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hey am lesty from massachussettes.i love talking to people and getting to know them.ihave short black hair with big hershey kisses brown eyes.am 5'2 and lovin it.lets say i love to have lots of fun unlimited.i dont smoke ,drink or do drugs.but the rest am there.the reason i dont smoke is cause i play sports and it kinda slows me down.

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Ok, I'm 13, I want a job, and I love baby sitting little kid's. So how do you get this job? I rate high for good awnsers. thank's! ;)

girl, cjb

put flyers at libraries and pulic places sayin you are a baby sitter lookin 4 work.tALK TO your guidance counlser that u want a job.

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OK so on wednesday i start highschool. In my geometry there r 4 other freshman(2 best friends, and a set of twins) nd the rest r all snobby sophomores. This means that sometimes, i will have sophomore-junior lunch. Im really nervous about that, cus i dont know who i will sit with. I can just picture myself walking in the cafeteria, with no one to eat my lunch with. What should i do? I cant switch out of my geometry class, and im really sensitive, so i wood be totally bummed. Pleeees help me !!!

maybe try making friends with the freshman in you class

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so i heard that cocoa butter get rid of scars.. where can i get it and how much does it cost?

palmers cocoa butter formular .at cvs

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Ok, so my parent's have been devorced for a long time and my dad is re-married. my mom has hit rock bottom, and now I have to tell an investigator ware I want to live. I am stuck in the middle, both parents think I wana live with them but I really havent decided. please help me! I'll rate 5's for none stupid awnsers.

girl 13.

MAKE A decision about who you want to live with

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(Sorry if this is long but i really need help). Me and My friend... lets call him Seth... well me and him have been friends for ever... and well in like june i found out who he liked because he told me.. and then i think that i realized that i like him... and he found out too.. and then it seemed like he was ignoring me after that and talking to the girl that he liked annd just like ignoring me.. so i told my friend that and then he said he wasnt and didnt want this to ruin are friendship.. so then he forgot my birthday even though ive know him since 2nd grade.. and then recently it seemed like he was ignoring me.. so i said something to him about it.. and he didnt say anything right away.. so i signed off and i have aim forwording on my phone.. so i got his message later because my phone was lost and the messages said "you no what i cant make you belive wut the truth is because its right in front of you... im not gonna try to keep apologizing because your the 1 that keeps ignoring.. making up dumbass lies about me friends... please.. you got some fucking nerve... if ya wanna be like that fine dont belive me fuck off" and that like really hurt me.... and i don tknow what hes talking about with making lies about him.. and now i dont know what to do but idk.. because he hasnt been on and i havent been able to talk to him.. i just feel empty inside.. and idk... PLEASE HELP ME.... what should i do?

are you attacking his friends.if u r apologize.you need yto get him to talk to you in person.maybe someone did say those things and blamed you.U NEED TO TALK IN PERSON AND TRUTH PLZ.

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my mom went threw my journels and red some stuff about how bad i want to die and details about a time where i was raped and she flipped out at me

i feel so betrayed that MY mother did this because she always talks about how journels are a good thing, and one time i had my friend pamela sleep over and she wont let me have her over anymore because pamela snooped and red one of my journels.. and my sister read my moms journel once and she was grounded for 2 weeks

she doesn't listen to what i say though when i try to explain how i feel she just says im being selfish and just trying to turn this around on her

what can i do to make her see what she did was rong she wont even apoligize..

maybe you and your mother need to have a discussion where u both listen to each other .the first thing you need to understand is that your mother loves you and both of you need to communicate better.and find a safer place to hide your journels where no one will read them.

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I'm not sure if anyone could point me in the right direction, but my ex BF has been on a wide range of anti-depressants and has problems sleeping. Currently he's not taking any medication apart from valium for when he cant sleep.

I will try and explain his behaviour: If you were to meet him in a social setting, he seems extremely normal and outgoing like anyone else. He has motivation to go out and do things like everyone else. However when it comes to relationships he goes cold. He says he feels numb, and that he cant be affectionate cos he doesnt feel anything. He says its nothing to do with me, but its the way he is.

