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I'm a med student, so health related questions I can usually answer pretty well. I also like to think I'm somewhat decent at giving advice. I can also give you an honest opinion."I love waking up in the morning not knowing what's gonna happen or, who I'm gonna meet, or where I'm gonna wind up. I figure life's a gift and I don't intend on wasting it. You don't know what hand you're gonna get dealt next."
"I believe in colors. I believe that laughing is the best calorie burner.I believe in being strong when everything seems to be going wrong. I believe that happy girls are the prettiest girls. I believe that tomorrow is another day and I believe in miracles."
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It's been my second time using 5 Minute Bleach Whitening Gel and when I was done, I layed down on my bed and noticed that my jaw popped when I moved my jaw back. This has never happened before. Only when I ate, my jaw cracked. I'm only 15. So now, my jaw pops when it moves forward, back, and when I move it to the left. What should I do? What is this from? Is it dangerous? How is it fixed?
I can't really diagnose you over the internet but it sounds like what I had when I was your age too. It's called TMJ.
http://www.leadingdentist.com/common_symptoms/clicking_popping.html
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I need ideas to get my friends mom and dad for Christmas, I know you don't know them but they will like anything. Also what's some thugs I can MAKE them!? Like I am artsy but I need some ideas to make them things. Asap! I'll rate I promise lots of ideas needed and I'll used everyones ideas!!!:)
I made my friends collages for christmas with a bunch of pictures of us together. Or maybe a scrapbook of pictures of every year you've known them. Can you draw? I'm drawing a picture of the place where my parents went on their honeymoon together for their next anniversary. It's all what you can do, use your talents :)
i have a very light skin color (pretty much white) but I'm Mexican. My eyes are green with a golden-like circle around my pupil. My current hair color is deep cherry red (it looks like a brown with a red tint) i'm ready for another color though. what color should i dye it? no highlights, no black, and no blond please.
It's kinda hard without a picture but since you don't wanna do blonde or black how about a shade of brown? I think dark brown would look better on you.
what are signs that your a bad kisser. My friend with benefits he like doesnt pull away or anything like that and like he bite my lips alot so how do i know.
Usually they'll just stop, or kinda give you some pointers and hint at you that you aren't that great, its pretty obvious so if you have to question it you're probably alright.
I hate my name and id like an emo name cause some people at school call me emo. To help u ill tell u my name. My name is Tia. ^^
What is an emo name? depressedtia? Really. Your name is pretty I actually like it alot, why do you hate it?
Okay so I am in a place were it's really cold out side so we aren't going outside unless it's something outrageously fun haha. What are some things me and my friend can do tomorrow when she comes over? Out of the ordinary things like truth or dare or nails and hair... Somehings that are realllyyyyy fun for just the two of us. Also we can't leave the house so something we can do when we are at home. Please don't say make something or something.. Some realllyyyyy awesome things! Thanks!!!
Is there snow? Snowball fights, building snowforts, snowboarding/skiing/sledding/tubing. If not umm how about watching movies, making picture collages, drawing/painting, making gingerbread houses/christmas cookies, building a giant fort out of blankets and pillows and watching movies or listening to music underneath it.
My husband is a teacher at a grade school where my daughter goes also. The talent show is coming up in a month, what act can Daddy and Daughter do together.
A magic trick.
lost virginity 2 years ago..since then no physical relation. wil my husband come to know that im nt a virgin?
No, he won't know but you really should tell him.
So me and my ''boyfriend'' don't talk much anymore because he never answers me or my questions , so one day he said we need to have a serious talk , so later he told me that these military guys on base were saying how those combat guys was in service for all those years and they never had too much of a sex drive and now they dont have any , so what he told me is that he is at a point of his life which is like 24-25 and he doesnt want to waste his ''prime'' time before it's too late... and i told him before im not having sex till marriage... and he got all mad at me and then he said he has to go shovel snow and then said maybe msn and never replied to me saying that was rude... today i told him that he is making me mad and he automatically said''oh what why bcause im working?'' i was mad because he always blames it on me and then leaves me hanging and doesn't answer my text after that text he never answered me before...
please help me!
ive been hurt too much to know , so please tell me what i should do
betty
He is an asshole. Sounds like he's just trying to try every thing he can to have sex with you. Most men have sex drives their whole lives, there's no "prime time". Make him respect you or leave.
