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Okay I am 14 years old and going out with a guy that is 16. we love eachother to death but then i started talking to this other guy and he is really cool too. we have a lot of similarities and i sorta think i could start liking him. what should i do? i love my bf so much i dont wanna like another guy. (link)
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Hey babe!
i think u hav 2 choices n this situation if u want to see if u really like him u should keep talking to him and getting to no him but if u dont want to like another guy even tho it could b better with him u need to stop talking to him imediatly and hang out with u bf a lil more so u dont start liking anyone else! hope everything works out! write me sum time!
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Should I have sex with my boyfriend even though he's 20 and I'm 16? (link)
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hey girl!
the answer is no!!! thatd b considered rape!its aginst the law! its called sagitory rape if u got pregnant or if anyone found out he could go to jail bcus ur a minor and hes not! good luck with ur problem tho! write to me sumtime!
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is it bad if u dont know how to kiss??? (link)
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hey hun!
no way!!! every person i no including me was like dang idk how to kiss but once u kiss u do! it comes really naturally so dont worry about it! it will b easy! write me sum time!
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ok, my ex boyfriend is a fricken asshole.. nd i mean seriously i don think ive ever met ne one more heartless n selfcentered (idk if thats even how u spell that..) but i love the kid sooo fricken much which is just messed up cuz he put me through soo much, he cheated on me dumped me for no reason, treats me like shit, went back out wit me nd then dumped me for this otha chick who i was kinda frends wit.. nd then he cheated on her wit me n "dumped" me soon after that... but i like freakin love this kidd cuz wen hes not bein an asshole hes sooo sweet but i needa get ova dis kid... so got ne ideas?? my sn is x ChainMeUp 13 x lemme no im in desprate need... (link)
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Hey gurl!
my advice is that ur gunna have to get over him! i no it seems impossible right now but u hav to!! this guy is a major ass hole and u deserve 10 times better! ANYONE ON THIS EARTH WOULD!! try to find other guys to like any guy frends hoo seemed interested? sumthin like that?! but no matter wat u have to get over this guy jus remeber u r soo much better then him! good luck! write me sum time!
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me and my sister are going out with these really cute guys who are cousins. when my sis had this other boyfriend i liked his brother but he wouldnt go out with me because me and my sis are related and he has a brother and he thopught it was wrong. now with us going out with cousins is that wrong?
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hey girl,
personally i think that is bull! wats rong with going out with cousins?! or brothers for that matter! it jus makes it more fun u can double and stuff! basically in my opinion i think ther is absolutely nuthin rong with that! good luck with the guy! write me sum time!
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I really doubt that im pretty. im more of a freind to guys then a girl freind and my last boyfreind told my that i was ugly. here is a description, guys, answer this too!!! age-13
blonde, blue eyes, round cheeks, big eyes, creased chin, 5 feet tall, 107 pounds, rather large hips, a cup breasts, light skin- i dont look like a tooth pick! and also (question for guys and girls) what do you think makes a really pretty girl? (link)
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wel idk about the rest of the stuff cus i dont judge girls cus i aint a lesbo or anythin lol but wat makes a girl pretty or even a guy hott isnt on the outside sure as hell it helps but the inside is wat matters thats wat makes u hoo u r look from the inside out not the other way around so in my opinion every one is pretty or hott if ther nice and a good person with a good personality and character. write to me sum time!
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My friend just told me that her and my boyfriend have been dating, and she said that she didnt want to tell me because she didnt want to ruin our friendship. Do I ditch the guy and her, or just the guy and keep my friend (link)
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Hey gurl!
hmm u gotta toughy ther definantly ditch the guy!! wat a jerk! but about the frend... is she a really good friend that uv ben frends with awhile or jus a so-so? if shes a so-so ditch her.. wat a biatch! if shes a bff give her a chance to talk but she better make it good or else! ur bf couldve broke up with u and she couldve made him uck! in my opinion actualy u mite jus want to ditch both ur probly better off with out em as far as i can tell! hoo would want a frend like that?! sry i dont like frends hoo steal my bf and u deserve better then that too its up to u tho, hope u get it figured out! write me sum time
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so I went out witha guy who was too protective and , I broke up with him and went out with my bestfriends xboyfriend and when my x found out he gave my new boyfriend huge welps on his legs and back.....!!!!!!!!!! And he went to the docter . And my best friends made at me now and she's going out with my x , what should I do???? and soory so long (link)
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ok u gotta tough situation here and i pity u to death! but heres wat u gotta do about that jealous ex! if he doesnt stop u gotta make him either tell him to or get sum help and tell sum1 like a councilor cus thats a lil outa hand! he needs to get over it! about u best friend yall need to sit down and talk a guy is never NEVER worth losing a frend over! u hav to make sure ur frend nos ur feelings for the guy r sincere and that ur not jus going out with him to make her mad u guys jus need to have a big long talk and everything should b fine. good luck with ur fix and that ex! uck! write me sum time!
