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I am 16 years old, and I am sure you are on here for advice, not to learn about my life.

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honestly people,
i hate everything. my family. my friends. my school. my cheerleading team. i cant take anything anymore..someone please help me.

I know exactly how you feel.
I hate school, I hate track, I hate grades, I hate friends, I hate having to try so hard to be someone's friend, I hate how I can't get someone to like me. It's all overpowering and gets me very emotional, because though there is a bright side of things, it's just not what you want to think about.

You need some time to yourself. Sit in your room and just think about everything that is going on. These downers in life seem to make living not your number one priority. Since I don't know why you hate these things and what not, if you would like to IM me and talk , I am willing to listen.

My screename is Casey sayss.

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for some reason my computer doesnt let me log into facebook, or my email. when i try pressing enter after i write in all of my information, it goes to the page that says webpage wont work, and i checked and it is not blocked or anything, and as far as i know my firewall is off. do you have any ideas?

Mine did the exact same thing for a couple of days. It worked on other computers, but not the one I usually use. I think all you can do is just wait it out. It sucks, I know, but I tried everything and it wouldn't work. They are probably making sure everyone's pages are working right.

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Ok with a good diet and lots of exercise how much weight could i lose in like the rest of december and january?

No one will be able to tell you how much weight you will lose, since everyone's body is different and reacts to diet and exercize in different ways than others. Just keep trying what you are doing and you will be able to tell yourself.

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Okay this comercial that's for like Jam Sessions has like a bunch of people singing and it starts with someone on a bus, goes to a bunch of girls in a park.
Well I like the song and it's a older song and it goes like
'And I really wanna know.. O O..."
thats some of what i remember and
"I had a million dollars but I-I spent it all!"

IF you know the song name or artist it would be great Thanks!

Santeria - Sublime.

I don't practice santeria got no crystal ball.
I had a million dollars but I'd spend it all.
I could find that heina and that sancho that she's found.
I'd pop a cap in sancho and I'd smack her down.
All I really wanna say
I can't say it's love I need
But my soul will have to wait till I get back and find heina of my own
Daddy's gonna love one and all
I feel the break and I got to live it out
I swear that I really wanna know
All I really wanna say is I got mine and I make it
Yes, I'm comin' up
Tell sanchito that if he knows what is good for him he best go run and hide
Daddy's got a new .45
And I won't think twice to put that barrel straight down sancho's throat
Believe me when I say that I got somethin for his punk ass
What I really wanna say is there's just one way back
And I'll make it but my soul will have to wait.

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i sooo a wanna be prep its sad but idk what kind of shirts to get i know most of the preps wear AE, hollister, aeropostal....etc....... im a redhead so i really look good in green n purple is there anyplace i can find cute shirts?!?

Why do you want to label yourself? I don't understand. Try and be comfortable with yourself and look for you OWN style, not what you think you should wear. Stereotypes are very shallow, and my advice is to pop your bubble of labels and try and find something that defines you.

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is there anything someone needs to know how to be preppy, u know like if your emo you cut yourself, adn if your goth you dress in black, if youre redneck you where boots and huge belt buckles....etc.........whats the thing with the preps.......what makes a prep a prep?!?

You seem to be very stereotypical, which is how most of society is anyways. Like the person said bellow me, just because you cut does not make you "emo." Emo shouldn't even label a person, because it does not even mean "emotional." "Preps" as you put it, are said to wear only designer brands; Hollister, American Eagle etc. I think you need to expand your horizons and be more open minded on these kinds of things. If you keep viewing the world in this kind of perspective, you will never get anywhere in a social world.

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i heard this song but i dont know who its by i think part of the chorus goes like ".....reminace your hair in my face, adn the way your innicence tastes, and i think you should know this....." can anyone tell me who its by adn whaty song????

Hinder-Better Than Me.

http://artists.letssingit.com/hinder-lyrics-better-than-me-gf1p8f2

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does anyone know if when you wash running sneakers, they fall apart or anything goes wrong with them?

To my knowledge, the only thing that can happen to running shoes when they are washed is them getting clean. I've washed my running shoes a couple of times and they are still in good shape. Putting them in the dryer, however, could shrink them a little bit. To dry them, shove newspaper in them real tight and leave it over night. In the morning take the newspaper out, and they should be dry.

Also, before you wash them, take the inserts out of your shoe, don't want to take a risk of ruining them in any way.

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Just wondering,would girls date or go out with a bald dude? Like completely bald,assuming he has a nice personality and all

p.s:also do you girls like buff guys,thin guys,chubby guys,overweight guys,lean guys or guys with defined muscle(surfer kinda muscle,not too much,just defined)

It really depends on the girl.
I, myself, don't mind if a guy is bald. Girls all have different opinions on what they prefer in a guy. I don't a "type" per se, but I do tend to be attracted to rough, rugid guys. Opinions do change over the years though. Don't worry about what your appearance is. If the girl likes you for who you are, you're set.

