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hello. i just heard a song and i really really like it and i want to know the lyrics/title/artist. it goess like "everybody waits for you know, what happens next, what happens next..." thanks in advance!!!!! :]

hey. this song is called "dare you to move" by switchfoot. this song is ahhmazing. i love it! here are the lyrics:

Welcome to the planet
Welcome to existence
Everyone's here
Everyone's here
Everybody's watching you now
Everybody waits for you now
What happens next?
What happens next?

I dare you to move
I dare you to move
I dare you to lift yourself up off the floor
I dare you to move
I dare you to move
Like today never happened
Today never happened before

Welcome to the fallout
Welcome to resistance
The tension is here
The tension is here
Between who you are and who you could be
Between how it is and how it should be

I dare you to move
I dare you to move
I dare you to lift yourself up off the floor
I dare you to move
I dare you to move
Like today never happened
Today never happened

Maybe redemption has stories to tell
Maybe forgiveness is right where you fell
Where can you run to escape from yourself?
Where you gonna go?
Where you gonna go?
Salvation is here

I dare you to move
I dare you to move
I dare you to lift yourself
Lift yourself up off the floor
I dare you to move
I dare you to move
Like today never happened
Today never happened
Today never happened
Today never happened before

i think i need some advice for loving one of my best friends too much. the problem is, shes moving to a different high school! tragic, i know. have any tips for staying in touch?

hey. i think the best thing to do would to forget that she is going to a different school. you guys should set up a plan like you HAVE to call eachother at least 2 times a week. be sure to make plans and get together as much as possible. parties are a great way to stay connected because everyone gets to see their old friends, make new friends, and stay in touch. remember, if you were going to the same high school, you may of havent had any of the same classes in the first place! you should enjoy the time that you have with her now! and also you will make new friends. BUT NO ONE CAN EVER REPLACE YOU VIKKI! I LOVE YOU! xxxxoooo

How do I firm up my butt during excersing?

hey. here are some sites that you can check out:

http://exercise.about.com/cs/exerciseworkouts/tp/butt.htm

http://www.shapefit.com/butt-shaping-exercises.html

http://www.buttexercises.com/

http://www.womens-health-fitness.com/butt-exercises.html

hope these help!! :) ♥ ♥ ♥

oh my gosh, this guy that i totally like a lot is moving to Olklahoma tomorrow, and we have been talking a lot about things lately, and i am almost positive that he does to, and he is old enough to stay here in Cali.
He has said things like, i dont want to leave because i will be loosing all of this, and i said all of what but he wouldnt reply.
I want to tell him that he should stay, but dont know if i should!
Should i tell him?
Please help! I am confused!

Hev

hey. i think that you should tell him how you feel. he could be talking about you when he says "all of this", especially if he says it in front of you. you could just say... "hey, i think that you should stay here. our relationship is going places and i really like you." he may open up and say that he likes you too... and it will all go from there. hope this helps!! :) ♥ ♥ ♥

Do guys tell you that they want you keep them up at night on the phone, because they just like talking to you?
What do you think, because i am really confused?

Hev

hey. i think that they like you if they spend all that time talking to you. hope this helps!! :) ♥ ♥ &hearts

How do you get calves smaller?
Thanks I rate 5's to everyone!

hey. here is a site that you can look at that will give you some excercises:

http://www.faqfarm.com/Q/Even_after_running_how_do_you_make_your_calves_smaller_and_not_so_bulky

hope this helps!! :) ♥ ♥ ♥

hey every one its my birthday and i want to have a party but i dont kno wat to do it's gonna be boruing because i diont kno wat to do plz help me =]

hey. first of all are you a male or a female? whatever, these ideas could appeal to both. you could have a velcro-wall. those things are amazing and so much fun. you can have an outdoor party. i recently just went to one and we had a blast. you can set a fire in a fire pit (they have ones that you can buy) we roasted mashmallows and told scary stories. we played volleyball and listened to music. if there is enough food, people, music, and games; people wont be bored. hope this helps!! :) ♥ ♥ ♥

Ok I have this friend that is not herself lately. She has been sending mean emails and said she is mad at me. I have NO idea why she is mad at me at all! And my other best friend is moving away and I will never see her again. It's all happening all of a sudden. Oh and I am moving away. What should I do??

hey. because you are moving away, i suggest that you forget about the friend that is mad at you. she may just be sad that you are leaving her. you can always talk to her and ask her why she is mad at you. say that you dont want to leave with the relationship like this. make sure to stay in contact with your best friend. call her and email her so you guys can still stay friends. hope this helps!! :) ♥ ♥ ♥

Okay so like I have been with my boyfriend almost 5 months now. I love him so much and He loves me too. We get along great when its just me and him but like we argue alot at school, because he gets jealous easy. What should I do to stop us from arguing so much?

hey. my best advice would be to talk to him. tell him that you dont like to argue with him. you can always find the root of the problem. dont hold back and let all of your feelings out. say that if he continutes to be jelous that much, then you are going to have to rethink this relationship. **i dont know how mad you two get at eachother but this should do it. hope this helps!! :) ♥ ♥ ♥

Guys do you like when you can see a girl's hip bone? Or is it considered "too thin" for it to show through?

