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"i make mistakes, it's what i do. i speak without thinking. i act without knowing. when i drink, i drink so much that i can barely walk. i'm a fantastic lover though. & an amazing friend. God knows i mean well."
i'm kari sue rose. obviously.
i'm a graduate at pound high school & i'm 19 ;)
i'm an upcoming sophomore at uva-wise, where i want to pursue a career as a college professor.
i am a manager at little caesar's & it takes up a good percentage of my time, but i love where i work.
i tend to read a lot.
actually i read too many books at a time.
& once i start writing i don't know when to stop. i'm head-over-heels for this one specific guy that i've been with for heck & ever[jonathan mark gibson] he's my world & i love him.
i'm not a fan of profanity, especially when girls do it. it's not impressive & it's not attractive. there are better words in this world dear.
& good grammar = thumbs up :]
i'm insanely girly, slightly high maintenance. but i'm easy to please. my nails are always done, but mainly because i'm almost a licensed nail technician :)
i think laughter is the cure for everything. i'm loving life. & i'm living my senior year up ;) oh and by the way, i'm honored by your hatred.
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i'm an honest person. i give the best advice that i possibly can, & if i don't feel as if i can answer your question properly, then i will forward you to someone who i feel is more qualified to answer.
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i have done random play w/ two different guys at the same time and i feel very messed up and dont know where it comes from is it normal? i'm 18 years old so its not like im a 14 year old anymore or something, but still i dont care i just let myself do random play and dont care, later on i think about it and dont understand where it comes from and its kept a secret from people...ive never cared for some reason of giving myself up to people and taken my virginity as a blessed thing, is that bad? can it have to do w/ being sexually abused when i was little when i cant even remember what may have happend? opinions please... (link)
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you aren't a slut.
you are just having fun. i promise that it IS okay to want to have sex, and want to play around. it's completely normal, you're 18 & you're old enough to make your own decisions.
you aren't at all a slut just because you hooked up with 2 guys & don't listen to anyone who says that to you.
your self conscious may be telling you that you want to do these things because you were sexually harassed & because you can actually control what you do now & you couldn't control what was happening to you then, but then again, all teenagers fool around & have fun with different guys.
you're normal, i promise.
:)
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Me and my boyfriend have been broken up since january. we had a hard 10 months. the last two months have/had been weird between us too. recently though, we talked everything out about what's going on between us. it's all sorted out and we're happy as friends right now.
there are several lists of things from our relationship i can name and a big story like most relationships have...but just altogether, my life is quite smooth right now despite all that--except, i can't get my ex out of my head. it's not a bad thing because he knows that and everything, but he shouldn't be the center of my thoughts. you know? he is my friend now after all. and i have school to focus on and the other important things in life.
any ideas how i can set him aside in my head? (link)
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there are no guarantees of getting someone out of your head, i've been in your exact spot before & i know what it's like to miss your ex.
the best you can do, is try to move on, and accept that everything is changing. even though that is one of the hardest things to do.
even flirting around with other guys & meeting new people may help take your mind off of him.
but when you were previously in love with someone, letting go is the hardest part of the goodbye.
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Okay so I've been having sex for a couple of months now but I've never had an orgasm during it.
but I've had one during my boyfriend eating me out and fingering me.
what seems to be the issue? (link)
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there isn't any issues, everything is perfectly normal. the only problem is that during sex your clitoris isn't being stimulated.
when a guy fingers or eats a girl out, he is more likely to give stimulation to your clitoris than he is during sex.
if you know where your clitoris is, try having him stimualte it more during sex. ask him to rub it while you guys are having sex.
if you are unaware of where your clitoris is, then you can search it on wikipedia.
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hey, does anyone know any songs about getting over an ex boyfriend. the general type of music i listen to is alternative, punk, pop,indie,and techno music. my favorite bands are jacks mannequin, dashboard confessional, mayday parade and all time low. thankkk you! (link)
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over you by chris daughtry
gone forever by three days grace
let it die by three days grace
text message breakup by kelly likes shoes
what goes around comes around by justin timberlake
picture to burn by taylor swift
those are just off the top of my head.
here are some from my itunes :)
lie to me by 12 stones
almost lover by a fine frenzy
it ends tonight by all american rejects
the potential breakup song by aly & aj
losing grip by avril lavigne
until the end by breaking benjamin
my everything by cauterize
i'll cry tomorrow by cauterize
say goodbye by chris brown
thnks fr th mmrs by fall out boy
not ready to make nice by dixie chicks
dance floor anthem by good charlotte
never again by kelly clarkson
no booty calls by kelly likes shoes (it's more humorous than anything)
i changed my mind by keyshia cole & kanye west
you're so last summer by taking back sunday
lovers & liars by matchbook romance
look at me now by nightcore
bound to happen by the spill canvas
goodbye to you by the used
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I would just like to know...if a guy & girl is flirting back & forth just at work...nothing serious, but, they are interested in each other...does the guy think about that girl as much as she does about him? Or do guys just think flirting as being friendly & don't give it a second thought? (link)
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it really depends on the guy, and what he's looking for in a girl.
some guys only want friends that they can flirt with.
