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Is it offensive to say you thought a girl was a year older than she actually is?
M/17. I was talking to this girl, and we were talking about birthdays and stuff. I told her that I thought she was older. One year older than she is now. She didn't say anything to me about it, but she started acting different after that day. Are things like that offensive? Does it say anything about me?
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One year. one year? It's not that big of a deal. Maybe 5 or more is quite offensive, but one year isn't. Honestly, look back at pics of you from one year ago.... you probably look the same.
Don't take it personally. She has some issues if she is mad at your for being a YEAR off!! It will be okay.
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Typically, if a woman is over 25 and you say you thought she was older, its offensive. But if she is under 23, it shouldn't have offended her unless you have found yourself one hell of a sensitive woman. Teenage girls are usually offended if you say you thought they were younger than they are.
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Usually people think I'm younger than I look, so I'm usually flattered when boys think I'm older. Maybe she thought you were older as well but you're younger than she expected? If not, you might just be reading into it wrong. I wouldn't be offended.
Hope this helps!
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