okay. i need to talk to someone and none of my friends can really help. my parents are divorced and i dont see my dad very often. i live with my mother who is an alcoholic and gets pissed off easliy. today my brother and mom got into a huge fight. she is now gone, i mean she just left. i called her and she said that she just needed to be alone. she hasnt returned yet, and i dont know what to do. i am only 14 and my brother 11. she is most likely going to come home incredibly drunk and when she is drunk life just sucks... i dont know what to do anymore because i am just sick of it. this isnt the first time she has just left......
is there any chance you can live with your dad? if not, any family members or close friends?
good luck, send me a message if u need anything else
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My boyfriend and I are going to seperate schools next year and I think its going to be hard to stay in touch alot but we both really want to stay together because we love each other alot.. does anyone have any tips that will keep us from drifting apart?
make time for eachother! good luck
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alright..there is this guy at my work that i used to like..but now i dont like him anymore and he still likes me and he stalks me everywhere..like at work, online, and we had this fun fest and he even stalked me there..and he freaks out at me when i say i have to go..he makes me real uncomfortable and he always stares at me..and everyone knos it.and im scard cause hes a weirdo..and me doesnt leave me alone! what should i do!? xo and im 14
block him online..tell someone at work to watch him..tell an adult if it gets worse.. think about it in a good way ..if he tries anything with you, you can sue him & get money ;] hope i helped hun!
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Alright...well my hair is extremely thick and frizzy and poofy in the humidity. I straighten it and that seems to help. but i was wondering...is it true that if you get your hair thinned out it grows back thicker? thanks ill rate
use friz-ease serum before you dry your hair
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Ok, me and this girl have been talkin' 4 a while now (for like 6 months). We were just friends at first but I've always liked her. She's been in really bad relationships and thinks men are dogs and will treat her like dirt. I really like her though and I wouldn't do anything like that. I like her too much. Plus I'm not even that kinda guy. I wanna love her and show her trust, honesty, and loyalty. She's been so hurt that she can't see that I wouldn't do that to her. I wanna be with her; she is the most incredible girl I've ever met. On top of that I think I like her so much it might be turning into Love. I need some GOOD advice. Help!
P.S. I'll rate high.
girls like guys who can open up to them. tell her all of that, tell her you wouldnt hurt her. she probably feels the same way & just doesnt wana get hurt again. hope i helped
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I've been tweezing my eyebrows for a while now but it's getting too difficult to find a shape I like. Today I'm going to get them waxed but I'm nervous. Will it hurt alot? Will I be really sore afterwards? Do the people who do it find the shape they like for you?
Thanks!
it really doesnt hurt that much..they'll ask you how you want it to look. it hurts for a second or two then its over
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hi my name is jess i met this kid at camp named matt i think i like him and i want to know if he likes me back how is this possible to find out if he likes me back
Thanks jess
ps. please dont delete this it is urgent
talk to him..tell him how you feel
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I am 5'1 and 140 lbs. I am really wanting to loose at least 15 lbs. before school starts back because I feel that I am a lil chubby..if anyone knows of any kind of excercises or tips so make this much easier or of a quick weight loss thing that has worked for you..let me know, please?!
you could go to a dietrician..cut out soda, juices, coffee ect and drink alot of water. dont eat things with alot of sugar and try not to eat alot of breads. other then that, stay active and if you have nothing to do..try to run or walk everyday.
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14/f Ok so i have nothing to do this summer and I've been riding my bike to K-mart and stealing. I know its wrong, but its k-mart. I got some thongs---my mom don't let me wear them so i pissed her off and some hair dye which pissed her off even more. But i want something better to do with my summer besides a life of crime. Any suggestions?
i dont know where you live but you could lay out.. go to a pool.. shop.. find a job.. theres alot of things you could do
good luckk
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okay, I have tried thousands of deodarants including Exta-dry and none work for me! I want to be able to wear nice shirts and all that stuff but the only thing that stops me are my underarms what advice do you have for me? What deodarant do you suggest? You should know that a girl having sweaty armpits is not atractive. HELP ME OUT!!!!!!!!
there this stuff called certain dri..you put it on before you go to bed and its supposed to help alot. they sell it at drug stores. hope i helped
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okay well my friend doesn't really have that many friends nd ALOT of people hate her and like i like her but she can be REALLY annoying. and if i dont put her in my profile for AIM she gets pissed off but then im gunna lose alot of friends if im friends wit this girl so wat should i do?
