Member Since: July 20, 2006
Answers: 188
Last Update: July 29, 2011
Visitors: 9154
|
| |
|
how can you grow your hair faster (link)
|
I hope this helps ....
http://wiki.answers.com/Q/How_do_you_make_your_hair_grow_faster_and_longer
or
http://www.hairboutique.com/tips/tip214.htm
or try other ones just type in what your looking for , there's a lot of advice on there.
Hope it helps!
Good luck girl : )
- Hope you succeed with your hair!
|
Hello,
I have been married for 2 years. My husband seems to feel the need to have female friends. One female friend he has known a very long time and they are like brother/sister.I am actually fine w/their friendship. Today I want out of town and he told me she was going to spend the night at our place as she lives far away. I told him I felt very uncomfortable w/any female spending the night while I am not there. So now he is mad at me,does not see my point and thinks I am wrong for my views on this.
I do have an issue w/his other female friend. They worked together for 1 year and have seemed to develop a very close friendship. I found out that he was holding money for her, they would have lunch at work together. There were rumors of them having an affair. I told him there friendship was way too close but again, he does not see anything wrong w/it.
I don't know what to do and how to make him see my side. We all know if the tables were turned he would feel the same way! (link)
|
Well , I think to be honest the husband she be glad he has you by his side no matter what. Why does he need more females? Why that one in particular? If he was mad about it obviously some of the rumours were true and something might have happened because why would he ask to have come over the night , the night YOU are going out of town.... if he did not care , he would not get mad at you. The thing is he is mad so he has a problem with it because there is something going around with it , while if he was not mad he would accept your view and let it slide , he would not mention it in the first place unless it was an emergency like going bankrupt no place to stay sort of thing. Also , a brotherly/sister relationship... well you and him should have that relationship first since you guys are SOUL MATES. You should sit down and talk to him more since you guys are fully committed. My advice to you is think this through , keep in site where this might go regarding their friendship , and do not get too fussy about it , just act cool. I am sorry to hear this. I hope it works out.
Good luck girl : )
- You'll score him back anytime!
|
This is quite a long story. please bear with me.
17/f
There's this boy. he and i have been pretty close friends for more than 5 years. When we were younger, we had a little crush on eacother, but we were young, and nothing ever came out of it. A few years after that, when we were about 14, we started talking and i was convinced we were going to end up together. That year, i went on vacation, and when i came back, he had a girlfriend. (ive always hated this girl, just throwing that in there). I was upset with him for a while, but we weren't actually dating or anything, so i did the mature thing and didnt make a big deal out of it. We stayed friends since then.
now here's the "good" part. About a year ago, he and i were talking, and he told me that he's always (and stil has) had feelings for me. (He's still with the same girl from earlier in the story). So when he told me this, i got very excited because i still liked him too. A few months after he told me this, i moved to a new school an hour away. We've been talking since i moved, which was 9 months ago.
A few months ago, probaly in like, june, he tells me he wants to leave his girlfriend of 2 years, because 1. Things between them havent been so great, and 2. he wants to be with me. So since then, we've been talking every night for hours. He still hasnt broken up with her because he doesn't want to hurt her (so he tells me). he always tells me how sorry he is that he can't man up and leave her for me, and i know it sounds like a bunch of crap, but i believe him. A few weeks ago, we met up to hang out. And we kissed. While he still has a girlfriend. I feel super guilty because he still has a girlfriend, but i strangely don't regret it at all. In fact, i think id do it again.he just left for college 5 hours away. His girlfriend is clueless that he and i are even talking.
Am i "the other woman"? Does that make me a bad person? I can't take this anymore, its way too much stress. But i REALLY want to be with him. help?? Thanks so much (link)
|
Well , in a way watch out because what he did to his girlfriend he might do to you one day. I think if he does not break up with her soon , then i'm not sure if he has the guts to. If he really does not want to be with her , he would have or will soon dump her. You are the other woman in the sense the women no one knows about. It does not make you the bad person because you've liked this guy and you've known him for so long , but you should have not kissed him , imagine what his gf would do , would you be happy if someone did that to your bf? I am sure you would not , I think you should not do that again because it will hurt you , others and them ( bf and other girl involved) If you really want to be with him wait for him and show him you will wait for him or if you love him set him free and see if comes back. I think you should wait till they seperate to coninute it even though you said that you would do it again since his girlfriend did not know. My advice to you is yes you are the other woman , and no it does not make you a bad person you just decided to take a bad decision and you can always fix that. Do not stress over it , it will work out just fine , just be patient and keep talking and see where it goes.
