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I really try not to be mean, but just to give some people a wake-up call. Sometimes people need it. Sometimes I need it. lol. Well, ask questions and you'll get answers.
~K~
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my friend is having her birthday party tonight, she invited a few of my other friends that arent really friends with her, but this girl didnt invite me and we are really good friends and it kind of makes me jelous of my other friends and a little mad at this girl... what should i do to feel better?? (link)
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Get her a reallllly great gift. I mean, something she'll realllly like. Don't even go to her party, just give it to her at school or drop it off at her doorstep. Jealousy sucks. I would know. Just give her the gift and maybe you should ask her why she didn't invite you.
~Hope that helped~
~K~
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ok i really like this guy but he wont talk to me at all..and when we broke up he said that he never wanted to talk to me again and said that he was too good for me. and when i try to email him he doesnt answer back..but i luv him soo much that i dont kno what to do?! i try getting over him but i cant..wut can i do to try and get over him!? (link)
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First off, no guy is too good for you. You need to find another super hott guy who will fill your mind endlessly with thoughts about it, therefore pushing him out. You need to realize that this guy is an asshole and I know the feeling of thinking you love someone. I want you to think deeply about how he was treating you when you were together and how he's treating you now. This guy is and was an asshole.
~Hope that helped~
~K~
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okay so im goin out with this guy and we've been goin out for like... umm idk a few weeks and like when we're together we always have funa nd hes really sweet and nice to mebut when we get to school then hes really mean like he treats me like S**T and i dont understand i mean i guess i knoe hes just teasing or sumthing or tryin to look cool in front of his friends well i dont like it and i wana tell him that but i dunno wut ta say? please help soon (link)
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Well first off, this guy is a real jerk. What kind of guy is all sweet and caring when is friends aren't around? You need to cofnront him after scool and tell him how you feel. Tell him that you don't like how he treats you around his friends and if he's gonna act that way around his friends, then something needs to be done. Frankly, I think you should dump this guy. Split Personalities are defintely not a good thing in a boyfriend.
Hope that helped :)
~K~
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i like this girl but i dont know if she is going out with any one and if shes not then how do i ask her out (link)
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First, ask one of her friends if she has a boyfriend. And if not, you just go up to her and ask her out. "Will you go out with me?". In person is much better than a note or asking someone else to do it for you.
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in two weeks im going to florida and we'll be gone for 17 days. I have a cat and i was thinking about asking a friend to come by and take care of him. (for money of course) I was wondering would the cat get too lonely being that we wont be around for so long and my friend will only be in the house for five minutes to feed him and change his litter box? Another option is the kennel..but i hear they are very expensive. Do you know about how expensive they are? Should i have my friend come by or take my cat to a kennel? Thanks and i'll rate you guys because i appreciate your time and advice..i too am a columnist. Thanks again..
-melissa- (link)
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I think since you will be gone for so long, you should put your cat in a kennel. There you kitty will get all the love and attention it needs. They might be expensive though.
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14/f...theres a girl in one of my classes and she'll sit there the whole class period and talk about me loud enuff for me to hear..so she obviously wants me to. Shes so mean and i've told her to stop and shes just like "I'll do what i want" and the thing is...she seems like a nice person but for NO REASON she hates me..when i asked her y she hates me so much shes like "the question is why wouldn't i" so she doesn't have a reason..theres this one guy thats her friend and always sticks up for me whenever she talks about me and its really nice and i think it'll eventually stop bc he always tells her too and she'll get bored saying everything when he just tells her to stop talking about me. but the stuff she says is mean and sometimes she IMs me outta no where to say how weird i am or i have no friends (which is not true) any advice on thing is can say bak to her when shes talking about me?? I RATE 5'S SORRY SO LONG!! (link)
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Ok. My first plan won't work. My first plan's NEVER work! s Anyways, on to plan B. Tell this girl she has no reason to hate you and to back off. Tell her that if she wants to act like that, she needs to go back to kindergarten and that she's just jealous. Her bitchy attitude isn't gonna work. She's gonna wonder when all her friends are gone because she had no reason to hate them. Actually, what'll really piss her off is if you are just realllly nice to her. I mean, no matter how mean she is to you, in class, just be like, "how are you today?". Don't be sarcastic, be as sincere as possible. Trust me, it will piss her off and it might make her even be nice to you.
Hope that helped.
