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OK so recently my mom decided to give me the sex talk because she saw a text from my boyfriend saying 'i want you so bad right now.XP'. we were talking bout sex but he told me he didn't want to force me into anything and told me he wanted to marry me and would wait till then. were both 13. he\'s 4 months younger than me. so a week or two ago he went to Georgia for football camp for a whole year and they don't allow phones. so.. i cant talk to him or see him for a whole year (link)
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your far too young to be thinking about having sex.i would wait.you said it yourself.you sound like a smart girl with high morals and values.
i think there are other pills you can take for acne.i probably wouldnt tell her that you wnat to go on the pill.your doctor may not even let you perscribe it because of your age so i wouldnt try.there are other pills to take for acne...just ask your doctor about pills for acne because the pill may make you acne go and regulate your period but it will also make your boobs grow and make you gain weight so think about the pros and cons of going on the pill especially at a young age!
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I got an espresso maker for christmas. I've watched some videos on how to make various espresso drinks. I keep seeing crema forming on the top of the espresso pulled in how-to videos. I have a cheap machine by espresso standards, but very expensive for me($70). What sort of things can I do to ensure I get crema? (link)
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the crema is the hardest thing to learn.you need alot of practise to get it right.you need to make sure that you ddo not burn the milk and over do it...ok im going to try and explain this as best as possible but its much easier to show someone rather than tell them.
first pour the milk in your metal tin half way up.
ok so you have this metal nodule thing on the side of your machine that blows out hot forced air.that nodule needs to be in the milk but close to the surface of the milk.so dont put the nodule all the way to the bottom of the milk tin.
hold the tin on an angle and switch the nodule on.after a few seconds if your holding the tin correctly you will hear a scretching sound coming from the milk.if you cant hear it then you need to move the tin on a different angle so that you can hear it.then when you look at the milk it should be turning in a circular motion.have your finger under the tin and when it gets to the point that you cant keep your finger under the tin because its too hot thats when you should switch the nodule off or else you will burn the milk.
its soo much easier to show you sorry
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Let me first start by giving you a little back ground information. My ex wife became pregnant when she was 20 and I was 19. Even though it was earlier than we both expected to become parents, we were thrilled and so excited to start our family together. We got married shortly after she gave birth to our son Matt. Soon after that, we had another son, and then a daughter. From my perspective, everything was great. That's why I was so blindsided when my wife came to me 9 months after our daughter was born claiming she wasn't ready to settle down and be a mother with divorce papers in her hand. Almost overnight, I became a 23 year old single father with a 4 year old, 2 year old, and a 9 month old. After the divorce was final, I rarely heard from my ex wife. She had begun living a life that I didn't necessarily approve of filled with drugs and alcohol and, while I wanted to keep my children as far away from that as possible, she was their mother and I didn’t feel like I could entirely keep them away from her. The last straw, however, came when I let my daughter, Alyssa, (who was 6 at the time) stay with her when I took my sons on a hunting trip. I was supposed to pick her up at noon the Sunday we got back. I spent the entire afternoon calling my ex wife’s apartment with no answer. At 5 that afternoon, I finally just went over to her house where I found her front door wide open and her passed out on the couch from mixing a few too many drugs with alcohol. Her neighbor came over to the apartment and told me that my ex wife had taken Alyssa out one night and come home completely plastered. Thank god her neighbor had woken up and decided to take Alyssa back to her apartment. And this is just one example of many. After that, I told my ex wide that I didn’t want her to see our kids anymore which devastated her so much she entered rehab. She got clean and for the past ten years has seen the kids a few times despite my hesitance. My kids and I have been living a great life together away from my ex wife. A few years ago I began dating another woman whom I am now engaged too. She gets along great with my kids and is an amazing person who I know will be a good influence on my kids’ lives. My oldest son Matt is now in college, but Colton (my middle son) and Alyssa still live with me. Since I have become engaged, my ex wife has become crazy about spending time with the two of them. She wants them at her house every weekend and doesn’t want my fiancé to parent them at all. She is trying to tell my daughter all kinds of lies about why she left, and how I am a horrible person for trying to keep them from seeing her. She tells her that the entire thing was my fault and all kinds of horrible rumors about my fiancé, who went to high school with my ex wife. She has asked both of my kids to move in with her. Colton told her absolutely not, but Alyssa is confused about the whole situation and doesn’t know what she should do. I have full custody of them so essentially it is my choice about whether or not she can see them. I don’t want to take them away from my ex wife, but I don’t want to lose them myself. I am still worried that she will resort back to her old ways and put my kids in danger like she has their whole lives. Am I right to not let my daughter move in with her mom? (link)
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you are absolutely right.she left you with 3kids and ran off to have her fun.she walked out on you!left you on your own.where was she when your kid was sick with the chicken pox,or with the cold,or the flu?you were there to stay up all night to nurse them back to health(assuming all this).she was out getting drunk all night,taking drugs,putting your daughter in situations when she could have been molestered or raped because that woman chose the bottle over her own daughter!and now that theyr all grown up and able to feed and clean themselves she wants them back!NO!im sorry but No she should not get the privlage.
