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long distance relationships
[im 14, almost 15 and im a girl. haha ;)] Alright. So here's the story. Almost 3 years ago, me and my best friend/cousin met this andy kid at our other cousins party. after that, we hung out once a while but he always had a "thing" for my best friend/cousin(jill). but the thing is, i had a little crush on him always. just last july (2006),
andy moved to georgia. and me and jill have been trying to keep in touch the best we can with him.
two weeks ago, i called him. and ever since, i've been calling him every night. and now just instead of me being his "friend from pa", we're pretty much in love. like seriously in love. and its just so awkward because he used love jill. and idk, its weird, ya know? and i kind of think jill is having a hard time getting over it. i kinda feel guilty? but she has a bf. but anyways, besides that. andy just got his license saturday. and now he can drive. but hes probably not driving up here[pa] until the summer. we talk every night and im completely in love with him. and he claims to be the same with me as well. i havent seen him since july 2006 but he's honestly, absolutely amazing.
i was wondering if you had any advice as to whether i should give it a try and wait? or just
give up...? i mean long distance relationships are a lot of hard work, but i kinda have a feeling this one might be all worth it. like the "emotional" connection is all there between us, but there's no "physical" connection right now.
and i miss being like "that" with someone. ya know?
welll if you could give me any advice, it would be greatly appreciated. if not, don't worry about it :)
and im really sorry this is not too "brief" =/
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Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
yes, you're right. long distance relationships are very hard to maintain. but if you feel as if you guys would work, then give it a shot.
buuut, talk to your friend about how they feel about you guys being together. if it bothers her, then wait a while before jumping into anything. but explain to her how you feel about him & that you want to be with him.
in my honest opinion, what could one try hurt?
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