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ok so what exactly is a clitoris? yeah yeah... i know its a girls "sweet spot" and its where ya have ur orgasm n all that, but where is it located?? and how do you know when its touched? what does it do?? does anyone know??
thanks!
its quite sensative.. so you'll know when its touched.
hey , uhm well you see i love my best friends bro . he asked me out . but the only thing is he is 11 and i am 13 . everyone is asking me if i am with him and i dont no what to do cuz i dont wanna get made fun of . please help me make my desicion signed
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'LOVE' is such a strong word and often used so wrongfully. you prolly just like him ALOT..or hold alot of feelings for him. 11 and 13 are really young. live life... dont go for it.
Well hey yall, The other night , well day actually Me and my 'boy' were just Hanging out, right? Well yes i am young, A minor ( too young for kids either way ) .. Well yeah we hadnt seen eachother in forever .. So yeah we hung out n stuff yeahh.. Then we ended up having..sex & I left blah well Later on, His father ( yess.. can you say Ahh? ) he walked in the room saying he smelt sex & Picked one of the.. four condoms up and realized it was broken, This was around 5-8 or so.. on a Tuesday night, so I'm gona get tested to be safe ( i guess, right thing to do right? ) on Tuesday.. night probably like 9. Well, Do yall think its better to have a plan what to do before I find out, and we need to make one ? Lately alls weve gotten at is, "Shit were gona be even more fucked" , Or should we just worry about it later? Also, He is going to be 18 next year, And I will still be a minor, I am NOT bragging at all I just want help, But we both have very wealthy families.. Not sure how this happened, with bright futures, and How to break it to them? His father knows ones broken though, Whats the best thing to do here?
i think you and him should go to your doctor and get a test done to make sure. just because its a broken condom doesnt mean your eggs are ready to go into the cycle and actually are able to become pregnant. its complicated! haha - sorry! but definitally call up your local doctor and ask if you can come in. make sure he's there with you, because it was BOTH your doing... not just his.
also, look into more durable condoms. trojan has some (i think) you can even look online at them! find ones that are durable..and you two feel comfortable using.
Hey i really need help I feel very very lonely and i always feel like crying and so empty inside i dont know what to do :( i have a boyfriend and i have a great family i just dont know why i feel this way i dont know what to do even right now i feel like crying its so hard im so lost i really dont know what to do please help
if you always feel this way then you really should talk to your parents about going to see a doctor. they can put you on anti-depressant pills and they really help. in the past i took them and they help out alot, really.. its not corney or bad to take them so dont be afraid. also, sometimes when your sad take a peice of paper and jot down all the things in life that make you happy. write down memories you have made with friends and things that make you smile. maybe stress is getting to you... try to take at least one hour out of the entire week to just pamper yourself. buy a pampering kit at your local store and make your nails and toe nails beautiful :) take time for yourself. :)
Hey. I'm in 8th grade.
There's this guy I kind of like. I got to know him this year, and he's been pretty nice. We've had our ups and downs, however. For example, he started ignoring me a couple of months ago for no reason whatsoever. Yesterday, he started being nice again though, and he emailed me. Well today I got another email from him, in which he asked me out to prom. The thing is, he's asked out around 4 or 5 other girls, who are going with other people or by themselves. The result is that I don't feel like I'm his first choice, because I'm not.
My question is, should I say yes?
Thanks a lot.
Personally.. 8th grade is VERY young to go to prom. i think you should tell him no. personally id feel like 'what am i your last resort?' so i think you should say no.
i work from 2pm til 10pm mon-fri. I eat fruit in the morning and at 3pm at i have a sandwich. I don't eat again until i get home when i will cook something reasonable healthy and quick. My problem is i am worried about eating so late in the evening and i don't sleep well as it is and wondered if eating late is making this problem worse. Could you advice me on the best foods to eat at this time of the evening please and whether eating at these times is unhealthy. thank you
its said that eating after 8pm actually makes the mind race and your body cant slow it selfdown to get to sleep easily. when your at work eat a salad or even fruits to keep yourself energized. once you get home eat something with little to no sugar. id advise to eat something big before going to work because you go in so late.
does anyone work at food lion that could tell me step by step how to do WIC checks? Thanks!!
never heard of 'food lion' however.. go online and search it. you may be able to find instuctions online
im fat {mostly in the winter}. ive tried crunches and deits and all i do is feel more hungary. at one time i was 131lb, i was good with that, now im 164lb then 159lb then 165lb. it keeps fluctulating. i want to be 131!!! please help me!!!
its common, in the winter people tend to be heavier becuase your inside and cant be outside excersizing unlike the summer time. maybe look into a gym, there you can work out all the time no matter what time of the year. also, try to eat healthy. your body is hungry because you are working out so much, so its good for you to eat. however, when your working out..and even before and after drink water. try to give up sodas that have sugars in them. in the morning for breakfast have a fruit... then during the day eat something small that will hold you over.. then when you get home drink water and excersize. then eat a healthy dinner.
