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so I just looked on my BEST friends myspace(weve been friends for 7 years) and I love her like a sister. anyway,the guy I used to reallly like 2 monhts ago and I was hooking up with commented HER picture and said she was pretty..and I guess he was talking to her on AIM a few nights ago.ugh it just gets to me! has anyone else gone through the same thing or similar? do i have a right to be mad about this?! she says shed never do anything with him and btw dont tlel me to talk to him because i dont anymore.
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Well, sure, you're gonna feel bad about it. But sometimes it's best to keep your feelings to yourself, and I think this is one of those times.
For one thing, your friend didn't do anything wrong. Even if he was madly in love with her, she can't help it. Telling her that it upsets you won't change anything, and will only make her feel bad and cause tension in your friendship. As for him... well, it sounds like he's not the guy for you. And nothing you can do or say will change that. Sure, you could tell him he's a jerk or that he hurt your feelings, but that's not going to make him suddenly have feelings for you if he doesn't already.
Yes, it's okay to feel hurt, and it's completely understandable, but it's probably best to keep it to yourself and work on moving on.
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1) its not a big deal. he just said he thought shes pretty he wasnt like i want you in my pants. haha =]
2) shes your best friend, so she wouldn't do anything to hurt you (as she said), so you dont have anything to worry about there
3) if you did ask him/confront him, its kinda creepy and like stalkerish. thats how i would see it if i were him.
so from #1 & 2, you can see its not a big deal
(by the way, i have gone through this with like 4 guys. like same thing, hook up with them over the summer, and then they flirt with other girls and im like ahhh!)
dont worry about it, and move on =]
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You can be upset about it, sure. I mean, it hurts when someone you used to have feelings for tells your friend they are pretty. But no, you have no reason to be mad at them. One, because you and him are no longer together, and two, taking your jealousy out on people you care about doesn't solve anything. You guys don't talk anyone, he can do what he wants.
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I dont think you should be mad at her its not her fault in any case you should be mad at him. Well actually not really you guys dont talk anymore and he has the right to move on.
-hope i helped =]
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