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Okay, its like this..
I really like this guy (Mike)- & well..he likes me too. Theres this party coming up in a couple of days and its like a huge party.. he told me he wants to get with me there - but thats just the good news.
One of my best friends (Laura) likes him..shes liked him for a long time..but shes the type that likes almost like everybody. Well, she told me that she doesnt like him that much anymore..but I just KNOW she still likes him. I really want to go out with him but I know she'll probably never forgive me. but shes not really a good friend but i know that ill feel horrible if i go out with him..i also wanna get with him but i dont want her to find out..
so can someone help me by giving me ideas of how to go out with him/get with him with out makin my friend mad?
(sorry its so long)
xoxoo (link)
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Well I think you should so go for him! If your friend gets mad bring up what she said about not liking him anymore! I mean she did say that so why not go for him? *Hope I helped!* :)
-Emily-
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dude is this emster martiny ( emily martin) from cn??? and taylor high school
xoxo becca xoxo (link)
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Nope, sorry this is Emily Edwards! :)
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Ok, i was at sonic and a really hot girl brought the food out to me. Ive never seen her before in my life, but i got the nerve to ask he for her number. and she actually gave it to me. Ok now im stumped. What do i do? Should i call her n ask her out, or what? help plz. (link)
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I think you should call her and ask her out!! :)
-Hope I helped!-[Hope all goes well]
*Emster*
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14/f here, freshman in high school if that helps.
This requires a lot of explanation, so it'll be pretty long- sorry.
I have been going out with a guy, let's call him Bob, since October 18th. I first met Bob in sixth grade Art class, however he was really dorky and being the prep I was, I ignored him. In seventh grade I didn't see him or think about him at all. In eigth grade he was in my health class. I noted he was there and looked vaguely familiar, but didn't think much of him. This year, I saw him again at the Aloha Dance, and he looks much better, basically average. I danced with him and we agreed to meet up again sometime, then the dance ended and we went our seperate ways. Me & my friends were hanging out after school at the library one day when my friend asked who the guy was staring at me. I turned around and there he was! I said hi but that was it. This happened several times over the course of the week. Finally two weeks before the Homecoming Dance he asked me to go with him, and I said yes. I was so thrilled to be asked, I didn't really think about whether I liked him or not. He picked me up for Homecoming with the traditional wristlet, photos, etc. etc. then we went to dinner, and it was pretty quiet. The homecoming dance was fine except for the fact that he insisted on spending all our time with HIS friends- a few times I sneaked off to the "bathroom" just to hang out with mine. Also, he insisted on dancing VERY close. Finally at the end of the night he asked me to be his girlfriend and I said yes, once again so happy to be asked I wasn't thinking. That was October 16th and I'm still dating him. There are several problems though.
First off, I DON"T LIKE HIM!!! Not at all. As a friend, yes, but no romantic interest.
Also, he's superpossesive- I never get to spend time with my friends at brunch or lunch. He insists on kissing me in front of my friends, which embarasses them. It just really annoys me.
Third, he's too serious about our relationship- he's told me he loved him (i just smiled), and is talking about PROM! (I'm a freshman, as is he.)
I know I should break up with him, but he's just too nice. Many people have told me I go too far when I try to be kind, and this is the best example. I really don't want to hurt him!
-tinkerbell_7141 (link)
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You need to dump this guy and tell him the truth. You should've never went out with someone that you DONT LIKE!! Think before you act honey!
-Emmy Boo-
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Hey all, how do you know if you have A.D.D or even a short attention span?? Is their anyway you can fix it on your own without medication or something because i think i have it because i lose interest in many things very quickly! How can you tell?? thanx! (link)
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I myself have A.D.H.D.! :) Most likely your doctor or psychiatrist will tell you if you have it. And you will have to take ritalin or something ot fix it. -Hope I helped sweetie pie!-
Xo Emily xO
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Can sum1 please help!! Am 16 & female so i probably sound silly but am not.
About 3 months ago I meet the most amazing guy ever(Ryan),wat i've always wanted,funny,caring,wild & deep. We started seeing each other rigt away.
We went out for a month in this time he told me he loved me & done everything in his power to show me it was true. Then we broke up!! He told me he still loved me & would go back out with me soon. Then my mum was speeking to his mum & she said that I was the first girl that he had realy bothered about & that he was oviosly in love with me. Then a mouth later people were telling me he was engaged. He says this is not ture. Then 2 weeks ago we had sex at a party. His mate was teling me that Ryan did like me & wasnt shure if he was seeing sum1. Then the other week I aked him if he was seeing sum1 he said yeah. The thing is am good mates with him & his best mate Darren but it hurts me not being his girlfriend coz am in love with him. And was gona cut him from my life but realizied it was way to hard. So am wondering what to do:1- cut him from my life (hurting him & myself) 2- Wait for him or 3- Tell him how I fell. What one should I do? PLEASE HELP!! (link)
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Well honey I would say to definitely tell this guy about how you feel!! Ask him about these other chics and find out if ya'll are ever gonna go back out! If not I'd lose him.
