I am a Christian, and I love giving advice, so you can be anonymous or not, I would just love to hear from you! My friends tell me that I am a great person to come to for advice. I seem to know just what to say. I don't know. =) I love listening to people and problems. I just don't like being in the middle of them; I do choose sides if I absolutely have to. I want to be a Social worker or a counseling Psychologist someday. I am a senior in high school, and I start college in August of '06. I'm in band, and choir. I play French horn and sing alto. I have been through a lot with friends/family and even though I haven't, I feel like I've seen it all, so I hope I can help!
Website: Katie's Xanga
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Location: Sherman, TX
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what should i get my boyfriend for his birthday? im 14 hes turning sixteen. (link)
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well, I would make him a cd if you have a cd burner and know his favorite bands/songs, or if you have any little inside jokes, maybe something to represent that! hope i helped, and happy birthday to him! good luck!
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I have this problem..My bestfriend was going out with this boy..Then this boy broke up with her..She was shock (i guess)..But okay, that's not the major problem..Now,I'm going out with that boy..and no one knows that except my sister..I've been going out with that boy for 2 weeks or so..now I have this illfeel..I feel that I'm so wrong by going out with my bestfriend's ex boyfriend..I don't know what to do..Should I break up with that boy and give him back to my bestfriend, or keep going??
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What's more important to you? Your friendship w/ your friend or your boyfriend. If you think you friend would eventually forgive you, I would tell her when you get a chance to sit down and talk to her as soon as possible. She may understand, she may not, but you also have to remember that if she gets mad, she might have a right to because you kept it a secret from her. But, there's also a chance she may understand. But my advice is to tell her because she has every right to know and I know how it feels to find out secrets that won't make me happy. Don't keep the secret any longer. Even if you do break up w/ your b/f she has a right to know that you dated him. I don't know your friend, and I don't know how she'll react but, I hope you'll be prepared right away. Good luck and I hope I helped.
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I'm gonna start from the beginning. In the middle of may I started going out with guy 1, well call him ross, we went out for 2 weeks and them he went to jdc. A month later ross got out and btw i never dated anyone else and we didn't break up. and we stayed together for 1 and 1/2 weeks after ross got out and we were so cute together but I was moving and didn't want a long distance relationship so i broke up with ross and started going with guy 2 we'll call tom cause I was going to were tom lived for a week to see my bestfriend and after a week i broke up with tom to and them i got to my new house and started dating guy 3, i'll call him joey now me and joey have been dating for 5 days and i really like him but yesterday i got on the computer and ross had sent me 20 messages saying how he still loves me and wants to get back with me and i think i still have feelings for ross but I really like joey. So which one should I choose?
I'll rate 5's to anyone who answers!!!!!!
Signed: ~Crazylife~
P.S. they are both long distance. (link)
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Follow your heart. I know you have probably heard this before, but seriously. What do you think you would decide to make yourself happy? Who do you think would make you happier, about yourself, about life in general, (me personally, I prefer good guys, so the good guy will probably be a good influence on you). Just by reading this I say choose Joey. Because the other guy sounds attached. And you say, you really like Joey. Good luck, I hope I helped.
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basically i feel like im losing my friends and lately i have been really depressed. Nobody would really know because well i put up a front and i feel like im losing all the friends i had. I dont wanna hear advice like "try to get together with them" or "sorry" i just wanna know what to do to feel better and be more social. (link)
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I am kinda seeing this in a friendship between a couple of ppl I know. If you maybe have a bad attitude around your friends, or seem to down things, no one will want to be around you. If you really do think you are depressed. I say get help...professionally. If you want to be more social, school is starting...or if you aren't a teen, get involved in the community somehow, get a job, join a church group, or group of some kind. I hope I helped. Oh yeah, and everyone likes a smile, even if you are having it rough for some reason. Good luck.
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O.K. My boyfriend cheated on me like... 3 weeks ago. I forgave him, as long as he never did it again. It was pretty hard trusting him again after that, but I did. After I had THOUGHT I had gained nothing but love and respect for him again... he CHEATED ON ME AGAIN with my sister! I know it's pretty weird but I don't trust EITHER one of them. How can get over the fact that my OWN sister could do that to me? I miss my boyfriend but I have been hurt enough and don't NEED him in my life. I love my sister but what she did was wrong and I have still not forgiven her.
I can't believe this could ACTUALLY happen to me! I'm so depressed all the time and I have lost hope in ever finding the right guy again! I really thought he was the one for me. He was so right for me, so perfect and then, BOOM! He's sleeping with my sister! I don't know what to do! I'm so confused. I'm so depressed that I'm throwing up and crying non-stop. It's really sad for me. My sister keeps telling me she's sorry but I still have not forgiven her. I haven't even talked to her! Please help! This is really devastating for me and I need someone to tell me what to do!
I rate high!