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so I just looked on my BEST friends myspace(weve been friends for 7 years) and I love her like a sister. anyway,the guy I used to reallly like 2 monhts ago and I was hooking up with commented HER picture and said she was pretty..and I guess he was talking to her on AIM a few nights ago.ugh it just gets to me! has anyone else gone through the same thing or similar? do i have a right to be mad about this?! she says shed never do anything with him and btw dont tlel me to talk to him because i dont anymore.

You can be upset about it, sure. I mean, it hurts when someone you used to have feelings for tells your friend they are pretty. But no, you have no reason to be mad at them. One, because you and him are no longer together, and two, taking your jealousy out on people you care about doesn't solve anything. You guys don't talk anyone, he can do what he wants.

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F/16

ok well i need help on what to get my boyfriend of 4 months for his birthday in a few weeks and then something for christmas.
he's not really interested in anything and i was gonna get him a picture frame with a picture of us in it but we dont have any pictures that i could do that with. soo any ideas?
i want it too be special and $50 or less please but nothing really cheap.
please help
i need as many ideas as possible.
thanks in advance.
auto 5 for answers :)

Buy him two seperate gifts that won't make sense without the other.

-Idea from Sillyrob.

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are there any songs about a skater dude and a normail oridnary girl??

thx so much

Sk8ter Boi- Avril Lavigne.
Only song that came to mind.

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can eyeliner go bad? cuz i found this eyeliner that was my moms a while ago and i tried it on and i love it=] if it was bad....how would i no?
thanks bunches

It cannot really "go bad" per say, but bacteria can grow on it from your mother's eyes, and stay on it. If you really want to use it, wipe it off a couple of times with a tissue. If you are skeptical, just look at the brand and what kind it is, throw that one out, and search for it in different stores.

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i heard this song along time ago...and the music for it is on one of the new " kay " commercials.

and in the music video the girl is on a truck, and shes playing the piano, and the song goes something like this:

makin my way down town, and im homebound...and thats all i remember of it.

thanks alot!

http://www.stlyrics.com/songs/v/vanessacarlton4040/1000miles209306.html

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im 14/f
how do you make ur arms less skinny without muscels
i want my arms to be bigger but not like body builder arms
i've tried 2 stuff myself this week but its not workin & after every meal i get so stuffed that i have 2 lay down is there an easier way to make me fatter
i was lookin for weight gaining granola bars but all i found was like weight loss bars where can i fing weight gaining bars

Eating until you are stuffed and eating horribly fattening foods is not a healthy way to gain weight. It will just make you feel crummy and sluggish. Plus, you would gain weight in all the wrong places. Go to a health food store, or the grocery store and get those weight gaining protein shakes. High protein helps you gain weight. Chicken also helps. It's about getting a little extra meat on your bones, not so much getting "fat."

http://nutrition.about.com/od/dietsformedicaldisorders/f/GainWeight.htm

Here is a site that has some suggestions.

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I have alot of body odor, I take a shower in the morning, scrub with soap well under my arms, put on gel deadorant or axe, sometimes both before I leave for school, then around the end of first period I can smell my body odor, luckily it's not bad that other people around smell it, just if they hugged me they probably would which is sometimes why I don't hug anyone. And I almost have to reapply every class. Any suggestions?? and I also don't eat that much junk food so any help would be great, thanks.
I'm a guy btw.

Don't use gel, it's not very affective and can easly sweat right off. Use the stick kind. Try the Axe stick, that always works well, and smells good.

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How come in the bible an angel comes to josef and tells him that mary will be giving birth to a son called Immanuel - but then he ended up being named Jesus?

Thanks, I'm just curious :)

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Emmanuel

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my jv squad has a competition and our school rally coming up in february. we dont have a routine or anything yet, but our tumbling coach is making us a cd. what are some really cute songs to be used in the dance part, or for stunts, or for tumbling. and what sections of the song would maybe be cute and what for? thanks!

Fer Sure by The Medric Droid.

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I am a bit of a pathological liar, but the thing is I only lie to certain people. For example, I tell a person everything is ok when its not only because I don't want them to know that I'm upset or in pain. These people are people who either don't like me or want to see me fall or upset. How do I stop the lying without letting them win?

If something is bothering you, instead of lying about it, just tell them. But when you do tell them, don't start bawling into tears and complaining about it. That will be falling apart. Say it like it is no big deal.
Example:
"What's wrong with you?"
"Ah, just having a bad day, no big deal."
Say it calmly without whining. You will be telling the truth, without showing you are too upset.

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Um I have a really personal love life question and id rather not post it on public internet, so I was wondering if a couple of people could volunteer to answer it? (ill send you a question to your inbox)

thanks

I'll be happy to.

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