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Okay, I'm 14, and I know I have a lot of growing to do in the future, but I'm wondering.
Both my generations before me (my grandmother, + my mom and her sisters [my aunts]) have big boobs, they're all have D+ sizes.

Now, being about a little over 14 and a half, i fit B36 in womens (not juniors, in juniors i'm a 36/38C).

So what i'm wondering is, do boobs grow like from jeans of your mother, or is it all just a within your body sort of thing?

Thanks in advance. :]

It's genes. You can get them from either side too, not just from your moms. You could take after your dad's side or your moms. It sounds like you take after your moms, yet I don't know anything bout your dad's side.lol

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ok my quince is in august and i want my teeth to be cleaned like totally white but how do i do that?

It depends how much you want to spend. You could get the white strips like the person below me said. Or you could try to use whitening tooth paste. Then, you could also get them cleaned and have them whitened from the dentist. Also, avoid coffee and dark soda's that can darken your teeth. Good Luck!!!

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i am a very shy person, even when i am around people i know i always feel like anything i say they are judging me about it! or that they are talking about me! i suppose its more that i am paranoid, but is there anything i can do to stop this!? please help its really embarrasing!

Don't worry what they think!! If they judge you for who you are, it's not worth it! Just be crazy!!! lol Don't worry too much what you say, be yourself! Just think what's the worst that could happen, they don't like me? oh well, you have other friends that aren't shallow! Just HAVE FUN!!lol

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So i just put on a temporary tatoo, and i love it but i hate how they come off like right away.
Is there anything i can put on it or anything i can do to make it stay longer?
thanks :)

I remember I got one from six flags and they like rubbed my skin with rubbing alcohol before they put it on, maybe that helps? When your taking a shower or something, cover it with a bandade or something. Try not to rub anything against it, especially soap! Good Luck!

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My hair is naturally straight with a kink in it but not wavy.
I'd like it to go wavy sometimes.
How do you scrunch hair? I've heard of it but i dont know how to do it.
Also, i know you have to do it when your hair is wet. But when my hair is wet, if i dont tie it up it goes frizzy. So is there any way i can stop it from going frixxy when its down?

Well, when your taking a shower use a shampoo that is for frizzy hair. Then, I'd try to put some frizz-ease hair syrom {sorry spelling lol} into your hair. Put a small amount of jell into your hands, rub in all through your hands. Kinda bend over so your hair is flipped down. Use your hands and take your hair and kinda make your hands into a fist. Keep doing this all throughtout the area you want wavy hair. I hope it works out!!

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I have an audition on Sunday, the only problem is that when I woke up this morning I discovered that I had lost my voice. I can't reschedule the audition. Does anyone have any ways that I can make my voice come back quickly? Any advice would be very much appreciated. I will rate high.

I'd try these vitamin C drops, you can get them from like walgreens they come in differnt flavors. I would drink a lot of water, and try at all costs not to talk. I'm sorry, I don't really know anything else! Good Luck with the audition!!!!

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does getting a blood test hurt?

The needle going in, is just a little sting. Getting the band around your arm is worse. But it's not that bad. Don't worry!!

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Is mastrubation a sin? (religiously)

Well, I'm Catholic and go to a private school. They gave us this whole long stupid lecture that it was bad and breaking one of the commandments..lol

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15/f (this is long.sorry)

I've liked this guy for about a year and so did one of my best friends.but then she told me she didnt like him anymore because she was interested in another guy.

soo about a week ago,i found out they were going out!!i talked to my 'friend' and she keeps denying she told me she didnt like him anymore.but she told me numorous times.lets just say we're not friends anymore.


then one of my other friends sent me an IM covo with her and she said she never liked me as a friend.I just feel so..backstabbed & cheated.

My question is should i just kick my 'friend' and the guy to the curb or should i try to be friends with them again?If i should try talking to them again,what should i say??



Well, it depends. If you think their worth the trouble. If you want to, try and confront her. Then, I'd tell her off, if she doesn't want to be your friend she should just say it! If you don't like conflict just have nothing to do w/ them. Sorry, I don't know what else to say. Sorry she hurt u!!Good Luck!!