Good luck girl : )
- You and him will rock the world
|
|
alright i am a 16 year old girl turning 17 next month going into my senior year, i feel like everyone in my grade has had sex, i feel a lot of girls feel so nonchalant about it all. I have had a boyfriend and i personally don't think i am ugly, i have never had sex before and i haven't met the right guy i feel i could do that with but i feel kind of insecure i feel that i should of had sex already considering im almost going to college i feel kind of like a loser i don't know i just wanna hear your thoughts on this & what i should do? please no hateful comments :) (link)
|
Well that is good you said you are waiting for the right guy , and that is a good start , good job. Do not rush anything , it is sex , that is something that no one should rush into or feel like a loser for not doing it, in fact your the winner because your taking your time to wait and wait for the right guy if not possibly to marriage , to someone you really enjoy being around and happy. I am really glad you are asking and seeing , but do not care what other people think , as long as you are happy. My advice to you is I think you should wait , your not missing out on anything , just wait for the right man or marriage , do not feel like a loser , your far way beyond that. Feel so secure because you are doing the good choice.
Good luck girl : )
- Keep it up , do not waste your treasure
|
|
I am getting a Masters in Psychology. A lot of my motivation has been to make my parents proud because they always complain that I'm lazy and they are sometimes scared that I won't succeed in life. So it really hurt me with I overheard my mom tell my grandma that I walk around like I'm on a high horse; as if I demand constant praise because I got into a Masters program which I think is rediculous! I think she's jealous of me because my life is awesome and she, in turn, hates her job and has to deal with a lot of crap from my dad. How should I handle her negative feelings toward me? (link)
|
Wow , congradulations , that's great news. Ah well ,you never know , maybe she is just stunned or she was talking before you got in or knew about it. I think your mom is just happy for you that you got it , maybe she does not have a good way to come in and say it because she did not expect it to happen right. I think you should just be happy for you and just do not mind her negativeness , I guess she needs to get use to it do not worry. My advice to you is just be yourself , complete it , have faith , do not let her interfere and get to you , she will calm down , sooner or later. Everything turns to positive , so will you and she.
Good luck girl : )
- Do a good job at it , best of luck
|
|
Hey so i posted a question about this already, but it didn't make sense. So i have a friend and ever since she's become a christian and well she always thinks that her point of view is right and we always end up getting in a fight about it. She treats me like crap. On Saturday she didn't want to watch this movie and wanted to watch something else and kept saying it was bad because they were cursing, and i told her i didn't care what she though. And she said well you wouldn't be saying that. And the weekend before i was eating and watching a movie and i came back and i said out loud that i didn't understand the movie and she rudely replies with well maybe if you weren't eating and paying attention to the movie and i got mad and started telling her off. She's such a bitch. I mean i try to talk to her but she just says well your mean too and justifies what she does be cause she thinks what she does is ok. I am getting sick of her. And not only that whenever we hangout i'll ask her what time and she says oh i don't know. And whenever we do hangout and this happens a lot but not all the time, she always wants me to come over to her house. it's annoying. noto nly that but she'll say something rude to me and then i'll say something back and will be like i don't care what you think i have jesus in my life. blah blah blah. I don't know what to do. it bothers me a lot even though in a way it doesn't matter because she's leaving on friday. what should i do? (link)
|
Wow , well let the girl be on her own for a bit then , if she is leaving Friday , why should you care? You said your sick of her and she is so annoying , so should you be happy about it then since your not happy with what she is doing and acting? I think you should talk to her or her parents or her other friends or your parents or get advice from a coucillor or anyone like that in particular.That is really rude of her , but she can get better and have a better soul. My advice to you is , you should go and and talk to her , if that does not work , then when she moves send her an email or something so you guy's do not see eachother face to face (or eventually) or even do it face to face if you want , really. I just think you should be sure what you want because this is really not something to fight over. It will get better, do not worry.
