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i really need advice. my friend is being a dick to me. she has call me a lesbian and i am not and we are always in a fight on aim. she has told every one that i am a lesbian my real friends believe me but really i am not. i really wish i had some good comebacks at her. i really do hate her. please give some advise and combacks please. (link)
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ok 1st stop calling her your friend...she obviously isnt. also, do you really want to be like her? comebacks? all they do is get you into trouble. you dont want that.
but if you want comebacks jsut whenever you see her jsut tell her "geee, thanks for the lesbian stuff, that was really nice of you" and then jsut laugh it off and make her look immature and stupid. dont say stuff to her that would make her want to have an arguement with you, its not worth it. jsut say smart things so like she would feel dumb.
really, dont sink to her level, youre gonna look as bad as she does. trust me its not worth it, your obviously better then her, so show it! :)
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i really want to go to my sisters graduation. its tomorow. but my mom and my sister both told me that i couldnt go because i dont have the clothes and my hair isnt done. she said i have to get my reportcard from school, and i do but my friend told me they will mail it!. i want to go and they said i cant go also, my sisters friend's parents are taking them and they said i wont be able to fit in thir car because alot of people are going. what should i do? any commets? what do you think? thanks! (link)
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also, i already told my mom and we even got into an arguement and she said i cant go!
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whats the point of letting someone in your life if they just gonna walk out of your life eventually? why do people always have to leave? (link)
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well, thats just how life is. everyone goes through it. but those are the kinds of people who show us things in life. wether it is to love, to care for, or even friendship. those poeple show us alott. but they cant stay. maybe thats the reason why they come. to show us things that noone else can.
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where can i try on wigs?
and also, where can i buy pink or green or blue wigs? (link)
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you can always try on wigs int eh beauty supply. they has those at the malls. those are like hair products and such. they have alot of wigs there. im not sure if they have pink, blue, or green but you can always check there. i am rpetty sure they have wigs there. i always see them in beauty supplies and try them on. haha.
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okay theres this guy i go to school with and have because well rather bestfriends with him.
yesturday i was talking to him and he said he was thinking about going out with me. ((i have liked him the whole time he's been here for 3 years.))
But the only thing is im not aloud to have a real go out on dates boyfriend(until im 16) which is what he wants. I told him about the sixteen thing and he said he would wait...he turns 16 3 days after me in december..thats 6 MONTHS!!. He wants us to talk and keep close friends and he said he wants to be my first REAL boyfriend.
But just a few months ago he said that he tells girls what they want to here to get what he wants.
The only problem is in october he was pressuring me to flash him which ended badly and we didnt talk for awhile. now he says he doesnt want to do anything with me or have me do anything to him until we are dating and he says no pressure will be put on me anymore...He also turned some really pretty girl down for sex! because of me!!!
do you think he's telling the truth and we should keep close till then or is he just telling me what i want to hear? (link)
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he seems like hes telling the truth. but none of us will actually be able to tell you the right answer. just check him out fir a while. see if hes doing everything he promised you. if he isnt i suggest you dump him badly haha.
also, he should wait. and thats a better idea becase you guys will be able to know eachtother. its better then making the mistake and going out with him right away. jsut wait and see if he is telling the truth. 6 months is alot to wait for but its enough time to know his intentions. goodluck! and i hope you make the right decision. you wouldnt want a rotten old guy to be your first boyfriend.
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ok so my boyfriend and i have been together for a year on thursday (next week) and this is what we're going to do, but i wanted to know if it seems weird or anything...