I just dont understand what his problem might be, if he even has a problem, he might just be using it as an excuse... anyone have any ideas?

i think he is using thatas an excuse.give him an altimatum.he either feels or he doesnt.

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Okay me and my boyfriends one year anniversary is coming up. See IDK what to get him. I have gotten him two watches you know X-mas and B-day and so far for our anniversary I got him a chair massager cause he dont leave his computer that he just built. It seems super corny considering it was $20 at walmart and each watch was atleast $60. He's getting me a promise ring I know for sure and hes already gotten me this bracelet and a christmas ring that's 10K gold. I feel like I'm being too cheap. So I dont know what to get him . And no I can't get him anything for his computer cause he's too picky. I'm 16 and I know that we will last a long time because he doesnt push me into doing things and hes soo sweet. so what should I buy him? I have a $150 limit.

Another thing he has this job but only gets paid $45 a week cause he works one day because of an overload of employees. But like every week we go to dinner and a movie and he spends atleast $30. I want to pay some times but I'm flat broke and my city is so small that teenagers are managers of over populated stores like burger king winn-dixe subway papa johns, sad thing is that thats half our stores. How can I get fast money cause I need the money by October 21!!

maybe you should try tutoring

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is there anyway to check how many minutes you have left for the month (NOT for a pre-paid. for a plan) people say you can.. is there a way?

yea.but it depends on what kind of phone you have.but there are call timers where you can check how manty minutes you have used and subtrat from the minutes you have a month.

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I might be starting a drama club next year and I'm thrilled, but I have one problem. I know I'll probably get stage fright or something along the lines of that. I've been up on stage before and I got kind of nervous but not too but, but this is different. A lot of people come to see the plays, and if I get a leading role, I don't want to get super scared.

Is there anything that I can do to help my nerves?

when your up onstage you can think its your friends you talkig to.also try to imagine that its just paractice and no one is watching you.concentrate on what your doing.

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tonight my friend is having a party and im in charge of the music i need to make at least like 3cds i already made 2
can any one give me songs we can dance to?
i'll rate high

haven,rock this country by shania twain.cluddin by marques houston.

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There's this kid , and he's in my junior high class. He hangs out with all the biaches in my class, and his "girlfriend", but all they really do is make-out at parties and stuff. But anyways, in other words, he hangs out with the popular crowd. He never talks to me, and now he's acting wierd. Opening doors for me, just stuff like that. i'm getting really suspicious. Can anyone tell me what he might be up to?

i think this kid likes you.

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Ok here it goes I have tried so many other websites to get advice back and all the other websites are just too busy or liars. So here I go for the third time telling my story and hoping to get some advice back for once. Ok there is this guy I have liked since last year. We met when I started as a freshman and he was a sophmore. He likes to joke around with people so earlier last year for no apparent reason he and his friends start calling me deuce. This goes on for awhile and it gets really annoying but then I start to like him and I didnt tell my friends about it until 2 months of liking him. Anyway we eventually become friends. And his best friend was calling the guy that I like my boyfriend so ok you could say that he liked me I mean it was pretty obvious. But nothing ever happened b/c my best friend started liking his best friend and then the guy that I like just I guess kinda got annoyed and told my best friend that he didn't like me but then told me he never said he didn't like me. An this all happened back in March of last year. In April we started talking again until he supposdly went out with a 7th grader for like 2 days I don't know if it was a joke or to make me jealous but whatever after they ended he came right back to me. In May our friendship got even stronger we started flirting constantly and talking online and over the summer we talked online and we had some really good conversations. Once online he told me he cared about me and to stop being friends with my best friend b/c she brought out the worst in me. And when school started last week and I walked in the cafeteria for our break he just looked at me and smiled and then at lunch he came over and talked to me(and he hugged me on Friday.) And after school all of last week we talked everyday after school. Until last Thursday when he gave me mean looks and said I look at him too much. I know he doesn't like that and I try to not look at him but its just so hard.( and I catch him looking at me too) I really like him I think he does too but is just afraid of what people will think or of having something great with me.)r maybe he is waiting for me to make the move. I mean I just dont know. SO what do you think???