Just because she gave birth to your children does not mean shes their mother.your fiancee is more than a mother to them than she ever has been.what happens if (god forbid) you and your fiancee break up?then that woman isnt going to be around much longer because the other competition is gone.shes only around because shes jealous shes scared your children will love your fiancee more than they love her.your daughter is still too young to understand.shes being manipulated and to stop it she needs to stay away from that woman.you got full custody for a reason!
sorry i know i havent met this woman before and im sure theres mpore to this than the eyes can see but from what iv read thats my opinion.she needed to work hard to become a mother!you dont just give birth to a child just to label yourself as a mother!you have to actually nuture it and give it the love it needs for you to finally graduate into motherhood!
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So I've always had ingrown hairs after I wax down there. And apparently, to prevent ingrowns I should exfoliate. But if I exfoliate, won't the friction and such cause MORE ingrowns?
Or am I not understanding the word 'exfoliation' properly? What is it then? and How?
thanks for your time. (link)
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exfoliating is using an exfoliator cream or a brush to scrub off all the dead skin off your body...ingrown hair is hair that hasnt had a chance to grow properly so skin covers it.when you scrub that skin off then the hair will surface to the top of the skin.
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:( well yea the thing is that am shyy . ahhh we were talking thru myspace but he just read my message and dint respond back :'( (link)
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Maybe he didnt have time to reply back...dont over analyse the situation.just take it as it is...go for it!!hurry up and tell him you like him lol..have you got Facebook?
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heyy i was wondering if you know anything about green tea and diet plans, i wanted to start a diet to lose close to 10 lbs in a month. and I heard green tea was a good way to burn fat.
Do you know a good diet plan? and Im 16f and a vegetarian. (link)
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nice your vegetarian so you dont have to worry about meat because meats your biggest problem.thats what makes most people gain wieght.
green tea is good to drink after your meals because it makes that food you eat faster so in result makes it come out of your system faster which means it wont get stored as fat.do you eat fish??Tuna is good to eat as well as salmon and shrimp!the main thing is to stay away from those oily foods and eat natural things.aim to eat Low GI foods so thats your brown bread(but not to much of that because bread has starch which can make you bloated)brown rice,brown spagette just everything thats brown and organic.please read the ingredients because soemtimes food industries just colour their products brown as a scam.
Stay away from drinking full fat milk,drink soy milk.Tofu is really good to eat...im sure you can find some vegetarian low fat recipes on google..things like sushi is nice and healthy too.remember to eat 4hours before you go to sleep.that should be your last meal.have a big breakfast that will keep you going throughout then aim to eat at around 3pm as a late lunch and at around 6 or 7pm should be your last meal.this meal should be very light and should not have too much carbs like bread and rice etc because theyr what store as fat in your body.make sure that you drink plain green tea(without sugar or honey) after every meal.Drink water not juice or fizzy drinks. try to fit in some exercise4 or 5 times a week.joggin is really good,sprinting is even better!hope this helps
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I've read so many dieting books and websites and I'm sick of trying to implement different diets. If I eat between 1200 and 1300 calories a day, and work out 4 to 7 days a week (burning 150 to 300 calories), will I lose weight and get fitter? I am 5 foot 2 and weigh 150 pounds. (link)
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a herd soemthing once...a really good tip for loosing weight is to eat like a caveman..eat nuts and fresh greens etc..eat fish and try stay awat from red meats because theyr what wont make you loose weight..if you go on a fish diet you will loose the weight...eat less proportions.dont starve yourself just dont eat as much and eat healthy like a caveman.the exercise is good for tonning up but to loose wieght you have to have to watch what you eat!
