Hey. I'm in 8th grade.
There's this guy I kind of like. I got to know him this year, and he's been pretty nice. We've had our ups and downs, however. For example, he started ignoring me a couple of months ago for no reason whatsoever. Yesterday, he started being nice again though, and he emailed me. Well today I got another email from him, in which he asked me out to prom. The thing is, he's asked out around 4 or 5 other girls, who are going with other people or by themselves. The result is that I don't feel like I'm his first choice, because I'm not.
My question is, should I say yes?
Thanks a lot.
Additional info, added Wednesday May 11 2005, 4:52 pm: This is an 8th grade prom (middle school.). Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? clearlypink428 answered Wednesday May 11 2005, 4:55 pm: although it is quite embarassing to say this- the same exact thing happened to me this very same year. a senior i liked asked me to prom, and i told him id think about it. well, a few days later, i found out he ad askd another girl before me.so then i had to give him a definite no. the way i figure is- prom is supost to be the biggest get together between teens of the opposite sex, i would think a person male or female would be wise in choosing who theyd like to go with.i would ask my first pick first- obviously. and if ur not his first pick- then i would say it probably wont be memorable for either of you. [ clearlypink428's advice column | Ask clearlypink428 A Question ]
cailoisa answered Wednesday May 11 2005, 4:50 pm: If you really want to go with someone, I guess you could go with him. I wouldn't, since no one likes to be someone's last resort. [ cailoisa's advice column | Ask cailoisa A Question ]
SiLenTxfAiRy answered Wednesday May 11 2005, 4:49 pm: Personally.. 8th grade is VERY young to go to prom. i think you should tell him no. personally id feel like 'what am i your last resort?' so i think you should say no. [ SiLenTxfAiRy's advice column | Ask SiLenTxfAiRy A Question ]
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