F-17: This guy and I were together for 2 years and we were completely in love. We barely did anything though; we didn't need it. We split up when we went to different schools and it was a terrible break up and we weren't even friends. Now we've been apart for a little over a year now but naturally, I still have feelings for him. He says he does for me too, I know it's true. But during the year we've been apart, he was dating another girl and he had sex with her. I always thought he would be the guy I'd have sex with. Now we're finally friends again and he wants to and I know I do it's just weirding me out that it's my first time and not his; just because that's how i imagined it would be. Help!
If you have to ask, then you shouldn't. Just because you always thought he'd be the guy you'd have sex with, doesn't at all mean he is. He was perfectly fine dating someone else and having sex with her, he didn't mind not being in contact with you. Obviously he wants to have sex with you, he's a guy. Please don't cave and be his bitch, you're better than that.
Hey, I'm an 18 year old female. I've been dating my boy for about 5 months now. We were friends for about a year or so before we started dating. I always had something for the boy. When we first started dating it was like a dream (Like any other starting of a relationship). We were both so eager to see each other.. and just so in love. It never changed for me until recently.
He's been so.. distant. Not only that, but every time I bring up a problem, it's more of a problem that I did. He just doesn't get it. I know he has work and college and I respect that, but I try to see him as much as I can. Which is usually once or twice a week. And some days he'll make up excuses not to see me. I love the kid, I really do. He's amazing.. just.. not so much recently. He becomes cold, distant.. bitter. and everything seems to push back on me.
I'm a romantic, too. I love to give small gifts, whether they're notes or poetry.. or what ever. I just try so hard to show my feelings and portraying it. Every time I do this.. it becomes a joke. He claims it was just a stage of him being sweet and he's not clingy. I'm so desperate for getting the tenderness I need that I'm crushing over other guys. I'd never cheat. I don't know what I want anymore. All I know is I want to be happy. Yes, people say to use my heart and not my head.. but it's pretty hard when it's in this situation. If anyone, please anyone, can help me.. please try. I can't take this much longer.
I think you should talk to him about this if you haven't already. Tell him exactly what is going on. Then give it some time, like a few days-week maybe and see if he changed from what you told him and is giving you the attention you need. If he doesn't then you really should just move on. You don't seem happy with him anymore, people do change and grow apart. Go find someone that appreciates you and loves spending time with you.
Jake and I used to date. We broke up because we weren't right for each other. Soon after the breakup, I found out I was pregnate. Jake promised to help me when the baby was born. Then I met my BFF, Annie. Annie and Jake are currently dating, and they really like each other. Should I tell her? If so, how?
I think you should. She'll probably find out sooner or later. So it's best for the friendship that she hears it from you and not someone else. It shouldn't be that hard to tell her because you did used to date him and its not like you slept with him while they were dating.
18/f, ive been with this guy for 8 months now. i can't seem to believe in him, or trust him. he tells me that i'm the only one for him and that i have nothing to worry about, but sometimes i feel like its too good to be true. he tells me he doesnt think anyone else is hot or attractive at all. i dont think thats even possible :/ he's a man, and every guy ive ever been with has cheated on me, except him. before him, every guy i had ever dated has cheated on me. I guess that's where this all started, and now whenever he even says hi to a girl i cant help but get upset. I dont know what to do, i've tried everything. any advice? i know i need help, but i just dont know what to do anymore. i know its not right to get this jealous or upset, but i feel like i cant control it anymore.
please help,
Gina
I understand how hard this can be since you were only exposed to cheaters. But you need to keep in mind that not all guys cheat, you just got unlucky. Obviously don't just trust anyone, but if he can PROVE to you that he's only about you, I would give him a chance. Let him know about your past too so he doesn't just think you don't trust him just because.
there is this guy i like ..he is keep staring at me since the begining of the year..we have spanish class together..&& now when i start liking him, i' not sure if he likes me or not! he talks to everyone in the class except me..&& he sits right next to me..i have him on facebook, but we never talked..i want to talk to him buh i want him to start talking to me first..he only stares at me when we r in class together && then when we r in hallways, he just ignore me..sometimes i think he really likes me n then sometimes i think he likes someone else..or maybe he stares because he thinks i like him!
in class, wherever i go , he follows me.. i really want to get his attention && idk how to make him talk to me first..i can't share this with my friends because they all r friends with him..i can't figure out if he likes me.. what should i do?
