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My Friend has a problem but shes to embaressed to aske it on here.. she gets dirreah ALOT like 3 times a day. and she doesnt know whats rong with her and sometimes she hardly eats and still its shootin out of her like theres no tomorrow... i dont know how to help her i have even googled it... but if you could help that would be great thanks (link)
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It definately sounds like she needs to consult a doctor, after telling her parents.
However, this could be due to diet - like if she always eats oily foods, or there's something she has everyday that she might be allergic to. It could even be heat. Maybe. Even so, she should still have her parents take her to see a doctor.
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well im 13 and my sister is 15 but for some reason, evertime a guy likes her or she goes out with someone, i get really pissed off and scare the guy away. ( I even gave a guy a black eye) I know that shes gonna go out with guys, but i dont want anybody to hurt her or take advantage of her. last summer, we went to the same summer camp, and a guy liked her and thats where i punched a kid. we tell each other everything so she knows about the gfs ive had (only 2) and she didnt like my gfs either. should i give a guy a chance, and am i being too overprotective? (link)
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I'm about 3.5 years younger than my sister, and I was about the same way. I think you need to get to know the guy first. You should also tell her that you would like to get to know the guys she dates.
Eventually one of two things will happen - you'll get to know one of the guys and like that he's dating your sister (at least instead of other guys dating her), or you'll stop worrying about it because you figure either she's gonna date who she wants to regardless of you or that she has to learn the hard way.
For the time being, though, I say keep doing what you're doing, for about 2 years, unless one of the guys turns out to be one such that you like that he's dating your sister.
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my birhtday is in 8 days and i cant decided to have a big party or just hang out with a few friends my back yard isnt to big and i dont no where else i could do it....should i just have a few fiends or just a little party like 20 30 poeple? (link)
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Do both - have a big party one day, then, for another day, invite just your close friends. That way you can have your "WOOOHOOO!!" and you can also have your close, personal, meaningful get together.
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Ok.. so last year at school... i was.. one of the big girls in the class i have one month or more to get in shape. Where can i get good excersise ideas? I want to lose 34 pounds.. HELP! (link)
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Since I already know you're going to get some good excersize resources, I thought I'd suggest some other things. (this is quoted from one of my previous responses). It includes a little about excersize.
"Drink water. No soda, only 1 cup of 100% juice per day (and no roll-overs - if you don't have one on one day, you don't get 2 the next), and try to not eat very many carbs (rice, potatoes, carrots, sauces, sugar, grains, et cetera). For bread, keep away from white and only have some that looks at least "tanned". Meat, green vegetables, and water are your friends; other vegetables, fruits, and milk your buddies; grains and juices your acquaintances; and munchies, sodas, and juice drinks your enemies.
A person should drink half their body weight (measured in pounds) in fluid ounces of water per day. Less water than this reduces your metabolism. More than this won't increase it, but, as long as it's not terribly more, won't be unhealthy. What that means is that you take your weight and divide it by 16, and that's how many fluid measured cups of water you should drink per day. I don't know how milk and juice effect this amount, but you shouldn't be drinking more than 2 cups milk or 1 cup juice a day anyway.
When there's the option of walking or biking vs driving, try to do the former rather than the latter. If you do a lot of watching TV, try to get up and be busy during commercials, or pause the movie every 15 minutes or so and walk around.
Do not purge - this will do tragic things to your body's chemistry, not to mention throw your health right out the window. Good looks are not worth sacrificing your health - a healthy woman is far more attractive than one who is annorexic."
Beyond that, about 1-2 hours per day of just walking or jogging or whatever should help. Just make sure that you don't count anything that's less than about 30 minutes - 15 minutes excersize does almost nothing. 30 minutes excersize twice does less than an hour excersize, but only very little. Although, there are those who argue (including myself) that 30 minutes in the morning and 30 minutes in the evening is better for your metabolism than 1 hour at either.