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that is so true! he told me "you dont like me anymore" but i dont know he is just weird (link)
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just go for it!well when your really ready ok!
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i scar easily and have a cut on my face, that is really a scratch, but its about 6 inches long and i really don't want it to scar. (link)
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use aloe vera gel now and after it heals use rose hip oil!itll work a charm.my skin is just like yours and i tried these and they worked for me
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I need hope & help getting my old life back due to a bit of setbacks.
-i took lessons starting three years ago. Guitar & clarinet lessons for over a year and taught myself piano. i could play nearly anything on guitar or clarinet, and alot on piano and I wrote a lott of good songs. The thing is I’m so jealous of my past?? i try & try yet i suck, i cant understand any guitar or piano notes but i can do tab slowly, and suck at writing songs they don’t flow. i was in track&field and cheerleading and was very social and with friends everyday but now i don’t talk really and only go out with my boyfriend and if friends pick me up and make me come with them yet I constantly need to be doing something either shopping or muay thai or painting just something. My life revolved around friends and arts of all kinds I want that back.
-I hit a very hard point in my life and pretty much dropped everything I had going for me. Doctors called it rape, the guys didn’t go in me though I broke free but I did suffer a lot and was hurt in many ways. I was hospitalized and had and somewhat still have severe ptsd, trauma pain, and lost touch with life. With 7 months of failed treatments they diagnosed me as schizophrenic and i was treated like it and rehabilitized. Doctors fucked up my memory, brain and I have no trust in anyone. i got the hell out a there and without records transferred switched to doctors who don’t have a clue about my past and have been doing unimaginably better and its down to two a month doctor visits. :)
-I’m trying to get going again, iv been trying all I miss but I just suck I cant do anything anymore not even act like I used to. I’m lost involving music and art. My paintings, stories and drawings suck and I can’t play music anymore but I’m diein to. I want my life back! I finally am willing to give it my all. So any ideas on how to get skill back or knowledge even social skills? Positive or negative let me hear it I want change. Help? almost 16/f (link)
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im really proud of you!youv already started to improve by declairing to yourself that you want to go back to your old life and want a change.
trying to overcome what you have become will be hard but if your prepared then you will improve.
im really sorry about what happened to you and is good that you are still able to have a bf because soemtimes things like that can really put you off the world.
soemthing that really helped me when i went through something traumatic is writing a book.it feels like your in another world and you can say or do anything you want.it might even help if you wrote about the sad incident.
another thing is keeping a journal beside you at all times.whenever your angry or feel the need to express yourself then you can do so by writing in that journal.it sounds to me that you dont talk to any of your friends about how you feel,maybe you do with your boyfriend but a journal is soemthignt hat you can trust to keep your secrets.youll feel alot better once you let your feelings out.
another thign you can do and i think your already doing it is doing the things that make you happy.like being with your boyfriend or being with friends.doing things that will make you laugh and be happy.doing things that you know wont make you recap on the past!
and lastely the most important thing is to give yourself time.i know that your probably roling your eyes and thinking that wont help because you gave yourself enough time alreadsy but thats not necesarily true.your mind will go back to normal and even in better condition when its ready.you went through somethign really terrifying and its only natural you wont be the same for a long time but slowly you will get better and you will go back to how you were,you just need to be patient with yourself and give yourself time
:) let me know if you need anything else
what do you mean you just came home from having your heart ripped out??
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so im thinking of going somewhere to have a 'brazilian wax'.. Its my first time ever and i dont know what to expect exactly.
They will remove the hair on the mound, right? But what about the hair at the sensitive places like in between the legs? Does that get waxed too?
I used to wax there myself and i'd get ingrowns.. Will i get them if i get it professionally done?
Thanks so much for helping me out!
