Name is Layne, age is 17, occupation is babysitter. still answering questions on here even after 3 years is awesome, right? no, just proves i don't have a life. so. if you have a question, feel free to ask it on here or you can IM me on my screenname. i can answer most questions about the categories i have listed. i don't know much about sickness or physical health, or stuff to wear when your husband just died but the man who killed him, whom you're having an affair with, is going to be at the funeral. :) have a wonderful day.
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Location: Nashville
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Age: 17
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i have had 3 back surgerys in 2009 and 2010 and since then i have been on major morphine pills to help with the pain. the operations were complete failures and now I live in constant severe pain. some days are better than others but I just cant stand it any longer and I am tired of ruining my wife and the rest of my familys lives by being aburden to them. I never feel good enough to go camping and do things we used to do all the time. So, If I were dead and gone. they could go on and enjoy thier lives. what is the easiest way for me to end my life without it looking like suicide? thanks... and sorry for the bad spelling (link)
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I'm sorry you feel like you are a burden on your family, but think about how they would feel if you were gone? They would not be able to just "go on and enjoy their lives". If they were able to, then there is something seriously wrong. If you're going to kill yourself, there is no possible way of killing yourself without someone finding out that you killed yourself. Whether it be the cops, or your wife, someone will find out. And not only will your family have to live with the pain of losing a father and husband, but they will also have to deal with the fact that that person willingly took their life without consulting them first. Talk to your wife. Tell her you're depressed and need help. In certain psychiatric hospitals, they can give you pain medicines and help you find an anti-depressant that will work for you. Chronic pain is very difficult to live with, and there is really no getting rid of it, but if you just try, you can find something to help ease it a bit. In the meantime, please, talk to a doctor.
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I wouldn't call it daydreaming but ever since I can remember I've had different "life scenarios" playing out in my mind at night when I can't fall asleep or during times when I was really bored.
I can focus fine on the world around me and I've actually done pretty great with life so far. I graduated with honors,an entire binder full of awards,two technology certifications and other random things. The only problems I'm having right now are with finding a job so soon out of high school but I figure I'll get one sooner or later.
I just feel like I should have stopped this by now.
They aren't normal daydreaming about boyfriends and such. They're like entire story lines with intricate details with some elements taken from my favorite books or movies. I'll have the main person which is usually "me" but with different characteristics based on what I think I would want to look like/the abilities I would want to have if I were in that setting. Then the surrounding characters,some also taken from books and others that I completely make up with entire very detailed life stories.
I even reserve time to think them out at night. Like I'll say well its 1am now if I get into bed and listen to music I can "daydream" for two hours and go to sleep at 3.
I'm perfectly normal the rest of the time though. I've never told anybody about them before so people think I'm just this normal intelligent pretty girl who's just like anybody else and the only times I obsess on these "daydreams" is when I'm to upset with something going on in my life and I use them to calm me down and get my mind off of whatever it is.
I CAN stop doing it but not for long. I mean there's been times where I was so preoccupied with life I didn't think about them for a week or more but I always come back to it eventually. It's like a part of me I can't get rid of.
Do you think since is hasn't really affected my life that I shouldn't worry about it?
I don't want to go to a psychiatrist because I know they're going to tell me I'm schizophrenic or have a dissociative disorder and put me on some sort of medication that will dumb me down and label me as "mentally unstable" when I'm really fine except for the daydreams and the last thing I need right now is all of my family and friends thinking I'm a nutcase when I'm not.
What do you think I should do about this?
I mean I'm not hurting anybody or anything so does it really matter what I daydream about?
Should I be happy I have something in my mind to escape to while leading a normal life when others break down and become depressed and suicidal or worse?
Sometimes when I look at the big picture I think "Isn't this what authors all around the world do?" They create stories in their mind with plots and characters and lots of details like me except they sell their stories. Especially authors like Agatha Christie who have something like 87 books,she must be doing what I'm doing constantly right? So is there anything even really wrong with me?
I can actually write really well btw (I've received awards from the national library of poetry).