& other guys actually flirt with girls because they are interested.
if a boy is interested in a girl, then believe it or not, he is going to think about them.
guys may seem to be uncaring & unemotional, but guys do have thoughts.
he may not be thinking about how your hair looks or what your smile is like, like girls think about guys. but he definately is thinking about you.
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Well, my new boyfriend is coming over to hang out in a few days, and i don't know what we can do together. i don't want to have an awkward or boring time. Any ideas on what we can do at my house? (link)
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- go together & pick out a few movies that you both enjoy.
- cuddle together on your couch/bed where ever it is you plan on watching the movie at.
- hold his hand when an awkward silence occurs.
- bake cookies together, or make eachother sandwiches. the littlest things are always the cutest.
- watch tv if all else fails.
- talk to eachother. if you can't carry on a conversation with your boyfriend, then that's probably a bad sign for your all's future together.
there are tons of things you can do to not make things awkward.
but just remember to have fun, and if you act like you feel awkward, then he's going to notice it & it's going to make him feel awkward, too.
good luck :)
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ohkay theres this kid who wants to make out with me in a hot tub. Im a girl, do I put my lips around his top, or bottom lip. (link)
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which ever way you feel more comfortable.
once you start kissing him, things will just easily come to you.
normally when i kiss my boyfriend, i kiss his bottom lip & only because he is a lot taller than me & it's easier for me to reach.
but i promise, once the kissing begins, you'll lose all train of thought & you won't even worry about which lip you are kissing.
i hope i helped. :)
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ok i know that the subble will grow back in 2-3 days but is there anyway to prevent this from happening because everytime i shave it comes back the next day and so i try to shave again and i wind up cutting my skin or it is scatchy and uncomfortable...can u please give me some pointers ??
thank you.. (link)
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there really isn't any specific way to prevent stubble, just like when you shave your legs.
waxing hurts worse but lasts a lot longer.
if you wait about 2 weeks before shaving, it takes a lot longer for the stubble to grow back.
once stubble starts growing, just shave in a downward motion instead of upwards. shaving upwards scratches/cuts the skin. but once hair starts growing back a lot, then shave normally.
sorry i wasn't much help.
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[im 14, almost 15 and im a girl. haha ;)] Alright. So here's the story. Almost 3 years ago, me and my best friend/cousin met this andy kid at our other cousins party. after that, we hung out once a while but he always had a "thing" for my best friend/cousin(jill). but the thing is, i had a little crush on him always. just last july (2006),
andy moved to georgia. and me and jill have been trying to keep in touch the best we can with him.
two weeks ago, i called him. and ever since, i've been calling him every night. and now just instead of me being his "friend from pa", we're pretty much in love. like seriously in love. and its just so awkward because he used love jill. and idk, its weird, ya know? and i kind of think jill is having a hard time getting over it. i kinda feel guilty? but she has a bf. but anyways, besides that. andy just got his license saturday. and now he can drive. but hes probably not driving up here[pa] until the summer. we talk every night and im completely in love with him. and he claims to be the same with me as well. i havent seen him since july 2006 but he's honestly, absolutely amazing.
i was wondering if you had any advice as to whether i should give it a try and wait? or just
give up...? i mean long distance relationships are a lot of hard work, but i kinda have a feeling this one might be all worth it. like the "emotional" connection is all there between us, but there's no "physical" connection right now.
and i miss being like "that" with someone. ya know?
welll if you could give me any advice, it would be greatly appreciated. if not, don't worry about it :)
and im really sorry this is not too "brief" =/ (link)
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yes, you're right. long distance relationships are very hard to maintain. but if you feel as if you guys would work, then give it a shot.
buuut, talk to your friend about how they feel about you guys being together. if it bothers her, then wait a while before jumping into anything. but explain to her how you feel about him & that you want to be with him.
in my honest opinion, what could one try hurt?
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well my boyfriend and i were together about 3 or 4 weeks ago and he fingered me and ever since i haven't gotten my period. i don't think i could've gotten pregnant but im just wondering if that could have anything to do with it?. it's been about 4 or 5 weeks since i've had my period last. and im starting to worry. thanks ;] (link)
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i highly doubt you are pregnant. the only way you could be pregnant was if by some random chance, he had sperm on his fingers when they went inside of you, & still then, that's not very likely to get you pregnant.
so don't worry about pregnancy.
getting fingered isn't going to make your period late though, but it's normal for a period to not be on time. & it's even normal to miss a period even if you aren't pregnant.
a woman's body is very complicated & only it, itself knows what it's doing.
i wouldn't worry.
give it time.
buuut, as always, if you do miss your period & you do think you're pregnant, then take a test :)
i hope i helped.
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because it would be wayyy easier then this ; and i already have like 5 other myspaces ; so i think i should just make a myspace advise colum ?should i ? (link)
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if you want to make an advice column on myspace, then go right ahead.
you don't really need us to tell you what you should do with a new myspace.
if you want to, then go right ahead.
it's all up to you.