we were gonna go out to dinner at our fave restaurant (don pablos) and go see a movie and get each gifts and stuff... but instead, we both just got back from a cruise, so time is dwindling down to go shopping, so we decided to do this: there's this place like 20 minutes from my house called 'the promenade shops at saucon valley' they have lots of stores, a red robins and some other smaller places to eat, and a movie theater. it's like an outdoor mall and is really cool. we were gonna go there and go to red robins, and catch a movie. but before eating and the movie, we were gonna go shopping for each other but together... like pick stuff out for each other, but together. for a few reasons, one cause we'll both be there so we'll be sure we like it, two cause it's alot easier, and its just more convienant. now is that weird or strange? i think it's okay but i just want some opinions =) THANKS ♥
by the way we're both 16 and he has his liscense but no car... but he can probably get one to use for the date lol (link)
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aw thats very cute. congrats! i find that very interesting. it doesnt seem weird dont worry about it its normal, especially if you bo0th agreed on it. :)
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if your boyfriend calls you at least once a day but then he doesnt does he not like you anymore (link)
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ok my boyfriend didnt call me for 2 whole days !! haha i was really upset but then he told me he was busy or that he just had problems he still loves me. dont worry about it.
if youre still worried call him and see what happens. im sure its nothing thoug
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okay people tells me secrets and stuff but at the same time they question me if they can trust me because i dont tell anything that much or tell them a secret why is that? (link)
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well,
people tell me that all the time. its becase you dfont tell them your secrets so they wonder why they should tell you secrets. its like if you dont trust them why should they trust you. you know? in my opinion thts so dumb becase what does you trusting them have to do wtith them trusting you? its just dumb but yea thats why they always say it.
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I have this friend, well, actually, I would say more of "ex" friend. We were friends for about 5 years, and then, In the whole year of 2006, and the beginning of 2007, we became more like sisters. Seriously, we hung out every freaking day, we basically lived at each others houses, and I told her anything, and we were so alike.
We were fine, and then she accidentally told someone from another school a rumor about me, that she claimed that was true, and it wasn't, and since she told everyone, and she had never stabbed me in the back, I completely over reacted.
After about 3 weeks, we were fine. But I knew things wouldn't be the same -- and they weren't. She moved on to different people, and so did I. I would have to say, shes one of the most popular girls in the school, and definitively the prettiest. So believe me, being her best friend, was definitely a privilege.
After that, we were friends, but slowly, we just stopped talking. I knew why, but she just.. "changed" Her attitude, her friends, her personality, and everything.
I am bi-polar, and yesterday, I caught myself crying for no reason, which happens often. I kept trying to find out why, and I think I found out. I miss my best friend, I miss telling her everything. I never found another best friend, just friends. I miss her, I miss everything.
I want to talk to her, but I texted her asking if I could, and she said "only in person". I can't do that, I just can't. I am too shy to talk to her. I'd be too nervous, believe me.
What can I do? What do I say?
Sorry for this being so song. Any help is extremly appreciated. Thanks.
13/female.
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yup talking in person is definetly the best idea. i agree with her on that. well if you really want your friend back you should tell her how you feel. everything. what you jsut told us. tell her you miss her and that her friendship meant alott to you. tell her you havent found anyone that came as close as she did. jsut tell her EEVRYTHING tell her how you feel. if you really want your bestfriend back you should be whilling to amke that sacrifice. texting isnt good enough. in person its better. more emotions. if she misses the old times like you do then she will return. well she should, theres one reason why you liked her, and its becase she was always nice to you. so she should still be. i hope you can get your friend back.
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ok soo summer is here and i thought i would be hanging out with my friends everyday..but none of my friends have called me..ive been hanging out with all new ppl because my old friends ahve not included n invited me to anything..i dont get it? i havent done nothing..what should i do? need your opinion (link)
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call them up and ask them what they wan to do. ask them if they want to hang out.
if they say no in a mean way like they are mad then just be like are you guys mad? did i do anything? if they say no then jsut play it off
if they are mad for a stupid reason then forget about them. go hang out with new people, it always good having more friends
if they are mad becase of siemthing you did and you admitt you did it and you are sorry apologize and tell them how much their friendship means to you. goodluck!
xoxo johanny
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My boyfriend's dad is in the hospital & it seems to be something serious. He's been there for days and I've been trying to help and talk to him. He tells me not to worry and to focus on myself, not him. We've barely talked the last coupld of days. I feel really bad & I love him more than anything, so of course I want to be there for him. Does he just need space right now? (link)
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well, i would suggest you tell him that
you love him and that you will always be there when he needs to talk but that you will give him space because you feel thats the only way to help him right now. let him know that when he feels better that he can always count on you to talk to him, and cheer him up. make him feel speacial and most of all show him you care!