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I'm almost 20 and I still "daydream" like that. I'm definitely not schizophrenic. Its called having a creative mind that's prone to boredom. So you create a new reality for yourself. Don't believe everything you hear; that doesn't make you crazy. You said you can write well, so start keeping a journal or something. You don't need help or any kind of therapy, you just need something to keep you from getting so preoccupied with your thoughts.
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M/17. I was talking to this girl, and we were talking about birthdays and stuff. I told her that I thought she was older. One year older than she is now. She didn't say anything to me about it, but she started acting different after that day. Are things like that offensive? Does it say anything about me? (link)
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Typically, if a woman is over 25 and you say you thought she was older, its offensive. But if she is under 23, it shouldn't have offended her unless you have found yourself one hell of a sensitive woman. Teenage girls are usually offended if you say you thought they were younger than they are.
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hey! i want to know how to have phone sex?
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i think you posted this question three times now, and i've answered it. twice. please stop re-posting questions. they take at least 5 hours to go through the system and someone will answer as soon as they can, okay?
thank you.
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OK so I just want to know a definition for each of these and give an example please....
1. Oral sex
2. Anal sex
3. Fingering
4. Hand job
5. Blow job
6. (term) riding on top?
7. Condom
8. Phone Sex
Thank you! Please help! (link)
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1: sexual contact of the mouth. ex: a girl sucking on a guy's penis.
2: sexual contact of the anus. ex: a man sodomizing another man.
3: sexual contact of the fingers. ex: a guy putting his fingers inside a girl's vagina.
4: a girl/guy masturbating a guy. ex: one is grabbing the penis and sliding their hand up and down the shaft.
5: oral sex, refer to #1
6: missionary position during sex. the guy is laying down and the girl is straddling him.
7: a contraceptive that is 85% accurate. ex: a balloon-like item that you slide onto the man's penis to act as a net to catch the sperm and keep it from going inside the woman's vagina. it is also a good method when trying to avoid acquiring STDs.
8: a form of role-play, usually for long distance relationships. ex: this is purely imaginative. two people are on the phone, masturbating (usually) and talking dirty and its just a sexual activity that is almost entirely noises. no penetration or actual "sex" ever goes on during this.
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My boyfriend always calls me very sweet things like beautiful and gorgeous. He sometimes even says im hot and sexy but more in a joking way. I am just wondering about some ideas of things to say back to him. I need some advice on how to respond to those things and what to say back. (link)
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I've heard of a lot of guys liking to be referred to as "daddy" and stuff. But if that kind of freaks you out (as it should), call him one of those complimenting words. For instance, I'll call my boyfriend "handsome" or "good-lookin'". Or, just stick to the usual: babe or baby.
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How do i have phone sex? advice please! (link)
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typically, it involves two people talking on the phone while masturbating. theres a lot of dirty talk involved. its pretty much just masturbating and making a lot of audible sounds so the person on the other end of the phone is turned on.
good luck
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What does sex feel like? I'm obviously a virgin, and I'm just wondering how to have the best time and how you feel, bcos I'm just getting ready to do it with my boyfriend and it's his first time too and I want to make it perfect. Any tips?
F/14 (link)
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Well, first tip is that no matter how many replies you get on this question, its different for everyone. One of my friends bled a lot and said it hurt really bad, my other friend said it didn't hurt her. For me, it hurt a lot but I didn't bleed. Next tip is that your first time is never perfect. No matter what you do, it will never be the fantasy in your head. Maybe after you guys have been active for awhile, it'll get more dreamy, but the first time (especially for two virgins) is usually awkward and weird. My final tip is to wait a little longer to have sex. 16 or 17 is the common age for girls to start having sex. Obviously, this is just a suggestion. If you're going to do it, then I can't stop you. But I speak from personal experience that you WILL wish that you'd waited. I know I do.
