jean_nicole's advice column

If you think about men when you jack off does that make you gay? Secondary question, if men think about me when they jack of does that make me gay. Third question, if gay think about men when they jack off does that make me them.

1. No that doesn't have to mean your gay.
2. No that doesn't make you gay if other men think of you, it might just mean your hot.
3. Your third question was just a combination of the other two. So once again no it does not mean your gay.

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i have two question if have puss coming from your penis but you had intercourse one time since this could it come from the partner a week later

and if i have a cat and cat keeps on using the litter box them climbs in your lap and be scartching you can you catch something

if you dont keep up your personnal hygeine could that cause you also to have something

PLEASE ONLY SERIOUS ANWERS TO THESE QOUESTION

Yeah, um I'm pretty sure the keeping up with personal hygiene might be your problem. Thats pretty gross.

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i seem to be targetted by vandals at my home
whilst on holiday vandals climbed over an 8' gate and broke a window in my vehicle - police didn't bother to come out!

I have had missiles thrown down the drive hitting my rear door and garage

Banana skins dropped at the top of the drive

and an 8' cane thrown at the drive gates

this has been going on for some months now - I have never seen anyone to be able to identify them

not sure how to react - do i just ignore it and hope they get bored?
I am on my own and getting very restless about this I can't understand why i am being targetted

any suggestions would be gratefully received.

If you have a video recorder that would be great and just sit it at a window to watch your drive way.
Also if you haven't told the police about everything that has been going on you could do that and maybe ask them to sit down the street and keep a watch out.

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i want alot of honest opinions on these 2 questions.
1)what do you consider a girl that has had sex since the age of 13? Had another bf when she was 14 then had sex with another guy (cheated on her bf) she barely knows the 2nd time they hung out together?

2)what do you consider a guy that screws a girl he hardly knows the 2nd date, knowing she has a bf?? will rate 5s for honesty!!

1) I would want to consider the girl a slut because I think its totally fucked up and wrong to have sex that younge. But at the same time I feel like she must have some real issues with herself to feel like she need to have sex at such a younge.

2) The guy is a total dog who isn't worth anything.

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Okay, so my boyfriend and I were hanging out tonight and he kept tryin to like get into my pants, i don't mind because we've been doin that a few times and it doesn't bother me..but now i have my period and i don't want him doing that right now..what should i say to him to get him stop with out him being offended. i dont want him to think i don't want him to do anything any more..thanks

If your not mature enough to just say 'hey I'm on my period' your not mature enough to have a guy trying to get into your pants.

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Ugh, you have no idea how fed up I am with periods.. I get depressed because I get them. Basically my question is, is there any chance that I can make the flow a little less and is there any way I get rid of periods by surgery?? By like removing the eggs or something.. Please help!! I just want to die.. grr

Yeah you can have a hysterectomy. You need to take in consideration if you want kids or not in the future. If you do you might just want to get on a birth control (sorry don't remember the name) which only has it were you have four periods a year.

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I had the chicken pox over the last week. And now all the dots (especially on my face) have turned into dark(almost black) scabs. I tried to cover them up with make-up but it didn't work to well. Trust me, It's not acne...it's the chicken pox. Is there to cure these faster? Any specific lotion or any particular make-up brand that will cover them up?

Calamine lotion. I would also advice to not put makeup over it, I don't think that would be very good for it.

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Every time you tell people they suck at life I just want you more and more. I want to have your abortion.

Aw thats sweet. I hope to have at least 6 abortions by the time I turn 18!

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Okay so I was on the phone with my best friend right cause she wanted me to go over. Well my mom said no because I got off the computer at 10:00 last nigth even though she asked me to get off at 9:30! Well i really got off at ten but she said i didn't get off til' midnight! Its was a school night and she lied when I was on the phone! HELP! WHat should I say to her!

♥Staci♥

You didn't do what she asked you to do in the first place. Why should it matter what she said, your still the one in the wrong.

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I have been going out with a guy i've liked forever as of yesterday. He is already saying I love you and I said it back. Are we both just saying it or what?

How the hell are we supposed to know that?

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where is the clitoris and where is the labia? whats the difference?

http://www.teenwire.com/
go there and find where they have 'body diagrams'.

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when i use a hair straightener it straightens my hair but it doesnt exactly get the poofiness out so what im asking here is what can i do? does serum help so my hair will look thin and how much would it cost?

I have kinda the same problem.
So if you have the time, take your shower at night. Then blowdry/straighten then go to bed. So when you sleep it will flatten it out.
When you wake up you can straighten it again to fix anything.

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When I read your advice I get a little tingly feeling in between my legs and my penis gets all hard and it won't go back down until I stop reading you advice. What is that?

I believe it is called Jean Nicole is awesome, but I'm not sure.

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your advice sucks

'your advice sucks' is not a question.
Therefore you suck at life.

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how come when i ask a question that serious and i wanna know an answer people give me these stupid rude bitchy answers? Like go do ur mom or loser etc,. Why do they do that is thei life to bad that they have to make some one elses worse? Thanks

It probably wasn't a good question, just like this one isn't.

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Is it wrong to have sex with someone,thats older than you by 3 years.
And another question,people that have taken meth.....did it make you more sexual? or anything?

Its only wrong if your under 18 and they are over.
With the meth thing, most people who take meth care alot more about getting meth than having sex.

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Is it normal to want to go out shopping by myself if I'm only 15. I really just want to go out and have a fun time-by myself-at the mall, just shopping and browsing without having to entertain anyone. But I dont know if that would be weird, seeing as the mall has alot of ppl my age in it (and some that know who I am) if they just see me walking by myself, would you think I was a loser with no one to shop with? Because I really just want to go out shopping. I dont want it to sound like a conceited question, but I'm really just wondering!

I don't think anyone would see you as a loser because I know alot of people that like to shop by themsleves.

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Okay my hair has been through hell. My original hair color is brown. Then I dyed it really dark, then light, then dark again. Then got it cut which took alot of the darkness out, then dyed it blonde, and then i took the blonde out of it..which left it light brown. Also I put a perm in my hair a while back, then wanted it out so bad because it was making my hair look so dry and damaged. My hair used to be real short, but in about a years time it has only grown from above my chin to my shoulders. It is so unhealthy at the ends, especially when I tried to take the perm out with a relaxing creme, and when I tried to wash the creme out the ends feel out, globs of hair came out, I was terrified. Now it looks so fried, and I have to straighten it for like 30 minutes just to get it from being all frizzy and damaged looking. I even trimmed it, but the damage comes back... I was wondering what products could I use to fix split ends, breakage, and dull looking hair? I have tried infusium 23, pantene pro-v, garnier fructics, I have also tried hot oil treatments, conditioners, and leave in conditioners....nothing works...

Yeah do like what chaos said and just leave it be for awhile.
Also take vitamin E, it will make your hair grow faster and make it stronger.

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If a boy friend wants to know about your past sexuall eperiances would you tell him the truth, if he is not your first, or just say you do not wish to discuss the subject.I only had 2 guys in the past but fell he will not belive me. i am 17 years old and did not have sex with my new boy frind yet.

I really think you should have learned to spell before you started to have sex.

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