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I just don't know
Ok here it goes I have tried so many other websites to get advice back and all the other websites are just too busy or liars. So here I go for the third time telling my story and hoping to get some advice back for once. Ok there is this guy I have liked since last year. We met when I started as a freshman and he was a sophmore. He likes to joke around with people so earlier last year for no apparent reason he and his friends start calling me deuce. This goes on for awhile and it gets really annoying but then I start to like him and I didnt tell my friends about it until 2 months of liking him. Anyway we eventually become friends. And his best friend was calling the guy that I like my boyfriend so ok you could say that he liked me I mean it was pretty obvious. But nothing ever happened b/c my best friend started liking his best friend and then the guy that I like just I guess kinda got annoyed and told my best friend that he didn't like me but then told me he never said he didn't like me. An this all happened back in March of last year. In April we started talking again until he supposdly went out with a 7th grader for like 2 days I don't know if it was a joke or to make me jealous but whatever after they ended he came right back to me. In May our friendship got even stronger we started flirting constantly and talking online and over the summer we talked online and we had some really good conversations. Once online he told me he cared about me and to stop being friends with my best friend b/c she brought out the worst in me. And when school started last week and I walked in the cafeteria for our break he just looked at me and smiled and then at lunch he came over and talked to me(and he hugged me on Friday.) And after school all of last week we talked everyday after school. Until last Thursday when he gave me mean looks and said I look at him too much. I know he doesn't like that and I try to not look at him but its just so hard.( and I catch him looking at me too) I really like him I think he does too but is just afraid of what people will think or of having something great with me.)r maybe he is waiting for me to make the move. I mean I just dont know. SO what do you think???
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Well first of all, I think you should talk to him while he is alone, and then while people are around. If he acts differently (in a bad way) towards you when there are people there, then he definitely can't like you that much. Tell him that you like him and ask him what he thinks about you. He sounds like the kind of guy who is just a day by day person. Seems like he could like you one day, then not even care if he ever saw you again the next. Don't give him as much attention as you do now, and see if it bothers him or if he gets mad b/c you stopped talking/looking at him as much. Who knows, maybe he is just playing hard to get. Guys are liars tho, so be careful what you believe. Another you could do just to see if he likes you, is talk to other guys! Make it seem like you are interested in them, and what they have to say. Don't make that big of a scene out of it tho, just talk to them and see what this guy does. If he gets jealous and you can tell, he probably likes you atleast a little bit. Good Luck!
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maybe you should talk to him about it.tell him how you feel.if he likes he will try working things out.but i personally think that he likes playing with your mind.maybe you need to give him a break and see if he will come back.tell him you are serious and when he does things like that it hurts your feelings.if he likes you he would care if he hurt your feelings.please rate
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no offence but he sounds like an ass. I think you really need to talk to him about this, you need to tell him that hes leeding you on. after a guy says thoses kinda things to you he shouldnt want to take them back or treat you the way that he is. looking at someone shouldnt be a crime, specially if he looks at you too. my advice is to go and talk to him and ask him if he even likes you or just ask him why hes being mean to you. if he liked you hed tell you whats wrong, instead of ruining the relationship youve got going
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