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Q: i have a really bad blister on my foot/back ankle from my work shoes and i dont have money to get new ones, is there something i can put on my ankle to make the blister better, i have a bandaid on it but it still hurts. also, the place it gave me a blisterright above my heel were the top, back of the shoe usually rubs. is there anything i can put there to keep from getting the blisters because i have to wear short socks and i walk all day so a lot of time they fall or i just dont have time to make sure my sock is over the area....is there anything i can do? I know is a weird question but i walk all day at work and these are very bad blisters!!
Thanks

At the store they have band-aids made for blisters and I don't think they hurt like a regular band-aids.

Q: i had unprotected sex with my boy friend 3 months ago, ive had mild cramps in my tummy ever since i've taken 4 preg tests 2 possative then negative (early miscarrige)then today i was told to take another because it didnt add up it was negative.. they still think i had the miscarrige but now they think i've got Chlamydia!!!!! im so f**king scared im only 14 and cant take losing the baby and now maybe having this, they took swobs (spelling), i cryed the hole time, but i knew it was for the best i just dont know what to do, what will they do if they find out i have got it?? what are the symtoms anyways?? will i have to tell my mum and dad???
im so s**t scared?? has anyone here had it??
thanks!

Why don't you just not have unprotected sex at 14. That could save you alot of trouble.

Q: i am 14, 5 foot and i weigh like 98 pounds...

when i get my period i gain weight... i use to be 95 pouunds and it seemed like i gained some over night!

well does drinking green tea and water help you loose weight? i know green tea is suppose to speed up ur matabolism. Would it make me really feel full before eating?

Most girls on their period gain weight. It's called water weight and it should go away when your period does.

Q: my friend and are are currently in a fight, you see she is an awesome friend and its a lot of fun hanging out with her and stuff. Lately she has been into this guy and she not being herself, she is ignoring me when he is around but yet she is always asking me to come chill with them. we had a huge fight on the phone and i told her i don't like her when she is hanging out with him and then she said fine then don't hang out with me and she hung up. what should i do??

Don't do anything. Just wait awhile and she'll probly come to her senses and realize that you guys had a good friendship and that she needs to recognize the both of ya'll.

Q: hi my question is tat theres a guy in my coaching whom i really like .he is not very handsome but still i like him.i wanna b his frnd atleast but i feel really awkward talking to him.though there r other boys too but i talk to them very frankly but i dont know wat happens to me when i talk to him.i also want to know whether he likes me too or not.plz dont giv me answers like go n ask him becoz that is just very difficult for me .suggest me some way soon.

Well for starters try learning how to spell, because then he might understand what it is that your trying to tell him.

Q: okay i talk to this boy on aim and he was telling me im pretty and all stuff.. he would say "hi georgous" then he kept asking who i like, every othther day. i answered with i dont know. and same for him.

then one day when he asked me who i like, i said him.

now we just talk like friends and he doesnt say anythingg like that stuff anymore.. whyy? im confused.. he doesnt seem like a shy person at all.. he is really out going to other people.

Maybe he just was trying to be nice to you and he dosen't really like you. So know he thinks that if he still talks to you like that, that you will think he likes you.

Q: This guy rlly liked me and we hung out alot and held hands at a dance i had... then he asked me out but i didnt rlly noe him soo i said no i lik u but i wanna get to noe u more!! so after the dance me and a few friends went to his house and we cuddled on the couch and we kissed!! Then i had to leave..... so when i left he asked my so called friend to sit with him and she did and they held hands and kissed, she did stuff to him too!! What am i suppose to do i still like him?? and idn why?? he keeps saying sorry too?? help please

Maybe, he just likes girls that can spell.

Q: sorry if i spells "superstions" wrong, but i hightly think of superstions. Tomarrow is friday the 13th,and im getting my hair cut!! i dont want it to look bad! Any tips on good luck things? i have an italian horn,is that good luck?

Could you just wait till Saterday, because then you wouldn't have to worry.

