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Q: 14/m
what are ways that i can pull my girlfriend aside from all our friends and get our first kiss? like what are ideas that i can do? what are things that i can bring up the romantic event once i pull her aside?
Background: she has been getting annoyed with me for absolutly no apparent reason, sometimes just because im around-we go to the same school, and are in the same classes, and hang around the same group of friends. sometimes i get the impression that she gets annoyed whenever i pull her aside for a while just to cuddle with her, or talk by ourselves, its like she thinks i am hogging her from everyone, when really its just some of our friends are so obsessive with her (they are almost all girls, we have like 2 or 3 other guy friends) and they (a few girls) like obessess with her and shit. so how can i pull her aside without her thinking im trying to hog her to myself?? thanks for the help!
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Try not hanging out with her just at school...make plans to go somewhere, like the mall or by a lake or something. Then move in for the kill!! *cough* Uh...I mean...kiss. Yah. Heh heh.
Though, in my opinion, she is being immature or simply doesn't like you as much as she thought she did. I wouldn't waste my time with her if I were you, but this, of course, is your decision to make. Good luck getting that kiss! ;)
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Q: There's this girl that me n my friends can't stand that hang out with us her names Kaytee! Well she was sitting with us at lunch one day, and my friend Lisa came over and sat with me and then left, and Kaytee then said, I was shaking because she was around, there was a rumor that Lisa was a lesbian, but she's my best friend, and I know her more then anyone and she ISN'T! Kaytee is totally against gay people, and all the people of whom I hang out with are don't mind if someone's gay! She assumes from rumors that people are lesbian and homosexual, and then pretends that she's scared of them. Without being totally mean to Kaytee, but getting it across that some people that she thinks aren't gay. What can I tell her?
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You can tell her that she needs to grow up and realize that it doesn't matter if somebody is gay or not, and that even if your friend was a lesbian she would still be your friend. Tell Kaytee that you dislike homophobics and don't want her to hang around with you if she is going to be mean to your friends. Tell her that yes, she is being mean, by acting scared of people who are "gay". I know you don't want to be mean, but you've got to draw a line somewhere. Make sure she knows that you don't like her behavior. I know I would be deeply hurt if someone acted like around me. Tell her that you would like to be her friend, but that she has to learn to be more mature and accepting of other people. =)
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Q: What does your metabolism have to do the time you go to bed? Do you have a faster met. if you stay up later, or go to bed early
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It is definately healthier to go to bed early and wake up early. However, teenagers are a bit messed up. We are nearly nocturnal and most of us don't get tired until after midnight.
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Q: I babysit every Sunday for 3 kids. 2 girls ages 5 and 7, and one boy who is 9. I bring coloring books and board games, but after a while we just run out of stuff to do!!! These kids get bored easily, and everything I own that they would like, they have used. After a while, I become bored and very tired, and so every week i am reluctant to go. What should I do, and quitting is NOT an option!
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Try sidewalk chalk, balls, and frisbees. Lots of outdoor stuff! Four Square is an excellent outdoor game. And maybe you could bring them to a playground or a public pool or something? For rainy days, bring movies or get them involved in using their imaginations! Like playing jungle or dragons and knights, something like that. Building forts out of pillows is great, but I'm not sure if the nine-year-old would get into it, it seems like something for really little kids. I could be wrong though, I can't really remember what I liked when I was nine.
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Q: where are some good places where i can download music onto my laptop?(it doesnt have to be free)and how does this work? if i want to listen to downloaded songs do i have to go on the website or do i not have to be on the internet? im asking because for my sweet 16 im thinking of doing the music from my laptop. is it continuous play or do i have to manually click the song? can i plug big speakers into the laptop? thank you for your help...5's to everyone somewhat helpful
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Limewire is good. You can download it for free and then download the songs from Limewire. As for the other stuff, it depends on what you are using and what you set it to. If you have any friends who work in AV at your school, you might try asking them for help.
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Q: i need a summer job but im only 13 and u cant get hired without being 16 or older.does anyone have any idea of any place who will hire someone under 16?
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The only things you can do are babysitting, mowing lawns, making a lemonade stand, having a yardsale, and things like that.
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Q: sorry if i spells "superstions" wrong, but i hightly think of superstions. Tomarrow is friday the 13th,and im getting my hair cut!! i dont want it to look bad! Any tips on good luck things? i have an italian horn,is that good luck?
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It's all a state of mind. Meditate and all will go well.
