JustJessOx answered Monday December 6 2010, 4:22 pm: Hey there :)
Aw you are not the only one. Almost everyone gets nervous and apprehensive about kissing its natural.
The key is to just stop stressing! Honestly if you over think about it you wont be able to enjoy it.
The guy will not think you are an idiot believe it or not they get just as scared as us girls!
Kissing is something that comes natural. I remember I used to stress about it alot when I was say 13/14. I used to worry"where do I put my hands how do I do it what way do I tilt my head etc etc."
But seriously all that sort of just comes to you.
If it helps rest your hands on his shoulders. Remember to take it slow soft and gentle. Do not be too full on and if you want to use a little tongue but avoid "the washing machine syndrome" In other words don't eat his face. Stay in one spot slowly massage your tongue with his and you will soon find a rhythm you both are comfortable with.
Good kissing comes with practice! So don't be scared relax and experience & enjoy :)
I hope this helps anymore questions please feel free to inbox me
much <3
Jess 17/f [ JustJessOx's advice column | Ask JustJessOx A Question ]
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