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Ok, why do those type of kids, act like they HATE getting judged, & they HATE when people are mean to them because they dont even know them? & why do they put people down [like preppy kids..or just kids who like abercrombie] & then get all mad if you do something like that to them?
like, one. i don't know really any people that much that are mean to goth kids or whatever.
but those goth/emo kids, seem like they do it constantly to preppier kids.
why is thaT?
whats their problem? its bugging me.
i never did or said anything to them, for them to be mean to me. (link)
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Well just because you havent seen it doesnt mean it doesnt happen...I guess for the same reason you would hate being judged and hate when people are mean to them and dont even know them....Not every person who's goth or emo puts down preppy kids. I think it goes both way when i was still in school I didnt really consider myself anything because i dont like it when people are living up to some kind of image whether it be prep,goth,grunge skater...etc...but i did notice that it was mainly "preppy" kid who mainly picked on supposed "goth" kids or basically any one who was an individual..It's diffrent every where you go and style should define someone. In a way your being kind of stereotypical in a sense to but i guess your just going by what youve observed which is ok as long as you realize that everyones diffrent and shouldnt be catagorized. Also i guess another thing is that this kind of whats promoted by media to in the movies its always the preppier people being mean to the goth or who ever seems less to them In some real life cases its true and in some its not. It also could have nothing to do with the image thing may they just dont like them as a person..not everyone clicks and gets along. People dance to diffrent beats. Maybe they dont like your view points or something you said or how you act and vice-versa. Just like you might not like someone for the same reasons. Why dont you just say hey what did i ever do to you. I dont have a problem with you so whats your problem with me?
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you konw that song ghetto super star, that is what you are. well who sings that?? i know most of you will be like GOOGLE THE LYRICS. and trust me, i have but nothing has came up. (link)
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Maya sings it.
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Im fifteen year old male. Everyone calls me a faggot Im a bit queit and everyone says I just talk to my one best friend austin the most! I only trust him thats it. I like to maitain only a few friendships? Ive had girlfriends before. I know the truth Im not gay? Is it my self esteem?
I know im not gay trust me I like girls. (link)
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Why does it bother you...these people arent anything to you? Even if you were which i know your not gay who cares...Their ignorant and you just leave it at that. Why would you care what people with that kind of attitude think..you know who you are and who your not? Their the ones who are shooting their mouths off when they dont even know what there talking about...So what its better to be caleed gay and not be then to be a considered a bigot like them. Big deal you only talk to a few people its better two know who your friends. At least your not the predjudice moron calling people faggots whether they are or arent..which in this case you arent.Just ignore them and stay away from them they sound like a bunch of jerks anyways.
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I know I've asked similar questions but I don't think I've been asking the right question. Sex vs.Love, I'd like some advice. In the battle between sex and love that I've been fighting I feel like I love her, I cry when I talk to her because I miss her. I haven't cried in 4 years until I started going out with her. But at the same time, I really miss her touch and what we do. Whenever I see her we do something to do with sex. Is there something else we can do? Is this excessive? We see eachother every weekend. In this scenario I just need to know, what is greater, sex or love? (link)
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Love should be greater....if you love her and she loves you the sex shouldnt be a big deal ask yourself this what if she didnt want to have sex then would you still feel the same way about her if the answer is yes then thats a good sign of love.but sex shouldnt be the biggest aspect and turn into the only thing you got going for you two. if sex ends up being the only thing you guys do when you see eachother she could get the feeling that shes being used or that if she didnt give you enough then you wouldnt love her. If you truly do love eachother and want to be with eachother then there will be plenty of time for sex so you could tone it down alittle bit im not sayig you have to quit entirely but for love to truly work out you have to not only treat eachother as girlfriend and boyfriend or partners but as friends to. So it would be good to talk and go out and do non sexual things to or maybe some days not even have sex. If you love her you should also talk to her about it to to make sure your on the same page and maybe what she wants not just what she thinks you want or what you want.You should have to fight between sex and love because just because you have sex doesnt mean you dont love her but if you did love her truly then sex wouldnt matter because you would be prepared for a lifetime togeather where theres plenty of time to do that kind of stuff. So think about what matters most to you and which one you couldnt live without with her if the answer is love then i would say its love that you feel greater.