It's hard to randomly approach someone but since you have things in common it should work out good. You can break the ice by asking what the spanish homework was, or talk about your mutual friends. Just be friendly with him and smile, maybe flirt a little and you should be able to tell if he's into you :)
Whats going on? This guy Im ''dating'' use to talk to me all the time right? like we would text more then 50 texts a day , and now he changed.. he didn't tell me had a job , he never told me about his ex that I seen on facebook STILL in a relationship , he now never really answers my texts only if it's important which is like no 6 -10 text's a day , is he busy or? Before I was checking on him , and my bestfriend made an account and apparently he responded saying oh let's meet up and want to do sexual stuff and then he said it was his bestfriend , and his bestfriend sent me a 5 paragraph saying it was him , and not this guy. Also , he before is always like lets hang out please , and kept asking and now he is just like alright.. and on his facebook he only has like 18 friends and now he has some girl with a little tight dress posing is that why maybe? im not trying to creep him , it's just I don't know what to think , he always blames everything on me , when I ask about stuff for example , about the relationship status on facebook he was listed in one , but she wasn't in his friends , so he said that was from a while back but he didn't take if off yet , and he use to talk sexual to me , and now doesn't , and when I always came over he always wanted to have sexual pleasure and he'd take me to the bus stop and leave me... I tested him once and said oh you dont have to if you dont want to take me home... and hes like oh want to grow up now eh... and so hes 23 im 18 and we have been seeing eachother for a month now... please help? thank you betty!
Should I bother giving him a gift?
its like he puts me on hold because I got mad at hime because of the facebook incident and hes like we'll call and talk later , and never did.
He's not worth it. There's a really slight chance his intensions may be different, but from what you said here to me it just sounds like he wants some and he's realizing that you aren't going to let him get it that easy. The only reason why he said that he wanted to hang out was so that he can make a move on you. He doesn't seem to want to put in any effort like calling and texting, he's getting impatient. This is the stereotypical "asshole". Between him and his girls and everything, it isn't worth it at all.
so i quite sure that is is going to sound crazy but i have a phoebia for kissing...
i get all confused and dont know what to do and get scared coz the guy might think im a totall idiot...
This is common. If you don't have experience and you want to take the easy way out, just follow his lead until you get more comfortable with leading and trying different things. It's really hard to explain how to kiss someone online, so here.
http://www.wikihow.com/Kiss
Well ... I was in a relationship with a cute girl and now I dumbed her , but the problem is I still love her :( even though I'm the one who stopped our relationship , I want to just forget her(by the meaning of not really forget her , i want to stop loving her) so what do I do to stop loving a girl I see everyday in school!???
P.S: She is with me in the same class and same school!:(
Well why did you dump her if you love her? If there was a good reason, just keep reminding yourself of the reason why you broke things off with her everytime you think about her.
idk i went to the restromm and then i saw brown blood does it mean i started my period plzz help me
Yes, congrats.
There's this guy that I'm seeing [not exclusively in a relationship though] that goes to my college. He took a long break between high school and college and he's not a third year (I'm a first year). We've never talked about our ages or age in general. I want to say that I don't care about age, but a 9 year difference (almost 10 in January) is pretty substantial...
What are your views on this?
Honestly, a lot of people will think this is weird. However, you are 18 and are legal to date whoever you want. Just keep in mind that with that big of an age difference, let's put it this way: he's on a different level of life than you. There's a good possibility that he's looking for marriage and children (or at least soon). You are still very young so make sure you get your point across if you aren't ready for those things.
18(9months) male
I have this girl I have had sex with and we were both clear, actually she was, that it was only that and nothing more would ever be yet now she wants to act as if we are dating though she rejects me and won't have sex either. What is the deal because I am lost entirely.
Friends with benefits rarely works with girls, except for a few (and obviously whores). There is a psychological difference between males and females in regards to sex. Girls may think they can be in a friends with benefits relationship until they start actually having sex. They get an attachment and expect the guy to do "things" that a FRIEND wouldn't. Talk to her and straighten things out. If you don't want a relationship with each other, I would just end it completely.