanna get caught cuz i dont want my license taking away. Well i've tried and tried to talk to her about it but the only thing she says to me is that she needs to see her other bf (who lives and hour away...the guy who is moving in with us only lives 10 mins away) to decide whether or not she wants to be with him. Well we already looked at aprtments and are moving in the next 2 months. I dont know wut to tell her anymore because i dont want anyone to get hurt!! can someone please hlpe!! sorry this was long!! ill rate good!!

well since you have tried talking to her and that hasnt work. maybe you should try talking to the guys. that or tell her to choose one of the guys. because that really isnt fair to her boyfriend. good luck...i hope i helped..

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ok so me and my ex-boyfriend broke up after about 3 months of seeing eachother...he said that he found someone new. Well we didn't talk for about a month and now about a week ago he IM's me online and was like hey whats up and i was very hesitant to talk to him bc he really really hurt me bad and i loved him and all and i thought he loved me (he told me he did but i didn't think it was true). Well he asked me if we could talk. So i went to meet him at our usual spot that we used to chill and he was like how have you been and everything. I asked him why he started talking to me again and he said bc he felt bad about everything and said that he acted like an A**hole. which is true. Well then i asked him how him and the other person he met was doing and he told me that it didn't work out between them. I was like oh okay. We hooked up and i knew i shouldnt of an now i like him ALOT again. I dont know if he only is talking to me bc it didn't work out with the other girl or what! can someone please help!! sorry its so long ill rate u high if u answer! thanx!!

i would trust him..

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I have this piece of hair that won't lay down on my head. I have this hair style where you twist your hair and use a claw to clamp it 2gether. this one piece won't lay down w/ gel or water or my perm junk please help i'll rate high (except for Snake Eyes) SO DON"T ANSWER SNAKEYES

i would just cut it off if its just a piece

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it's a little bit of both love life and friendships...ok well,

Me and my best guy friend started going out today. But, there was this really cool guy that I liked and he liked me...and everytime I would go to my guy friend's house (Brandon), he would ask me if I did anything with him...I would tell him no (which was the truth) that I would never/liked doing things with him (which was the truth once again). Then we started going out...I still like him and Brandon...but Brandon is going to move and I would really like a chance with him...(we've been friends since we were like 2...) I don't know wut to do....HELP PLEASE!!!

figure our which one u like more. if u like brandon then use the time that u have with him.

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Ok, There is this boy, Lets call him J, Well J is a good friend Of mine, Well there is this girl called Alissa, she is sorta my friend but she likes him because he is hot and because he is a prep and because me and my friend Brandi like him, so she thinks she can have him, Well she is going to ask him out and I am not going to do anything about it and I warned J that I will hate him if he gos out with her and also why she wants him. He said he doesn't know what he is going to say if she asks him, I dont want this to happen...Anything I can do?

trust him
goood luck

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ok, i have been going out with this guy for maybe 2 and a half weeks. then i keep seeing him talking to this other girl that already has a bf. so i didn't think about it but now he is writing stuff on his hand saing stuff like i love then someones name but he won't let me or my friends c. then his friend said he wrote i love then then the girls name who he was talking 2, but he said he wrote my name....who do i believe and how do i know if i am going to get dumped? HELP ASAP!

if he means alot to u trust him. but just keep a close eye out in case..good luck..i hope everything works out!

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Okay so a few things happened and someway or another I ended up not spending enough time with my old friends and more time with my boyfriend and a new group of friends. It's come to a climax and now I have to choose. My best friends or my boyfriend. I love my boyfriend more than anything on this planet and he makes me the happiest alive. No amount of: friend's come first will change that. I don't know what to do.

well why do you have to choose, ppl shouldnt make u choose between them. but good luck.

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How do you fall OUT of love with someone you do not want to be in love with??? And how do you do that when you have to be around that person alot?

just find someone else...but no matter what, ull always have feelings for them:-/

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Basically, I'm torn between two people. One is my boyfriend whom I really care about. He knows how I feel about this second guy. The second guy is a friend I've known for over a year. We both recognize that there is a real attraction between us, but up to know, we've mutually decided to ignore it.
I always feel like I can never split my time evenly enough between the two of them. When I'm with one, the other is calling me or getting pissed that I have to go.
I don't want to stop spending time with either one, I care about them both a lot.
So should I just get them both to get over it or what?

i would say get over it and pick one. becuase its not fair to either of them.