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my boyfriend gives me compliments all the time, and they're always sweet. i'm completely unused to getting compliments and i rarely ever give them, and i can't think of anything to say. any ideas of serious compliments that don't sound to corny or rehearsed. i just want to be able to say something. everytime i try it comes out sounding bad. plz help me with ideas. (link)
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you make me feel great
youre so cute, funny, nice
youre so speacial to me
i dont know what i would do without you
i cant function without you
you make me feel so speacial
(you know stuff like that).
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15 f
i joined an agency for acting auditions and tht was a month ago. so far the only person that wants me to audition is one in downtown Durham, North Carolina. thats pretty far. my dad said its to far and that he refuses to waste so much gas and money to get there jsut because i wnat to audition and there might be millions of girls there and one of them, thats not me might get the part. i really wan to go. becasue i atleast tried. what can i do? what to i tell him? any comments? i really want to go. also how long will it actually take me to get there? thanks i rate!
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also, i dont have money because i dont work and my dad doesnt want to pay alott of money.
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13/f
i live with my dad and i dont shave yet. wat can i do or say to make him think i wanna start shaving my legs? plz dont tell me to go to the store and just put some in the basket, kuz that will no work...kuz i'm 13 and i still dont shave.
dont yall think thats crazy?!? just tell me wat i should say or do. please and thank you
p.s. i'm very shy even around my dad, so i'm not just gonna come out and say it.
p.p.s. i can't go to anyone else...
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aww well im really sorry about that. just like start a conversation with your dad and b like most of my friends shave...can i do it too. or like my legs are so hairy ima shave. lol or just shave hidden he might not notice. and if he asks you you jsut say you had to shave because your friends say you were getting hairy and thats very imbarrasing for you
goodluck
hope i helped!
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Well my dad freakin took my autn to pick out my grad dress so it's freakin horrible.
My dad wont' take me to the salon to do ym hair which is as long as the girl from The Ring and needs the haircut. He's doing my hair! ARG
I thoguth it would be perfect..now it's jsut terrible.
I dont' know what I'm asking for..just..help me.
I don't wanan burst out crying at the grad (link)
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go to your friends house and change there. tell your dad that you guys are gong together and change at her house. try to get another dress maybe borrow one from your friends. and about your hair make it curly and tell your friend to cut the ends, or make a messy bun or a really nice bun. hope i ehlped. and good luck
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My profile got all messed up and i had to make a new. so here it is again.. And thank you for your answer i did read,(soundz like pink, i think thats who answered..)
Any way i was lucky i saved the question on my computer so it is the same.
I'm f/14.
I know this is really long, and probably confusing but please read it and it and try to answer! THANX!!
When I was little my biological father had to move to Kentucky.He never moved back. My mom was about 18. Well he was out of the picture for a while.Then theres the guy we lived with and he was ALWAYS called DAD!(His name is Charley) Then theres Mike my dad for 7yrs. (He was my bioloical father until i was 7.) Then there's Brad a guy who passed away, who i thought was just my mom's friend until today (6/12).then theres the current step-dad for the past 4-5yrs. Who is living with us, his name is Josh.
Your probably thinking 2 things!
1)What does this have to do with her life now?
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2)Her mom is a whore.
Ok well this is affecting my life because:
my dad (not my real one the one i call dad) is moving, and always says something smart about my mom and her current b/f. (Current b/f was a druggie.)
Well he doesn't mean to hurt me but it does.
Then my real dad came into my life when i was 7, then left for 1-2yrs. Then came back around for 1-2 more yrs. then left. No surprise there. Well he called my cousin a couple a monthz ago and asked about me and for my number. Well he didn't call me, so my mom is going to search for his #, so i can call him and get his address, i wrote him a 2 1/2 page letter and a poem to send him.