Good luck girl : )
- Do not let her get to you!
|
|
So. My ex boyfriend and I had dated for seven months. Then one morning, he broke up with me in a text message. He said he didn't want to be tied down anymore. He was sixteen at the time, I was fourteen at the time. He's sixteen now, I'm fifteen now. It's been three months since the break up. While we were dating things were pretty bad. He pressured me into a looot of stuff. Like fingering. He physically forced me to give him a hj. And he made me feel guilty for months until I finally gave him a blowjob. He dumped me four days after the bj. I was messed up while we were dating... I honestly don't know who that person was. I was totally whipped, and I don't know why I thought anything he did was okay... but I did. Since the split I've realized how bad it was, and I'm a lot stronger. Thing is, after we broke up things were still bad for about a month. He told everyone how far we'd been, saying "she put out. like we made out all the time, and she gave me head." he even spread a rumor that we had sex saying "when I was on top, I thought I was gonnna break her cause she's so tiny. But she let me do wahtever I wanted. I coulda stuck it up the ass if I felt like it." Just stupid, stupid stuff. One day he'd say he wanted me back, the next he'd tell me I was stupid bitch. It was horrible. We stopped talking for a month. Then he apologized. After a shitty relationship, two months of hell, he said he was done being a dick. Then we were okay... I guess. We've been trying out this whole friends thing for about a month. It's been pretty shaky. But now one of our mutual friends has told me that my ex has been talking shit to him. Saying he didn't wanna be around me because I am immature. IIIII am immature. ME. Excuse me??? Immature people do what he did when we were dating. Immature people break up in texts. Immature people break promises and spread stupid rumors. Mature people take all of that shit without ONCE acting back. No revenge. Ever. Mature people look past what's happen and decide to be the bigger person to make things okay. I'm immature??? I don't think so. I'm pissed. The mutual friend has a certain theory about my ex. He says that my ex broke up with me because he was scared of how intense his feelings were getting for me. He says he just says that stuff to cover up how bad he feels about what's happen. That told everyone how far we went/spread those rumors to cover up him hurting about the breakup. And that he says the immature stuff to cover up him wanting to be around me... but I don't think thats it!!! I don't know what to do. Should I bring it up with my ex?? I mean... if we're trying ot be freinds... I don't know. I just don't want to stir shit up... What should I do??? (link)
|
How well do you know this friend? Only trust it from your ex's mouth , not someone elses , if you hear that coming from your ex's mouth and with some proof then you believe it , other then that do not believe a word ANYONE EVER says. See , why do you want to even go back to your ex or even try to be friends , ignore him and delete him. Guy's who force you , who ruin you , who imitate you , harass you , spread rumours about you , and etc , are NOT REPEAT NOT WORTH IT. I think you should leave this all alone and get away from him and this friend , do not even bother with it. If you still like him after this , no idea how you could , but IF you do , then go and talk to him about it , but seriously your just wasting your time. If someone dumps you over a text message and starts rumours , he is immature and not worth it. Plus , he pressured you and whipped you... THE GUY IS SUPPOSE TO BE WHIPPED , not the girl... and obviously he broke up with you because he knew you did something you did not want to do since you said PHYSICALLY FORCED.... I suggest you really stop even trying to fix this , I mean you can , but do not go back to him , that's ridiculous. He made those rumours up because he was mad you would not do that stuff and it took long enough , unless you really did have sex with him and stuff. My advice to you is no do not say anything , I mean you can if you want , just do not make a drama deal about this , that is stupid. Do not let him trick you.
Good luck girl : )
- Make a wise choice.