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(*Names changed to protect the innocent)
My Boyfriend *Mickie is the so sweet and nice to me! I really like him...he is also very cute. He treats me like a princess. Well before Mickie asked me out i had a big crush on *Ronnie but Mickie asked me out and i forgot about it for awhile. Lately I find myself flirting with Ronnie, and i like it. I am really drawn to him. But i dont want to break up with mickie...he is so nice.

its all ur decision. find out which one you like more. which one makes you more happier the one that you think you will have a future with. good luck!

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ok...i already talked o you a second time....but i couldnt find my answer.....so....i wan to do it agin......could you just answer this the same as my other...........(o by ;the way..this is the guy that wants to spend more time with his girl)....

just dont be shy. go up to her in the rhall and talk to her. or if ur skool has any soccer, football, or like baseball or any sport you 2 could go and just like hang out!..good luck..let me know if you need anything else!

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ok..its me again.the guy that barely spends time with the girl he likes......ok....umm...well...now its kinda "out"..that me and her like eachother....like everyone knows and stuff......but....me and her havent really connected in awhile...like had a convo or anything like that.........she doesnt even look at me when i pass her in the halls now.it just seems like everythings fallin apart......what would you do if you were me?

i would prolly talk to her about it. maybe she was pissed about something. talk to her!!! dont be shy or anything. just go up to her and be likes whats going on or something....good luck!

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Well, Ive liked this guy named Wesley for a while, and hes not supper popular but I stil like him and stuff. So, my friends asked him if he liked me because I was too much of a chicken. So then he was like "i want her to tell me" so i did, and he still isnt telling me anything. I kinda think he likes me and all his friends tell me that, so What should I do, why do u think he isnt telling me anything?

well is he shy? idk just ask him out. take the risk. cuz you may regret it later...good luck!

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My best friend likes this boy alot and they went out but then they broke up and now he likes me but i mean hes cute and everything but i really honestly dont have feelings for him like a boyfriend and she thinks i do! AND..he told her that we werent gunna go out b/c of her, and i never said that!.. but that is 1 reason but another reason is that i dont even like him! im soo mad b/c i hate having her mad at me b/c shes my best friend.. i tired talking to her but i know she doesnt believe me..what esle should i do ?

there isnt much else to do but to tell her that and even tell the guy that. and keep telling her that. just keep at it. but u cant make some one belive u. if she doesnt belive u than she isnt that good of a friend. cuz friends should belive ya know matter what...good luck!

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I have been datin my bf for 4 months now...the only problem is is that he lives in nebraska and i live in florida...well we talk all the time on the phone and on aim...and i am going to go see him for thanksgiving...i can totally see me and this guy together in the future...the bad thing is is that there is this guy who goes to my skool and i kinda like him...and he likes me...but i made the decision to stay with my bf in nebraska...do you think i made the right decision??? please help and thanx for your advice

well there is no right or wrong decision its more of ur opinion. if u think that u and ur bf from nebraska have a long future together and u trust him than yea..good decision. but just dont regret it.

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This boy i really like called me on the phone.... we talked for a few minetes but i ran out of things to say so i told him i had to go but i would call him later tonight. I really need advice on what to talk about I REALLY LIKE HIM .. but i get nevorous and dont know whta to sya .. plz help me on some topics to talk about or things to get over my fear with

well u could ask him how sports are going of he plays any sports or ask him how skool is going. or u could ask him who he likes...thats always a good one.

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I have a problem with guys that I like that are more than just a guy friend. I know its a little first grade and I shouldn't be doing that anymore. I think its because of what happened with my first boyfriend when we went out he used me in a mean way. So I think that I have a problem, like I think my new boyfriend will do the same. I just don't want guys to think I am prude because I get all...I can't explain it. I just hate my first boyfriend. :(

**PeRmAnEnTlY DaMaGeD PoSsiBlY**

ur not permanently damaged. if u dont go out with someone of trust them like u did ur first bf then ull never get anywhere. learn from ur mistakes. but dont let hiim ruin ur life.

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