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yeah brazillian wax,they wax everything unless you tell them you want to keep some parts hairy...as for ingrown hair this is natural with all waxing..to avoid it you need to exfoliate alot or ask the lady if she sells products that prevents ingrowns
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no he does not likes her at all. (link)
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then you should let him know how you feel..when your ready to be with him let him know...i mean what if he wants you but thinks you dont like him??let me know how it goes
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i'm 17/f and i've been suffering from depression for a while now. sometimes its insufferable, and sometimes its a little better. but it doesnt stay good for long. everytime i turn around, i find something to be upset about. and it lingers. if anyone has read "new moon", then you'll know what i mean when i say i feel like there is a huge hole in my chest. its killing me, and i dont know what to do. i cant seem to find the positive in anything anymore. my parents wont get me help unless i tell them whats wrong, and they just wouldnt understand, or they'll pass it off as hormones. my friends cant help because they'll only pity me or attempt to give me advice, but only end up making me sound pathetic. i can't keep going on pretending im okay when on the inside, it feels like that big hole is just sucking the life out of me. i have to force myself to get out of bed in the morning, and the smile i put on for everyone at home and at my school is just a mask that will break eventually.
i need help, and this is the only way i know how to get some. this is the worst its been in a really really long time. thanks in advance for any advice. (link)
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its hard with depression because even if you do go and talk to your friends and you dont get the right reaction you need to make yourself feel better then your worse off than how you started.i learnt that a journal really helps.write down all your thoughts and all your feelings in a book..make sure that your honest with yourself because if you cant tell friend or family you can sure tell yourself...so try the journal.it may sound stupid but it does help..all that burdon youv been lifting will uplift from your shoulders and into the journal...
another thing that helps with depression is doing all the things that you like doing.do all the things that you enjoy and that help you take your mind off things.you can read books,watch tv,go for a run,take up a new hobby etc just keep yourself busy and you wont have time to think of how sad your feeling.
mediation is good aswell...try clearing your mind in isolation.go to a room or place where theres not noise.close your eyes and just concentrate on your breathing.if you find yourself going back to your thoughts then remind yourself to concentrate on your breathing again and the movement of your chest..
it does help so just give these things ago..whatr you going to loose??
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its actually true..but something tells me tat he is waiting..because when he was with his girlfriend she found out who i was and also she knew that i like him..so since he broke up with his girlfriend he doesnt wants her to think he just broke up because of me...so uhm yeahh :( (link)
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well she doesnt have to know does she..just let him know how you feel and that way he knows that your there for him and then he can think about being with you or not...does he like her that much to not be with you?
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hello, so i need legal advice, there was an oil spill on a house i own but am renting out, so the people that are renting it dont have to pay i think, the insurance company is only paying to for the neighbors that it affected but not the spill itself, the oil tank company doesnt want to pay, and i obvisoly dont want to pay, the leak was caused because of a whole in the oil tank, and it was under a 10 year warranty i think still get papers, who should pay and is there anything i can do or anyway around having to pay 200 hundred grand to get this fixed? PLEASE HELP, i do have a lawyer but its not much help. (link)
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how did the leak happen?if you were the reason the leak occured then they will not fix it.i think the warrantly only stands for the machine itself.like if it stopped working by itself then they should fix it.wat is the excuse theyr using?i dont see why they wont fix it if its under warranty...ask them to fix it or to get a new device for you.id actually take this to court but if your lawyer isnt much help then get someone that knows what theyr doing.or you can self present with out a lawyer.read the terms and conditions of their warranty and keep bugging them to repair it!sorry i cant be more help...maybe even go to consumers rights and theyl help you out more
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Ok My Grammer is going to suck and My spelling and probly way I am going to explain,
Please stay with me.
