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Hey. I love giving advice. I enjoying giving advice about the sexual things, I've been thinking about getting a degree to be a sexual education teach or, or a sex therapist. I my second best would be friendship[s] and relationship[s]. I am 21yrs old. I have a pit bull named Zip. I work at a middle school as a nutriton assistant. I have 4 god children, 1 boy, 3 girls.

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Ok, i am in 8th grade and i am a 13 year opld female (just so oyu know the setting) well anyways my problem is that i have never ever ever in my life had a boyfriend. i know you might be sayi wow big deal, but it is. like almost everyone i know has had/haves 1. i feel weid when people go, oh who is you b/f, or who have you gone out with. idk whatto do. i hate feeling this way, is it wrong that i have never had a b/f, nad what can i do to make me feel better bout my self (qith out actually getting a b/f, cuz dont see that happeneing in the near future.


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dude!! it's a good thing! you shouldn't care about haveing a boyfriend or not~love life and have fun w/ your friends! plus all the boys are going to do it break your heart! i wish i had never had a boyfriend! that's why i'm single now! and proud of it..and i don't plan on having a boy for a long time or untill i know FOR SURE that i can spend time w/ him!

boys suck!! all of them do no matter what!! trust me hun i've had enough boyfriends to know this!!

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i just got a turtle and i need ideas for a name

hair, lary, woody, hard head, sam, sugar, kelso, greeny, bashful,

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Ok, I have some bumps on my u no where... Below the belly!!! Anyways, all i've done is oral sex.. can I get herpes from oral sex?? HELP!! Do I have herpes!

yep you can...best advice go to a gyno. so he can see...your a health clic to get tested!!...and get tested for other STDs..just to be on the safe side

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ok me and my bf are planning to have sex the thing is we are both virgins and i was wondering wat it was like the first you have sex... mostly on the girls part.. like does it hurt and all that i want to no bc i want to be sure im really ready we already have everything else planned out and all but i still wanna be sure ne good advice and no loser advice is apreciated ill rate good laters

ok what you see in the movies...yeah that's NOT sex!...it will hurt...depending your pain tolarence...some of my friends it didn't hurt them as much cuz the masterbated alot and stuff like that...yall both are going to be extermly nervous...and the fact if it hurts or not should not determine if your ready to have sex yet or not...and everything planned out? are you saying you no when where and how yall are going to do it!...i don't know your age so i'm not going to give you the marriage lecture...but just remeber this is a big thing...and ya'll might get extermly attached to each other...some people say o i'll never get attached but you will...and you will always remeber your 1st time...i have no clue how long ya'll have been dateing but hopfully yall have been daten long enough that yall are already attached and this would either bring yall closer together or apart...just remeber the 1st few times of yall haveing sex will hurt...and make sure he goes slow so he doesn't "kill" you...it might be best for you to get on top so you can control how much of his penis will go in you...also make sure he fingers you enough so you get "lose" a lil bit!..and if you just so happen to be on the bottom...put some pillows under your backside..the pillows elevate your vaginal canal so it's easier for him to go in...i hope i gave you enough...some of this may not even matter to you..but you never now!!..wear a condom and be safe!!

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does size matter or is that just some shit ppl say cause mine is 6 inches long and girls tell me that is small but does it really matter

i had this convo w/ my older brother...normal size is at lest 6-71/2 at the most!!

and most of the time it's not lenght it's the width of the penis

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ok well i have been going out with my boyfriend for about 9 months now and i really love him. he has only had sex with one girl. but many times. they broke up long be fore we got together. so just say i lost my virginity to him do you think he would have any kind of std from having sex with just that ONE other girl.?? like do u think theres a chance of him having an STD, from that one girl and then having sex with me and then all of a sudden i get it??? thanks i rate HIGHHH

yeah probably! so what you need to do is go get tested...and then ask him to get tested too...go get tested together that might make it comfortable for both of yall...plus even though he has had sex w/ only one girl he coud have done other things w/ other girls and gotten it from that!! so either way! ya'll should go get tested just in case!!

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is it safe to have sex while your on your period?

uh. no dumbass!! just us a condom!! :)

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hey i have a question me and this guy are going out and like his family like his parents like arent the fondest of me like she is holding something against me. see me and this other guy went to prom together and the guy im going out with now is obviously pretty bummed about this so his mom is constantly holding this against me and just wont gimmie a 2nd chance! So i plan on writing her a letter. I need some help on what to say to her. Like explaining why i did go. I went because he proved 2 me it was so important and that he wanted to go with me. Well this guys mom (my bf) is obviously protecting her "little baby boy"... well trying. but i cant tell her why i wanted cuz she'd hate me more. So please help!

how about you talk to her face to face...it might be something else i mean you never know what could be her probably...and then you really shuoldn't worry about it...see i have a probably w/ my boyfriends mom but i'm not going to let that stop us!! so it really shouldn't matter! i mean everyone has some kind of problem w/ there spose!!

so get over it!

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why is it that guy find girl on girl action so attractive??
ill rate if ur advice is good

well lets see...not all guys do!! my boyfriend his not to fond of it...just bC his a homophob ((yeah i think i spelled that worng))...but i think guys like it so much bC it's to hott girls going at it...and they wanna join in...so i mean who knows!!