[Hope I helped sweety!]
*...:::Emily:::...*
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I started my period about 9 months ago and I know that it takes about a year or 2 to get into an exact cycle..but how do you know when you're gonna have your period..because I don't wanna have a leak at school or something and not know about it until I get home! Please help! (link)
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Well usually you can feel it. But every month when you think you're near your period start wearing pads and stuff. And always hide some pads or tampons in your purse just in case! Hope I helped!!
*Emily
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Well my boyfriend is acting really strange...well he always act like he doesnt want to do anything with me i always have to make the plans...he doesnt call me....he doesnt ask to meet me places accept for at times that is really not a good time...and i call him all the and he doesnt pick up unless i send a text message saying PICK UP YOUR PHONE...and i think that is very unacceptable i dont want to take up tooo muck of your time but please help HELP (link)
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I'm sorry to say this but I don't think this dude is into you! Dump him and find someone more caring and better. [Hope I helped]
-Emily-
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I was just wondering if anyone has any good makeup ideas..like different shades with different skin tones (Mine is fair), different ways to apply it, Some hints or tricks (etc)..some help would be wonderful, thanks cuties :o) (link)
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Well I don't really think it'd be a good idea to use a different shade than the color of your skin tone. But a really great way to apply liquid foundation is to sponge it on with a makeup sponge!! It works really well. -Hope I helped!-
*Emster Boo*
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Lately a girl has been hanging out with my group of friends, and some of them have been getting to be really good friends with her. I don't really know this girl so i have been making it a point to invite her places, and include her in things that i am arranging. Well recently, i have found out that she has been having all of my friends over that i have know since middle school and making a point not to invite me. Should i confront her about the way that i feel like she is trying to exclude me? (link)
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Well even though you are shy, I think you should definitely speak up to this girl. Ask her why she's leaving you out and if/why she has a problem with you! Trust me it will make you feel better to know what's up and try to fix this with her! ..:::Hope I helped!:::..
-Emily-
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What should you do if you keep on babysitting and they always say they will pay you but never do, and you are too nervous to ask them to pay you? (link)
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Either get up the nerve to ask them or quit babysitting for them. If they say they're going to pay you then they totally should.-Hope I helped!-
[Emily]
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I am white and I pretty much only hang out with black people. i started out at a school were only white people go until 8th grade, then i switched to a school where its only blacks and stuff so i basically just hang out with black people and i like it that way, i like hanging out with black people and i just dont really like white people. anyways...at lunch i sit with my friends that are black girls and these white boys theyre like skater racist rednecks (im not trying to judge them) and we pass them, and i know 2 of them from my old school..and so they obviously talk about me because when i passed them the other day they go hey white girl and i just ignored them, then today they did it again and i turned around and my friend manolitha who is black said "you need to take that white girl shit and shove it up your ass bitch!" and we jsut walked away...the thing i dont get is why are they saying 'hey white girl' when they are white too? im just really confused and i dont get them for saying that to me. please help. (link)
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Maybe these boys weren't trying to be rude to you. Maybe they just don't get why you hang out with a bunch of black people and you're white, they probably just wanted to talk to you. I don't think they were trying to offend or make fun of you. Just talk to them and ask them why they called you that. -Hope I helped!!-
*Emster*
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I am 14 and my boyfriend is 18 but we are madly in love ...so we had sex about a month ago and i havnt had my period....we were also protected with a comdom but you know they are only 85 % protective...so i have been looking online about signs of pregnacny and i seem to have none of the signs except of a late period...i told my boyfriend about it and he said to wait till the end of october and see if you get your period..so im gonna wait and then take a pregancy test....but theres a 50 50 chance i might be and if i am...im not shure wut to ..is there any way i can get by this with out my parents knowing ?? is there any way i can kill the baby before its nooticeable...?? ...can i i have an abortion with havniing my parents know and can i have it before it get noticeable? or is there any pill i can take that can kill ??...i know its wrong but i dont know wut to do so plz tell me...thanks!!