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Ok im 13 and haven't really had my first *REAL* kiss yet and i told my b/f i made out w/ someone already and i really didnt..heehee...but im really nervous so b4 it does happen can anyone tell me some tips. Because im definitley nervous
=( i keep thinking all these negitave thoughts..so any tips will help..thanx!
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hey gurl! first thing u need to no is to RELAX kissing come pretty naturly surprisingly and ya now ur thinking wel wat if it comes naturaly to every1 besides me, it doesnt! thers just a few things u gotta think about! 1) DONT B NERVOUS!!! lol 2)dont keep ur mouth to open! otherwise it gets a lil slobery...uck lol 3)dont do tooo much tounge cus otherwise u could suffacate the person! JK u cant do that so dont worry about it jus dont do tooo much tounge! 4) move ur head a lil dont stay in the same place it gets borin lol 5) DONT THINK NEGATIVE!!!!! so stop right now! okay?! okay lol! u will b fine i promise! good luck! write to me sum time
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Okay so I just back from camp rioght, well i have aboyfriend and I really do like this boy I met and He likes me , What should I do???
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hey hun
Ben ther done that! lol it sux i no! it dependz on alota things 1)this guy from camp how much do u like him if u like him a ton and r willing to risk ur current relationship go for it 2) does this guy like near? i no that u may like him a lot but the long distence thing barely ever works! it works for a few of us but not alot and if he does live far away dont risk ur current bf if u like him alot 3)how much do u like ur bf?u gotta think if u like him more or less then the other guy if u like them the same then think about specific qualities and which one u will see more! i hope u get this figured out! write me sum time!
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I just cant seem to get over my ex girlfriend...i know first loves are the hardest to get over, but im still really really really into this girl..and its been a year, i miss everyting about her, but its jut not gonna work out again between us.....what should i do? (link)
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Hey dude,
that really sux iv ben ther bfor r u sure that it wont work?! cus if ur not then mayb u should really go at trying to get her bak and tell her ur feelings. but if u r positive then u need to try to move on i no it seems imposible but eventually it will happen! try to look at hoo else ther is to like. is ther sum1 hoo uv looked at but never really seen (from a movie idk wat movie lol) jus try to to look at ur options u never no! hope ur situation gets better! write to me sum times!
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ok this guy is my friend but he just told me he liked me. he sed: i like u and i care about u but u if u dont feel the same way about me than fuck it well be friends. he seemed mad about it but i couldnt tell cuz he sed it over the internet. idk wut to say.cuz hes cute and i like him as a friend and i do care about him but not that away. but he liked my sister a couple of months ago and i didnt like that. and now idk wut to say. please answer soon.
i rate good! (link)
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Hey hun! wats up
it sounds like this guy really mite like u but if u dont like him just tell him that u dont have the same feeling for him but u REALLY stil want to b frends! if he gets mad hopefully he will get over it if hes a good frend, he will!about the sister thing u should mention that in ur explanation of not liking him it might help him understand a lil. make sure that u only like him as a frend and then try this! good luck! write to me sum time!
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there was this boy ive liked for 2 years his name is jordan he asked me out but i would always say no tha skool year that jus ended was really rough for us we kept getting in fights he thought i hated him it was horrible but we only got mad at each other cuz we didnt want to loose each other(if that makes sence)i apologized for eberything n he did too the last day of skool beckah whos also jordans bestfrend said jordan was planning on kissing me...but it never happened cuz he didnt want to do it where there was alot of ppl around cuz he knew it would be my first *real*kisssummer has cum and i havent talked to jordan ive heard hes talked about me alot and really wants to see me but he hasnt called but yet i havent called him ether his parents are strict and dont allow him to go out with girls (hes in 11th grade)so i guess i cant chyll with him i really wanted that first kiss alot of guys think im pretty and fun to hang out with and stuff but becuz i came frum a private skool wich only had 5 guys in my class we werent attracted to each other im 14 and feel likea freak cuzive never had my first kiss last year i had my first jus kiss wen i went to a festival im going to the same festival in 2 weeks should i find a guy to get my first real kiss with or wat??o and should i call jordan and talk with him??im kinda afraid to idk why
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Hey gurl!
