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How to make it more exciting with my bf?
13/f
my bf and i have been going out for over a year. during the school year we're both really busy, so we only see each other at lunch and on the weekends. but now that summer is here, we can see each other all the time (he lives on my street). the problem is, we can never agree on anything to do. he never wants to do anything i suggest (swimming, bike rides, bowling, etc). all he wants to do is hang with his friends and do stupid guy stuff, and he always wants me to sit there and watch them blow things up, do crazy stunts or play video games. i want to be with him, but its soooo boring! and whenever we're alone together, all he wants to do is make out, which i don't *always* feel like doing. so we've been getting in fights because we're bored and we can't find anything we both like doing. i dont want us to get bored of each other or fight all the time... so what can i do to keep things exciting?
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Try and join into what he is doing with his friends. I personally love to blow things up, so it would be easy for me to fit right in, I don't know you or your personality or things you like to do, but I do know, that guys love it when girls do crazy things or join into whatever they're doing.
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i know it can be hard to find things to do haha
well instead of just watching him do all those things do them with him.
they can be funnnn
but dont do them all the time
go swimming, trampoline, etc. with him
hm and try not to make a big deal out of it
like smile a lot and act happy
it will make him happier too and you will find things to do
also hang out with more then just you too.
like he brings guy friends and you birng your girl friends
gooooooooood luck! :]]
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lol i'm 13 && my boyfriend lives two blocks away from me :) i know exactly what you're talking about, the make out thing, haha. Well, you guys can go to the beach with friends, blow up things [with him] & tell him that you dont feel like making out. Or when he leans to kiss you move your head and he'll miss. It's pretty funny actually :) You can also do stupid things like play tag or leap frog with himmmmm. If he still refuses and wants to be with his guy friends, explain to him this "If your guy friends are more important to you then me, why am I still going out with you"? Then make a sad puppy facee lol. That shouldd make him feel alil guilty so you'll be with eachother more. So yeah, Good Luck :)
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Watching video games is boring. Playing them is not. Play video games with him. Not only will he be impressed, but you guys will be able to spend quality time together. I used to do that with my ex boyfriend. We played video games when he would come over sometimes & it'd be fun. =)
The only reason you're not having fun is because you're watching them do things. If you join in on it, you'll have more fun because you're actually doing more than just standing there.
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well, h eobviously likes video games right? challenge him to a few. im sure hell love that, and if you win, hell probably be impressed.
and tell him you want to do other stuff than makeout. that he needs to make sacrifices for your relationship too. and that once he tried something, hell probably have fun and let him invite his guy friends. so they can do theyre dumb stunts while you swim if they get bored of just floating around =]
hope i helped. good luck.
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