Everyday it seems like my life gets harder, and i cry harder every other night thinking about it.
well when i lived with my "dad" life ALWAYS seemed so great and fun.Well we stopped seeing my moms friend Brad, I didn't see why but it didnt bug me then, well my mom told me later on because i asked her about Brad and she told me she stopped visiting him because my dad thought they were having an affair. I didn't think they were.so when Brad died me and my mom were upset because we could have been vising him before he died but my dad didnt want us to go. I hated him for awhile because of that.Today I was looking for my 1st letter that i had ever recieved from mr real dad, and instead i found for cards from Brad! They were addressed to my mom! i thought maybe they were from my real dad so i went ahead and read them, they were all like i wish you were here in my arms and i miss you and michelle (me), love always Brad!
It really hurts to know all of this. And i miss my life with my dad. Before Josh (moms current b/f.) everything was almost always great. Then josh comes my mom gets grouchier,madder, and cries a lot. But says she loves him but it hurts me REALLY BAD! And i don't know what to do any more.
What should do to cope with everything?
If you have any questions ask me!
I know this is really confusing and long but i really need help! Should i get a therapist?
Any advice is great right now.
Thanks in advance!
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o wow im reqlly osrry about evrything.
i think you should really get a therapist. i really dont know what i can do to help. iw ant to but all i can say is that i think you should get a therapist. a therapist would help alott. i had one once and it helped me. i overcame my problem. i feel so much better now.
what helps me deal with things is music. i listen to it everytime i feel sad or mad. it calms me down its a huge part of my life. maybe that would help you deal wih things.
also a good friend. if you feel liek you dont have any i will be happy to listen and talk to you. we all need friends to help us deal with things. also, try talking to your mom. communication is really important. tell her how you feel tell her whats bothering you. maybe shell understand and try to work somethng out that fits both of you guys. i really wish you good luck!
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17/male
i need a job, but no one has replied to my applications. i would really like to work in a hotel because i love hotels. my friend can hook me up with a job as a bellhop, but theres one problem..im not that strong.
should i take the job? (link)
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take the job. you might not find a better opportunity. just take it for now. and if you find a better job then leave that one. but atleast youll have a job for now
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I really want to know because everyone else has already lost it and I'm 14 and I havent! (link)
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hey im 15 and im still a virgin and proud. once you go to highschool, or i dont know if you already are you will see alot of girls who arent virgins but you dont have tobe like them. you have to do your own thing. do what you think feels right. noteveryone is a virgin i know. but there are alot of people out there who are. dont worry noone will critizie you for being a virgin and if they do theyre stupid and immature. save your virginity to a nice guy that you love. trust me loosing it like that isnt worth it.
ps you dont need to follow nyone. do your own thing.
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I like this boy called jordan he is lovely but i have neva talked 2 him properly my friends are like look hes looking at you im like your lying i really want a chance with this boy hes really nice but what shall i do ? incase he dont like me ? help me please !!? thanks :D! (link)
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talk to him! if he stares at you he obviosly has a thing for you. if he doesnt want you then just play it off like yu just want to be friends. theres nothing wrong with a girl and a guy being friends.just go up to hijm and talk to him. like a firend. and then let time figure out whats going to happen. see if he flirts with you. or looks shy. if he looks shy he thinks ur cute. if he flirts he lieks you so flirt back to give him confidence to ask you out! goodluck!
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Me and my ex dated for a month and like 6 days and then he broke up with me. I made mistakes that pushed him away but I truly love him soo much and havent cryed so much in my lifetime. I need him and he hates me now and wont even talk to me and I cant stand it. Its killing me. I dont know what to do. I need him to talk to me and be part of my life. I cant move on I love him and it sucks
Please help me Im sick of crying (link)
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im really sorry. im going through the same thing and it really sucks. i told the guy how i felt but it didnt make a difference. i hope it makes a difference for you. but the truth is that if he really loves you he'll come back to you after knowing how you feel about him. it would be a whole lot easier. i guess my guy never really loved me as much as he said he did because he never came back to me. dont you think that if he did love me he would have come back because he missed me so much? i hope your guy comes back i really do. because anything is better then a broken heart. trust me i know. good luck
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