I hope I helped :)
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I'm on my period and im supposed to go swimming soon. I bought someone tampons , and tried 3 times but it was very uncomfortable and it hurt . What can I do to get used to it ? Did it hurt cause I;m a virgin? (link)
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The main thing girls forget when using tampons for the first time is to relax the muscles. Whether you're a virgin or not, you're not supposed to even feel it in there. Try this: Sit on the toilet with your legs spread. Take a deep breath and RELAX YOUR MUSCLES. Pretend you're trying to go to sleep, if you feel any of your leg or stomach muscles tightening, release them. Let the breath out really slow while inserting the tampon. Depending on the applicator of the tampon, insert it so that the part that holds the tampon is completely inside you. Make sure its at an angle, as well. (For instance, if you're sitting and relaxed, then your vaginal opening should be facing outward, but about 45 degrees downward. Make sure the tampon matches this angle so it doesn't hurt the walls of your vagina.) Keeping a slight grip on the edge of the part of the applicator that is inside you, (With your middle finger and thumb) push on the other end of the applicator with your index finger. While pushing in the tampon, the first half of the applicator will try to escape your opening. Hold in into place until you feel the entire tampon inside you. Then just remove and throw away the applicator. Its going to take a little bit of practice, but soon, you'll wonder why it was so hard for you.
I hope I helped :)
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I have a friend who has a partner,but lately,he has been calling me a lot telling me how much he misses me when he doesn't see me for a while or how much he needs me,in the night when he's in bed he sends me several texts saying'I wish you were with me right now'or'I'd like to spend the whole night hugging you',plus he knows I'm in a relationship so I don't know why he would tell me all these things.All I can do is laugh and asking him to stop talking nonesense,I don't wanna be disrespectful either,because I appreciate him as a friend,what can I say to him? Thanks! (link)
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I know plenty of guys like this. Sadly, being in a relationship doesn't mean anything to most guys. They'll still cheat whether they love the girl (or boy) or not. What you need to do is sit him down when you two are alone. Face him, make him aware that you need his full attention, and that he has yours. Tell him straight up that you've been feeling a little awkward. Tell him that you don't feel right when he says those things you mentioned earlier, and also remind him that he has a girlfriend and its not right. But don't be mean! Tell him you appreciate him and love him AS A FRIEND. And tell him you don't want any more, or any less than a good friend from him. With guys, they don't catch little hints that girls try to send. You have to be up front and firm. Don't sugarcoat anything. Don't beat around the bush. Tell him exactly what I just said, ad-lib wherever you find the need necessary. Its going to be hard, he might get his feelings hurt. He may even try to deny that he has feelings for you. But you're not stupid, you can tell when a guy is into you, right? Right. So, like I said, stay firm, be up front, don't sugarcoat, don't beat around the bush, but also be respectable. Hopefully, this will give him the heads up that maybe you're not so into the idea of cheating on your boyfriend. And that you don't condone him cheating on his partner.
I hope I helped :)
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I dont burn hurt or anything i havent done anything different but my urine smells awfull on my panties & when i pee (link)
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If its a sour kind of smell, it means you're dehydrated. Try drinking more water. If its kind of a weird, maybe sweet fishy smell, that would be discharge. It comes out of the vagina, and all it means is that your body is purifying itself and is in proper working order. :)
Hope I helped :)
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I have a problem with the smell of my butt. Every time I clean it with my soap, it doesn't go away! I've tried shaving, waxing, cleaning out my colon, prune juice and everything to be clean back there in every way possible. But no matter what I do, that smell is still there! And I don't mean the smell of poop, I mean the normal smell. It's not noticeable, but it still annoys me. I want it to go away, but it just won't!
Does anyone know of a procedure specifically for this or something like that? If you do, I would really appreciate it! Thanks, and please, don't judge me (link)
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The good news is you're not alone, and no one is judging you. I know what smell you're talking about. The bad news, however, is that its there to stay. Just like the vagina has a distinct smell, )not a bad one, but a natural one), so does that specific area. All parts of the body have certain natural smells that may not be appealing to us, but we're going to have to learn to live with them. I'm sorry if that's not the reply you're looking for, but I'm trying to be honest.