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Q: (13/f) im 160 pounds. I dont really look fat but i weigh a lot. Does anyone know how to lose maybe like 10 pounds in a week? what are some good foods to eat, certain excersizes.. and ill rate 5's to anyone who gives me a diet plan and excersize plan for the 7 days!!! 1's go to jerks!
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Q: Does any one have the awnsers to the following questions on Pope Benidict XVI
1.Why does he insist on the condom ban
2.Does he understand the consequenses
3.why does he dissmiss anyone who tries to find feminist meanings in the Bibil
4.Why doe he sacrifice health for tradition.
5.Should he be Impeached for doing this
Solemnstar
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1. Because having condoms implies that people are having sex, and he would rather that people don't have sex. Idiot.
2. Consequences of what? He probably just wants things his own way and doesn't care how people feel.
3. Because he's a stupid man. They are only good for donating sperm to us so that we can keep the species alive.
4. Lots of people do this. It's stupid, but whatever, if they are dead then we don't have to worry about them.
5. I don't think so. Not being a Catholic, I don't see how the Pope effects me. Even if I was Catholic I would probably ignore it. Okay, so the Church probably does have influence in the government, but it doesn't really matter...for the time being, we are allowed to think for ourselves.
Sorry you think I'm a moron. I answered honestly and sincerely, you asked for people's opinions and gave you mine. If you can't deal with the answers you get, don't ask the question. I don't even know what I was supposed to be helping, this website is for advice...you know, for people with actual problems. I'm just telling you this because usually people rate someone a 1 if they were being rude in their answer, and I wasn't, like I said my answer was completely sincere.
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When you are having fun! Um...for an hour. Hope I helped!
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Q: well about a month ago..my firend lorena had a party...it was so much fun..and nothing but lots and lots of dancing! well this guy scott picked me, and we were dacing! towards the end of the party, scott came up to me and introduced himself. i knew he was older, so before he got to ask my number i told him 2 ask me how old i am..he did..and i told him im only 14...she got all surprised n like walked off because he was dissapointed..before he left the party, he was like well you are very pretty, i had fun dancing wit you, but your juss too young for me...
now..last weekend my frend jessica seen him at another party, he asked for my number..and she gave him it..
this week @ skool, ive been talking to my frends (which are scotts friends too) they told me he has a 2 month old baby..and still talks to his baby-mama...
then tuesdae comes..and he texts me...so we texted that whole nite...n yesterday he shows up at my school...and he juss wasnt cute!..he looked so different from what i remember @ that party...i dont know what to do..because he is 18...with a baby...and hes trying to talk 2 me!...my frends dont like him...but i just dont know!
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He is not too old for you at all, that is a good healthy age difference. He is far more mature than guys your age, and he has a child that he takes care of! That shows that if you ever got pregnant he would be there for you! Aww. Sure, he could be scum, but from what you've said he sounds like a very nice guy. If a guy is scum he will tell you, you just have to know how to listen. My parents are 12 years apart and my mom always said I could date someone up to 4 years older than me, so I guess I have a more relaxed opinion about this. Treat him the same as any other boyfriend--don't open your knees until he says "I do." But I think it sounds like a lovely relationship waiting to happen...go for it! It's NONE of your friends' business. If you were dating a 40-year-old, well, then I would say that your friends would have a right to be worried, but an 18 year old is nothing. Have a great time! =)
Oh yeah, remember that if you guys do get together he does have a child he needs to take care of and sometimes the baby will come first. A good girlfriend would be supportive of this and also help to raise the child.
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Q: im a very good catholic. i really feel bad if i do so much as say oh my god. anyway. i have been sort of mastribating lately. when i get horny sometimes i use a fake penis to 'have sex'. is this sinning because i wanna know if i should stop doing this. please please please help
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It's not a sin at all. Saying "oh my God" isn't a sin either, but let's address the masturbation question. You shouldn't live so strictly and repress how you feel, or else it will become all bottled up inside of you and when you release it it will have negative consequences. Don't let the Church warp your mind into thinking that everything you do has to be bad, it is human nature to do things, as it says in the Catholic religion. You can stop if you wish, but masturbation is very normal and very healthy. Having an orgasm gives you more energy (always good), and it helps to relieve stress! It's also good to know your own body before you touch someone else's body, that way you are not too shocked. Besides, you can't get pregnant using a fake penis--how sweet is that?! Try to be less strict with yourself. As long as you are as good as you can be to other people, you can be faithful to both yourself and God. You can't love God unless you love yourself, and masturbation is a beautiful and natural expression of self love!