~K~
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hi
well this might be kinda long cause it needs a lot of explaining so im sorry but here goes...
i met a guy a long time ago and he was like...head over heals for me...at the time i didnt like him so i brushed him off, telling him i was interested in another guy.
it was only a bit ago that i realised how much he really did like me - he remembered everything and was so nice and kind and always there for me - an ive realised how much i appreciate that. he has now moved on and likes other people and i think i have feelings for him. now were like best friends and i cant tell him coz i dont wanna ruin things.
do you guys think that i 'like' him because i feel like ive missed my chance, because i cant have him or something? or do you think i genuinely liked him and realised it 2 late?
thanx in advance 4 any help. xxxx (link)
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Well, not to be mean, but you definitely missed your chance. He has long since forgotten about his former love. It's just how guys work. I think it's a combination of you not being able to get him, and actually liking him. I think it's more that you can't have him, though. So basically, all I can say is this, he has moved on with his life and you need to move on with yours ( I have previous ecperience with this type of thing) and find somebody else and be happy!
Hope that helped
~K~
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i started likeing on of my friends and he's 17. Im only 13. He's really sweet and he REALLY isnt a bad person. when im around him, when i talked to him, even if i hear his voice i just smile the biggest smile. I talk to him almost every night on the phone and we text each other constintly through out the day. he said he likes me and i like him also. Some of my guy friends said that they dont want me to get hurt. they dont know him. They said that 13 and 17 is a very big age diffrence, but i really like him alot. He just makes me happy and for awhile i haven't been happy. Do you think that i should continue to like him? and do you think that if he was to ask me out should i go out with him? please tell me what to do im so confused (link)
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Well, him being 17 and you being 13 is kind of wierd. Your guy friends might be on to something. But I don't think this guy will hurt you, but he is seventeen and can take advantage of you easily. I think you should be wise about your decision, but also, if you have known him a long time, I think it would be ok to yes. It really depends on how long you've known him and how much you can REALLY trust him.
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i have a friend who used to be very down to earth and friends with everyone. now she is "popular". Just because of that, she thinks she is better than everyone else, and everyone agrees. she is snobby too, like saying stuff like "omg i hate fat people, old people, smelly people, and people that dont like me." the problem is, i love being friends with her!! she is so much fun to hang out with when there are not other people there. with other people, she seems to think she needs to act like that. when i ask her why she is so mean to me, she says "you are mean to me because you think you are so much better!!!" what should i do?!?! (link)
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You need to find your so called "friend" and bring her back down to earth. It won't do any good to be mean so let's go with Plan B. You confront her somewhere where there's not many people around and tell her how your feeling about her actions. It will be hard, I know from experience, but she's got to know what she's doing now or else it will just get harder and harder to change.
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My heart has been broken by my best male friend
but i still love him...should i still be friends with him or wat? (link)
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It depends on the circumstances of the heart break. If you were actually in a relationship, then I don't really know what to tell you. I think that he considers you as his best female firend and maybe nothing more. You should still be friends I suppose.
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My twin sister and I argue about 40% of the day. I don't like fighting with her, and lately I've been getting so mad at her I get destructive. I used to cut myself- (embarrassing, but true)- and I can't help but think that may be problem- destruction makes me feel better. I'm not sure. Can anyone give me ideas on how to channel my anger differently? (link)
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The first thing to do is rid your room of sharp objects that would cause you to want to cut again. I know destruction might make you feel better, but if you are ever home alone, turn on your most favorite song in the entire world reallllllly loud. Then just sing along until you can't sing anymore. Listening to music or writing poems or stories also helps. Get involved with clubs at your school and go to the Y. Do a sport to keep you occupied. Getting involved with clubs or a sport will keep you away from your sister if you need it. I also suggest that you talk to a trusted adult. I know it sounds stupid, but find a really cool teacher you know so you can talk about the issues you and your sister fight about.
~Hope that helped! n.n ~
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ok.... well i have gone out with this guy 4 times and every time we brake up it is because of other girls!!! now he wants to go back out with me. he is always sweet and always says i love you to me. he always holds my hand and is always there for me.but the real question is ... should i go back oout with him or not? plz answer!!! (link)
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This is a definite no. There's a reason he and the other girls break up and there's a reason he keeps breaking up with you. This guy is obviously a jerk and the "I love you"'s and him holding your hand are things that you should NOT fall for. There are so many other guys that wouldn't break your heart and would probably love to be with you, I suggest you tell this guy "no" and find someone who is a much better use of your time.
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does any one know how to lose like 10 pounds in like a week...i have a party comming up and i want to look a little "less" in my dress...thanks..
(i rate 5s!) (link)
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10 pounds is going to be tough to lose in a week. I suggest going low carb and defintely excersing alot.
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Okay well, im 13, and my mom and I are pretty close (kinda) I meen I tell her a little about my boyfriend here and there. But I really want to become closer with her, like be able to tell her anything that happens in my teenage life. Im scared what she will say? If she will listen and help me out, or not? What Should I Say?
--Amber-- (link)
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Just ask her about her day and she will probably ask you about your day and just start off like that. Gradually tell her more and more about you're day and your friends and your boyfriend, etc.
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