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Im falling apart
Me and my ex dated for a month and like 6 days and then he broke up with me. I made mistakes that pushed him away but I truly love him soo much and havent cryed so much in my lifetime. I need him and he hates me now and wont even talk to me and I cant stand it. Its killing me. I dont know what to do. I need him to talk to me and be part of my life. I cant move on I love him and it sucks
Please help me Im sick of crying
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I've been there, and it sucks. I ended up getting the guy back in my life. It was hard. Guys are good at holding grudges.
Trying doing this..
Be like please just give me 5 minutes thats all I need, either do that on the phone or in person it tends to work better that way, then be like I'm sorry for everything I've ever done to you. I love you so much and I can't imagine myself with out you. Be like we just need to talk and if right now if friends is all you can be with me thats fine because i can't stand not talking to you.
I hope I helped. ♥ Stacey
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I think you need to talk to a professional. Do you have a school counselor you can speak with who can help you get through this? That would be the best thing you can do. I get the impression that there's more to this story than any of us are getting. If you and your ex been dating for about a month, it's impossible for you to be in love with him.
I know you don't want to hear this, but it's for your own good. If you want to stop hurting, you need to take a look at the truth, not at your feelings. Sometimes our feelings can be overwhelmingly deceiving and leave us believing that what we feel is the truth, when it isn't. If you want to get better, you have to be honest with yourself.
Your life seems too complicated at the moment to add to it the stress of a relationship. Try hard to see this as a positive thing - a chance to correct your mistakes. You mentioned making mistakes that pushed him away. What mistakes could you have made in such an extremely short amount of time? This is a sign that your life is overly problematic.
Go talk to a professional who can help set you on the right path. Don't let your emotions control you. You control them. If the idea of getting help seems unnecessary, that's another sign that it's exactly what you need. We often do the exact opposite of what's good for us. And that's not just you, that's pretty much everyone. You'll get through this.
I hope this helps. If you need more help, feel free to ask.
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im really sorry. im going through the same thing and it really sucks. i told the guy how i felt but it didnt make a difference. i hope it makes a difference for you. but the truth is that if he really loves you he'll come back to you after knowing how you feel about him. it would be a whole lot easier. i guess my guy never really loved me as much as he said he did because he never came back to me. dont you think that if he did love me he would have come back because he missed me so much? i hope your guy comes back i really do. because anything is better then a broken heart. trust me i know. good luck
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keep telling your self that there IS someone better for you..i know your probably thinking no hes the only guy for me. my sister is going through this right now and i kept telling her that shes gonna find someone better and she didnt belive me either. me and our friends took her out to the movies and the mall and introduced her to new guys and guess what? she found someone a WHOLE lot better and she thanks me almost everyday lol..just go out with friends trust me it will make you feel better :)
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Hi. I'm sorry to hear about what happen, I've been there myself too and it hurts so much. All I can really say is give him time. If it was things you did to push him away the best you can do is say your sorry and that you still want him to be a part of your life. After that it will be for him to decide what he wants to do and if he wants the same or not but you may need to just give him time to gather his thoughts and such. I'm guessing he must have felt strongly about you also so this whole thing is probably ot so easy on him either so just give him some space and time to sort things through in his head. All you really can do is let it all out. :( It's painful to go through what you are going through, more so when you realise it was you who pushed the other person away so you blame yourself for everything. We all make mistakes though, it's what makes us human. You'll need to try and forgive yourself and also give yourself time as well to heal and pick yourself up. I know you may feel at the moment how much you need him but believe me after a while you will realise that you didn't need him half as much as you thought you did.
All I can really do is say how sorry I am that you are so upset and to give yourself time. I know it's not something you probably want to hear but believe me given some time you'll feel a lot better. Write if you need to just write and let things out, it might help and I will also try help any way I can. :(
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