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Was this wrong?
My friend let this guy she`s been going out for a week finger her today. They've never even kissed, shes 13, he`s 12. He`s already had sex before, but she hasn`t even had her first kiss. She said it was for her, just to have fun, and not cause he pressured her, but doesn`t that sound wrong? She claims I overreacted but I find that taking it too far, just a little to soon.
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well, to tell you the honest truth- yes- it is a free country and we have the right to form opinions on things- but for you to judge the things they do and say that they are going at it too soon- really isnt up to you. yes, its a good idea to bring up to her what you think- but for you t ocarry it out, or argue with her over it- is none of your right. its her body- and i hate to say it- but if she wants to give it awa- theres nothing you can do to stop her.
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yeah, that is VERY wrong. The fact that a 12 year old has gone NEAR having sex before is shocking. How is it possible that your friend is dum enough to do that with him? Oh, and the reason that 12 year old is so into sex is probably that he was abused sexually as a young child.
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I just find it wrong because your friend was lowering her self respect. You can't make your friend feel the same, so let her be. I'd just encourage her to wait. If no ones pressuring her, it is completely her choice. So yes I agree it's too soon, but there's not much you can do about it. Sorry!
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