I'm a third year psychology student and i love giving advice to those who are in need of it but if you ask me a stupid question you should expect a stupid answer i love hanging out with friends and socialising i can be really conceited at times and if you get on my bad side you might wanna sleep with an eye open!
Altogether I would say that I am still finding myself and my place in this huge world, searching for the great amor and visiting beautiful places
so guys feel free to ask me anything that's on your mind and I will try to give you the most helpful advice
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What are some signs that girls give when they want to makeout (link)
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when they look into your eyes a lot when they speak to you, they always find ways to touch you and speak really close too you but mostly when they look at your lips and lick theirs
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I am a nigerian.. My boyfriend suddenly changed, he doesn't call to tell me his plans like he used to before, he is always in a hurry to diconnect the call each time he tries to call and he always promise to call back which he doesn't. The bad thing is that he doesn't see any big deal in it. (link)
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well the truth is that 55% of men change after a long period of time in a relationship because they tend to get bored this doesn't necessarily mean that he doesn't love you anymore, he probably just wants to spend more time with his friends but the only person that can answer your question is your boyfriend himself, you should speak to him about this tell him that you know he needs his space but it doesn't give him the right to treat you like he doesn't care anymore, if he doesn't see reason and doesn't believe what he is doing is wrong then it's time to start questioning if this is really the guy that you want to be with
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can i have sex
? i am nine years old.
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NO WAY, you're way too young to even be thinking about that and i doubt that you're physically able it would be hard for your body to take it if you're curious get a teacher or your mum to explain these things to you
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Okay so im 16 and i lost my virginity in july last year,(i was 15, he was 18) i had sex with him a couple times then we broke up. he completely used me. Now im dating a new guy. we had sex yesterday for the first time(I used protection everytime). and today i started my period and it kinda hurts down there even to use a tampon.(more then it ever has). Is that normal? is it because i haven't had sex in a while? What should i do? Please help.
P.s. My parents dont know any of this only me and my bestfriend knows. So if i have to go to the doctor for anything how do i without my parents knowing? (link)
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yes it would hurt because you're having sex after a year and it will hurt a little like after the third time too and you're really smart for using protection always so keep it that way and you probably won't have to see a doctor and your parents won't know the pain will go away in about two days just wash with soap and warm water and it'll ease the pain
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All my friends say that I'm beautiful (I just recently dyed my hair red) and that I don't need to date. But every time my friends start talking about awesome it was to hang out with their Boyfriends and their plans for the weekend with their BF, I feel left out. I am the only one of my friends that is single. Is there a way to feel less like an outcast??? I'm only 13... (link)
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well being 13 is still pretty young but i understand what you're going through and at this age i doubt you would find a life partner, so think about it like this, you won't have to go through all the emotional stress like your boyfriend breaking up with you and you getting a broken heart at this age and your friends will soon go through it so don't rush it hun you have plenty of time for now just enjoy being 13 and tell your friends that when it's your time to hang out that they shouldn't be bragging about their boyfriends because it's getting abit old
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Do guys like when you moan? I never thought i'd be a moaner but turns out i am. Is this a turn on for them? What other turn on's are there? I usually run my hands through his hair and grab it gently but other than that and moaning I don't know what else i can do!
I know every one is different, but any suggestions are welcomed. Thanks! (link)
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lol well from what i know most guys love it when girls moan it shows them that they are doing a good job and makes them feel better and i agree with the other user you should run your nails down his back gently or bite him on his neck or shoulder
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Okay, so me and this guy I've known my whole life have been talking lately, just as friends. I kind of like him and he does me too,but until something as far as a relationship happens he wants to be sex buddies and I kinda want to too.. Is there anything wrong with that? (link)
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well everybody has their own perspective but from my personal point of view i don't think that it's a good idea because i've been in that situation and girls after sex tend to get emotionally attatched unlike most guys, so if he begins a new relationship with somebody else this would be hard on you and i don't think you want that on the other hand it's okay having that kind of thing with your friend because there are no strings attatched but if you don't see yourself falling for him in the future unless he would feel the same way then go for it
best of luck!