maybe you should talk to him about it.tell him how you feel.if he likes he will try working things out.but i personally think that he likes playing with your mind.maybe you need to give him a break and see if he will come back.tell him you are serious and when he does things like that it hurts your feelings.if he likes you he would care if he hurt your feelings.please rate

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I like him so much. We have been through so much. He turned me down once but we didn't really know each other then. We have become good friends. When we aren't around everyone we talk and smile and flirt. But when we are we don't talk but we do look at each other except apparently I look too much b/c he said that my eyes were like lasers and he can't sleep at night. I hope I didn't push me away by doing that. Do you think we could have a chance?

sdah you so have a chance

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I Need a awsome cheer! IT can be a genral cheer or a football cheer. NOT A SIDELINE a cheer.


Help;
My Town Is East Palestine
My Macot is : Bulldogs
My colors are: Brown orange and White




HELP: GAME THURSDAY AND ONLY TWO CHEERS! EASY 5++

go bullgos
go go bulldogs.

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I need advice on what to do!!
well this is what is goin on im 15 almost 16 and im goin out with this boy named travis be 13 about to be 14 and we have been together for almost a year and at first things were good but now they arent to good and i dont know what to do because i really love him!! ok well for the past 2 weeks he has been acting real weird hes starting to do drugs and its messin him up and turing him in to someones else that isnt him...well hes been avoiding me for the past 3 days he hasnt called me in the past 2 days and today me and my best friend cortnie went up to his apartments to hang out and to see if he was really there and we go up there and he was there and he wouldnt talk to me and he was hiding from us and wouldnt answer his door or phone!! i really love him alot and its gonna hurt me real bad to break up wit him i just dont kno what to do im just really attached to him!!! if you could just give me some advice i would appreciate it!!
thanks
~*~*katie*~*~

yeah i think travis need help to qiute drugs.and also maybe he is trying to send you a message .so this is what you should tdo.find him when his not hi and have a complete conversation on how your relationship stands.

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i never did anything wroung teachers jude me before they get to kno me because of jason thats why i want to do good in skool to prove im me my own person i may look like jay but i dont act like him [all the time ] im me and im ganna prive that to anyone that doesnt belive me
all the teachers give me dirty looks in the halls just looking at me its like stomping on the only lil faith i have they point me out of the crowd of people as the trouble maker im ganna show the shuve it in there face that im diffrent and that i may be relatted but i love him and i cant change my family and i never would
should i realy prove to the teachers and plz tell me if its fare or not

y do you care what the teachers think.so jasons a bad kid not you.so dont care what they think cause they dont even know the real you.so y should u be bothered.i mean you cant choose your family.just do good in school and prove it to yourself that you r a good kid.and its soo not fair u need to have your parents talk to the teachers.they r supposed to teach you not judge you.im me

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I've liked my best friend for a year now. we've been very close friends for three years, and we're just very happy being friends and never talked about a relationship. the thing is .. i've been getting jealous lately because he's been talking to this girl about hanging out and hooking up. I normally wouldn't mind, but he hasn't hooked up with anyone ever .. and we are seniors in high school. Eveytime they are supposed to go on a date or hang out, he cancels it and end up hanging out with me, which is understandable .. but when we hang out .. it's like we have a stronger connection other than "just friends".

i feel like he sends me mixed signals, and i know if i try to take it to another level and he's not up for it .. we won't be as close anymore. what's a good way to find out without asking?

maybe you need to talk about this with him.tell him how you feel.he may like you but is afraid to complicate your friendship.hes afraid you dont like him.so thats y he ask this other girl out to make you jealous.so be brave and make the first move.u will never know until you try,

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I've been going out with this guy for a month now. I like him a lot. But lately I don't really wanna hang out with him, like the other day he asked me out on a date and I told him I'd talk to him that day. I dunno, but I just don't want to be around him. I am fine talking to him online somtimes, just hanging out in person, I don't really wanna see him. Why is that?

maybe you are folling out of love woth him.so you need to talk to him about that before both of you get really mixed upand hurt

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My brother wants some picture of boys hairstyles he's 14 anybody know any good websites??

you freekin bitch

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