okay I have this amazing boyfriend who I know loves me very much.He has already met my mom and most of my familyand they all think he is sweet. I love having him as a boyfriend and of course I would never break up with him but I am so used to bieng hurt by guys that I am so scared that he will hurt me too. He swears that he never will but I can never be to sure of everything. I know he loves me so why am I so scared?Plz help me as soon as possible!I need it bad!!!!!
I am 13 years old and am female!!!!!
Hunnie,I'm 21-yrs-old and going thru the SAME thing!It is really hard to let that wall down and give someone your heart and your trust when in the past you've done that only to have it broken!But you have to realize this guy isn't the guy who hurt you before.And sometimes it's worth it to just take the risk and go for it.Always watch out for yourself,I mean don't let him walk all over you,but don't push a good guy away.And besides,you're sooooo young,you'll go thru a ton of ups and downs in your love life over the next several years.Yea I know,I didn't wanna hear it either when people told me that when I was 13,but it's true.But for now I say,enjoy this guy,give him a chance,let him love you and love him back.You'll never know how happy you could be or what you could have if you don't take that wall down and have a little faith in someone! I wish you ALL the best,write me and let me know how it's going! :)
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I'm so sorry if it's long....
i am in love. I know it, and I can feel it. I talked to the same guy for 2 years. He lives 45 minutes away and it kills me. i see him almost every weekend, but I suffer through the week without him. It's all I think about .He's all I wish I had. It makes me miserable to be without him. Does anyone else have this feeling? This feeling when the phone rings it just might be him, or when you see his face again you just fall in love all over again? My mother tells me I'm too young to be in love. 16 is just a beginning, she says. I believe love has no boundries. I just want to know, how do you feel your in love? Express yourselves...because I know everyone loves someone.
I think you've just about said it all!Definitely sounds like love to me.And don't buy into that 'you're too young' stuff,because it's not true.Teenagers are just as capable of falling in and out of love as adults are!It's really everything you said and more.It takes your breath away,it's just an indescribable feeling.It's when you're feeling something so strong yet you struggle to identify it or really put it into words.But it looks like you've done a pretty darn good job!!Enjoy it hun,and I wish you all the best!It's great ain't it?? ;)
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hey whit, its ur lil sis kat... i need a bit of help cus my b/f's deciding he wants to be an ass the week before homecoming. hes decided that he wants to go all out and dress like a freak with long shorts, slipknot t-shirts, and face pain.... TO MY JUNIOR HOMECOMING!!!!!! i know hc aint that big of a deal but it still means sumin to me! and its like i rly wana take him cus i've wanted to take him forever but not if hes guna be like this and i rly duno what to so or how to talk to him bout it. thanks so much sis, luv ya much!
Hey sweetheart!!Well,you just stand firm like I've always told you!Let him know that you really care so much about him,and you've wanted to take him for so long.Also let him know that he's the only one you wanna go with,and that while you appreciate his wanting to be different and/or funny,this night really means something to you!It's a special night for you!!!God,your Junior Homecoming,I SOOO wish I could drive out there and be there with ya to help ya get ready!!!This coming weekend is my b-day!!You better not forget your big sis' b-day(the 9th)!LoL And don't worry,if this guy is worth it he'll respect that,or else tell him to talk to me I'll set him straight!Hahaha! I love ya girl!! Either Call or IM me sometime this week!!*MWAZ*
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if a guy likes two girls... Ones 19 ones 15 and his 19... He likes both of them equally... Which one should he go out with... Or should he go out with both
Well,dating 2 girls at the same time is never a good idea.It'll only lead to a big mess and hurt feelings.One of the girls is underage and that's really asking for trouble.So I would say go for the 19-year-old.BUT,if you really can't choose,don't.Wait it out until the girl is 16,or until you know a little better which girl is right for you.But really,I say go for the 19-year-old!!There are a lot of things in a 19-yr-old's life that a 15-yr-old just can't understand yet!!
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well i just got my period yesterday and i wear pads but i have gym today and im scared the pad will fall out/off when we are running , ect! HELP!
Try the thinner maxi pads!And as long as you have them secured onto your undies,they won't fall out or off while you're running!In 100% honesty,the worst they will do is wad up on you!Kind of bunch up and roll up!And all that means is change your pad in the locker room restroom after class!Hehe!Just try one of the thinner maxi pads,and I promise,they won't fall out or off!Just make sure they're stuck real securely on your undies and you're good to go!! :)
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okay i was just wondering if it's normal that i 14 and dont have my period....i was at the doctors and he said that hey will have to investagrate to see wuts wrong if i dont start sooner but then again in my eyes hes a gay doctor and i dont like or will ever listen to him. but from experienced ppl and everything is it normal that i haven't started? i will be 15 soon in january. thank you guys in advance.