Katie Marie Sanchez- age 17 (link)
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You are the same age as I am. You have MANY chances to find love again. Even though my b/f and I broke up and I loved him, I am okay now and trust that I can find love again. I don't know if you believe in God but if God can give everyone in the entire world, he can definitely forgive your sister and your boyfriend, and you can. I know you're hurt, I would be hurt too, but your sister will be your sister forever. No matter what boys come into your life. Boys come and go, but sisters and friends will last. You will find love again, trust me, and who knows, he could be the one, even though he did something really bad. Trust that it will all be okay in the long run. I'm so sorry this happened to you. But you'll be okay...you can't stay angry forever. But forgive them. You'll feel better, and don't just say it, do it for real. good luck.
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ive never been kissd...im worried it will be too akward
i guess i jut need confidence or something... (link)
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I wasn't kissed until I was 16. But, I'm glad I waited b/c he is one of my best friends now. Kiss when the moment is right, and don't feel obligated to do it because you feel like you have to. Good luck.
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everything is goin great between us or atleast it seems like it...lately he hasnt been tlkin to me as much and stuff like that...i have a feeling sumthing is goin on but i need someone elses opinion
thx (link)
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I know how that feels...my boyfriend didn't call me as much as he used to. That went on for about a month and then everything was okay. Then, after that he didn't say I love you back anymore. In my experience, for a while he was thinking about breaking up w/ me. I hope that isn't the case for you, because it sux. Talk to him about it, I had to do that, and it was okay for a while, but then he finally came down to breaking up w/ me. I hope I helped. Good luck.
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why is it that my friend one day hes all over me and flirts iwht me and the next he acts like i dont even exist then another day he goes bak to the fliritng self...ah it drives me crazyy i have no idea how to read this kid! (link)
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Just by reading this, I would think that he is either indecisive or that you are convenient. If he flirts w/ other girls too, that is probably just his nature and just because he flirts doesn't mean he likes you. Just say "You flirt w/ me one day and the next you don't...I need to know if that's all in fun or if you really like me." something to that effect anyway...Good luck!
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ok.. so i want to get a new pet.. but i cant decide what to get. i wanted a snake but my mommy said no. And now im thinking of maybe a turtle.. any sugestions?.. Ok here are the rules.. No rodents (moms rule) No cats.. (blech i hate them) No Snake (:-() No dogs (already have the best one ever) and no birds (they suck) oo ya and no fish (boooring!)
Thanks for your suggestions!
Oh.. and no rocks either.. i already have one :-) (link)
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i always wanted a hamster, cause they are fun to watch, little, and when their nose twitches it is really cute...and soft...or a ferrett, my neighbors had two of them and they were a lot of fun. Of course, all pets are expensive however. Enjoy whatever you get!
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well my boyfriend tells me im beautiful. its cute/sweet i know. but what should i say after? like can i say thanks? or something cute and unexpected. gimme ideas thnx //♥ (link)
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I love hearing that from boys. Just say thanks, you're so sweet, and if it isn't too awkward, give him a hug. Girls love to be told they are beautiful, i'd rather be told that i'm beautiful than hot. Look into his eyes and say it, and that will make him feel great.
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I'm a christian too, that's why i'm asking you this. Last year i struggled with being bi. I knew it was wrong so eventualy i got back with God and i'm straight. School is starting soon and i was wondering if you have any ideas on ways to prevent that happening again. I'll rate really good!!! (link)
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Remember that marriage is meant for a man and a woman because that's how God intended us to be. Pray to him for strength that you'll be reminded of his will. HE has a will for your life. I hope I helped some. You know what's right and what's wrong. You know what God thinks about homosexuality. What would Jesus do? good luck...:-)
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What do u do when u care about someone so much and they're really the only person you've ever felt really strong about but they dont live the same place as you.. like not as in an hour away or anything like that... but like in a different state as you.. everytime i start going out with someone and this other person comes back around i drop them just for him. i care about him more than anything and wanna be with him more than anyone in this world but i dont kno what to do because we're not in the same place right now.. (link)
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Well, first of all make sure you and he both have no one else in your lives. Find out how he feels about yours and his friendship. Find out if he wants a relationship with ANYONE right now or if he's interested in dating period. If not, ask him if there is a possibility that you may date in the future when distance is no longer a factor. If there is in the future, don't be afraid to date other guys until then unless there is some kind of agreement not to (but if there isn't, have fun until the timing is right cause what is meant to be will). If there isn't, definitely drop it as worth it as it may be. Believe me, I know how it feels. For now, make sure friendship is there. Good luck!
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How does anorexia harm you or your body? I know pukeing will stain your teeth but what else?? cuz if thats it, then whats the harm right? (link)
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Anorexia makes the body really weak. Because by throwing up, your losing the nutrients your body needs to stay healthy by not fighting illnesses and such. You could be hospitalized and if not treated, it could nearly kill you. There are better ways to lose weight than making yourself sick after eating or starving yourself.
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im going into my freshman yr & ive known this girl for about 7 yrs..shes changed alot and shes going thru so much...she trys to get noticed by doing stuff with guys..it disgusts me but i still want to know im always here for her & at the same time tell that whats shes doing isnt ne good
please help my friend and i stay close! (link)
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I have gone through the same thing. Basically, you just need to write her a long letter, or sit her down, tell her you love her and care about her, and that she may not see it now, but, she's hurting herself. One day in the future, she will probably regret the things she did w/ those boys. I hope this works, but it depends on the person. I hope she will be willing to listen to you because no matter what happens, you can keep caring about her, and if you are religious, pray for her. It may not work at first, but it will somehow. Good luck w/ your friend, you are a good one to notice that kind of problem.