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Where's a good place to get myspace stuff? Meaning, I want to hide my top and my friends. Thanks (: (link)
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http://www.hot-lyts.com
they have all kinds of amazing codes for myspace.
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I'm pretty sure this generally happens a lot, but I dont know. My ex dumped me like..idk 6 months ago? its been a while, plenty of time. but now he has a new gf. and i was about 99% sure that i was over him, but now when i see them together i just..i dont know, its not like im jealous exactly, its just that i dont like seeing him with someone else. does that make sense?
any advice to get over this?( besides finding my own guy or whatever, cause im being pretty independent lately.) does this mean im not totally over him also? cause i thought i was beyond him, but now i worry..and i so dont want to still be on that.
thanks in advance guys! (link)
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i did the exact same thing with my ex of 10 months. & we'd been together for 2 yrs. it's not necesarily that you miss him, but it makes you angry inside to know that he can find someone other than you, it's selfish but it's true.
it makes you miss the way he was towards you & a spite of envy does strike you, it's normal.
& it's okay to miss him, because every girl has at least one guy they always think about/go back to. & it hurts when you see someone you really, honestly cared about holding all over some other girl.
i know the feeling, & i doubt it'll go away for awhile.
but the truth is(even though you don't want to hear it) that the only true way to forget him, is to let go & meet someone else.
because then you won't be worrying so much about him & his new girlfriend as you will you & your new boyfriend.
good luck
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this friend i have called me and asked if she could ask out this guy i have been crushing on for awhile and of course i freaked out i don't now if i should be friends with her or not because she knew i was crazy about him should i be friends with her? (link)
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if she was your true friend & she knew you liked this boy, then she shouldn't have even asked you for permission, she should have known instantly that this boy was off-limits.
i don't think you should go as far as stop being her friend, but you need to let her know that she shouldn't try to take the guy you like.
to me, she doesn't sound like a good friend. & if you do continue to be her friend, then i think you need to be careful, because she doesn't sound to me as if she can be trusted.
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Helloo I was thinking of wearing my hair half up half down for homecoming and my hair is curly but I want tto like actually curl it. Also I don't half up half down styles. DO you think you guys could help? thankS! (link)
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i was on homecoming court & i wore all my hair up & curly.
like this:
http://i23.tinypic.com/291yi5c.jpg
http://i20.tinypic.com/rc6ghz.jpg
thos eare the best pictures of my hair that i could find.
it's easy to do, my mom fixed mine.
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you answered my question about photography and gave me your photobucket link. in your "my photograhy" albumn, what program did you use to put the little sayings on the pictures? i loveeee that=]
thanks! (link)
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i use a lot of different programs, such as: photo impression, kodak easyshare, irfan view, photofiltre & of course paint
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alright, so i love my boyfreind a lot. and well the only weird thing is when it comes to like sex and everything like that. he's not prude, but he's a virgin, and well im not. its just awkward between us, like i feel like i really know what im doing and really doesnt have a clue....so what should i do?
i mean at the same time i dont want to make him feel uncomfortable, i mean i wouldnt ever even thing about making him do something he didnt want to do (link)
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try not to think of it as you know more than he does. try to let him be in control & let him always be the one to make the first move.
it's okay to be more advanced, it makes things more interesting & at least you do things for him, you'll know what you're doing.
with time, he'll get the hang of everything.
but if not, then it really shouldn't matter if you guys are in love.
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How should I act towards my girlfriend when she sucks me. I am usually quiet, but she is too. I don't like just the awkward silence, how to get around it? What do you girls like to have said to you as you give someone a blowjob? (link)
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don't say anything to her while she is doing it, it might distract her & cause you pain, haha.
buut, do play with her hair. gently rub her arms, hold her hands, anything that shows how much she means to you & how much you are enjoying what she's doing.
when my boyfriend does things like that, it drives me crazy & makes me want to keep going, i'm sure she'll be the same ;)
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what can i say to make a guy horny?
say, not do. SAY!
thanks. (link)
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whisper sexy(not nasty/sexy) things in his hear, about how hot he looks with his shirt off, or simple things like that.
nibble his ear.
kiss his neck.
kiss him hard & passionately.
kiss his chest & stomach.
run his legs.
touch everywhere.
softly rub his upper arms.
play with his hair.
act like you're in control.
hope i helped.
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I'm going to have sex with my boyfriend. He is a virgin.. and I'm not. I think it's kind of weird like i feel like I'm going to end up being a teacher. How do I go about this? He says that he is ready and how he wants me to be his first. So how should I get this to go well? (link)
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Me & My boyfriend went through this exact thing. He was a virgin & I wasn't.
There isn't anything awkward about it because if you're in love, then it shouldn't matter.
& you aren't going to need to 'teach' him anything, just give slight tips about where to touch you, or how to put it in, simple gestures like that.
keep reassuring his confidence, moan, scratch. let him know that he is doing his job.
everything will work out just fine, i was worried at first with mine too, but it was probably the best sex i've ever had.
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