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this stinks.please answer!!
15/f (this is long.sorry)
I've liked this guy for about a year and so did one of my best friends.but then she told me she didnt like him anymore because she was interested in another guy.
soo about a week ago,i found out they were going out!!i talked to my 'friend' and she keeps denying she told me she didnt like him anymore.but she told me numorous times.lets just say we're not friends anymore.
then one of my other friends sent me an IM covo with her and she said she never liked me as a friend.I just feel so..backstabbed & cheated.
My question is should i just kick my 'friend' and the guy to the curb or should i try to be friends with them again?If i should try talking to them again,what should i say??
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Personally I think you shouldn't talk to your friend. She wasn't a very good friend and you deserve better than that. Same with him.
That's just my opinion on the conflict. Plus you shouldn't have to say anything to them, like I said you are better then that. Be the bigger person and don't kick them to the curb. Hope this helps!!!
Good Luck!!
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Well, it depends. If you think their worth the trouble. If you want to, try and confront her. Then, I'd tell her off, if she doesn't want to be your friend she should just say it! If you don't like conflict just have nothing to do w/ them. Sorry, I don't know what else to say. Sorry she hurt u!!Good Luck!!
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I went through something like this once: one of my oldest friends made the statement "I've greatly disliked him for several years now" about me on his blog. I don't doubt that your friend did, in fact, tell you that she was not interested in this guy. But now she's eating her words and doesn't have what it takes to admit that she was wrong. It's pride, plain and simple. ...of course there is always the possibility that there is a missunderstanding somewhere, but it doesn't seem like that because of the way she's talking about you.
You have every right to feel backstabbed and cheated. Not by the guy... but by your "friend." My advice would be to pull back from this situation. If the guy is good, he'll see through your friend and get away from her. For now, don't bother with either of them, it's not worth it. Your friend has made a choice, and if you ask me it wasn't the best. Let her live with it a while and see what happens.
Good luck! Hope that helped!
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