|
|
ok so my friend cheated on her boyfriend and is trying to hide it obviously. we were hanging out with a bunch of people and the guy i really like was there. she likes him too. (even though she has a boyfriend) another friend was saying how she cheated on her boyfriend with some guy we meet in the city one night. so she tried to cover it up by saying that i had sex with him, in front of everyone at the party, not her. now the guy i like thinks i'm a slut and a bad friend for leaving my friend to go have sex with the guy we met at the city. and its all because she doesn't want this guy to think she's a cheater. do you think this is a little f*cked up or is it just me? what should i do? (link)
|
Wow , alright first off , if this is the way your FRIEND is treating you , leave her now. You can not let a girl like this ruin your life. If you do not like it , leave her. If you really like this guy , go for him. I think he should believe you though , if he does or does not know you either way , he should have asked you first instead of listening to some girl talking for you. If a guy like that seems to believe stuff like that , he is too gullible , and when a guy is gullible , it never turns out good. I suggest if you really like him go and talk to him about it , or if you do not like him then go leave it alone , and do not let your friend walk over you like that , that is not right at all. You have a voice so use it instead of her speaking for you and lying to everyone , especially her boyfriend. I feel sorry for her boyfriend , he is probabaly all in love with her while she is covering up a lie that will hurt him , I do not think you should leave it alone unless you want to see him hurt , and if if you friend get's mad that's her fault because she should not have done that in the first place. Also , if she tells you that your not a friend for doing that , you should say think again , or think twice before you act. That is not right. My advice to you is that is just rude , stubborn , selfish , and destructive. I think you should really go either talk to that guy , or your friend , or even your parents or other family or friends. You need to step up and show her who is boss. It is like you are her bait she can use you for covering something up , I understand if she did something a little less bad , but that do not let her walk over you like that.
Good luck girl : )
- Score back your man , don't let some lying chick take him away from you.
|
Lets say you are friends with benefits with a guy, but you have never talked about the status of your relationship with each other, as in you were clueless whether he was having sex with other girls as well (but the girl does mention to the guy she's been "talking" -hint hint nudge nudge, know what I mean- with other guys).
Over the course of the months, they become best friends, and then in a relationship. Whilst in the relationship, neither guy nor girl has cheated or done anything remotely bad. But guy didn't realize that girl had slept with other guys since she met him, and gets mad. He forgives her, but girl feels horrible and regretful about her past, and guy is horrified and embarrassed by it, because its a small university where everyone knows everything.
Ultimately, huge misunderstanding, because girl has always wanted to be honest with guy since day one, and felt she has, yet she doesn't blame guy for feeling the way he does. Yet now she feels like he will hold her past against her and won't be able to fully forgive or forget about it.
What should she do? She apologized to her boyfriend, and told him how ashamed she is of her past (she was going through a rough time, but boyfriend doesn't know the extent of it). Girl fears things will never be the same again, but they're working on things.
Anything more she can do? And what she did, was it really that bad? She did mention in pretty obvious (but I guess not very blunt terms) that she was with other guys since she met him, but since they had the "I have feelings for you talk" she's done nothing. Oh, and guy hasn't done anything with other girls since he met this girl. (link)
|
To be honest, you have done enough , it is up to him to see if he want's to continue what you guys had. It is okay for him to be mad , that's normal , and sooner or later it will be forgiven. Why does she not tell the(her) boyfriend the extent of it since it might (will) come up sooner or later just how this came out the same time. At least he can trust her because she told him and that takes gut's and it show's she cares and she is really sorry and regret's everything , especially to hurt him. Obviously , this guy really likes her if he did not do anything with other girls on the same time he has been seeing this girl. This girl did the bad decision , but maybe now it finally hit her to learn a lesson. The lesson is to not hurt anyone especially people that love her and she loves back or she just loves back or vice versa. It is not a good choice , it is not that bad , but it is bad. You need to understand that what she did , she can not repeat , that is a bad choice. My advice to you is she should wait , she did her part and hopefully she learned from it. The girl has to be patient now in order to fulfil what has gone wrong. She has to wait for the guy and give him some time , to see what he will do next , if it is worth it or is not. It was not that bad , but it was bad what she did and she should NOT do it again , repeat should NOT. I'm sure the guy and the girl can work on it though and make something work. If he really has feelings for her and she really has feelings for him then it is bound to work for sure.
Good luck girl : )
- Best wishes.
|
|
I really want a hermit crab but I have to convince my mom. I already have a spot for his caage in my room and i know basically everything there is to know about hermit crabs. please help me convince her. (link)
|
I would say , start off by showing her where the spot is for the cage , tell her you will go and feed him and it's your responsibility and you will do everything. Keep asking for it so it shows you really want it. Tell her everything you can about hermit crabs and you'll be good. Don't let anything happen to not convince her. My advice to you is don't let anyone stop you getting it , and please if you really want it show her you really want it , convince her you know her best with what she gets convinced with the most.