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Is school Boeing to u (link)
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lol yes school is boring but i guess that it isn't suppose to be fun but as long as you lunch breaks are entertaining then you shouldn't have a problem
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my earrings wont come out (link)
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use surgical spirits or salt water to clean it then use baby oil so it gets loose then you're just gonna have to pull it out the pain wont last long and hey it'll be worth it atleast the earring is out
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so me and my boyfriend WANT to have sex, were going to use protection and everything, we have talked about it.
last weekend i had the house to myself, he came over...
but we he went to put it in i froze up and it was very painful, he didnt even have it in.. is there something wrong with me? (link)
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this is perfectly normal because having sex for the first time for a girl is really painful because your hymen is being broken so it tears there isn't really anything you can do to make the pain stop but just ask your boyfriend to go at a slow pace until he's fully in then it wouldn't hurt as bad you're going to have to face this eventually and after you've broken your virginity you'll start to enjoy sex so this is just a one time thing so to make it easier try setting the mood right like the lighting and get some nice candles this will get you in the mood
best of luck!
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My boyfriends parents are divorcing and I want to give him a kiss and hug him and tell him its all going to be alright. But we havent kissed yet. We have been dating for four years, How should I go about doing this? (link)
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wow four years that's a while but i think for now you should just hug him and let him know that you are there to support him fully i don't think you should kiss him right now wait until things are cooled down and he's not that pissed off because it just might backfire
best of luck
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There is this new kid this year I like. I found out I cannot stop thinking about him. I can tell he doesn't like me, but when I am in the same class as him, I feel like flying. Today he got hurt in P.E. and I hurt and felt like bawling. Is it love? If so, please tell me how to get him to like me. (link)
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you said that he got hurt in P.E so if he is still hurt then you should tend to him and show him that you care because guys love TLC this will slowly bring you together
i don't think that you love it's probably infatuation, the only you'll know for certain that he doesn't like you is if he tells you that he doesn't so why not ask him or get a friend to ask him but you should definately speak to him more often and be cool with him guys like girls that are confident
best of luck
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I'll be straight forward with this: can you be friends with an ex? How could you get back to that point? and Is it ever a good idea? I'm talking about after a break up with no big fights, you just weren't right for eachother dating-wise. (link)
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i don't really think that it is a good idea to be friends with him unless you're planning to get back together, your ex stays your ex
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Can getting fingered effect your period (link)
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no it wont
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I am a 14 year old girl. I have so many problems in life! Soooo many. Ive been to defax twice and therapy for trauma and my friends and I get into drama and my lifes falling apart. I need help. I lost the person today that i always talk to. And i made the STUPIDEST mistake to tell my moms best friend that i dont like her! I have GOT to start making better choices. God is for sure in my life. I am going to heaven and everything and I pray about it every night. I need someone to talk to. Someone I can see and hear clearly back. A human. But i am definantly not shutting God out. I am so worried and scared all the time and I want to change my life around but I dont know how. I need help. (link)
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well you can always tell your moms friend that you were being silly and that you didn't mean it remember sweety that everything can be fixed and it will just take time so it sounds like you want to turn over a new leaf and that's really good everybody makes mistakes and goes through challenges it's just a part of life don't worry your life is not falling apart you can always pick up the pieces and get back on track. you said you and your friends got into drama, you should explain what you're explaining on this site and they're your friends and i'm sure that they'll understand after you've done that, why not start a new hobbie something you enjoy that will get your mind off things for a while this should help and you would have something to focus on remember it's not the end of the world you sound like a good person and good things happen to good people so just be strong.
feel free to ask me anything you're having a problem with. best of luck
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does size really matter (link)
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not really, every girl likes different things and thats up to you decide but you should be more specific on your question
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I am asking if it is a good idea to paint a picture for my act in the talent show. (link)
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honestly it would be kinda boring because to paint takes a while and you wont be interracting with the audience and their attention will be drawn away try something fun and exciting maybe a dance or sing a song something with alotta energy
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how do u tell your boyfriend that you want to be with them? (link)
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if you mean sexually then you don't really have to tell him just turn him on and show him you want him and he'll do the rest
i'm not sure if this is what you wanted to know because your question isn't that direct
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HEy ok so my boyfriend and i broke up like 2 months ago now in school we sit RIGHT next to eachother and like he will always turn and look at me and i will say what and he will smile and look away what is he trying to say?!?! oh and then other times hes all flirty with other girls:( haha ok plzz help! (link)
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well maybe he's smiling at you because he's trying to say that he wants to be friends, it's not always a bad thing so you should speak to him casually it'll make it less awkward and will ease the tension and he's just flirty with other girls because he no longer has a girlfriend or maybe he's trying to annoy you, either way show him it doesn't bother you and be cool with him
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What does it mean when a guy says he's going to go down on me? (link)
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it means he when he's going to have oral sex he's gonna suck you down there lol you'll enjoy it no worries
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