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My lifes falling apart. I need help. What do I do now?


Question Posted Monday April 11 2011, 8:59 pm

I am a 14 year old girl. I have so many problems in life! Soooo many. Ive been to defax twice and therapy for trauma and my friends and I get into drama and my lifes falling apart. I need help. I lost the person today that i always talk to. And i made the STUPIDEST mistake to tell my moms best friend that i dont like her! I have GOT to start making better choices. God is for sure in my life. I am going to heaven and everything and I pray about it every night. I need someone to talk to. Someone I can see and hear clearly back. A human. But i am definantly not shutting God out. I am so worried and scared all the time and I want to change my life around but I dont know how. I need help.

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nikz answered Tuesday April 12 2011, 9:55 am:
well you can always tell your moms friend that you were being silly and that you didn't mean it remember sweety that everything can be fixed and it will just take time so it sounds like you want to turn over a new leaf and that's really good everybody makes mistakes and goes through challenges it's just a part of life don't worry your life is not falling apart you can always pick up the pieces and get back on track. you said you and your friends got into drama, you should explain what you're explaining on this site and they're your friends and i'm sure that they'll understand after you've done that, why not start a new hobbie something you enjoy that will get your mind off things for a while this should help and you would have something to focus on remember it's not the end of the world you sound like a good person and good things happen to good people so just be strong.
feel free to ask me anything you're having a problem with. best of luck

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ellekaay answered Tuesday April 12 2011, 2:11 am:
That's good that you're keeping God as a part of your life. One things for sure--he'll always be there when no one else is and when you really need someone to talk to he's definitely always listening. Just keep on praying for yourself and everyone around you, and God will answer your prayers. He works great miracles and everything will be okay.

But in the mean time, what you need is a best friend. A best friend who knows exactly what you're going through, finds ways to relate to you, and will always be there for you through thick and thin. That's what makes a real best friend...

Everyone deserves a decent best friend--so why not go out and look for one or two. (: Good Luck

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