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hi. I was hoping one of you could help me. I used to smoke pot. not alot maybe 7 times. but i havent since april 20th(i quit). I was hoping if one of you could tell me if i have any THC in me at all. even if its like.. 2%?? after two months?? thanks. (link)
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The military urinalysis guys tell me you're clear. Even so, drink water. Even if you don't have any in your system, it's good for you.
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what does lax mean? i think it might be lacrosse or relax but im not sure (link)
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Lax, I guess, can mean lacrosse, but I imagine only in writing and not speech.
According to dictionary.com:
1. Lacking in rigor, strictness, or firmness. See Synonyms at negligent.
2. Not taut, firm, or compact; slack. See Synonyms at loose.
3. Loose and not easily retained or controlled. Used of bowel movements.
4. Linguistics. Pronounced with the muscles of the tongue and jaw relatively relaxed, as the vowel () in let.
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WARNING: This is one of those gross girly questions about tampons. If you can't handle it, stop reading now.
Ok, so. I just started using tampons, and I'm a little concerned that I'm doing something wrong. I've noticed that when I take it out, one side of the tampon tends to have "stuff" on it, and the other doesn't. And it seems like I heard somewhere that this was a bad thing. Can anyone tell me if I'm doing something wrong? Or is this normal?
Thanks a ton. Sorry about the embarrassing question, but I had to ask. (link)
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Sounds like either it's not all the way in there or not angled correctly
And don't worry about it being about tampons - people who get grossed out by it are either ignorant or naiive, nothing else. Basically, it's not your problem. >^.^
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How can I show my boyfriend that I REALLY love him, but not by making out? (link)
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Tell him what he means to you and what you love about him.
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my friend is anorexic and i need to persuade her to tell and adult, before i do. what should i say?
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"You need to tell someone, before I do, because this is hurting you, even if you can't see it, and I care about you." Or something like.
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Hey I saw this commercial on tv about chafing... what is chafing??? I think it has something to do with shaving your underarms or something. Can someone please explain? (link)
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Chaffing is basically when your skin gets rubbed enough that it starts to be damaged. It will usually cause irritation, redness, moisture (of clear fluid being excreted onto the skin from underneath to lubricate the surface), and loss of the top layer of skin (the dead/dying skin).
Given enough chaffing, the area may become infected or bleed.
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Ok i am the same one who said she was raped and didnt know how to tell her parents because I was to scared...well see the thing is i am to scared to do that because the guy who raped me was my 18 year old cuzin and he said he would kill me if he found out I told anyone and well since hes my cuzin he will find out that people know very quickly even if he just finds out i told someone i was raped he will find a way to kill me...i really have no clue what to do and I am so freaked out...plz help
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That doesn't change a whole lot - instead of being "mom, dad, I was raped" it's "mom, dad, I was raped by my cousin and he swore he'd kill me if I ever told anyone, and I believe him. I need your help." And if they don't do anything quickly enough, you call the police. Or you could forgot the "mom, dad..." and call the police first. I would suggest taking it to your parents first, and then the police.
And I would definately not try to keep away from counseling. I don't care how much you think you'll be ok or don't want to face things or whatever - you should find someone to talk to about what happened that will counsel you so that this does not come back to haunt you in later relationships.
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Even though I get enough sleep I get dark circles under my eyes in the morning an dthey stay until late afternoon. Do you know what causes it and/or what I can do about it?
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Thanx...I rate! (link)
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It may also have something to do with nutrition. But I would definately say get more sleep either way.
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how do u knowif your cherry is popped because i used to play sports (soccer) and i ride bikes sometimes!!
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That depends. If you define a cherry being popped by whether the hymen has ever broken or not, go see a gynecologist. If you define it by sex, then if you've never had sex, it's not popped. If you define it by penetration of an object large enough to break the hymen... it's only popped if that's ever happened.
Chances are that even if your hymen has broken, it doesn't mean much - you're still likely to bleed your first time, unless you masturbate often, in which case it depends what you use, how you do it, and how agressively you do it.