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what are some good pick up lines? (link)
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ill tell you some but just so you know theyre never good to use and can always be detected and really just gives you a cheesy,fake,hes just looking to mess around vibe. Usually when a member of the opposite sex gives me pickup line i think big fake jerk unless your just trying to funny or something but even so...i think the best things to say if you mean it are i really like you and find you attractive but hey some one might fall for one of these.
http://www.humorsphere.com/sms/pick_up_lines.htm
http://www.joecasaletto.com/jokes/pick-up.htm
i typed in pick up lines
the best pickup lines
pick up lines that work
in google
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hey..umm im having a birthday party next week (im turning 14) and there will be 10 girls and 4 guys there. Im not shure of what to do! Not spin the bottle because we are all close friends...we are going to dance obviously but thats all i can think of! Do you have any ideas of what games we should play? Or anything? (link)
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ok im going to ask you a couple questions firts....what type of stuff do you like to do do you guys like to do stuff thats unique....magic trick themed things(please dont get offended because some people do) like tarrot, palmistry astrology...or do you guy like things that are more on the line of spin the bottle(i know you said not spin bottle just an example),twister,boardgames, and you good friends
i need to know just to give me a good idea on what ideas and activities to give you to help better because everyones diffrent
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i got in a fight with one of my best friends, and i don't want to be friends with her again, i mean i forgive her i just don't want to be buddy buddy with her anymore. My other best friend keeps trying to solve my problems and make us be friends again, but its none of her buisness. I've told her that im not going to change, but she wont stop bugging me. im fixin to get in a fight with her too! how can i tell her to stop, and that she wont fix anything? (< ive already tried telling her that, it's like she doesn't understand english) (link)
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Ive been in this situation to the best thing to do even though its annoying is ignoring her when she brings it up.if you cant the say look its not going to happen you can either accept and respect my decision or you can reject me as a friend because ive made it clear i dont want to be friends with her anymore and when you keep pushing the subject your disrespecting me because you can obviously tell i dont want to.now i have no problem with you but who i choose to be friends with is not a group decision its my own personal decision. I'm not saying you have to stop being friends with her but just because your friends with her doesnt mean youve got to push her on me. It's not appreciated.
She might get angry but shes making you angry and is disrespecting you by trying to pressure you into what you dont want. If she just wont quit then ignore her and shell eventually drop it.If she physically puts you together then display that your not happy and ignore the other girl.
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i have the Biggest Loser workout tape, and i have a tread mill. i enjoy doing both to loose weight. would i benifit from alternating the two every day, or maybe doing one one week and the other the second week?when i use the treadmill, i usually jog a mile. what would be the best way to incorporate both of these, and still benifit from it, because both work great for me.
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you could do the work out tape...take a breather drink some water and then jog a mile on the tread mill.If its to much to do both of them every day then you could take a 1 day break and repeat that pattern When it comes to alternating the two i think switching them day by day would work better so your body stays use to it.
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Can you have your hymen broken by getting fingered? (link)
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Yes its possible you can also have your hymen broken by numerous non sexual things to.yes its very likely but also depends on the person's vagina and hymen to.
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are theyre ways to become intimidating? and how do i courage to stand up for like myself and my friends.. like to have the balls to say something. i know i can do it to certain people but then otehr people i cant.. (link)
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Alot of people arent really intimidate by other people because their just another person. You dont want to look like a bully or beconsidered a flat out biatch. its always best to keep an equal ground so you dont end up attacker or victim but that doesnt mean you cant stand up for yourself or say what you think either. The best way to do that is to start voicing your opinion or thoughts calmly and logically and to stay that way even if the person your opposing gets nasty or angry. Alot of people get discouraged when someone proves them wrong or points out a flaw in their argument so they resort to yelling cursing or putting you down...but thats only because they know they lost and cant say anything else to top what you did so they end up making a full of your self. Just speak your mind being outspoken doesnt mean being nasty or outright attacking or putting anyone down or just trampling over people so they cower(not saying you would be like that) just be honest about what you think. If you dont have the courage ask your self why and rationalize it.These people that you cant stand up to are just people like you and everyone including yourself is entitled to speak your mind and do what you want with out anyone pushing you around. Doesnt mean everyone will agree with you you will always get negative and positive vibes. So just shrug that part off unless someones attacking you,your friends or causing some other harm. If you need more advice on this or further guidance feel free to ask or specify and i will definately answer.
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My best friend is like the greatest thing ever. She is so sweet and would do anything for me. For christmas she made me a great present and now she's making me one for my half birthday. Her birthday is coming up, and I want to do something special, like make her something or you know. But I don't know what I should do. Ideas?
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You could make her some jewelry or hair accessories. You could make her a friendship pillow and adorn it with embroidery, patches, fringe, beads,frills. Yould could make a scap book of the two of you and decorate it and make a fabric book cover. You could make her a picture frame. if you go to a craft store you should be able to find suplies. Alot of stores have kits some times even walmarts or k-marts even carries good craft kits and supplies
You could bake her a cake or cookies adorning it with icing and sprinkles,,You could make her fortune cookies and insert your own fortunes or just nice things about her or your friendship.
you could throw her a suprise birthday party.