If you need anymore help just ask me by going to my column and clicking "ask questions".
-gakkuhideto
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Q: ok i feel really dumb asking this but what exactly is "feeling up"? could someone explain this to me plz? thanks a lot!
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It's when a guy touches a girl's breasts. They are going up her shirt, thus it is feeling up. That's not to say a girl can't do it to another girl, but it's usually done by scummy boys who think of women as property. It does feel really nice, though.
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Q: Can someone explain the bases to me plz? I feel really stupid, but whatever.
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It's different for everybody, you have to make up your own mind about it.
For instance, my friend Ellen says:
1st base-holding hands
2nd base-kissing
3rd base-seeing each other naked
home-getting married and consummating
But my friend Blair says:
1st base-making out
2nd base-feeling up
3rd base-fingering/handjobs
home-having sex
And my friend Joe says:
1st base-Kevin Millar
2nd base-Mark Bellhorn
3rd base-Bill Mueller
So it's different for everyone. And when it comes right down to it, it's a pretty stupid analogy for sex.
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Q: I have to find out how many mcdonald's there are worldwide..does anyone know? It's for my human geography class..thanks so much..First 10 people..I rate you a 5 if you actually help me..
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Q: Does anyone know some of the symptoms of anemia, and how you can tell for sure if you've got it? Because one of my friends said that she thought I might, and I was wondering if I could find out more. Thanks in advance!
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Which type? There's like 5,000 different types of anemia. Go to http://www.nlm.nih.gov/medlineplus/ency/article/000560.htm for information on them.
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Q: How long do you wait for a pregnancy test? If its an at home one.. About a week?
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=/ I thought it was more like five minutes, which would be the point of taking it at home so you don't have to waste all the time of going to the doctor. It usually says on the package, but I assume it's much less than a week even if it is more than five minutes.
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Q: does getting your belly button pierced hurt? like be honest im scared if i get it done its gunna hurt really bad! and do you really have to wait 6 months for it to heal..
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Anytime you get a peice of metal jabbed through your flesh it hurts. But that doesn't mean it's bad, the pain is half the fun in my humble opinion. The other half, of course, is looking HAWT. And yes, it takes a long time to heal and yes, it's VERY easy to get infections. Most people get infections when they get their belly button pierced. But they are cureable, usually. Go for it!
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Q: hey.. im currently trying to make a new AIM screen name.. but icant think of anything good.. if there are any like song titles.. or idk, anything weird that would sound coool.. please let me know??
- thank you
Cori
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Here are a few ideas, some are songs. =)
lookinthruyou25
norw3gianw00d
changesbowie
3violet3
ziggy_stardust
mirai_torunksu
serenavdw00dsen
slrmn
ssj_gokuluv
c3ruli3an_city
j3susrocks
j0hnnydepp_islove
sail0r_venus
ssj_robinh00d
g0ssip_gurl
pxexnxgxuxixn
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Q: Ha, this is a really weird question, but my friend and I were talking about a show that we used to watch when we were younger on Nickolodeon. In this show, the characters were always using the phrase "Don't hold your breath!" Neither of us can remember what show it is from!! I believe that the two characters were African-American brothers, but am not for sure. If you have any idea what it is please answer!
Fili and Kili
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Well, it definitely wasn't Kenan and Kel, that came quite a bit later. It was actually My Brother and Me. That show rocked. =)
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bio
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Call me Molly. I'm seventeen, female, and I love shoujo anime. I'm also a Level 1 Moderator.
My categories:
love/sex
friends
religion
Or just general stuff. I'll try my best to answer anything.
Warning: I'm known to give sarcastic as hell answers. Sorry, I can't help it. If you have a question that I think is mind numbing and stupid, I'm going to be sarcastic. My hope is that you will realize that my negative opinion of you doesn't make you any less of a person, and you will apply this knowledge and grow up to be a well-adjusted, confident person. Rate me 1 if you wish, but please try not to take it too seriously when I do this.
IF YOU WANT TO MAKE ME HAPPY...all it takes is a comment when you rate me. I will smile a lot and like you more. Even if you call me a crossdressing stoner. =)
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Info
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Website: Gender: Female Location: Earth, silly Occupation: artist Age: 17 Member Since: February 28, 2005 Answers: 426 Last Update: June 18, 2005 Visitors: 24366
Main Categories:
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