I no wat u mean about being afriad i get scared everytime i call my bf!!! i hav no idea y cus iv ben going out with him forever! lol w/e i gues its cus i think that he will think im a freak cus i call?! idk if thas how ur feeling but thas how i do anyways to the topic of jordan. i no that all of us can b scared sum times but i gues guys r too!! not that i would no...lol anyways tho it looks like n this case u should get things started! call him!!!!!! u hav to if u want to get sumthin goin im sure he will find a way around his parents for u! heck call me up ill call him with u! (not really itd prob b long distance) but jus call him and b like hey its so and so and umm i wana no if u wana hang out sumtime?! not to mention if u herd hes talking about u it means sum1 has to b hangin with him so im sur u will get to too! also if he cant get around his parents jus tel them that hes goin to a frends and meet him ther! anyways good luck with jordan! write to me sum time!
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I went out with this guy for a month n 3 weeks I was happi but this is what happened we went out beofre but I dumped him to go out w some other guy which I didnt n abotu a month later my ex got a new gf n it did make me upset bc I did still like him so later his gf dumped him bc she kissed his friend then two days later he asked me out again n I said yes but this one day he had a girl over at his house "just friends" that is n he told me that she was their bc she was waiting for a ride but the thing was when my bfs friend got their we all hung out then he left n she went w him, when she was suppose to be waiting for her ride then another day we were in his room n hes liek are you a virgan n I said yes n then I asked him n hes like no I just did it w one girl n I was like okai n was about to talk about some other stuff until he started talking about the girl he fucked n told me her name n all, wat bf tells his gf wat the girl who he fucked name was? Last my friend called me one day n we were talkin then she told me my bf went to her house w his 2 friends n my friends friend was their (kati) n my bf was saying " i love you kati dont leave me kati bc I love you" then I called him to ask wat that was about n he said he was "fooling" around but I dont see why his friends werent doing that too then n later he told me "shes was just my friend on the first day i got to school" which is soo not true then hes like "I dont give a fuck if you beleive me or not beleive ur friend n not me" So am I like totally OVER-REACTING or WHAT SHOULD I DO? someone pelase help me I dont wanna be w the wrong person n not know it thank you... (link)
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U r SOOO not overeacting!!!! i feel soo bad for u!i no wat ur going thru and its really hard to see it urself but other ppl can. and wat i see is that u deserve WAY better!!this guy is a jerk u may like him and im sry he prob has sum good qualities but its hard to b nice about this cus u seem SO much better then him!! and good for u ur a virgin! i say go u, u deserve a cookie lol. anyways tho this guy needs to go im sure thers sum1 out ther much better then u now jus go find em! good luck write to me sumtime!
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I have this friend, hes like the coolest guy ever, and like we get along really well, and he said the loved me, and i love him too, so he askd me out and we got together and like, he said he felt awkward cuz he kissedme and i didn do anything, and i was nervous, i didnt kno what to do.. so he told me he didnt feel right , but he still liked me alot and stuff, but im confused, like i dont know what to do know, cuz after that , our communicating got kind of bad, like we bearly talk now and we get in stupid arguments and stuff, and i really hate it. i dont know...is it my fault? , my friends say i should kiss him when we go out again, so that maybe it could help us get back on track, should i? and how can i make our talking get better and more fun?
please help me. thanks (link)
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Hey hun,
I think wat u need to do is tell him everything that u just wrote ther. i swear to die i couldnt hav said it better but he probly feels the same way u jus hav to tell him the reason u didnt kiss bak was cus u wer nervous not cus u dont like him. it sounds like yall would b really good together u jus hav a lil miscommunication but if u work on it yall will prob b bak together agin soon! good luck write to me sum time!
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mmk.. well i have a boyfriend names lets say larry.. and he has a brother close in age names bob. They are my bestfriends cousins. She doesnt mind eaither.. however larry has liked me since we first met which was about 6 months ago.. and we always see eachother and chill and stuff and i liked bob before but he didnt show any interest besides good friends. I didnt tell anybody about my crush but i started to like larry. So we would talk and say i love you and everything and hug and stuff. However online i talk to his brother bob and he started to tell me he always liked me and woudl tell me how bueatiful i was and everything. So i began some feelings for him but i still liked larry more. Then a month ago from now me and larry started going out. Bob came out and told everyone that he liked me.. oviously that caused aloot of shit to go on in their house they are spanish so they are more aggressive and wen ur their woman ur THEIR woman.. lol and then i was crying almsot everynight cuz i didnt know what to do.. i liked them both they werent talkin because of me and idk.. and so then bob gave upp on me.. so it was good for a while.. untill yesterday... when we all chilled.. and of course some feelings came back.. but i began to flirt and open up to him and uk just be BESTFRIENDS! theeen i began to like him as much or mooore then my boyfriend.. because he was just more mature more open.. more my speed ina relationship.. and idk i just liked him more.. and soo then ic ame home and just criiied.. this is a weird situation.. their parents and my bestfriends parents are close to me and them and are soooooo opinitated and soo they would say something if i just dumped larry and went with his older brother bob.. and it woodnt be niice. Also larry told me that if he ever lost me he would probably kill himself.. and i dont take him as someone who would kill himself but i cant deal with the guilt and the hurtness of him.. and everything and i have NOOOOOO IDEA what to do