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I'm a little over weight and I'm so sick of it...how do I lose weight by the end of this summer? (link)
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Drink water. No soda, only 1 cup of 100% juice per day (and no roll-overs - if you don't have one on one day, you don't get 2 the next), and try to not eat very many carbs (rice, potatoes, carrots, sauces, sugar, grains, et cetera). For bread, keep away from white and only have some that looks at least "tanned". Meat, green vegetables, and water are your friends; other vegetables, fruits, and milk your buddies; grains and juices your acquaintances; and munchies, sodas, and juice drinks your enemies.
A person should drink half their body weight (measured in pounds) in fluid ounces of water per day. Less water than this reduces your metabolism. More than this won't increase it, but, as long as it's not terribly more, won't be unhealthy. What that means is that you take your weight and divide it by 16, and that's how many fluid measured cups of water you should drink per day. I don't know how milk and juice effect this amount, but you shouldn't be drinking more than 2 cups milk or 1 cup juice a day anyway.
When there's the option of walking or biking vs driving, try to do the former rather than the latter. If you do a lot of watching TV, try to get up and be busy during commercials, or pause the movie every 15 minutes or so and walk around.
Do not purge - this will do tragic things to your body's chemistry, not to mention throw your health right out the window. Good looks are not worth sacrificing your health - a healthy woman is far more attractive than one who is annorexic.
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My guy friend is seriously considering breaking up with his girlfriend. I really like him & he told my friend he would date me if he broke up with his girlfriend. The only problem is that my best friend likes me too. What should I do?
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I'd say give it a little time before going out with the first guy - a person should take time after one relationship before jumping into another. Always.
As far as which to go out with... it depends on who they are and how you feel about them, and if you want to risk it. If you go out with a friend, and it ends badly, or either of you feels uncomfortable about the other afterwards, it could end the friendship.
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ok I really like this guy and I think he might like me but we don't really talk how do I know if he likes me.I will rate high for any one who does not say just ask him. (link)
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If he looks at you alot, or tries to spend a lot of time with you, he prossibly does.
If he does sweet things for you, he probably does, or he's just a real sweetie.
Also, if you like him, if you tell him you do, he will probably tell you if he does or not. Don't ask him, though - after thinking about it "Do you like me?" sounds kinda... unlikely to get you anywhere.
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I have these red bumps all over my legs. They are concentrated on and around my knees and at the tops of my thighs. They're almost like pimples and I've used lots of soaps and cleaners to try to get rid of them, but nothing is working!!! Does anyone knows anything to get rid of these? Whether its a product you buy in the store or some home remedy or w/e... I don't care... Thanks soo much! (link)
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Yeh, it definately sounds like something shaving related, if you shaved your legs a day ago or something.
If not, it might be a rash.
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hi my name is jess im 13 and there is this kid who stalks me. He callc be 10 times or even somtimes he wont give up until i pick up. Then when i go into the grove (which is a place everyone hangs out) he follows me around and it scares me. What can i do to get him away from me?
Plz Help Me!!!!! (link)
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I think you should talk to him. Ask him why he's following you, what it is he wants, et cetera.
If you feel the need to get him to stop via more forcable methods, talk to your parents. If they won't talk to his, you talk to his. If neither of both of your parents care, and you've already talked with him, find a police officer, get him/her to listen to you, and explain your situation, what you've already done, and what you want.
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I am so sry for the miss understanding. I readsome of your advise and asked you the question again befor ei saw that you anwered my question.
If you "Anwer" this question i will give you a 5 for your missunderstanding (link)
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I'm not worried about it - feedback for private questions doesn't count.
But I appreciate being asked specifically, and the apology.
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how do people get boyfriends? i cant get one. (link)
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By being yourself with reckless abandon. That means, just be yourself, don't worry about what other people think. A guy sees this, and he'll either not like you (which is ok, because if he doesn't like you for who you are, he's not the one for you), or he will.
And time... the best relationships take time.
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