I've liked my best friend for a year now. we've been very close friends for three years, and we're just very happy being friends and never talked about a relationship. the thing is .. i've been getting jealous lately because he's been talking to this girl about hanging out and hooking up. I normally wouldn't mind, but he hasn't hooked up with anyone ever .. and we are seniors in high school. Eveytime they are supposed to go on a date or hang out, he cancels it and end up hanging out with me, which is understandable .. but when we hang out .. it's like we have a stronger connection other than "just friends".
i feel like he sends me mixed signals, and i know if i try to take it to another level and he's not up for it .. we won't be as close anymore. what's a good way to find out without asking?
letter_girl22 answered Saturday August 27 2005, 12:18 pm: maybe you need to talk about this with him.tell him how you feel.he may like you but is afraid to complicate your friendship.hes afraid you dont like him.so thats y he ask this other girl out to make you jealous.so be brave and make the first move.u will never know until you try, [ letter_girl22's advice column | Ask letter_girl22 A Question ]
TrojNgrl6907 answered Saturday August 27 2005, 12:13 pm: You should ask him why keep wondering if he does or doesnt feel that way...you need to find out for yourself and when the moments right, look at him and tell him how you feel about him, you should be able to talk to him if you are as close friends as you say you are [ TrojNgrl6907's advice column | Ask TrojNgrl6907 A Question ]
Yclipse answered Saturday August 27 2005, 10:47 am: I, honestly don't know. You have to ask him. I'm in this situation with my close guy friend. Except vice versa. If you guys are that close, you should be able to talk it out =] we did. [ Yclipse's advice column | Ask Yclipse A Question ]
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