You could tyedie something for her.
or make her a vase or buy a kit where they give you glass ones to paint and it looks like stained glass and a flower arrangement artificial or real.
you could make her a candle you can usually do that with a candle making kit.
I might have some more ideas if i knew the type of things she liked
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okay so i like boys..but boys like girls with boobs..yeah i dont have boobs.
thats the problem. boys dont like me because of my invisible boobs. NO SERIOUSLY IM SO FLAT CHESTED!
ughh i dont want to STUFF. i dont want to be a fake. i want to be MYSELF, but what if MYSELF is no boobs.
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Guys who are only interested in boobs arent really interested in the person with them. Not every guy is like that just immature ones who think there stuff dont stink. Be true to your self and the right person will come along boobs or any other part does not define who someone is.If anyone tells you diffrent then they dont have much to offer and arent worth it.Just keep being you you wont have to change because the guy who best suits you will be attracted and like you for you.
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In my inbox, it said i had 2 questions... When i clicked on it nothing was there. Does anyone know what happened? (link)
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They deleted their questions..its happened to me before they just changed their mind.No big deal.
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In my opinion, I don't think I have a bad personality. I'm not stuck up, I don't cause any drama, I'm honest, I can keep secrets, and I'm nice unless someone gives me a reason not to be. I mean, I can be "mean" sometimes with guys except I'm kidding and they know it. I'm not shy, but I'm not incredibly outgoing -- I'm just normal there. Plus, all of my friends say I'm hilarious. Most of my friends, who are girls tell, me I'm pretty and I've had some of my guy friends tell me I'm "hot". I'm not stupid, but I'm not a genius. Since pretty much everyone but me cares about this at my school...people say I'm popular (I hate that word and I don't care about "popularity" just to make that clear). The thing is, I've never had a boyfriend -- NOT ONCE. I don't get it. Every single one of my friends has at least had ONE boyfriend sometime in their life, but me. No, I don't only want one cause "everyone" has one. In your opinion, does it sound like I'm doing something wrong? Why can't I get a boyfriend? (link)
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no actually it sounds like your on the right track.you shouldnt do anything to get a boyfriend thats what alot o girls dont understand and half of those girl if not all i guarantee are faking something or doing something because they feel they have to. You should stay true to yourself and the right guy for you will come around. The thing is about you and the few is that your not runing around confused. Alot of people are. alot of people arent sure of who they are and what they want so that separates you from it in a way. Its better to have a few boyfriends that are actually good ones or the right ones that click with who you really are then to have alot of boys who are stuck in the land of confusion(wheter they realize it or not) and really dont care and turn out not right for you anyways. I realize you havent had any yet but it doesnt mean you wont either..the right one just hasnt clicked or arrived or you've only been exposed to one genre of people which you will be. Its best to stay true and not do anything or change to suit others needs when it doesnt feel right to you. if your comfortable with who you are then stay that way.At least your not trapped in falseness,or a dual of inner and outer lies. The right person will come there is that old saying that your prince charming is coming he just took a wrong turn. If you really pay attention to other people and think about it you'll see what i mean.
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I'm really bored.I like to try new things and start fun projects like combining archietecture,photoghraphy and sculpture into a single art work.I just want to have fun.Please could you think of something fun for me to do.Any suggestions are appreciated. (link)
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some of these are new things and some of them are pertaining to what you said..see if your interested in any
If you have a camera and some friends you could do make up and hairstyles and dress up and take pictures like models and create a photo album.
You could get some beads and string or jewelry crafts or hair accesorie crafts sold at wal-marts k-marts and other hobby stores create your own designs and either make them for your self or sell them. You can do that alone or by yourself.
You can buy some material or use old clothing and get somepatterns or make stuff up on a drawing board and create your own fashions. With someone or by your self.
You could get some sculpting clay and sculpt nd then take photos or just keep it like that.or take a phot of what you want to sculpt and create a sculpted replica of it.
You could get some modeling glue and some craft supplies and build your dream house or doll houses and playsets and give them has gifts to younger kids or sell them. Take pictures to advertise them.
I dont know what kind of weather your having now but you could try hedge sculpting or plant sculpting..thats something you could make money off of to if you desired and do it well. For practice you could buy some bushes that have been preplanted and take them in a room with a tarp covered floor or go outside and take a whack at it.
You could makes vases or baskets and make flower arangements. or flower arangements with out the vases and baskets with the choice of artificial or real flowers thats another thing you could custom make and sale if it turns out you do it well.
With things you make and can sale you could take pictures as examples or scan the pictures in the computer and make your own catalog and print. Put them in neighbors mailboxes,give them to parents friends,your friends,pass it around to people in school or school staff and teachers or both,put in break room at work,e.t.c just make sure you include a form of contact.