well..do people hate her because shes annoying? if so, talk to her about it. i have a friend like that too. good luck w/ everything~
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ok.. i get my braces off soon (august) and i was wondering if anyone knows any good products to whiten your teeth??? i checked my dentist but the lazer treatment is 500$ and not including the stuff you have to keep putting on your teeth every so often.i just want something cheap and easy to start out with. Thanks!!!
i dont recommend crest whitestrips.. they taste horrible and the gel stuff gets in ur mouth ..its gross. sephora has some whitening products too, im not sure how much they are. www.sephora.com - hope i helped
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well all of my friends wear special underwear, thongs, and i dont like them ,but i dont wanna tell them that, they'll call me granny, but im also not allowed to wear them, and when i do i feel uncomfortable and guilty thinking wut would my parents think if they know im wearing them, HELP ME!
they take getting used to..if you wana wear them after you get used to them..buy them yourself and do your wash yourself.
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i had alot of pimples to begin with, and then i used proactiv and they went away. um, well now, i used up almost all the stuff and so i don't use it as often as i use to and i don't use as much.. because the bottle is pretty much empty, so i smack it and get as much as i can every night.. well anyway, it seems that the amount i use isn't enough, because my pimples are coming back. i have alot of them, and they make me look like crap. does anyone having any suggestions for me to get rid of those pimples um.. as soon as possible? because i have to go somewhere and i want to look um... pretty.. hehh.. if you could suggest something that works as good as proactiv but isn't as expensive, that'd be nice too.. thank you very much!
ask a doctor about what you should use..but dont try a bunch of different products at the same time..that can make you break out..watch what you eat ..certain foods arent good for your skin..drink alot of water. hope i helped
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I have an OBGYN appointment next Monday @ 3 o' clock and I was just wondering what all they do because my mom told me that at first they were just going to talk to me and I wouldn't have to have a pap smear but now that she knows about me losing my virginity to my boyfriend *that I am still with* she told me that now I would have to have a pap smear...is this true? Does it hurt? I just want to know everything about it before I go. I rate HIGH for good answers, please no foolish things like look it up unless you have a really good website. Thanks in advance!
yes you will have one..i heard they hurt but if you lost your virginity it shouldnt be that bad
hope i helped
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ok i think something is wrong with my vagina, it itches and kinda burns i take like 2 showers a day an always change my panties or thongs wich ever i chose to wear ive never been sexually active well not really and when i pee sometimes it burns and other time it doesn't and i dont' pee opsesivly if that helps any i really need helpmy b-day is 2morow and im gonna do something special so please im beg'n u please help me ill give you a high rating if you really help
thanx
you might have uti..go to the doctors
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Hey there ♥ well im not really into stereotypes but basically, my boyfriend is punk, along with his friends. and i am not really preppy or punk or anything, i am just me. but i am friends with his friends and his friends are in a punk band and my boyfriend said he really wants me to go, and so do his friends. the problem is i dont want to wear something stupid, or "slutty" looking and i dont want people to think " why is she here?" so what could i wear.. i have long platinum blonde hair with lots of pink and auburn in it. and i am 5'4 and average with slightly curvey body ... what could i wear or put on for makeup and how should i do the hair? thanksss
thats how i am too.. i think light jeans and a white baby tee would look cute. umm make up.. i dont kno what kind of make up you wear..maybe just a little bit of whatever you normally wear. hope i helped!
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My boyfriend is getting back from his 3 week trip to Texas & when he gets back, I want to do something special for him. What can I do to show that I missed him & that I'm really glad he's back?
invite him over when no ones home and cook dinner for him..then just relax and watch a movie with him
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ok my friend and I are going to babysit together. What would be a good price to have parents pay for our babysitting? there is 2 of us and we both need money. but also we cant charge too too much cuz then we wont get any bizness. also, is there anything else about babysitting i should know?
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its probably not a good idea to babysit together because you both wont get paid as much as you would if it was just 1 of you. but $7 an hour is good..5 isnt enough as 10 is asking too much
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This year I wasn't doing so well in school. I failed 2 classes! My mom got sooo mad at me! So she put me in Summer School. Ughhh! I got so mad at her, I failed Summer School on purpose because I was so angry I had to do it. 3 days ago my mom got my Summer School Report Card. I'm grounded for the rest of the summer. I can do stuff still, but no sleepovers. But then I told my mom Summer School was hard for me. So, now I'm not grounded. But now I feel like I'm on the spot.. and I regret what I did. What should I do?? =/
x- Lauren -x
dont do that again.. show your mom your responsible..keep your grades up all year and take advantage of getting off grounding for the rest of the summer
good luck w/ everything :]
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