It's totally ok.If you haven't started by age 16 that's when your doctor will want to run some tests and see what's up.All females develope at a different rate.Some will start at age 10,some will start 16!I wouldn't worry for now.Like I said,if nothing has happened by 16,most doctors will want to check things out.Oh,and if you don't like your doctor you might wanna switch.It's very important that you're comfrotable with your doctor,especially that kind of doctor!! ;)
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My friend who is a guy (tom) told me that my boyfriend (jon) had been in touch with one of jon's ex's. He said they'd been sending each other dirty texts and that jon had said if his ex didn't live so far away he'd break up with me and go out with her. I asked jon about it but he said Tom was lying. I want to believe him but why would Tom lie to me? Tom keeps trying to get me to break up with jon but he's one of his best friends, what should I do?
Hmmm sounds like there's a couple possibilities here.It sounds like Tom may like you himself,and whether it's true that Jon is texting his ex or not,he's telling you and encouraging you to break up with him,therefore making you available! It is also possible that Tom is making it up to break you up,and if so that's a lousy thing to do.I would trust your man for now but kinda be on your toes.Watch how he acts,like if anything seems different or anything.If need be,talk to another one of his friends and see what he says!Let your man know that you're not gonna let him play you,and that he needs to be straight with you.You deserve the best,and you deserve honesty!But it really sounds to me like Tom likes you himself!!!
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im 15 year old male.
okay i got a prob. I like this one gurl and she asked me to go to the movies with her. When i went to her housr to pick her up her friends were wit her. i kinda wanted to be alone wit her. well in the movies we were about to kiss wen her friend intterupted. 2 weeks later we go alone i try to kiss her but she shyly pulls away saying not here. I no she lkes me.
Wat do i do? WAt do u think hapened in between those times.
PLEASE ALOT OF PEOPLE ANSWER I NEED AS MUCH HELP AS I CAN GET
I don't really think anything happened,I think she's just nervous and a little scared maybe.That might be part of the reason she brought her friends the first time,sort of a security blanket thing,ya know?She may be a shy girl,and she may be scared of getting hurt,or still trying to figure out how you feel about her.Sometimes we girls tend to over-analyze things! ;) I would just let her know how much you really like her,and let her know that she can trust and feel comfrotable with you.Tell her that as much as you would love to kiss her,you won't rush her,you'll wait until she feels ready.That way she knows you truly care,and it should make her feel more comfrotable and at ease,so she can just go with the flow! Hope this helps!! ;)
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whenever anyone starts to kiss me i always freak out cause I don't know what to do and I pull away, what's wrong with me?
Not a thing in the world hunnie!You're just scared and nervous!We've all been there!I personally think that when you're really ready,and it's really the right time and the right guy,you'll just know it and feel comfrotable enough to just let it happen naturally!!I know,not much help,but you're not abnormal at all!I was the same way before my first kiss!
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OK. i just bought this really cute mid-thigh length white denim skirt and i have no idea wut to wear with it. i know this is probably the stupidest question on here, but if you could help me, that'd be great.
o yea and i rate.
I think a cute flowy type blouse with flutter sleeves in a good light color like lavender or pink would look cute!!And a good pair of brown boots,maybe even like knee-high ones would look really cute!They'd still especially look cute if you wore a brown belt that matched the boots!!Just an idea!! Hope this gives ya some ideas! :)
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does anyone know where i can get a good track jacket? like with a collar and everything. either Adidas or Puma, (not a cheap brand) without ordering it over the internet? i want one for my birthday and my parents need to know where to get it. thanks
Try Lady Footlocker and Journey's!! They carry a lot of cute stuff!
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ok this is a weird question but...how do u make those holes in the knees of ur jean...i know i cud just use scissors but would it still give me like the little thread things...i know this is a weird question but if u have any idea about what im talkin about and u have done this urself before....please answer!!! Thanks!!!
If you use a razor blade or a box cutter they can give you more of the "ripped" effect!Just be careful!! :)
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can anyone give me some good country love songs?? Besides these days, please come home ... ((hehe those r some of my favez)) Plz list atleast 10 cuzz the chances r i might no some. Thanks!
Hmmm...lemme see here.....
1)"Breathe"-by Faith Hill
2)"Amazed"-by Lonestar
3)"God Must've Spent A Little More Time On You"-by Alabama(yes it's the same as N*Sync's song,lol)
4)"I Swear"-by John Michael Montgomery
5)"I Need You"-by LeAnn Rimes
6)"When You Walked Into My Life"-by Lila McCann
7)"My Best Friend"-by Tim McGraw
8)"You're Still The One" or "From This Moment"-by Shania Twain
9)"Check Yes or No"-by George Strait
10)"Someone Like You"-by Keith Urban
Hope this helps ya out a little!! ;)
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I was listening to that white stripe song fel in love with a girl and noticed that it had the same lyrics as the Joss Stone song Fell in love with a boy...What happend there? is fell in love with a boy/girl an old folk song or something? does anyone know anything about that?? ill rate. Thanks.
