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Sex for the first time with him..
I'm going to have sex with my boyfriend. He is a virgin.. and I'm not. I think it's kind of weird like i feel like I'm going to end up being a teacher. How do I go about this? He says that he is ready and how he wants me to be his first. So how should I get this to go well?
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Me & My boyfriend went through this exact thing. He was a virgin & I wasn't.
There isn't anything awkward about it because if you're in love, then it shouldn't matter.
& you aren't going to need to 'teach' him anything, just give slight tips about where to touch you, or how to put it in, simple gestures like that.
keep reassuring his confidence, moan, scratch. let him know that he is doing his job.
everything will work out just fine, i was worried at first with mine too, but it was probably the best sex i've ever had.
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I don't have much experience with this role.. but i know when my boyfriend had more experience than i did, he just was patient with me the entire way through and that was helpful.. obviously being the girl with experience is going to be a little different.. just make him feel good and praise him for anything positive he does during sex, it'll up his confidence! Also, give him hidden clues and hints (as in don't blatantly say, "do this like this".. be more subtle..) as to exactly what you want, that way he can experiment and gain a better sense of what he should do. Sex is a natural act, he should learn quite quickly, most people i know have! Don't stress it. :)
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just go slowly, im pretty sure that if he says he's ready then he's deffinitly ready, it doesn't really matter whether someones a virgin or not that makes them ready, i guess it just comes out naturally from them.
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go slow or he'll shoot off before he even gets inside of you.
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