Good luck girl : )
|
|
I've been with my boyfriend for five years. Last year we broke up but then got back together 5 months later. We've almost been back together for a year. We broke up becos I felt unappreciated, there was no romance, and it got so boring that I was going crazy. It's actually worse since we've gotten back together. There's never any thank yous or appreciation shown when I do things for him. He helps me out financially so I feel indebted to him. I'm afraid of making the wrong decision if I leave. Where do you draw the line? (link)
|
Well , I think it should end now. Look at it , you get back together and your not happy , and like you doesn't show you any affection , no romance , you even said it was boring , so don't waste your time. If you think you can be with him financially , that's not a good start. Money can never over power love and you need to realize that. Don't ever choose a guy or take one back because of the money , you'll be miserable. I'd say don't waste your time. My advice to you is draw the line where you want it to be drawn because so far you have showed you don't like him , but then again your in for the debt. Don't take the wrong way. There's so many guys out there that you can feel so much better around , don't waste your time on yourself precious.
Good luck girl : )
|
I feel like my crush makes silly excuses to talk to me. He asks me questions that I almost know for a fact that he already knows the answers to. It makes me think "duh, he likes me," but sometimes the signs aren't that clear. He's nice to me, as he is to everyone, but I don't typically find him staring at me every second. He's smiles and/or waves when we see eachother or make eye contact. One thing I have noticed is that if I see him from far away, it feels like he will suddenly turn or act a bit startled. Haha. But on some days there is zero interaction between us and it leaves me feeling like he doesn't like me. I'm a grade and a year older than him which leads me to think that he thinks that I'm unattainable. Could this be the reason that he hasn't made serious efforts to become closer?
All this said, I'm a pretty doubtful of my ability to interpret his behavior because in the past I have admitted to guys that I like them only to find that the feelings were only one-sided :/. Hence why I will probably not tell him how I feel until I graduate. I know it's cowardly of me, but I don't want to go through the hassle of awkwardness again.
So...what does everyone think?
Yay, nay?
Thanks :). (link)
|
Hm well maybe he just doesn't want anything at the moment , obviously something is bothering him or hes a hard thinker if you startled him. I don't think the age really matters , but you never know right. I think this guy either wants to be on his own or hes a really nice guy. Maybe he doesn't want any kind of attachment or he's just a really shy guy who doesn't show his feelings. I think you should keep it low and see what happens , see if any contact continues and from there you'll know. If he likes you no matter what he will come to you , so don't worry girl. My advice to you is go out and see what happens and I don't think the age difference is the factor , but it could be. What i'm saying is there is no actualy distinction that he likes you or doesn't like you, try making him go into a conversation see if he tries to keep it up or just leaves. It could really help.
Good luck girl : )
wish the best!
|
|
I'm a fifteen year old girl and lately I've felt like I'm not good enough for my parents. They always concentrate on my weaknesses and not my strengths. Even the smallest things get me in trouble but when I try to talk to my parents about how I'm feeling, they shut me out. Even on good days I'll get ignored when I talk or they'll roll their eyes at me and say I'm just trying to be dramatic and get attention. When I get mad I start yelling and then I get in more trouble and my parents REALLY won't listen to me. They're hypocritical and judgmental and I don't know what to do. I feel like I can't really talk to them even though I'd love to be able to tell them how I feel and be able to talk out our problems. They just shut me out when I try to work with them so we can fix our relationships. What should I do? (link)
|
Hm well seems they are doing this to make you stronger. Some people yell at you and concentrate on your weaknesses so you can get stronger and more superior. I think you should leave it alone, don't get in the way so much , I think the more you try to they will shut you out more. Maybe they just want you to become independent. Don't worry , your parents love you they just don't want anything bad to happen to you , they want you to succeed. Try just making jokes or bringing back old memories , it might work you never know. Just don't try to invade them because it won't work the best. My advice to you is don't get in the way so much and just calmly walk away and they love you remeber that.
Good luck girl : )
|
My good friend came over to my house and started to try to find my "tickle spots" and wanting to massage me on the places that i have muscle pain. He also tried to lift me in a playful way. He also said "I can't get over how soft your skin is."