Joss Stone's first CD was an album of cover songs.She covered The White Stripes song and naturally had to change the girl to boy!!
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what do i need to do to prepare for sex-physically, not mentally bc im ready with that :-D thanx
Well,physically you need to get yourself a good supply of condoms,and make sure you use them!!Also,it might be a good idea to go to your OB or someplace like Planned Parenthood(www.plannedparenthood.com for locations) to see about getting on the pill or the depo shot.Just know that your first time probably isn't going to be the most comfrotable experience ever but it'll get better! ;) You might wanna invest in a lubricant of some sort to help with that!Hope this helps you out some!! :)
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me 15 boyfriend 17
ok..well i cheated on my boyfreind twice..n he says he loves me alot n i belive him n i really care for him alot...i jst don't know y i did it! but i talked to him tonite about it n he said if i ever cheated on him hed dumb me...so it was jst a plan out emotional convo...n i told him he shouldn't love me cuz i think i might mess up n cheat on him...cuz thats wat happened w/ the last guy that meant alot to me...well i'm scared that i'm goind to cheat on him n i don't want that to happen...but then i don't want to lose him cuz i really love him alot...wat should i do?
It sounds like maybe you're afraid of either commitment or afraid of things getting serious.Like,when things start to get real serious in your relationships you get scared and run.But it's not fair to get into relationships when you know that there's a good chance you'll stray.Maybe you'd be better off to stay single for a while,and see how you feel after some time of being a single girl.You're still so young and you've got lots of chances and experiences ahead of you.But if you think that you really love this guy and you wanna make it work then you need to decide in both your heart and your mind that he's the only one you want.I think that's the problem now,your heart and mind aren't 100% into this relationship.It doesn't mean there's anything wrong with you,you're just young and not ready to settle down yet!!And that's normal!! I'm sorry this wasn't much help!Best wishes! :)
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okay well i really need a guy in my life... someone who is there for me and can help me with my problems... because it seems like all my friends are like blocking me or something it just isn't fair.. :-/ i want a sweet guy who knows how to confert a girl... does anyone know that feeling??
Most definitely sweetie.I think all of us girls have felt that at some point in our lives.You start to feel lonely sometimes,because there's something about that special attention a guy can give you that your girls just can't.I totally understand.Just make sure you keep in mind that you don't NEED a guy,and you don't NEED a guy to validate you or something.But there's lots of good guys out there,so get out there and meet some guys!Just be yourself and be friendly.Sometimes guy friends are much better than girl friends.And you never know,a guy friend can turn into more.I feel sure that when it's time,it'll happen.When you meet that right guy,you'll know it for sure,believe me! ;) Sorry I wasn't much help but I feel ya!!
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does thermasilk work if you let your hair air-dry then straighten it ?
Personally it didn't work for me! I have naturally curly and thick hair and it went totally wild!!! Maybe if you put the right products in when you come out of the shower,like a frizz serum(I reccomend John Frieda)and a good spray gel!! I hope it works out better for you though!! ;)
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Okay, Ive known this guy for 2 months.And weve been going out for a month now.And he tells me things no1 else has before.He says im the only one hell ever love.He says that without me he wouldnt live.All of that stuff.He has dedicated songs and things to me..And i wanna know if his love is true.I wanna kno does he really love me like he says he does.Ive asked him and everytime i do he gets really agrivated about it.And he thinks i think he will do something wrong.And he cant get mad at me even if he tried.And like it seems like he is the perfect one for me.We both say no1 could ever take each others place.And i mean it.But i dont kno if he really does.He says he does when i ask him.Does it sound like love or not?
It is quite early in the relationship,but it is totally possible to feel that way about someone right away,if they are very special to you!I think you need to believe your guy,he most definitely sounds in love to me!!He probably gets upset when you ask because he feels like maybe YOU aren't sure.Some things are better left unspoken,you just feel them in your heart.Ya know? Enjoy your relationship,savor all your time together,and most importantly,don't worry so much and just LOVE him!!I think you'll find yourself a lot happier then! ;) To answer your question:Sounds like love to me!! :)
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Is it a good idea to buy your boyfriend/girlfriend a gift,or make one, For your 1 month anneversery?Its about to be my one month anneversery with my boyfriend and i cant decide if i should buy him like 1 rose or something...Is that a good idea?
Hmmm...well most guys I know aren't really into the roses thing.Maybe you guys could go out to dinner to celebrate!!Surprise him and take him to his favorite restaurant!!I hope this helps you some!!!!If you'd like some more ideas or wanna talk about it,feel free to leave me a message in my inbox!!!
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