He likes her, I like him, We're all friends, but he likes me
Question Posted Thursday May 12 2005, 10:37 pm
So this kid Robert and I were "talking" for a while, but now he goes out with Emily, who's my friend. And Robert still calls me. And he always talks about how stuff Emily does annoys him. And he always calls and we end up talkin about Emily and how he doesn't wanna call her. And he gets mad at me when I don't talk to him at school and stuff, but he says he doesn't like me.. It confuses me... HELP!!!!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? ez4me2say answered Friday May 13 2005, 11:37 am: when Robert calls, you should always be too busy to talk....just on your way out, have homework to do, or need to help your parents do something. Whether he really likes you or not doesn't matter, the guy is an insecure loser who needs to believe that "everyone" likes him. You should try to find friends who like you for YOU, that you have interests in common with, and who don't send "confusing" mixed-messages. Maybe when Emily realizes how shallow Robert is, she will have more time to spend with you again. [ ez4me2say's advice column | Ask ez4me2say A Question ]
Behind_Blue_Eyes answered Thursday May 12 2005, 11:02 pm: You need to explain to Robert that he needs to get his feelings straight. If he claims to not like you then why does he call you and talk about how his girlfriend annoys him. Tell him that if he is not happy with Emily he should tell her not be talking to you about her. Good luck, I hope this helps.
SiLenTxfAiRy answered Thursday May 12 2005, 10:39 pm: well this guy is confussing! first off id tell him to kind of back off. even if you may like him, hes with your friend. then tell him why you may not talk to him alot in school.. mostly because hes taken and you dont want to make her mad! (DUH! darn guys! haha) but when he calls next ask him why he doesnt call her.. shes his girlfriend, and if he doesnt enjoy talking to her on the phone then he should really reconsider the relationship because talking is a HUGE part of it :) [ SiLenTxfAiRy's advice column | Ask SiLenTxfAiRy A Question ]
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