I'm wondering if my guy friend likes me more than a friend. (link)
|
Well seems to me he likes you a bit or he's just really interested in you or he's just a guy who's looking for some fun. I think he likes you , if he wants to massage you and go into your places , i'm pretty sure he's interested if he wasn't he wouldn't tickle you or massage you or even give a commpliment like that. I think he does like you more then a friend , he helped you and he made you feel good. You should see where it goes. My advice to you is yes I think he likes you more then a friend , but to be sure keep seeing what more can happen between you guys to make it official. If he is lifting you up and massaging you and all those , he's definatley flirting with you meaning he is interested in you and he wants you to be happy and hes giving you compliments. He is interested and he does like you.
Good luck girl : )
|
|
I have this problem where everything has to be perfect like everything has to be clean organized and perfct in every way at home and at work and if its not I freek out .people think I have an attitude becase I have to have to be perfect in everything I do no place for error and people don't like that especaly when its not done right to my standards but I'm in a good mood only when things are clean and organized but when its not I'm in a bad mood but that's me and it is taking over my life to where no one likes me .I see my self better than most people and to me most people are slobs .so what is my problem I have no clue .does anybody know I'm cluless (link)
|
Well that's good you strive for perfection. You need to accept that error is okay and that what makes you better by making errors and being able to like not be so picky. I think that because of what is happening it is getting worse , and you need help. Get out with friends , do not try to stay away from your whole organized and pretty nicley done up standards , you'd be amazed. That's a great quality to have , but it's taking you to a bad road. It's okay you think most people are slobs , but that's just life. no one is perfect and you got to accept that. Your problem is that you just need help , meaning you want to have everything too perfect , but at the same time you get mad at people for your hobby. try to limit what you do and clean and organize less , I know it's hard , but you have to do it. Just don't let it control your life. My advice to you is clean less try to get into something is like cleaing and organization and switch so then you won't hurt anyone's feelings. I'm sorry that that is happening , but if it get's too far then , I think you should go see a councillor or something among those lines , or occupy yourself with something.
Good luck girl : )
|
|
I don't know why, I know I shouldn't feel like this. But why do I? I just got off of work, I just worked tax free weekend for about 8 hours today straight. Seeing my boyfriend's face makes me feel a lot better, when he dropped food off at my workplace, he just left since it was his friend's birthday. Then later, he told me that after he found out I was eating in the back, he wasn't going to join me anymore but now he was on his way home and stuff since he had a this morning and it didn't go away. I felt really bad, but he told me himself he was leaving right when he left me the food. Then, when I finally got done with work, I texted him that I was really tired and everything and I was on my way back to my house. I see him everyday, I was expecting to see him. But it turns out he was helping my sister move out of the house. I started feeling a bit disappointed, I start school tomorrow, I'm tired, and my coworkers got me really upset. I just wanted to see him. I feel like I was being selfish but I let him help out my sister. My sister texted me saying that his phone died and that he was with her, then she asked if that was a problem. I didn't feel the need to answer her because I know her, she's basically giving me the attitude. She always does that. If she respects me, I'll respect her. Just because she's older doesn't mean that she can disrespect me, and I still have to give her any respect. So I thought he would come back soon, so I took a nap since I was exhausted and I thought time would fly by that way. He didn't. I woke up every hour, and right now it's eleven at night. His car is still outside. My mom and my sister is still gone. Why do I feel like this? Am I being too selfish? (link)
|
Well hey that's okay , seems like you like him. Well you should trust your sister , don't let a guy get to you. Get some sleep and feel better. Your not being too selfish because you just said to help your sister out and stuff right , don't worry about it. It's a friendly act , and you'll see him other times so that evens out right , it should work out fine. I think your just being precaucious with everything and your having a bad day and that's okay. You should just relax and calm down and just be able to trust. My advice to you is your not being too selfish you just need to be able to let yourself lose , but be able to let lose ends go , so you can let you guy go , but at the same time have. Don't let your sister get to you either.
Good luck girl : )
|
I'm 20/f, dating a 20/m.
My boyfriend is 6'2" tall, and he's about 210 pounds, which I think is pretty normal. I've never thought he was chubby or even "teddy bear" sized, just that he wasn't exactly thin or scrawny. I know he was a lot heavier when he was younger, but by the time I met him he'd worked a lot of the weight off, so his weight looks to be about average.
Suddenly, in the past two months, he's started talking about how much he HATES the way he looks, how he "better get used to not liking who he is", and how he's upset because "he'll never get to where he wants to be", physically speaking. He joined a gym (I joined with him, because I want to start eating better and excercising), but he's constantly talking about calories and pounds lost ALL THE TIME.