Okay I am 24 years old and I am dating Guy who is 28. Age is not a issues. Okay we been Datting for 3 Months in 3 weeks. Okay well One thing is that we do Like eachter and that we are in different world. one thing is that His Family and him started a church that is the Kunck off of Church of christ. Like for example they don't belive in celbarted christmass and Birthdays. and that they don't like Crosses and belive that Precher souldn't get paid. well he did say he don't agree everything that lady that he goes church with. all the time. there things she says about judgement day like she wouldn't want be side somone who not going heaven or that she not want be somone shoe who not going. I know that seem wrong.. way I see it I know that I don't want to judge.. and I KNow god wants us love and accpect Everyone. I mean guy I am dating let say his name is A, and sometime A and I have alot in command like we both live with our parents and we don't aurgueit and we seem be on same page of things. both like watch movies and going outside. and well thing we kinda when we make out we rub and I don't know about fingering I don't think it feel right to me. i am very small i can finger my self but it hurts when he tryi. thing is i know this sound werid but i odn't get excited. i gusse i am werid? or maybe i do think alot if it a sin to do sexual stuff. i mean he did say he odn't think a preacher make 2 people love eachter and that one of thing he not really ting. i know it good that someomone want to read the bible and work hard and he is nice. and i just worry that down the Road it not work out. and well i had dated one guy once and we best freinds and well thign is i wasn't in love with him. and i don't know if i am in love. i mean i like him alot and i would love him like God would. but not sure how i really feel about everytuing. becouse before I was little Lost where I am going. I dont drive and still live with my parents. I did had babysitting job now i am finish but i will everymonday becouse little child i used baby sit for is in preschool. I was teaching sign lanuage and being a Daddy and MOmmmy Helper to a family.
o and another thing. A he very talktaive. he like know alot things and he don't have like temper and dont get real mad. he seem have like laugh whhere he laugh at something maybe not funny. but i odn't think he mean to. we have good time talking about stuff and watching movies and he can be sweet guy. he just very cerous about alot things and hwat he hears what he need find in the bible what is right or wrong. okay so far this all i have to say. i am pretty much just talking from my heart and try to think what to say how i am feeling. i am not reallly done yet. but i have a feeling this getting to long for you all to read. hope there somone out there can help me and give me there option. thanks
Amanda (link)
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im not sure what your asking so im going to just give you my opinion.i think that your unsure about this guy so you want us to tell you what we think...to me it seems like your unsure if you like this person or not.you like him but your unsure if hes the one you want to be with for the rest of your life.your thin king too much about the situation.its not a bad thing to do because ofcourse you wnat whats best for you in the long run.
if this guy understands who you are and can forfill your needs and desires then there shouldnt be a problem.
i think the reason why hes not turning you on when he fingers you is because your unsure about him.your not sure if what your doing is right.you feel guilty thats why you dont feel pleasure out of it.
another reason could be because hes not doing it right.maybe hes putting two fingers instead of one causing you to feel pain.maybe he should try stimulating your clit which is above your pee whole...
if you dont want to be physical with him then you should tell him that you and him should wait alittle longer.
As for the religon...your with him.he said himself that he doesnt believe somethings about his beliefs so find out what he does believe and see if it works with what you believe in...at the need of the day you need to find out if his beliefs and values fit in with your own.if they dont then that in my opinion is a big problem
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actually he did broke up with his girlfriend. he said to me he didnt liked her and is true ..he is not like other guy;like with me is always respectful and nice and he used to tell me he wanted somethign serious but me being an idiot dropped everything because i was still in love with my boyfriend which is now my ex..but he always goes online and never writes to me..excpet for that time that he sended me the comment..i really dont want to write to him because his gonna think am a kiss ass..and am not like that..i wait for people to write to me!! (link)
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bab it doesnt matter if he thinks your a kiss ass...if you wnat soemthing you should go get it no matter what the guy thinks...you let him go once and now you have to work hard to get him back!talk to him and be a kiss ass and when you think its going to work and think hes still into you tell him how you feel and tell him you want soemthing serious with him too...your not going to loose anything if you try!go for it and tell me how it goes
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I need help overcoming depression and an eating disorder. After everything, I still think I'm fat. And I feel so alone. People care but they abandon me sometimes. I thought if I just went out with my friends I could escape this. But here I am, still in my Bell Jar. (link)
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keep telling yourself that your beautiful..just keep saying it.run it over and over in your head and tell yourself your gorgeous.pick out all the features that you love about yourself and remind yourself of them!
