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i got in a fight with one of my best friends, and i don't want to be friends with her again, i mean i forgive her i just don't want to be buddy buddy with her anymore. My other best friend keeps trying to solve my problems and make us be friends again, but its none of her buisness. I've told her that im not going to change, but she wont stop bugging me. im fixin to get in a fight with her too! how can i tell her to stop, and that she wont fix anything? (< ive already tried telling her that, it's like she doesn't understand english)
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You have to tell your other best friend that it's not her responsibility to make you guys become friends again. don't yell at her, just calmly tell her "it's my life, i don't want people trying to change my decisions". hope this helps
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Ive been in this situation to the best thing to do even though its annoying is ignoring her when she brings it up.if you cant the say look its not going to happen you can either accept and respect my decision or you can reject me as a friend because ive made it clear i dont want to be friends with her anymore and when you keep pushing the subject your disrespecting me because you can obviously tell i dont want to.now i have no problem with you but who i choose to be friends with is not a group decision its my own personal decision. I'm not saying you have to stop being friends with her but just because your friends with her doesnt mean youve got to push her on me. It's not appreciated.
She might get angry but shes making you angry and is disrespecting you by trying to pressure you into what you dont want. If she just wont quit then ignore her and shell eventually drop it.If she physically puts you together then display that your not happy and ignore the other girl.
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Well, the best you could do is just tell her, you're old enough to handle stuff on your own, and that it's your own personal problem. Otherwise, if she won't stop, be firm about it. But, if that doesn't work, just ignore her. There's nothing else you can really do with the situation.
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I'd just tell the second friend, whom you're still friends with, that you understand she still likes friend 1 and that's lovely. However, you have grown apart from friend 1 and no longer share common interests. She is welcome to continue to be friends with friend 1, but you intend to move on. Let her know that she doesn't have to choose between the two of you.
Sabine
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