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ok i have this b/f and we've been together for a year and it was just my b-day and he got me this really cute bracelet and i love him so much and he loves me.... i think. and my ? is well for the past couple monthes we havnt seen eachother at all except for 2 times and i jsut wanted to know if i should dump him because i never see or talk to him. altho i know school is coming up but i still dont see him that much in school and i wanted to know if somone could please tell me like what to say to him and should i give my bracelet back? please help i'll rate high (link)
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I just got out of a long distance relationship where we dated for 8 months and I only saw him 3 times the entire 8 months. But I didn't break up w/ him because my feelings were really strong for him and he is one of the best people I have ever met. Even though I still feel this way about him, even though we broke up, you should hold on to what you have if you really like him. I kept his bracelet too because he is one of my best friends now. If you decide you don't want a relationship anymore cause you hardly ever see him, even after school starts, but you are still friends, keep it unless he asks for it back. If not, give it back. Good luck! I know how you feel...
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ok i have this b/f and we've been together for a year and it was just my b-day and he got me this really cute bracelet and i love him so much and he loves me.... i think. and my ? is well for the past couple monthes we havnt seen eachother at all except for 2 times and i jsut wanted to know if i should dump him because i never see or talk to him. altho i know school is coming up but i still dont see him that much in school and i wanted to know if somone could please tell me like what to say to him and should i give my bracelet back? please help i'll rate high (link)
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I just got out of a long distance relationship where we dated for 8 months and I only saw him 3 times the entire 8 months. But I didn't break up w/ him because my feelings were really strong for him and he is one of the best people I have ever met. Even though I still feel this way about him, even though we broke up, you should hold on to what you have if you really like him. I kept his bracelet too because he is one of my best friends now. If you decide you don't want a relationship anymore cause you hardly ever see him, even after school starts, but you are still friends, keep it unless he asks for it back. If not, give it back. Good luck! I know how you feel...
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ok so theres this guy that i really wanna get over but i cant. he likes one of my best friends but only thinks i'm "hot." i really want to get over him but i still like him even when i try to forget about it. and even if i do still like him...he doesnt like me. help!?! (link)
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oh my goodness, that sounds soo familiar. You don't deserve him if he is only looking at your outward appearance. I don't know exactly how you can get over him, but that's okay. It took me a long time to get over somebody, but you never know who you could be missing out on if you don't move on. Be grateful for your best friends, cause if he's a good guy and she's one of your best friends, she's deserving. It'll be hard, but remember there are many fish in the sea and if it is meant to happen for you and this guy, it will. Good luck.
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there is this guy at my school that i like,. we really don't know each other that well b/c we don't hang out at all. how do i get the nerve to ask him if he wants to hang out with me if i'm to shy to say anything other than hello? b/c i think he should have the right to know how i feel. (link)
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I know how you feel, I've tried the note thing and most of the time, that just doesn't work...for me anyway I guess. You can, but that could potentially be a turn off cause you'll seem obsessed. Strike up a casual conversation w/ him next time you see him, and if things go well, ask him if he'd like to hang out sometime. See where things go from there, and if all goes well in conversation, gradually tell him how you have felt. Good luck!
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ok well here is the thing. I have a xanga and everyone always leaves me coments saying that im so hott and all this stuff. i dont no any of these people at all but i love the comments. when it comes to school and stuff not one boy would ever look at me. I look the same in real like as i do in these pictures and all these boys what me there but i havent had one boy since ive been in hs. im a sophmore now and i really what the boys to notice me. i dont have to many guy friends and i dont want to just go up and talk to these guys i want them to come up to me. what do i do? (link)
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I'm a senior in highschool and since 8th grade I have only had 2 boyfriends. I had never had a boy friend in hs until my Junior year. It's okay, and he didn't even go to my highschool. He's probably the greatest guy I have ever met. I don't know why guys at my highschool don't like me, but I'm okay w/ that. Be confident in yourself and you'll probably meet someone that likes you the way you are (not from your highschool). Just be patient, cause if you are a gorgeous person, it may not take very long. Get involved w/ local places like youth groups, and you might get lucky like I did. Good luck and i hope I helped.
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wat do you do, wen a friend tells you she cant talk 2 you about certain things anymore, and rather call someone else? we are like sisters, tell each other everything, and i mean everything, and the reason i smile is b/c she makes it happen b/c she helps me so much. please help!
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I have like 6 best friends, and they are all wonderful. But, I don't tell all of them everything. Not because I don't want to, but because I feel like someone else understand where I'm coming from better and can help me more. She probably thinks of you as a sister too, but doesnt' think you are the right person for the problem and that's okay. Talk to her about. That's good that she helps you. Don't take it offensively, she will probably tell you what's up eventually. But, if it bothers you that she isnt' talking to you about stuff, talk to her about it. Good luck and I hope I helped.
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