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Can someone tell me a site that has music codes and can be used for myspace?

yay!! my space rocks!!!

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what happens when you go to the gyno?? i have no earthly idea!!

they just look at you down there...there really it's anything to it...they check to make sure everything is good down there and that "i't's" healthy!

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can a doctor or whatever tell if u have already had sex? i mean how can they tell? cuz your hymen can be broken lots of ways other then sex.... and if they can tell otherwise.. then how can they tell?????????????

the only doctor that can tell if you have had sex or not is the gyno and he can tell by your vigina whole size...

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My boyfriend and I have been going out for a while. We tell eachother everything. The other day I was talking to one of our friends and he was saying that there was rumor that my bf kissed another girl. Should I ask him or should I leave it because I trust he wouldnt do that?
Female 13

what you should do is ask him, but don't bluntly do it!! just be like ((his name)) some people are telling me that you kissed another girl...and i wanted to ask you before i jumped to conculsions...and see what he says...usally you can tell if a guy will deny it or not..like if he gets really pissed off you have to choose ethier A: he did it and his pissed cuz you know about it or B: his pissed but cuz people are saying that shit and you "believe" it!...and since yall talk about everything and tell each other everything...then this shouldn't be so hard for yall!

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I believe in sex after marriage, but my boyfriend is persisiting i have sex with him. He aggrivates me ALL the time and I can see myself giving in. I know I will regret it as soon as I've done "the deed". I'm confused as to what I should do; should I choose the easy option and give in? or go by my wishes and wait?

have you told him that you want to wait...if you haven't you should...and if he doesn't aggree and still presures you into haveing sex my best guess is to leave him bC he doesn't respect you or your belifes...i don't think you should give it...cuz you might regret it or feel really bad afterwords!!

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I think I am pregnant what do I do what are the other side effects beside a missed peiord please help me out

ok retard go get a PG test thing!! i mean hello!!!

us the thing between your ears!

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I'm 15 Okay well my good guy friend and I want to date, but his mother hates my guts. Once his mother said something about me and he was sticking up for me and she said "Don't you start that again or I'll pull you out of school." And believe me she would do it too. So my friends are like just date and dont tell his mother, but his ex girlfriend is one of my good friends and her mother is still really good friends with his mother. So there is no way that we could keep it from her. What do you think I shud do?

well your screwed in the butt hole!!

or yall can just get over and be together!! but you are 15 so it's not like you want go through some more guys!!

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When you are having intercourse, does it matter if the girl is on the bottom or the top? What positions are are best for the guy and the girl? Me and my girlfriend have decided (after going out a year) to have sex and I don't want to mess up or hurt her. I've heard sex hurts the girl. Will she bleed? Also, does sex hurt the guy? I sound stupid, but the doesn't mean I'm not ready. I love her and that's as ready as I can be. I just want to know how to give her my best. -MB-

ok well about the hurt ?...yeah it will probably hurt her and it might hurt you bC if a girl is extermly tight then it will hurt you...if you get what i'm saying!...the bleeding...she might bleed just depends on if her hymn is ripped..if she wears tampons then mabye a little bleeding may happen...but it all depends...and if yall ready!!
top or bottom??...that really doesn't matter...but some advice..try lettting her on top so it can go in and don't just start going right off the bat bC it will hurt her...slowly do this go in a lil and just let her get us to it a lil bit at a time ((i hope you understod what i just said)) since is the 1st time missionary you on top or her on top!! ...
if you have anymore ? i would be glad to answer them..and if there is something that i said that you didn't get let me know and i will try and explain it better for you!!

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My best friend since 5th grade (we're Jr. now) recently started dating this girl. Well, we live next door to each other and she was over at his house this morning. I was in my backyard and they were in his. I over heard her tell him that she doesn't want him hanging out with me anymore. I didn't hear what he said back. Should I ask him about it or wait until he brings it up?

hmm i would be like...well i was outside and i herd ((her name)) say that she didn't want you hanging out w/ me...i didn't hear what you said and i was wounder what you did say...and then kind of talk to him about it and let him know that you will always be there *bros before hoes* yes i am a girl but friends come before love no mater what!!

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Well I have had this problem occuring lately. My vagina area around the outside of it, not the inside seems to get really dry and it will itch. It doesn't do this all the time but it has done it a couple times lately and it is very annoying. There isn't much moisture and I think this may be causing the itch. But why is it so dry? Thanks.

hmm i think you should call your gyno...and if ya don't have one then call one and talk to them and let them tell you! i kind of had this probablem but it was completely dry you might have a infection of some sort!! mine was a yeast but like i said mine wasn't dry all the time!!

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Ok there is this kid at school and i really like him and he likes me. But im afraid to tell him that i like him because i think ill be imberrassed. Plzzzzzzzzz help me.


signed in love but confused.

girl go for it~i don't know how this boy is but some boys kind of like the fact that your honest w/ him!! that's how i got my boyfriend he didn't even know who i was i just got his # called him up told him who i was he remebered me at one of his shows and i told him i liked him we talked for 2weeks and now we are daten!! don't be afried to take chances!!

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