im only 14 and idk what "love" is or how to dump a guy for the right reasons and to me dumpin him for him brother isnt the right reason but i cant be with him if he isnt for me and if i like his brother more.. but its his BROTHHHHER!! uk
i need help im so lost and confused plllease tell me waht i can do (link)
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hey babe wats up?! i feel sooo bad for u ur situation is really tough and im thanking god righta bout now that my bf's brother is 17! anywho tho i think u need to go with ur instinct, bob but thers gotta b sum way that wont hurt larry to much to tell him so u might jus want to call him and b like hey larry its so and so and well lately iv ben feeling that u need to hav more n a relationship or sumthin like that and then be like and i really like bob and i no this really suks and im really really sry and i stil want to hang out with u and b friends but umm i need to break up with u. thats how i would do it bcus to make other ppl happy first u hav to b happy and if ur not then wats the point! u hav to do wats right for u girl no matter wat. about the kill himself thing i think larry is being a little melodramatic and probly doesnt mean it. if u really think he does u should tel sum1. im about the same age as u r and no1 nos wat love is yet so u gotta go for wat u do no like hoo u like and thas n ur heart so good luck write to me sum time
hope ur sit. gets better
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A couple weeks ago, I met this guy and I thought I started to like him but I had a serious boyfriend and I eventually I realized I didnt like him. Today, my boyfriend came over and was looking at my buddy list and asked whos sn it was and I said "Oh some kid from summer school." Well he copied it and sent it to himself so he can talk to him! I'm so nervous if the guy I met tells my boyfriend that I sorta liked him... Any ideas on what I can do to get my bf not to talk to him?! (link)
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dear no-name,
i think that insted of getting ur bf not to talk to him u should jus tell ur bf who this guy is. if i was u i would call my bf and be like hey so and so i jus wanted to tell u the guy on my buddy list is sum1 that i thot i liked for a lil but i realized i was rong. i really hope that this doesnt come between us or anything cus i never did anything with this guy and so on and so forth... it should b fine and i wouldnt sweat it to much jus make sure to tel u bf bfor that guy tels him sumthin els! write me sum times
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I have a little problem.
I Like my bestest guy friend ever. His Name is mike, i don't mind if you kno his name, but anyway. I asked him out and now he is like avoiding me or sumthing. It is weird.... When i asked him out he said.." Umm, let me think that thru a little." and i dunno why he can't just be like no or yes. and i think by him saying that, it is a definet NO! and since he won't talk to me and is like never online and isn't home when i call him, i dunno what to think..
what should i do?
- Signed
In guy trouble (link)
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Dear in guy troubl,
cute name btw! lol! umm wat u should do... im not a expert or anything but i think most people hav gone tru the liking ther best friend thing and its sux usualy. he obviously really likes u as a frend and is very confused. i think his problem is that he doesnt like u "that" way. this sux and im sry about it. but it kinda sux for him to cus now he doesnt no how to act around u cus hes afraid that 1)he will hurt ur feelings or 2)it will just b awkward. in my opinion u should tell him that if he doesnt like u its fine and that u stil want to go back to being them same frends that u wer and that u dont want it to b wierd or anything.write me sum time!
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ok so i went out with this girl (we'll call her jane) ok so me and jane started goin out last year march 20th 2003 and we were good for the first 3 months talkin and hangin out like we were meant for each other and really havin a good time then she broke up with me but i kept goin at it and we started goin back out keepin our original date so bout 9 months into the relationship shyt started gettin bad and we hardley ever talked, hung out or nethin but we still loved each other and shyt but when we talked we constantly fought.. so when march 20th came up this year it would have been a year and i thought that was pretty special idk maybe that sounds gay cuz imma guy but i really thought it was special and i wanted to spend time with her and everythin.. but we didnt talk or see each other at all and she didnt even call me so i got mad like ne other person would.. so we talk the next day and shes actin like nothins wrong so i get tired of it and i ask her if she still loves me and all that and shes like i love u but i dont have the same feelings for u nemore so i was like iight well then i dont wann go out with u nemore..... so its been over 3 months since we broke up but im in love with her and i dont wann let her outta my life ya kno so i keep goin at it but she stays at sayin that shes not ready for a relationship and so my question is....should i keep goin at it with her or just move on?
thanx
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Hey anonymous,
i no wher u are i gues u could say been there done that gotta t-shirt. personally i think you should move on but i no that in ur situation you feel like you can't move on. i mean you try and try agin but u cant stop think about him/her. this is something ur going to have to overcome tho. we all do sometime or another. it seems like u would be much better without this girl and that you can do a lot better. good look write to me sum time!
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