~*shadysladys001*~ (link)
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-I personally don't believe in abortions-
But, I really don't think you can have one without your parents finding out[it depends on where you live]. Or unless you do something illegal! But if anyone does find out your boyfriend will get in a lot of trouble so this is a really hard situation to get around since no matter what happens- it's gonna be bad. :/
*I wish you the best of luck and I'll keep you in my prayers*
-Miss Emster-
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what is adhd?? please help me bc my ex bf has it and every1s like YOU WENT OUT WITH A ADHD BOY?!!! (link)
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A.D.H.D. stands for Attention Deficite Hyperactive Disorder. I myself have it and it really isn't a big deal. It just means that you have trouble paying attetion and you get really hyper. *Hope I helped!*
xEmmy Boox
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I'm 15 n I love my boyfriend with allll my heart n we've been together for a long time n we really want a baby. It might sound crazy but. Dont call me a slut or anything, cuz im not. I wouldnt just want a baby with any guy. I love my boyfriend n he loves me n we feel we're ready to take care of a kid. We'd be able to raise it no problem, we have money n stuff. I just dont kno what people would think. My boyfriend promises he'll never leave me, n I kno he will be there to support me in anything...what do you think.. (link)
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I think you are waaaaaaayyyyyy to young to even be thinking about having a baby!! You are only 15 and you are not physically or emotionally ready for a baby! And what do your parents think about this? Don't ruin your life!! A baby is a BIG responsibilty and I think you should wait 'til you're married to have one! *Good Luck with your decisions!!*
-Emily-
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Hey yall im the chick that asked if i should try again with my ex because i was having a lot of dreams and blah blah blah...anyways everyone that answered me back told me to go for it which made me happy but the only thing that bothers me is my friends...they all know the situation (most of them) and they dont like him because i got really depressed over him and stuff and for some reason whenever i talk about him i feel like their like ' omg what a loser she why cant she just forget this guy is it that hard? ' and i feel weird talkin about him and if we did get back together id talk about him a lot cuz he means sooo much to me! and my bffl talks about her bf 24/7 and she has a new one like every week and its so annoying! anyways what do i do since i feel so self concious talkin about him. thanks... (link)
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If you really like this dude then you should forget about what your friends think!! Just go for him and leave them out of it. -Hope I helped!-
/Emily\
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Today in 1st period the guy I liked asked me out to the Dance. In second period, my friend gave him two notes that I wrote and told her not to give to him, but she did anyway. The notes aren't bad, they're just a little stupid because she delivered them after the real thing got figured out, but when she handed them to him, she said "These are from MY NAME. I think she stalks you.". That made me SO mad and I'm not sure if he still wants to go out to the dance with me. And also what should I do about my friend who said something that was untrue and did something that I told her not to do? Can someone please help me because I would like to know what he would think from this remark and what I should do about my friend. I also would like to know if you think he still wants to take me out. (link)
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First of all you need to tell this guy that what your friend said was a lie!! Second, lose your "friend" and find another one! Well you could confront her about this but I wouldn't consider her a true friend if she did something like that to me.-Hope I helped!!-
::Emster::
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ok my best friend called my boyfriend gay the other day, i got really upset because i like him alot. so me and my best friend got into a little fight. now she's been acting different. Whenever i have a boyfriend she never gets along with them, they always endup fighting and soon it ends mine and my boyfriends relationship. what do I do? (link)
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I think you should sit down with your friend and talk to her about this[maybe you could also talk to your BF]!! And for now, I would leave her out of your love life! If this keeps up discontinue being friends with her. -Hope I helped!-
[Emmy Boo]
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One of my closest guy friends just told me he fancies me. I don't know what to do, I really like him as a friend but now I don't know how I can carry on as normal with him. And what makes it worse is my boyfriend is his best friend. (link)
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Well, you have to tell this guy that you like him as just a friend and make it clear that that is the only way you like him! I wouldn't say anything about it to my boyfriend unless your friend keeps on telling you stuff like this. Hope I helped!-
*Emily*
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hey...theres this guy who I just met but he goes to the school in the town next to mine...anyway...we hit off really well bc weve only talked for about a week N I like him N he likes me...last nite I was talkin to him on the phone N he said that he was 18...I was suprised bc he doesnt really look like 18 N then he asked if I had a problem with it...I said no bc I think age doesnt matter...but Im only 14 N he was askin how my parents would feel if they knew...then today I was thinkin bout it N now Im kinda worrying...but maybe its just bc I never liked an 18 year old...I kno this isnt really a question but Id just like to hear oppinions of wut ppl think bout age differences...or if anyone has been in this situation...thanx! (link)
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I think it'd be cool if ya'll were together- age doesn't really matter. But, I wouldn't have sex with this guy or anything, or let him take advantage of me. -Good Luck!-
[Emily]
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