In the one month that we've been going to the gym, he's stopped eating all junk food and candy, and has stopped drinking EVERYTHING except water and skim milk. He's lost almost 20 pounds in the last month, and he's still saying he hates how he looks.
I tell him I love his body and that I'm really attracted to him physically (it's true), but he brushes me off. He calls himself chubby and fat and he gets so upset that he won't even talk to me about it. It's like he refuses to believe me.
Tonight he said he wasn't leaving the gym until he burned 1000 calories, and he keeps saying things like "i'm just going through things" and "I didn't know this would be so hard". I'm REALLY scared.
What can I do? I'm crying just because I'm so scared and worried about his health, safety, and happiness. PLEASE HELP my boyfriend :( (link)
|
Wow , that's not too good. First off , please try to get him away from those thoughts , get him to go somewhere with you. Even if you get too much into his private life go to his parents talk to him about it or go to his friends and ask them to sit down and talk to him or even you talk to him and see where it goes that is not going to good. You need to really show him how you feel maybe he will see how bad it's getting. Talk to him tell him he looks amazing try to boost him up , try to say what a guy wants to hear the most , try getting him to talk about everything except that , occassionally take out some food and show him or something. Don't watch him do this , he should not be so horrible in it , try to find out why he is this. My advice to you is go get help either parents yours or his, friends , family, doctors , locals , uhm or even personal trainers and also , keep trying to boost his energy up show him what he's doing isn't the best. Prove he's worth a lot more.
Good luck : )
|
|
for nearly 2years i had been gettin depressed cause of people treating my like shit then i eventually got over it and just managed not to care anymore about anyone apart from my two horses as i just hate people who stab you in the back i am 16 so if i die my horses would have people to look after them no matter what so i can not find any real reason to keep going on like this the depression just keeps coming back i have people i talk to who call me a "friend" but i just find that only ones i care about are my 2 horses i have tryed a couple of times to wrap a cord round my neck but just couldn't bring myself to do it i just feel hate all around me cause people who call me their "freind" will also treat me like shit at the first chance they get and i just want to find a quick and easy way to kill myself can someone plz help me and tell me how? (link)
|
Well , you should , I mean you can't do that , just because people treat you like crap , you can't do that , what about your family , your friends , your loved ones , you are being not yourself. You can't bring yourself because you don't want to , and don't waste your time on thinking such thoughts. There is no need to kill yourself or do anything to yourself , go see a councellor or someone who deals with that stuff , don't let it ruin you. Also , ignoring them is the best way to go , i'm glad you did that , but if it get's out of hand get help. My advice to you is you shouldn't want to and don't want to plus you got so much to live for , don't let it get to you. Please seek help.
Good luck ! : )
|
|
whats a stud? i hear people people calling other kids studs...can someone please explain?? (link)
|
http://wiki.answers.com/Q/What_is_a_stud_muffin
or
http://www.answers.com/topic/stud
explains it perfectly.
Hope it helps.
Good luck! : )
|
|
your advice on suicide was great the usa is the worst most fuck up peice of shit place to live im ashamed to have been born here your exactly right is compleatly fucked i live in pittsburgh and have to serve 1year in jail for having 6drinks in 5hrs its complete bullshit but yet my cousin has 13 dui`s in another county and doesent get one day our goverment is so croupt and wack out it is insain this country does make me wanna kill myself i cant stand it here the only way your life will be not that bad is if your born into money or otherwise your fucked the only thing this country cares about is one thing and one thing only ( money) money could mean shit to me norway here i come cause ide rather die than spend another day here fuck you united states you lieing sac of shit there is nothing free in this junk bullshit sorry piece of shit of a country i feel bad my fam has lost lives and fought for what you call freedom if this is freedom than i dont want it all the usa is is fucking lies! (link)
|
Wow , well your mad , it's understandable. Just don't do anything stupid and just go where you want to as you mentioned Norway. It isn't bad place , BUT you just had bad experiences , you should go and get better and get out of there and see where else you like. Life is not bad,don't worry and there is freedom there , but you have to be aware. My advice to you is , lot's of things are unfair , but you have to deal with it , I suggest you get better and go somewhere else to make yourself better. You should be so happy so great your family fought there.
Good luck : )
|
|