at my school we need to wear uniforms, with mine i waer the sweatery thing, and latly its been getting really warm out, well i dont like to take my sweater off cause im kinda fat and i look really bad in the uniform. but the problem is since its been hot iv been sweating {even though i wear dedorant} and its smelling bad. im afriad i smell bad!! all my friends say i dont but still, my mom refuses to wash 2x a week. what should i do?
maybe, take up laundry yourself. possibly bring deodrant to school with you and then in between classes apply more. even bring purfume and just squirt it randomly in the day! i do that all the time, i love smelling good.. even lotion as well. but if your worried about your weight look into dieting and/or excersizing. going for one run a day really helps.
ok this is kinda weird to be asking but i had to know...If your going to tease about it dont write me... Ok here it goes
every time i get fingerd i tend to cum alot adn i was just woundering if it was normal to cum so much. and if it is normal is there a way to slow it down a little bit? Please, give me any advice.
yes its normal. your turned on adn your body is producing that.
I want to be a famous astrologer someday.Can any one tell me how i can learn astrology create some psychic websites and learn astrology?
browse things online for an astrologer. also, talk to your guidence councelor at school and ask if there are any classes avaliable that you may be able to take
ok i have a friend who has this b/f. HE and she have been going out for 5 months at the most and he has already popped the question... She doesnt' know what to do... She is barely graduationg this year and he is still a junior. She fills presherd and stuff and he has already been talking about having kids with her... she is scared and she even feels like not coming to school because hes here... what should she do? She doesn't want to hurt him though so please give good advice i rate high.....
thank you
some-1-whocares...
personally.. my boyfriend and i talk about having kids and having a family together all of the time. however, hes just graduating and im a sophomore in high school. so therefor we're still kind of young for that. tell your friend that she needs to sit down and talk to her bf and kind of adress to him that they are still so young and getting engaged may be the wrong thing to do. possibly talk about a promise ring insted. meaning the ring is there on her finger as a promise to stay true to him.... then later on in life get engaged.
Hi my girlfriend recently told me she was pregnant and that the baby was concieved before we met i love this girl and was looking for any advice on not being the biological father and also looking after a small child any input from people who have experienced this and been through it would be very helpful thankyou in advance.
parenting classes are quite fun, i hear. my cousin has twins and the biological father of them sees them every weekend but she is with her bf and they consider him to be like the father. taking care of a young child is quite difficult, try to read up on it and talk to your girlfriend and try to help. later on in life if you really love this girl and the baby you should look into adopting her/him.
hey! you answered my question about animated pictures. well i went to budd4u.com and ifound some cute moving pictures! but when i go to "save picture as" it saves the picture but it doesnt move when i open it .. it is just still instead. do you what i am doin wrong?
uMm.. im not too sure - you may have to upload it to a diffrent server. sorry its confussing! ive been working with graphics for awhile..
save the animated picture you like
then go to imageshack.us and upload the file there - once its uploaded.. it will give you the http you can link back to it.
WHat are some good ways to lose weight.
diet, excersise and eat right.
My mom won't let my peirce my belly, and i have wanted it for two years now. I have tryed to convince her that i want it done but she still says no! Any ideas? Please help asap!!!!!
show her that you are responsable enough to have it done, do things around the house to build up trust then maybe later on ask her again. dont keep on asking cause that will just annoy her and make her say no over and over again.
Okay well, when i woke up this morning, i went to brush my teeth and like the bottom part of the 4 front ones were all like whiteish and ugly and looked gross. Any ideas how this could have happend? How do you get rid of it in 20 minutes? HELP ASAP!!
uMm.. no clue what the heck your talking about. skip school and go to the dentist1
Hi all I need help My wife and I have been married for 28 years have a good relationship but we have a few problems. one is when I play softball in the summer she does not like it when all the guys get together and drink beer or go back to the bar for a beer, I have to tell you that I am not that fond of beer but it is fun to get together after, I find myself just leaving after the game just to avoid a fight with her is it a major thing that I would like to stay for a quick beer and just hang around I personally do not see anything wrong but she hates it.. what should I do thanks...
well, this sounds like how things use to be between my bf and i, and weve only been together for 2 yrs. personally, i think you should talk to her about it and tell her just how important it is to you to spend time away from the house and with the guys. to keep friendships alive and have a life other then her.
im 15 and someone told me that my boyfriend -hes 15- looks at porn..is that normal? and like he said that my bf jacks off to it, too...is this normal or bad or what? and should i be offended that i cant make him feel good enough or somethin?
yup normal.. all guys do it! haha dont get offended guys find it 'hot' to look at that stuff
When i was seven years old my mom [lets call her tina] and her friend [lets call her jenn]went away and i was left with *jenns daughter shauna at *jenns sisters house [lets call her jamie] well *jamie has a son john who was 14 at the time. Shauna was asleep and john had his friend jeff over, also 15. john made me do it with him and go to third with him and he said if i didnt then he would kill me.. is this rape? i am asking this years later because it still bothers me=/
yes its rape because you didnt want it. you cant quite do anything about it now since its years later...