a good way to help with depression is keeping a journal.everytime you feel saqd or need to talk write it down in the journal and dont bottle it up inside.ofcourse your friends cant always be with you thats why you need a journal.buy a really pretty book,decorate it with stickers and photos of things that make you happy and write down all that you feel....your going to be ok :)
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im going out with this boy and he really likes me and we have been going out for a long time but i like some one else and for meh and him to be going out for this long period of time and me and him dont see each other as much its a waste of time but i dont want to hurt his feeling or anything or tell him that i dont like him i just dont want to go out with him please help me find a way to break up with him without being like i dont want to go out with you any more (link)
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there is never a good way to break up with someone because in the end your leaving them so no matter what you do or say its still going to hurt.id probibly take them to a nice place like the park or soemthing and do it there..make sure you have your own transportation and just be honest with him...tell him that weve become distant and you dont feel it working anymore.just let him know not to blame himself because you both did everything you could to make it work but its just not ment to be.\
if you cant see him then do it over the phone...txting is bad
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Ok so if someone tells me I should go google this question or summin since like a million girls have asked it before, just shhh.
Okay I seem to have this problem, like maybe it's biological or some kind of a scent that I give off then men smell and know to stay away but for some reason its just impossible for me to get a guy to like me on an emotional level where he wants to ask me out somewhere.
Over the past say... 3 years I've been in two long term relationships. One was for about 9 months and the second about 18 months. The 8 month one was my first 'real' relationship (after those piddly crush ones you have in your teens). It fell a part really unexpectantly and horribly with nothing I could do to prevent it, so that kind of scarred me. I had a best friend at the time who had been there like two years before that relationship and through my entire first big relationship. He helped me through it all and was the shoulder to cry on and yes like in all those cliche movies we ended up together.
I was absolutely head over heels for this guy but after almost a year we had to have a long term relationship as he moved away. I wanted it to work so badly I clung onto our relationship for dear life until 6 months later it ended horribly. I was so in love with him it took like half a year to get over him (even though i think a part of me will always love him but thats a different matter).
He remained my best friend but with school, different time zones and being so far away i saw him less and less and he became more and more distant (emotionally). Now I've been ready to get back into the dating game but no one wants me.
Guys talk to me, they walk past and start up a conversation and are really flirtatious and there's even this guy that walks by my work once or twice a week and always comes in to talk to me (and some how manages to put in the conversation that I'm pretty in some way or another). But none of these guys actually want to get to know me more or like me.
I started thinking this one guy might like me because (and it'll sound kinda lame) but he'd comment on like eeeevery one of my photos saying a compliment or just one of those :) faces, then he'd talk to me and be like "wow i've never met someone that has the same sense of humour as me", he even offered to do really nice and out-of-his-way things for me. Then, like with every other guy i think likes me, he always ends up liking another girl, and it always comes out in the same way. They always end up having a conversation with me where they talk about this girl they've met recently that they really like and want to go out with, then tell me its some other girl and i'm crushed but smile and tell them to go for it anyway. And right after all this happens they start dating the girl and i'm thrown to the side completely.
Why does this always happen? Am i just like that girl guys can be friends with but not anything more? I'm not a generally flirty person and I don't purposely act that way to a guy when i like him, i just get really giggly and smile a lot. I just wonder why they like these girls that they barely talk to or know but they dont even consider me. I'm starting to think I either have some mass personality defect or I'm hideous.
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you seem like a really nice girl so i really doubt that you have a defect and im sure your not hideous...love yourself before you love nayone else.
from the sounds of things its seems to me that your waiting for the guy to make the first move,your waiting soo long that you and the guy get into that friend stage where he starts to see you as his little sister.your waiting to long.
dont be afraid of asking a guy out.some guys think that its really sexy because oif you dont and you wait like your doing theyr going to think of you as a firend.
stop waiting for the guy to coem to you.if you want a bf then you have to do the hard work.if your sure about a guy and really like him dont take to long getting to know him and asking about his favourite colour or his star sign just get in there...ask him if he likes anyone,be flirtacious and show that you like him.maybe complement his eyes or say that hes sweet or cute BUT dont do it too much and dont look to desperate.ask him if he likes anyone and then hell tell you..if he says no or maybe and then asks you if you like anyone then tell him "what if i tolf you i MAYBE liked you?"and then hell tell you how he feels...stop living in "what ifs" and stop being scared...just take the risk and dont regret it because your a stronger person for doing it!
:)
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