Q: urgh i hate this! it feels like my jaw is gonna fall out like in the grudge! i can't open my mouth really wide to eat because it feels like theres an extra bone there that isn't allowing me to open my mouth any further, and if i chew it feels like my jaw is like cracking.. like it kinda feels like when you crack your knuckles. anyway this really hurts so does any of you have any advice on how i can deal with this? thanks in advance i really appreciate this

Go to your dentist or doctor.

Q: ok so what exactly is a clitoris? yeah yeah... i know its a girls "sweet spot" and its where ya have ur orgasm n all that, but where is it located?? and how do you know when its touched? what does it do?? does anyone know??

thanks!

Go to http://teenwire.com/index.asp and there is a section called diagrams. Go there and you can find out where it is. You can also look through the website for more information.

Q: I have this friend and we always have so much fun together! Just if you joke around with her she gets so mad.. i swear.. i think she is shortempered sometimes! I know shes my bff and all its just sometimes it makes me so mad!

So what the fuck is your question?

Q: So this kid Robert and I were "talking" for a while, but now he goes out with Emily, who's my friend. And Robert still calls me. And he always talks about how stuff Emily does annoys him. And he always calls and we end up talkin about Emily and how he doesn't wanna call her. And he gets mad at me when I don't talk to him at school and stuff, but he says he doesn't like me.. It confuses me... HELP!!!!

He just sees you as a friend that he can talk to about Emily because you know her.

Q: Dudes

How can I get my mom to let me get my ears pierced? She says I have to wait until I'm fsxking 16! I just turned 15 two days ago!!! She says people would say I look like a sissy. Ok. Well, only the shallow asshats would actually say that out loud, and even then I don't care. They can bite me. But she says I have to wait until the age even SHE got them! 1) I am not a woman 2) I am not my mother.

M/15. I'm just /curious/ as to how I would look in them! If I dont like them I could just let it cover up. I seriously don't see her logic in this other than the usual parent crap 'I want you to be just like me and grow up the same way.'

So what is your question?

Q: About 2 hours ago I asked if I was going blind and I talked about my eyes and stuff. Well, I said I got a headache after that and it became worse. I layed down and I just woke up and the headache is just as bad. I still feel dizzy, and I feel like I'm going to throw up. Is this what migraines do? I took an Advil and it didnt help at all. Ugh! I feel horrible!

I get headaches like that alot. Take Ibuprofen if you have it. Its the only thing that helps me.
Hope I helped.

Q: I have a problem...I'm 15 and I weigh 100 pounds...good right??? Yeah I know! But there's always a downside...My stomach looks like it's 6 months pregnant! It's sooo fat and I always have to suck in but it still shows! Why do you think this is...and How can I deflate it??

Why don't you work out and get in shape or maybe eat not as much junk food.

Q: My mom pays for my health insurance, so she gets all the bills and statements. I want to start birth control, but I really don't want my mom to find out. If I get a perscription for pills and fill it, how will it show up on the insurance statement? Will it show up as something general or will it say what the perscription is for? Thanks in advance.

I know this really isn't an answer to your question but go to plan parenthood. If I'm not mistaken they give it to you for free.

Q: if u never had sex before, like your hyno or w.e is still intack.. and semon gets inside of u.. like from forplay or w/e can u get pregnant?
also, how much is a EPT?

Do not have sex. If you talk/type like that then you are far too younge or dumb to be having sex.

Q: ok well my friend is at my house and he likes this girl well that I just found out and he was talking to her on MSN and then I said something then all of the sudden he said of sry that was my dumb bro and wouldn't even say he was here with his best friend(girl) so I'm super pissed at him and omg iunno what to do I feel like he'll stop being my friend just that is a bad sign for everything plz help...

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Oh my gosh! Why are you so dumb?

Q: I am friends with the most popular girls in school but sometimes it seems like they dont want me around. I dont know what im doing wrong. I have always wanted to be friends with them. My best friend doesnt talk to me when they're around and i dont know why.How can i be better friends with them?

Maybe your too fat, or ugly.

Q: Ok, I like one my best guy friends and my BFF and I think he likes me as well..but he is too shy. I want to kiss him, without doing it outta no where and freaking him out. Are there are some suggestions of signals that I could send to show that I would like to be kissed?- thx