I hope I helped :)
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Ok so I just turned 13 and Im a girl... I reccently had my 1st kiss with this guy and I broke up with him because he was a jerk. I have a question...
1.Is materbating like fingering yourself for pleasure?
So, obviously by my question I want to masterbate for my own pleasure. I have almost done it (I think) in the shower because no one was home except me and I slipped and fell and while I was on the floor of the shower I leaned against the wall and I think I found my vagina but I dont know because I felt my butt (dont ask I can be strange) and I felt along my crotch and as I was feeling with my 2 fingers they went in a teeny tiny bit and I think it was my vagina. Is it wrong for me to masterbate at this age? Is it also wrong that I watch porn a bit sometimes because it makes me feel good? Should I actually masterbate? Will it hurt? Give me all info about masterbation and please only answer if you have done it... Thanx (link)
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First off, masturbation is probably one of the healthiest pleasures on this Earth. It relieves stress, helps with cramps, helps depression and insomnia, and it gives you some quality time with yourself. I, myself, have been spending this time with myself since I was about 3 or 4. And watching porn isn't bad either. Just don't become addicted or download anything illegal. You are too young to do that. Take care, and try to have fun ;)
Hope I helped :)
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How could I get sims on my computer, for free? Any game of sims. Is there any way to do it without torrent? (link)
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As far as I know, you can't get the sims on your computer for free. Its too popular and intricate to just be able to download at will. Plus, the company wouldn't be getting the money they deserve.
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Itook next choice a day or 2 after unprtotected sex and I honestly don't even think it was sex because he didn't cum nd it was inside me for like 10 seconds. But just to be safe I took the day after pill called next choice and today is Wednesday and I'm not supposed to get my period til next tuesday but I just went to the bathroom and I had like dark brown in my panties.. Any idea on what this is? I've been reading online that that day after pills can cause ur periods to come early and late. Also, my period is irregular meaning it never comes on time, but this time I got it early nd this is the first time I ever had "sex" and the first time I ever used an energnecy contraceptive (link)
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You read somewhere that those morning after pills cause early and late periods, so there you go.
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Where can I find my GPA online (link)
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This link has the answer to this question:
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20080611132353AAWhyTB
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I am 23 years old. Me and my fiance had sex the day before my period started and it was unprotected. But he pulled out. . The next morning we wake up and I started my period after morning sex. and It was normal. . well the day he goes back home, I start back on my birth control pill. And I wake up the next morning and my period is gone. I would really like to know whats going on. Abit confused and wondering. Im still cramping like im on it but there is no period. Could it have been the birth control that stopped it. or what. (link)
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That happened because of the birth control. You're not supposed to take the regular birth control when you're menstruating, only the specific birth control pills that are for your period and only that.
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I started my birth control pills the sunday after I started my period. . well the next day my period ended. why is this? (link)
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birth control has a hormone in it that tells your body that it is pregnant, but they only symptom of pregnancy that you might have is water weight gain. that's why its used as a contraceptive.
that's also why the birth control tells you to start it after your period ends. as far as i know, ending your period by taking birth control early isn't harmful to your health. just be sure to take the birth control every day so you can get your period on the designated date.
hope i helped :)
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I have proof that my husband knowingly got infected with an STD from an affair and did not disclose disease to me and I unknowingly contracted it from him. Is there a law for the state of Iowa that states the he has a legal responsibility to disclose that to any sexual partners? I ask because now we are going through divorce and I need to know what legal grounds I have against him and if he broke the law. (link)
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this link might help you:
http://health-care.lawyers.com/Do-You-Have-to-Tell-Your-Partner-about-an-STD.html
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I've been to 2 malls today and they had nothing but short & black dresses to go clubbing in. I can't get anything offline cause it'll be too late. I've been to macy's, dillards & every store looking for a black dress but nobody has one for a graduation. Do you know where I can get one that's not online but in a store? (link)
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you could try ross or goodwill. since they have extra clothes/used clothes, you have more of a chance in finding what you're looking for. hope i helped :)
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