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If you do try jewelry making or hair fashion or clothing and discover you really good at it you could take pictures of examples that youve did and have people custom order and pay you to make them..i have a friend who did that he did get alot of business but his only setback was that sometimes he wasnt motivated enough.
if you need anymore or other questions feel free to write back
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hey im 16/f going to be 17 in a week.
I would like to have a party but i have no ideas what to do...
a lil info**
- the guets will be 16-17-18
- girls are invited for shure
- not quite shure about guys comming
- its winter were i live so there for its snowing and cold outside...
Thanks a tones!!
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I think theme parties(like the 50's,60's egyptian,indian,fairytale,gypsies,hawaian.aristocrat,style etc) are really interesting..you could include girls or girls and guys or have girls stay over and guys lead afterwards.You could choose to have people dress up or not. you could make food to fit the theme or play music and of course decorations. if you choose to do this and have a theme or would like help deciding on a theme that would be best and would like some fun activities to do just write me and i can find you some or give you help on basically anyother aspect of it pick one and i will answer. If you do it and decide you would like people to dress up just tell your guests enough time in advance so they have enough time to prepare what theyed wear and make sure no one has any food allergies.
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I don't get it. I'm a guy and at my school girls arn't like omg he's so hot or wow. But...when i go to a different school like to visit friends or somthing all the girls are like giggling and all that stuff and i get like 10 numbers. I dont get it. If girls could please answer this question that'd be great. Thanks. (link)
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every ones attracton is diffrent just be cause a group of girls find you attractive doesnt mean every girl does. just like how your attracted to certain girls its a matter of taste. for example: alot of women find brad pit to be very attractive while i on the other hand dont really see why or think hes cute.just because a group of girl thought you were hot at the school doesnt mean every single one of them do and just because no ones like omg hes hot at your school doesnt mean there arent some girls who think you are. your going to get diffrent vibes from people anywhere you go it's normal and a matter of preference.everyone has a diffrent perspective about whats hot and whats not.
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how do i know if i like a guy? like. . . i cant tell the difference because i might have a crush on my best friend. OR do i just see him as my best friend, because i cant tell. i get excited to see him and im also anxious to talk to him. but sometimes i ignore him too. i dont know, i just wanted to hear your guys opinions. any stories of your own experiences? =) (link)
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You may just be excited to see and talk to him because hes your friend and you enjoy seeing your friend. I've have guy friends who are just friends who i enjoy but dont like on a romantic basis. if you like him you would know because you would be thinking of him then more just a friend or hed be giving you feelings of a crush. If you decide you do like him then talk to him about it but be prepared for rejection or a breakup and accept it.its not impossible to stay friends after going out if your truly friends i dated a friend for 2 wks and it was terribble and we broke up but now we've been best friends (meaning just plain friends nothing romantic or sexual)ever since.
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I want to know if I am truly in love. I think I am. So I would like others opinions of what true(I want to be with you forever) love is. No ones will be wrong or right. I just want to know what others think it is.
Thanks
~Eli (link)
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its just one of those feeling that you just know. just like instinct. if your in love you wouldn't just think you are youd know and there wouldnt be any question of it. its a very assured and deep feeling that just clicks and is diffrent for everyone. if anyone was to argue with you you wouldnt be able to see their side at all and you would say they were wrong to question your feelings and if you felt that strongly about it then they would be wrong to tell you other wise. there would be no doubt what so ever if you are truly in love. just make sure the person you think or know you are truly in love with feels the same way.
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I am 14 female my boyfriend's 15. And we have been together for 7 months on tuesday. I love him so much and he loves me. And if please dont mention how im to young to be in love blah blah blah i dont wanna hear it please. But we have done everything except for have sex. that's the only thing. He bought condoms we know how to do it. We have a safe and comfortable place. I want to do it but im getting scared. We are most likely going to do it next sunday. I am getting cold feet, but i dont wanna tell him that because im afraid he'll never do it. When im with him i want to so badly but when i am alone and can think without intruptions i get frightened. Like for example im worrying about if i get pregnant, we arent even supposed to be doing it anyways. Is it normal for me to be afraid, not just of getting pregnant but just nervous? (link)
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its not abnormal to be a fraid but if its really right and you feel secure then you shouldnt be but if you are having these doubts then its not the right time and you should wait...and if your really in love then niether of you are going anywhere and youll have plenty of time to do it in the future. just because you have the desire to do it doesnt mean its the right time just about everyone has the desire because its human nature. if he really loves you then hell understand. but if you do decide to do it you have to be prepared for any consequences that might happen afterwArds.
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