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This guy I'm friends with is cute, funny, nice, smart, always smells good, dresses well, has a six pack basically EVERYTHING I look for in a guy. Him and I are really close (he's 15 I'm 14). Well I'm considered one of the prettiest girls in school, honestly there isn't one boy I've liked that I haven't gotten. Well I really want this guy but the big problem is he likes my mom. my mom is a 30 year old single mother and shes pretty. It's like the song Stacies Mom. Well I don't know what to do. Advice me up.

Mabye, he likes her personality and thinks yur vain.

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My friend let this guy she`s been going out for a week finger her today. They've never even kissed, shes 13, he`s 12. He`s already had sex before, but she hasn`t even had her first kiss. She said it was for her, just to have fun, and not cause he pressured her, but doesn`t that sound wrong? She claims I overreacted but I find that taking it too far, just a little to soon.

I just find it wrong because your friend was lowering her self respect. You can't make your friend feel the same, so let her be. I'd just encourage her to wait. If no ones pressuring her, it is completely her choice. So yes I agree it's too soon, but there's not much you can do about it. Sorry!

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a couple nights ago me and my freind met the most gorgeous guy in the world...
snakebites
longish hair
eyeliner
yeah anyways..
we really hit it off that night
so the next night we hung out again..
and i slept with him (didnt have sex just slept) and everyone was asleep and iwas to lazy to pull up my skirt because im like really open to everyone so im like hm whatever
anyways heres are conversation..
it wasl ike 4 in the morning..
and its WHISPERING so it was hot
dylan:ashley...?
me:yeah....?
dylan:are you awake...?
me:yeah.. are you..?
dylan:yeah...

(my heart was beating really fast because everytime i breathed in i had butterflys it was really bad because his hand was under my shirt (not in a perverted way)
anyways 10 minutes later..
dylan:ashley?..
me:yeah...?
dylan:have you ever had any serious relationships?
(we were like REALLY CLOSE)
me:no not really have you?..
dylan:one or two.
me:ohh
30 minutes later
dylan:ashley?...
me:yeah.?
dylan:(in a really serious whispering hot voice) do you like me?.
5 minutes later.
me:yeah

we never spoke again that night but got even CLOSER

and i havent seen him since
but he talks to me still

so my qustion is..
does he like me?..
i know this is long and sorry
i will give you 5s for taking your time and reading this and trying to answer it
thanks SO much.

Omg that was really interesting. lol. Your lucky!!YES HE LIKES YOU!!!

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Me - Female / Fifteen

I am going to an amusement park with a guy who I like (and he likes me) and two couples. I know when we are walking around that there is a big chance that the guy I am going with will put his arm around my shoulders or waist. Should I do the same back (is that what most girls do?.. like putting my arm around his shoulders if he put his around my waist?) Or should I just keep acting normal/flirty (would that make him think I don't like him?)

Thanks in advance!!
Please answer soon we are going in a few days

:) - Emily

I personally think what's most comfortable with you. Like, if he were to put his arm around your shoulders and you want to put your arm around his waist feel free, if he's touching you in the first place, he wouldn't mind you touching him.lol Or if your not the touchy type, you could always just smile at him, it hints you like it and you like him. Unless, you wanna be a tease, and just let him put his arm around you and nothing else. You can also lean on his shoulder too! It's seriously what's most comfortable for you. Have fun!!Good Luck with the boy!!

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Ugh I feel like a retard... i met this guy and we started talking on the phone and he was just so sweet so i started liking him... and it seemed that he liked me too... and today i was like im really starting to like u and guess what he didnt say anything, he doesnt like me i feel so stupid and i just want to cry... like i really like him and i feel like i was lead on. What did i do wrong?

I think you were lead on, maybe intentionally or not. Guys tend to do this on accident when their bored and start talking to girls. He was trying to be friends, but you felt something else. Sorry, but there's nothing you can do.

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does anyone elses inner lips go out past their inner lips?? because mine do and im sooooo self consious!!!! i try not to be but i am....if soo has anyone did it with their inner lips like that

thanx guyss

Do you mean outer lips go out past inner lips??? well if you do, I can't relate, but I think their pretty. Not a lot of people have bigger lips. Enjoy it. It's a lot better than having thin lips {suck for kissing anywayz lol}. I personally wish my lips were bigger, so don't worry bout it any!!

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yeah sorry about the subject but..
what do you do when all you can think about is this one person?
and everything you do in your life revolves around him...because you love him? but he doesn't love you?
i feel like, crap.
and what now.