I've had people tell me that they've heard I'm anorexic/bulimic because of that. And I know that most of that are just high school rumors but I'm just wondering.

hey. i dont know if guys have a preference. i guess it all depends on the guy. my hip bones show too and i am self consious about it. i dont want people thinking that i am too skinny. the best thing that i found that works is if you ignore it. they can say what they want. if you know that you arent anorexic/bulimic then it is okay. try not to listen to everything that people say. if you are self consious about it then i suggest finding out who is spreading the rumors and talk to them. say that you dont have a problem with yourself. hope this helps!! :) ♥ ♥ ♥

OK My bro. is the same age i am 13. he seems to think boys are stronger than girls. But i showed him off. and beet him at like 15 different things. so my question is which do you think is stronger boys or girls.

hey. boys can be stronger then girls and girls can be stronger than boys. it all depends on how you look at it and what you do! hope this helps!! :) ♥ ♥ ♥

All that I am ; All that I ever was
Is here in your perfect eyes
they're all I can see
I don't know where
Confused about how as well
Just know that these things will
never change for us at all

what song are these the lyrics too?

hey. the song is called "chasing cars" by Snow Patrol. hope this helps!! :) ♥ ♥ ♥

We'll do it all, everything, on our own
We don't need anything or anyone

If I lay here
If I just lay here
Would you lie with me
And just forget the world

I don't quite know how to say how I feel
Those three words are said too much
They're not enough

If I lay here
If I just lay here
Would you lie with me
And just forget the world
Forget what we're told
Before we get too old
Show me a garden that's bursting into life

Let's waste time
Chasing cars
Around our heads
I need your grace to remind me
To find my own

If I lay here
If I just lay here
Would you lie with me
And just forget the world
Forget what we're told
Before we get too old
Show me a garden that's bursting into life

All that I am
All that I ever was
Is here in your perfect eyes
They're all I can see
I don't know where
Confused about how as well
I just know that these things
Will never change for us at all

If I lay here
If I just lay here
Would you lie with me
And just forget the world

hola- im 13, f

well my boyfriend and i have been going out for 7 months, almost 8 and the relationship has been going fine. . .

i wanted to break up with him before the summer because i usually meet new people. i have this feeling that the longer we stay together, the harder its going to be to break up. i want to do it during school but idk when and how. like, what should i say without making it hurt? i'd perfer to talk to him personally but will he feel better if a friend tells him? and when is a good time to do it?

hey. why would you break up with him? if your relationship is going fine then i would continue going out with him. but if you do want to break up with him, here are some tips:
- talk to HIM alone, dont do it in front of a crowd.
- say that you want to continue being friends with him
- i would do it after graduation/dance? so then he wont be mad at you or depressed.
- i would do it durring the summer (personally) because then you dont have to deal with so much drama from other people finding out. good luck! hope this helps!! :) ♥ ♥ ♥

hey i got a myspace today and i was wondering where to go to put the url for the layout in?

hey. it is in your "about me" section hope this helps!! :) ♥ ♥ ♥

i wanna die in my sleep. help.

hey. if you are serious about this, you NEED to talk to someone. a parent, a friend, a teacher, SOMEONE! hope this helps!! ♥ ♥ ♥

here is a site that you can look at:

http://www.kidshealth.org/teen/your_mind/mental_health/suicide.html

14/female. i have a semi formal/casual dance comming up in about a month. i dont really want to spend that much on a dress, but i want a really cute outfit that everyone will love. what stores can i get a dress from that wont cost me that much? thanks in advance!!!!!!

hey. i was recently introducted to the store forever 21 and it was love at first sight. the dresses there are so cute and the prices are amazing. most of them are for under 30 dollars. they are so cute! you will love them! hope this helps!! :) ♥ ♥ ♥

My eyebrows were thick until I attacked them. But they grow in very long pieces.. and they often get pushed down over my eyelid. I tried cutting those.. but it looks weird when I do that.

Should i get my eyebrows professionally done?

I want my eyebrows not to be so low near my eyes.. I want an arch..

Do I grow out my eyebrows first and go see them?

Or go to one and get it done and
then wait for it to grow out?

hey. you should deffinitly get them professionaly done. they can give you a great arch. they will also teach you how too keep up your new look. hope this helps!! :) ♥ ♥ ♥

do you guys remember that coke commercail for lime coke and there like near a beach and a song is playing i think it was butterfly by crazy town but im not sure does anyone know what it was. this was a recent commercial

hey. the only commerical that i can think of is "starry eyed surprise" by paul oakenfold. hope this helps!! :) ♥ ♥ ♥

Ok. I have long brown hair and I always shower and keep clean. But I always wear my hair down so I think that affects my neck. I always notice I have acne on it so im affraid that when I HAVE to wear my hair up, it will all show. what do I do to stop that acne?

hey. have you tried using acne wash? you can use it on your neck too! just make sure that you dont over wash your neck/face because that can make the acne worse. also, when you are at home, pull your hair up, your skin needs to breathe, and maybe all the oils from your hair are getting into your skin. make sure to moisturize! hope this helps!! :) ♥ ♥ ♥

i have ben having this yellowish, borwnish discharge for the past 4 days. is this normal?

hey. this is not normal. you may have an infection. i suggest that you get it checked out by a doctor. hope this helps!! :) ♥ ♥ ♥

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