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Member Since: June 14, 2007
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Last Update: June 14, 2007
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Well there's this guy at my school, and he's really cute and all. We're really good friends and I guess we sorta flirt with each other a lot? It's almost like we act like we're together, but we really aren't! One of my friends said 'Who are you top three friends that are girls' and I was first. I think I like him, but my friend does too and I'm scared if he asks me out, and I say yes, my friend will be mad. What do I do? (BTW, we've been like this for a whole school semester, and he still hasn't asked me out, so he might not do it, or he might, who knows?) (link)
well id say if he asks you go for it
your friend will suck it up and get over it
obviously he likes you more
and you are more important to him and stuff
if your friend knows that you both like eachother
then she should be the one to backoff.
:)


me and my boyfriend have been dating for about a year. we're both 17 by the way. at the begining of the year we had a rough patch in the relationship but everything's fine now. anyways about 6 months ago i started giving him hand jobs and i've been fine with that. now we talked about me giving him a blow job which when we talk about it i'm fine with it, even a little excited, and we'll plan when we can get together but when we actually get together and we're alone, i chicken out and find some excuse to why i won't do it when there really isn't any good excuse. then the minute i leave him i regret it. i want to do this i really do and not just because he's asking for it. im not the type of girl that stands by my guy's side and does what he wants. so why can't i get over this anxiety of giving a blow job? (link)
well your probably just unsure of yourself and worried about he will think? eh? maybe? well practice on popsicles or something until youthink you are ready :]


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my bf and i have been going out for over a year. during the school year we're both really busy, so we only see each other at lunch and on the weekends. but now that summer is here, we can see each other all the time (he lives on my street). the problem is, we can never agree on anything to do. he never wants to do anything i suggest (swimming, bike rides, bowling, etc). all he wants to do is hang with his friends and do stupid guy stuff, and he always wants me to sit there and watch them blow things up, do crazy stunts or play video games. i want to be with him, but its soooo boring! and whenever we're alone together, all he wants to do is make out, which i don't *always* feel like doing. so we've been getting in fights because we're bored and we can't find anything we both like doing. i dont want us to get bored of each other or fight all the time... so what can i do to keep things exciting?

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i know it can be hard to find things to do haha

well instead of just watching him do all those things do them with him.
they can be funnnn
but dont do them all the time
go swimming, trampoline, etc. with him

hm and try not to make a big deal out of it
like smile a lot and act happy
it will make him happier too and you will find things to do
also hang out with more then just you too.
like he brings guy friends and you birng your girl friends
gooooooooood luck! :]]


Background Info: 14/female

Last Friday i threw up, probably because of anxiety. On Saturday, i had a really big panic atttack. It lasted over an hour, I couldn't really be calmed down. On sunday morning as soon as i woke up, I felt shaky, and i had another panic attack, I felt like I couldn't breathe. I ended up having to take some kind of pill that would relieve my anxiety immediately.

After that, i got extremely tired and light headed. After sleeping for a little bit, i felt a little better. But when i went to sleep last night, i woke up at around two in the morning feeling like i couldn't sit still. I ended up sleeping in my Dad's room.

While I was at school today, i felt fine, maybe because i had something to distract myself. But now, I still feel dizzy. I have had NO appetite, whatsoever, and whenever i stand up, my teeth start to chatter, and I'm SO tired.

I don't know what to do with myself anymore. I just want to feel normal. Not dizzy, not tired, just normal.

What can i do to feel better? Any ideas as to exactly what's wrong?

I'm already taking anxiety medicine, though it's apparently not doing the trick... (link)
ohhh man this happens to me sometimes too just not as bad
i found that looking at the brightside helps ALOT
and gettting your mind off of it helps even more
like excercise or do something with friends
it usually makes mine go away completely
blah, jeez i hope this helps, bc i know how bad it sucks

so just get your mind of it okay :]]]




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