Oh God, do I know what you mean. Hang out with your friends, try to find an interest in someone else. Do activities to get him off your mind. There's really nothing much you can do. I'm sorry!

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Im having a friend come over my small apartment their really is nothing to do and we are spending all day here with no one to drive us anywhere and nothing to do. I was woundering if you could give me ideas for two 16 year olds thank you

I agree w/ all the below stuff. But something fun to do is watch like old movies like little kid movies lol. It may sound stupid but I find it fun. You can also prank phone call. I'm really sorry I don't know anything that wasn't said below.

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well to start things off i really liked the girl the first time we started going out and we went out for three months and then broke up...she broke up with me because she said that i was to nice and just a great friend and i was not thrilled by this but i lived with it and became her best friend she has ever had but now that i have done that i really want to get back together with her cause she is such a great girl .... this pass weekend i hung out with her everyday and then on sunday i was taking her home and i told her that this weekend has been great and i really enjoyed spending time with her and then i asked if she wanted to give us another shot and she said she dont no...Now i love this girl to death and would do anything for her what do you think she will say ... and do yoou think i made the wrong move?? Thanks I rate!!

Tell her you've still had feelings for her since you broke up and you love her. You'd do anything for her and you think she's a great girl. Tell her that you've been trying to be friends, but it's difficult bc you love her {I'm just assuming its hard}. I would just tell her everything you feel for her. I'm pretty sure most girls would be screaming OMG!!inside if a boy just said that to them. Good Luck, there's not much you can do but express how you feel and give her time.

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My Best friend has had problems with an eating disorder and with cutting for some time now. She is in therapy and recieving treatment for both, however she still sometimes relapses and doesn't eat or cuts. Her boyfriend seems to think it is apropiate to say things to her when she doesnt eat like "If you don't eat tommorrow then I'm not going to either" Or if she ends up cutting he cuts himself. I think that he is making her feel worse when all she really needs is support... What should I do...Opinions? Advice?

I would suggest taking her boyfriend to the side and saying I think what your saying isnt helping. He seams like he's trying to help her stop, but I'd tell him it is working in reverse. Maybe suggest to him to talk to her and see why she's so unhappy, reassure her so she won't feel so insecure. Just be there for her when she is feeling down. You can also do the same, if you both are doing this maybe she'll stop. There's nothing much you can do, because she's already receiving help, but just be there for her. I'm sorry bout your friend, and good luck to you and her!

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My bf just broke up with me a few hours ago and I feel nothing. I really liked him, but I just feel numb. What happened was a guy added me and started telling me my bf had been saying things about me behind my back to his ex. This guy quoted snippets of the conversation with his ex and she was saying stuff like "he says he still loves me... his current gf is only ok for now, its not the same" I was really upset and didn't know what to believe. When my bf got on, I asked him about it and he got really mad, saying I didn't trust him at all and trusted this guy over him, etc. He didn't deny the guys allegations, just spent the entire time trying to figure out who it was. I got really upset and went offline for a few hours.. then came back online and told him I wanted to work things out. He said there's no chance of that and we're over, put it down to us being different people and that since I'm a senior he shouldn't be distracting me cause I want to go to college. He also said there's too many problems with us, but this is the first problem we've had in our relationship. He did later deny what the guy said, but I'm still unsure whether he was telling the truth or lying.

I just can't understand it. I told him I shouldn't have listened to the guy and I was sorry but he said we were over. He didn't want to work things out. He said that since we've been friends for years we should stay friends, but I said I can't have that because he was not willing to put the effort in to make things work with us so he didn't deserve friendship. Plus I know I'd never be able to get over him if we were friends. I said see you sometime and that was the end.
What exactly happened here? Should I chase after him and try and get him back? I have a feeling it'll sink in later. Was I in the wrong? This is the first time I've been broken up with and I just don't know what to do. I feel we broke over over a simple misunderstanding but something tells me he was just looking for an excuse to break up. I need opinions here. Thanks and sorry for the length.

The exact fricken thing happen to me. He was looking for an excuse. You caught him talking to her and saying that stuff and he got mad and tried to turn the whole situation back on you, but you did nothing wrong. He was just trying to find a way to break up with you, and try to leave you w/ the blame. You did nothing wrong. Forget him, he can't seam to stay w/ one girl at the same time without flirting w/ another. I'm sorry, that happend to you, but your better off without him. I would not be his friend, he hasnt earned it.

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